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Wizmj4real:
I don dey suspect you say you be DEEPER LIFE CHRISTIAN MEMBER

TARABA SUNDAY SERVICE WAS ABOUT JONAH AND NINIVEH

pansophist:
it is true. Men on average are far more ambitious than women. This is not to say that women are not hardworking, but ambitiousness is next level. How else would you explain why men earn more than women? or will you blame it on patriarchy? lol

nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.

Moh247:



Na wa oo, there is always a way out, don't let her fustrate you...

While you have it at the back of your mind that divorce is inevitable in the nearest future, due to incompatibility

Limit your investment on her, both emotional and financial... Just see her like a room mate, or someone under your care

Try and avoid having kids or more kids, infact deliberately push for a family planning, so that in case of divorce, the billing won't wreck you

Ditch your wedding ring when you are out of the house and start looking for a younger side chick., You'd be amazed at how young girls love married men .

The intresting part is side chick are cheaper than all this lability housewife, and they are always humble and caring, because they hope to get married to you some day and turn monster like your wife.

A low budget small girl side chick with just 10k weekly and some urgent 2k, would knack you, cook for you and practically adore you

Once your wife start noticing you are more lively and less miserable, you are chatting all through the night with your side chick and you are looking good, she would panic and have a change of heart

Ohh!! And remember Polygamy is perfectly normal in Africa, the white man only decieved you with the idea of one man one woman just to turn you to simp and also turn you to Bobrisky

.

Octopusssy:
Did you consult God when you chose your life partner? He sent you to Nineveh, but you ran off to Tarshish.

Omootayo123:
But you saw this trait before you choosed to marry her.

NOETHNICITY:
Mumu I don’t mean that I hate you in person, after all I don’t even know you.
But men like you are the people corrupting women upadan by being SIMP thinking you are an ideal man.
With this useless disposition of yours you can’t even hold a woman down and earn her loyalty.
Grow up and man up and stop being a bitchhhhh

nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.

SirMichael1:
I don't know why I always get really angry when I see 'Calm down, sit down and talk to her'. Like what do you think he's been doing? He doesn't talk to her?

You ladies always think calming down, sitting you lots down and talking to y'all always results in meaningful endings and a change of heart.

riverbird:
This is the most useless post I have seen coming from a simp , you are practically telling op to worship her while displaying more signs of a weak man. OP DITCH THAT LAZY WOMAN AND GET YOUR SELF A FINE YOUNG AND BEAUTIFUL CHICK AND REDUCE YOUR WIFE'S IMPORTANCE TO ZERO, WHEN EVER YOU ARE HOME BEHAVE AS IF SHE DOESN'T EXIST AND MAKE SURE YOU ALWAYS LOOK HAPPY . You are a king

nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.

AntiWailer:
That advice simply means take final steps to work things out if it does not work, quit but don’t kill ur self.

How this bruised ur ego as a hard man still baffles me. Or u just lacked comprehension skills ?

Ur type will raise another person’s children because u think u are a hard man.

So what should we have advised him ? Beat her up , scatter the marriage and go marry another person ?

When that person turn out to be worse , he will beat her too and go marry another person.

Hard guy , I pity u

Rich4god:
First of all... The deed has been done. Except you are planning on divorce.

Secondly, you need to move away from your wife's actions. Just do things that makes you happy. Go about making your money, drop the little you can for the family to ensure that they have something to it... Then leave your life as if you two are just room mates. No dey try to initiate sex. I know it won't be easy, but it's a step in the right direction.

Women always want to crave for unnecessary standard especially when they feel that they have something you are longing for.

Believe me, the silent treatment work a great deal. Just live your life as if she's not there. But ensure you still provide for her.


When she notices that you no longer send her, she will be wondering if there is someone trying to take her place.

In all, avoid violence and confrontation.

Rich4god:
First of all... The deed has been done. Except you are planning on divorce.

Secondly, you need to move away from your wife's actions. Just do things that makes you happy. Go about making your money, drop the little you can for the family to ensure that they have something to it... Then leave your life as if you two are just room mates. No dey try to initiate sex. I know it won't be easy, but it's a step in the right direction.

Women always want to crave for unnecessary standard especially when they feel that they have something you are longing for.

Believe me, the silent treatment work a great deal. Just live your life as if she's not there. But ensure you still provide for her.


When she notices that you no longer send her, she will be wondering if there is someone trying to take her place.

In all, avoid violence and confrontation.

Kankawormm:
I am a married man, and got divorced at the month of our anniversary which is this october..to me its highly spiritual..
If you ask what causes the whole issue? Charger
I took her charger out, I have mine but was big to carry around. So I took hers to go charge.. She called and was ranting on phone about her charger that she has warned me not to be carrying her charger.. I tried to calm her down, that was when she got even more aggressive on the phone, I cut the call, took a bike home and dropped The charger and went out without saying a word.. When I came back in the evening, I now called her and told her the need to tolerate ourselves, she was still raking that it's her charger and all sort.. I now told her to muitiply the charger with the 850k I gave her to do business and Check how many charger the money go buy.. She flared up that how much did I give her that I am shouting, that is it not someone that gave me the money..

This was a woman I was with for four years, without a child, we have been going to hospital after the 6th month in marriage, she doesn't see her mesis completely.. I was still with her believing it's God that gives children, but she claimed she don't respect me cause I drink alcohol and smoke cigarette and can't tolerate but wants me to tolerate her knowing fully well of her condition..

After we had the fight that night, I was mad and flogged her with the charger cord.. She started shouting like I had hit her with a plank. I left the house immediately cos me no like shout. So the next day, she called my elder brother and a friend of my mum cos my mama is late.. She explained and I explained too.. She started displaying her arrogance in the front of my family people which made them disappointed.. They were leaving when argument was much.. We were escorting them, I now told her to go back so I can see them off, she said she was not gon go back that she brought my own family down not me... So the woman told her to go back.. I now explained everything to the woman that my wife doesn't menstrate at all and I have never told anyone in my family but when she was telling them I smoke, drink and bringing out my yansh for outside, Naim me ma tell the woman and my brother her own issue.. The woman commended me for keeping such.. When I got back home after I escorted my brother and the woman, she Don run go her mother house and me don lost my own key.. I called, She didn't pick, I had to jump in to the house.. That was when I knew she was not in the house.. I had to go sleep at a friend's place.. She taught i was going to come beg in by her mums place like I always do if we had a fight.. But I thought about it. And decided to divorce o.. A week before the incident, I slumped in a friend's house cos of the thinking of having no issue...when I was brought home.. My ex wife said that it was because of beer that was why I slumped.. Lol.. Whereas the thinking of not Harving a child wan run me.. Knowing fully well that i can impregnate a lady.. She went to police station and human right, told them I smoke weed, beer, and also layed some false allegations on me.. And was hoping for resolution... How is that possible.. I am divorced and I am beginning to regain my sanity...

Piptocoin:
[color=indigo]Eve was not unruly or disrespectful to her husband. She did not deny her husband his conjugal rights. Maritally, they were an icon. Eve disobeyed God. She fell. Adam loved her so much and was willing to suffer the consequences with her. You have no idea how long they had lived in bliss in the garden of Eden before they fell. It must have spanned millions of years in total and maximum marital bliss. Your analogy is unrelated to the issue.[/color]

nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.

Octopusssy:
Did you consult God when you chose your life partner? He sent you to Nineveh, but you ran off to Tarshish.

nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.

BirtherOfKings:
Stop regretting and take action
Threaten her with divorce and keep praying for her. She will change ..get her pregnant too.works wonders

AntiWailer:
He just sat behind his miserable phone and concluded the kind of man I was.

U are not worth engaging. If u have a brain to call ur own.

That advice simply means take final steps to work things out if it does not work, quit but don’t kill ur self.

How this bruised ur ego as a hard man still baffles me. Or u just lacked comprehension skills ?

Ur type will raise another person’s children because u think u are a hard man.

So what should we have advised him ? Beat her up , scatter the marriage and go marry another person ?

When that person turn out to be worse , he will beat her too and go marry another person.

Hard guy , I pity u

NOETHNICITY:
I am not a hard man. I’m one of the simplest characters you will ever find. Infact I’ve encountered issues as a result of my simplicity.
Also it is important to note that I’m not a beat-her-up-man, never ever.

But when it comes to relationships I don’t compromise.

How you expect a man to kneel down and beg a woman who abandons her matrimonial bed and decides on her own to sleep in a different room weakens me.
If you have been doing that stop that.

AntiWailer:
where did u see kneel down and beg her.

and what rubbish matrimonial bed are u talking about. ?

u think matrimonial conjugation is just about just opening leg and enter that u do with girls while dating ?

your type learn very very late.

Boys who know what to do to make her wet will bl***p your type's wife till they dash you a bast*rd as a child.

NOETHNICITY:
A capital SIMP like you trying play sharp guy
I understand bros, you can face ur front now

Kankawormm:
I am a married man, and got divorced at the month of our anniversary which is this october..to me its highly spiritual..
If you ask what causes the whole issue? Charger
I took her charger out, I have mine but was big to carry around. So I took hers to go charge.. She called and was ranting on phone about her charger that she has warned me not to be carrying her charger.. I tried to calm her down, that was when she got even more aggressive on the phone, I cut the call, took a bike home and dropped The charger and went out without saying a word.. When I came back in the evening, I now called her and told her the need to tolerate ourselves, she was still raking that it's her charger and all sort.. I now told her to muitiply the charger with the 850k I gave her to do business and Check how many charger the money go buy.. She flared up that how much did I give her that I am shouting, that is it not someone that gave me the money..

This was a woman I was with for four years, without a child, we have been going to hospital after the 6th month in marriage, she doesn't see her mesis completely.. I was still with her believing it's God that gives children, but she claimed she don't respect me cause I drink alcohol and smoke cigarette and can't tolerate but wants me to tolerate her knowing fully well of her condition..

After we had the fight that night, I was mad and flogged her with the charger cord.. She started shouting like I had hit her with a plank. I left the house immediately cos me no like shout. So the next day, she called my elder brother and a friend of my mum cos my mama is late.. She explained and I explained too.. She started displaying her arrogance in the front of my family people which made them disappointed.. They were leaving when argument was much.. We were escorting them, I now told her to go back so I can see them off, she said she was not gon go back that she brought my own family down not me... So the woman told her to go back.. I now explained everything to the woman that my wife doesn't menstrate at all and I have never told anyone in my family but when she was telling them I smoke, drink and bringing out my yansh for outside, Naim me ma tell the woman and my brother her own issue.. The woman commended me for keeping such.. When I got back home after I escorted my brother and the woman, she Don run go her mother house and me don lost my own key.. I called, She didn't pick, I had to jump in to the house.. That was when I knew she was not in the house.. I had to go sleep at a friend's place.. She taught i was going to come beg in by her mums place like I always do if we had a fight.. But I thought about it. And decided to divorce o.. A week before the incident, I slumped in a friend's house cos of the thinking of having no issue...when I was brought home.. My ex wife said that it was because of beer that was why I slumped.. Lol.. Whereas the thinking of not Harving a child wan run me.. Knowing fully well that i can impregnate a lady.. She went to police station and human right, told them I smoke weed, beer, and also layed some false allegations on me.. And was hoping for resolution... How is that possible.. I am divorced and I am beginning to regain my sanity...

AntiWailer:
where did u see kneel down and beg her.

and what rubbish matrimonial bed are u talking about. ?

u think matrimonial conjugation is just about just opening leg and enter that u do with girls while dating ?

your type learn very very late.

Boys who know what to do to make her wet will bl***p your type's wife till they dash you a bast*rd as a child.

shortgun:
You are a weak man, women hate weak men.
Them never born any woman well that will enter my house and detect how I'll run my home.
Men like you are the reason we have alot of spoilt girls all over.
Any man that dates any of my exes will be thankful to me for the way I groomed them.

Until you become the man and take charge of your home you will continue to whine n suffer

Moh247:



Na wa oo, there is always a way out, don't let her fustrate you...

While you have it at the back of your mind that divorce is inevitable in the nearest future, due to incompatibility

Limit your investment on her, both emotional and financial... Just see her like a room mate, or someone under your care

Try and avoid having kids or more kids, infact deliberately push for a family planning, so that in case of divorce, the billing won't wreck you

Ditch your wedding ring when you are out of the house and start looking for a younger side chick., You'd be amazed at how young girls love married men .

The intresting part is side chick are cheaper than all this lability housewife, and they are always humble and caring, because they hope to get married to you some day and turn monster like your wife.

A low budget small girl side chick with just 10k weekly and some urgent 2k, would knack you, cook for you and practically adore you

Once your wife start noticing you are more lively and less miserable, you are chatting all through the night with your side chick and you are looking good, she would panic and have a change of heart

Ohh!! And remember Polygamy is perfectly normal in Africa, the white man only decieved you with the idea of one man one woman just to turn you to simp and also turn you to Bobrisky

.