₦airaland Forum

Robisky001:
The hooked-up industry is booming like wildfire. The government should start taxing all these hooked-up girls to fund next year's budget.

highchief1:
dna na for pikin when u no understand.if I even carry my kids go dna lab the lab pll go tell me say no need.if u see my kids u don see me.

aktolly54:
[b]most Gee go stop yahoo if they see better job([/b]legit) that give good money,not all Gee most guyz go stop and embrace new lifestyle. Going abroad is perfect because if Gee don't pay again, you can do menial job and got a good pay. Same apply to runz girls, if they see good pay, most fit stop and embrace new lifestyle but not all girlz.

Don't judge people, just pray for them and let it go

JohnOkolo:
Oga keep qiuet there, a thief will alwqys be a thief

AreaFada2:
Well, a late relative thought so too.

He only found out doing DNA test to relocate the family abroad. All the three kids were not his! If you check my old posts I have mentioned it here for years.

based on what labs see every time, no lab will assume anything.

By the way, a cousin of his fathered one of the kids. So resemblance to grandfather/mother that family members share can come any relative.

Others were fathered by a known "friend". Trust is a scarce commodity my friend.

Blessedmercy8:
That too but what about getting killed? A stranger just calls you up and you feel free to go meet them where you don't know and you people don't see anything wrong in it?

Well, you won't condemn the act because you too are into it.

Why am I even wasting my time.

Gerrard59:
I don't understand why you people like comparing prostitution to cybercrime. Prostitution is simply providing sexual services for a fee while cybercrime is defrauding someone online. The two are not comparable. Prostitutes in many countries are protected by governments, but no govt protects cyber-criminals.

Prostitution might be immoral but it is not illegal. Morality is different from legality.

pfadom:
Who is asking you for the arts and science of prostitution or hookup? You are free to defend the practice as much as you like. Who is addressing the morality and legality of prostitution here? Please, we have had enough ritual killings and spiritual manipulation of lives.

Gerrard59:
Only in poor sh!tholes we read that ritual killing makes someone rich. A South Korean reading will be stunned that undies of a girl or blood stains from her vagina will make another rich. Yet, this same place has the highest number of poor people in the world, literally the highest globally. Questions are: why are Nigerians poor if rituals actually make someone rich? Why are there very few Nigerians on Forbes/Bloomberg? Why are the people who concoct these things not rich? At least, professors from top business schools are well paid and some are very rich even though some of their students are richer than they are. Why are these native doctors not rich? Why can't these people enter a bank and command the MD to handover money to them? Why did none of these people use same ritual power to participate and win in the now defunct WWTBAM? Win gold medal in the Olympics?

Why?

spiceadole:
Lol..Las LA's,they marry good men..while the so called decent girls are left behind..

Men love bitch.es

lesbianclara:
The person that posted this is very useless

If this same lady put on her social media handle now that she is broke and needs help how many of you will help her out ?

No one will take her serious now she is doing whatever she can to put food in her stomach and you are insulting her may God punish you idiot.


On this same nairaland forum just yesterday I asked Nigerians for help let me get something to eat up till this very moment there has been no comment on that post even after 49 views no one cared to ask me just one question to know how they can help despite the fact that I even gave out my account number in public.

So if I decide to go and do prostitution later you will start calling me shameless isn't it ?

Adex2442:
Married or single ladies

Fountainofyouth:
Says who? What have you achieved with sex? Riches, wealth, long life?

youngsahito:
I won't be surprise if my mother and my sisters are into hookup? Their is more life after hookup abi dey don't think of settling down or giving birth to a child when the hole go wide pass elephant own just like my mother's own.

teeshet:
can you marry an ex hookup girl

Ayooade:
Abeg me i wan join hookup o, I'm tired of living the good girl life, there's really nothing to gain from it...

highchief1:
if I tell u wetin happen to my 7yrs relationship u go weak.we won best couple awards in uni.we were like 5n6.fast foward to nysc I paid her unplanned visit and caught her with a man in her house the relationship crashed immediately.this is someone that when I was close to her house I called her and was asking her how she was faring with my absence she said she can’t wait to see me bla bla bla.then to marriage.i stumbled into my wife’s chat on WhatsApp and saw a cleared chat.o asked her who is this and why was the message cleared.she said it’s our 2yrs old child that cleared the chat.i laughed.not deleted chat o but cleared chat.some adults uptil now don’t know how to clear chat but she said a 2yrs old boy cleared the chat.ok na who is the guy she said it’s her old uni friend that he ran into him when he visited her office.since that day,I removed my mind from her.we are happily married,but I can’t vouch for her anymore.i am not bothered by whatever.i cheat sufficiently so im living my life.in all this one day person go die leave both the wife and kids.i no see anything too special in this life.

donem:
I Doff my heart for you Sir,
As for me, anything concerning woman/relationship, I have killed my emotions a long time ago, nothing like love or trust, I expect the worst but hope for the best, anyhow it pans out= win win situation for me.

highchief1:
that’s d way to go na.wetin go make woman give man bp.my wife is currently acting up now badly but I no Dey even answer her.i have asked myself what’s the worst she can do shey na to go fork outside?all those thgs no Dey concern me o.I’m living my life.

donem:
I admire your ways, life is too short to bother about issues beyond once control, attimes I wonder the main essence of marriage apast from procreation, 90% of my peers are married but am yet to, no zeal atall to, God help us where never Marry.

highchief1:
no try Marry then born.e get y after that begin live ur life.na man when no Dey cheat Dey get bp I Dey the street fully.

emmaodet:
I see you as someone always trying to put blames on men.
In any society you find yourself, the party RECEIVING money is the one to blame, shame and embarrass because there will always be market for things.
Have you ever wondered why customs only go for smugglers and market women selling rice ? And not we the consumers?

Have you ever wondered why NDLEA goes after igbo sellers and farmers instead of the smokers?
Because there will always be market if it is encouraged.
Both are engaging in it - smugglers and consumers, Igbo traders and smokers yet one is shamed and embarrassed because if the market is not there, the consumer has no choice than to act normal.
Have you wondered why women are the ones called Asewo, prostitutes and not the men when both engage in it? Have you wondered why the prostitutes are the ones police go after and close down their hotels?
Because it is easier to destroy few smugglers/ Igbo traders and farmers/ prostitutes than putting virtually the whole country in prison for consuming foreign rice/Igbo or patronizing prostitutes

AllDModsAreMaad:
I swear...
Could you believe two girls came to my shop to buy somethings and they were doing group video call with their other cliques.

Omoh the kind words they were using was raw and they no send.

Words like "Bobo ti Oko(prick) e gun yen, ni lady yen mba mi ja si o" meaning "the lady is fighting me over that bobo(guy) with a long prick."
"Onipe o like me nitori mo ni oyan(bobby) nla" meaning "he said he likes me because I have big br**sts and so on.

Modified with the new words in bold.

Some girls are now into hookup just because of money they can earn doing an honest job. SMH..

If I talk now, they'll say I should mind my business.

Watch Video: https://fb.watch/gLvQQzdvbc/

emmaodet:


Angel Gabriel, abeg blow this trumpet now

Some girls are now into hookup just because of money they can earn doing an honest job. SMH..

If I talk now, they'll say I should mind my business.

Watch Video: https://fb.watch/gLvQQzdvbc/

Ayooade:
Abeg me i wan join hookup o, I'm tired of living the good girl life, there's really nothing to gain from it...

JooEeL:
Bro bless u. I face something of this dilemma too. As difficult as it is, sometimes the best is just to assume the worst happened. To keep trying to deify or assume the saintliness of a woman, especially not around, haa... O le wu. I was once in a relationship where I so trusted ma woman, but in the end when I found out she cheated on me, I nearly ran crazy.

Since then, Ive learned to cut short my expectations and frankly, should even do more. Dont trust too much; dont believe too much. If you plan to remain faithful, make sure to ask questions from her. From time to time, prod her. You better don't listen to the extremely foolish advice of people saying dont bother about what your wife does in her absence, dont investigate this, that.

From time to time, call her. Ask her how she satisfies her sexual drive. Ask her simple things like has she visited a man since you've been absent. Who has toasted her. Ask for screenshots of her home chat interface. More importantly, watch the body language. Most will deny at first. But if you persist (once in a while, I mean, not everyday o)... if she's the type with some form of conscience... you will spot the guilt on her face, in her voice...or she may just spit it out... (like in one of my older relationships). From there on, whatever you choose to do is entirely up to you.

Na nigeria cause all dis nonsense sha. Our women were not like this before. Poverty has made more women susceptible to cheating or prostitution before marriage. The rate at which people (men mostly) travel out just to make ends meet tend to jeopardise existing relationship and marriages...cos the tend of infidelity increases sharply too. I don't tend to justify men cheating but I can kinda understand because most men have greater financial input in relationships / marriages. But for a woman, after all d sacrifice and money wey man don do, come still go out to cheat...haa my brother, it's heartbreaking.

highchief1:
if I tell u wetin happen to my 7yrs relationship u go weak.we won best couple awards in uni.we were like 5n6.fast foward to nysc I paid her unplanned visit and caught her with a man in her house the relationship crashed immediately.this is someone that when I was close to her house I called her and was asking her how she was faring with my absence she said she can’t wait to see me bla bla bla.then to marriage.i stumbled into my wife’s chat on WhatsApp and saw a cleared chat.o asked her who is this and why was the message cleared.she said it’s our 2yrs old child that cleared the chat.i laughed.not deleted chat o but cleared chat.some adults uptil now don’t know how to clear chat but she said a 2yrs old boy cleared the chat.ok na who is the guy she said it’s her old uni friend that he ran into him when he visited her office.since that day,I removed my mind from her.we are happily married,but I can’t vouch for her anymore.i am not bothered by whatever.i cheat sufficiently so im living my life.in all this one day person go die leave both the wife and kids.i no see anything too special in this life.