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Re: "I Am Suffering In Abroad": Nigerian Lady Working In UK Breaks Down In Tears by Anunakeeh: 11:52am On Nov 25, 2022
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Re: "I Am Suffering In Abroad": Nigerian Lady Working In UK Breaks Down In Tears by Delicious22: 11:55am On Nov 25, 2022
Anunakeeh:


Thank you Jaregrin
He think he can play a fast one on the moderators

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Re: "I Am Suffering In Abroad": Nigerian Lady Working In UK Breaks Down In Tears by olaeffect(m): 12:05pm On Nov 25, 2022
Persephone1:
The truth is people go overseas especially UK with high hopes. They think life is easy there and money flows on the streets. Aside social amenities the difference in UK and Nigeria is at the end of your "hustle" hours you get something to show for it. But you will definitively HUSTLE . Heaven help you if you go as a single. cheesy

You see that single you mentioned is the real issue. Single/alone, I add alone to it because single in this case does not refer to couples only.
But life gets more easier and less difficult when you have got somebody you guys can relate together, hustle together and most especially share most bills together.
I guess that is why those Asian guys (especially Pakistanis) are thriving abroad (UK/Canada), even in malls you will always see like 5, 6, or 7 of them walking, talking, or working together.
They also rent 3, 4, or 5 bedroom apartment together which is way more cheaper than each of them renting a 1 bedroom apartment separately.

But in our own case, when 3 or more black people come together; na communal clash go start cry

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Re: "I Am Suffering In Abroad": Nigerian Lady Working In UK Breaks Down In Tears by Anunakeeh: 12:05pm On Nov 25, 2022
Delicious22:
He think he can play a fast one on the moderators

Azin he Is a very uvslss nonentitygrin

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Re: "I Am Suffering In Abroad": Nigerian Lady Working In UK Breaks Down In Tears by Delicious22: 12:09pm On Nov 25, 2022
Anunakeeh:


Azin he Is a very uvslss nonentitygrin
Always report him to the moderators.

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Re: "I Am Suffering In Abroad": Nigerian Lady Working In UK Breaks Down In Tears by brandsoncharlie: 12:10pm On Nov 25, 2022
Persephone1:
The truth is people go overseas especially UK with high hopes. They think life is easy there and money flows on the streets. Aside social amenities the difference in UK and Nigeria is at the end of your "hustle" hours you get something to show for it. But you will definitively HUSTLE . Heaven help you if you go as a single. cheesy
As for UK it is not easy but me I like USA oh, if you're cool headed, you will make it very well in USA.
Re: "I Am Suffering In Abroad": Nigerian Lady Working In UK Breaks Down In Tears by henndukwe18: 12:14pm On Nov 25, 2022
Moh247:


My point exactly

Money is being made abroad and not given freely
with hardwork
Re: "I Am Suffering In Abroad": Nigerian Lady Working In UK Breaks Down In Tears by olaeffect(m): 12:21pm On Nov 25, 2022
slimanyd:
Chai. I remember those years when I dey work for yale biscuit, Where we go dey pack buscuit on our toes for hours ,dey carry packet , Lpl. This ones no taste any Sufferings B4 them japa. AJE,

That's why abroad is not for the rich and comfortable ones. Atleast stay nigeria where una don make millions without sweating or working under duress. Nah. You won't.

An average ajepacko wey don work for sumal or yale or BAT as casual worker ,wey don stand for 6 hours packing cartons for factory doing morning, afternoon and night shift join body to make ends meet no go ever complain say he is suffering abroad.

But guess what ,Nature doesn't favor those kind of people to travel abroad cos of financial strength which is needed as POF for travel.

May God bless all real hustlers out there jare

Wow, I have never taken a look at this abroad thing from your point of view.

You are 100% spot on. You are one of the few people I have learnt something new from on this nairaland, not the many people that will just type things wey you go wonder if they are catching cruise?
Most people I have met here in Canada are people that have never worked in places you have just mentioned.
As a former Ibadan resident myself, I have only heard tales of places like SUMAL, YALE, etc I never even enter see.
Re: "I Am Suffering In Abroad": Nigerian Lady Working In UK Breaks Down In Tears by Kingcalls: 1:04pm On Nov 25, 2022
Nigerian women are soooooo lazy...all thanks to simps
Re: "I Am Suffering In Abroad": Nigerian Lady Working In UK Breaks Down In Tears by Light78: 1:07pm On Nov 25, 2022
PerfectStranger:

Some Nigerian women should get a lesson from the real owner of the doggie positioning style. grin grin

Someone is passing through difficulties and all you got to say was that.

People are evil nowadays. No human sympathy.

I bet if she was related to you, you wouldn't have said that.
Re: "I Am Suffering In Abroad": Nigerian Lady Working In UK Breaks Down In Tears by Nobody: 1:29pm On Nov 25, 2022
If you work and earn a decent living, you won't suffer but because no chance to do hookup, she don dey cry say suffering. You want to compare life abroad to Naija where you won't even get a job to do? Even if you get, they'll be paying you 30k. Is that what you want?

You see work, you're crying. For what? I don't understand. You just want to sit and be receiving salary?

Me I just got back now under the blazing hot sun after standing for hours to address and teach a large number of pupils. Salary never even begin dey enter, bills don pile up, I no enter toilet go cry. No one to run to. Na to endure till next week. Come back home now. Abi nau.

No room for nonsense there. So face your life and be serious about it. E no easy anywhere.

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Re: "I Am Suffering In Abroad": Nigerian Lady Working In UK Breaks Down In Tears by Kingzeez10: 1:32pm On Nov 25, 2022
Moh247:


Sounds like Ibadan
Yeah. Oluyole Industrial estate precisely.
Re: "I Am Suffering In Abroad": Nigerian Lady Working In UK Breaks Down In Tears by PARADIZEPRIEST: 1:47pm On Nov 25, 2022
Ssebi Una sey jjapa beta pass undecided, angry
Re: "I Am Suffering In Abroad": Nigerian Lady Working In UK Breaks Down In Tears by slimanyd: 1:59pm On Nov 25, 2022
olaeffect:


Wow, I have never taken a look at this abroad thing from your point of view.

You are 100% spot on. You are one of the few people I have learnt something new from on this nairaland, not the many people that will just type things wey you go wonder if they are catching cruise?
Most people I have met here in Canada are people that have never worked in places you have just mentioned.
As a former Ibadan resident myself, I have only heard tales of places like SUMAL, YALE, etc I never even enter see.

Lol. Bro. That's the real thing o. And ontop that work. Guess how much them dey pay us daily. Just 800 naira per day . And we go still dey fight to do extra shift sef ontop the suffering o. Those places I mentioned no be child's play arena o. Anyone that has work in those places or any Chinese or Indian company will see all this abroad stress as chewing gum.

Make God crown our effort o .

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Re: "I Am Suffering In Abroad": Nigerian Lady Working In UK Breaks Down In Tears by slimanyd: 2:21pm On Nov 25, 2022
olaeffect:


You see that single you mentioned is the real issue. Single/alone, I add alone to it because single in this case does not refer to couples only.
But life gets more easier and less difficult when you have got somebody you guys can relate together, hustle together and most especially share most bills together.
I guess that is why those Asian guys (especially Pakistanis) are thriving abroad (UK/Canada), even in malls you will always see like 5, 6, or 7 of them walking, talking, or working together.
They also rent 3, 4, or 5 bedroom apartment together which is way more cheaper than each of them renting a 1 bedroom apartment separately.

But in our own case, when 3 or more black people come together; na communal clash go start cry

Lol. Communal clash simple. Uno talk say them go dey collect there friend's wife and seeing each other as enemy of progress.

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Re: "I Am Suffering In Abroad": Nigerian Lady Working In UK Breaks Down In Tears by SolomonAjibulu(m): 2:34pm On Nov 25, 2022
���� if u think life is easy try sumal /Yale where you'd have to stand for more than 8hours to pack biscuits only just get 30mins to rest for break�
Re: "I Am Suffering In Abroad": Nigerian Lady Working In UK Breaks Down In Tears by Patriotsleague: 3:01pm On Nov 25, 2022
PerfectStranger:
If you’re truly suffering,link someone to replace your job then return back home so you can vote.
No Dey whine yourself.
Your poverty dey raise to power 100 cheesy
Re: "I Am Suffering In Abroad": Nigerian Lady Working In UK Breaks Down In Tears by Jman06(m): 3:08pm On Nov 25, 2022
Persephone1:
The truth is people go overseas especially UK with high hopes. They think life is easy there and money flows on the streets. Aside social amenities the difference in UK and Nigeria is at the end of your "hustle" hours you get something to show for it. But you will definitively HUSTLE . Heaven help you if you go as a single. cheesy
We know that people must hustle to make ends meet while abroad. No complains about that!

At least you'll see the work to do over there. That's a departure from the situation in Nigeria where even to see work is a big problem! You'll need to know people in high places before you can secure a job that'll pay your bills.

This lady juss dey whine herself. If she serious, let her trade places
Re: "I Am Suffering In Abroad": Nigerian Lady Working In UK Breaks Down In Tears by DLuciano: 3:16pm On Nov 25, 2022
Try not to be lazy, laziness nor pay!
Re: "I Am Suffering In Abroad": Nigerian Lady Working In UK Breaks Down In Tears by olaeffect(m): 3:20pm On Nov 25, 2022
slimanyd:


Lol. Communal clash simple. Uno talk say them go dey collect there friend's wife and seeing each other as enemy of progress.

I dey tell you grin grin grin
Re: "I Am Suffering In Abroad": Nigerian Lady Working In UK Breaks Down In Tears by Nobody: 3:57pm On Nov 25, 2022
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Re: "I Am Suffering In Abroad": Nigerian Lady Working In UK Breaks Down In Tears by slimanyd: 4:02pm On Nov 25, 2022
SolomonAjibulu:
���� if u think life is easy try sumal /Yale where you'd have to stand for more than 8hours to pack biscuits only just get 30mins to rest for break�

Lol. He don fair now sef. During my time there , Nah 12hours shift we dey do those times. Eyes don see baba. We just thank God for life . Majorly nah people wey never suffer much dey get this abroad thing opportunity and reason why you see an average thread of japa complaining of stress and too much work grin
Re: "I Am Suffering In Abroad": Nigerian Lady Working In UK Breaks Down In Tears by Tunagee(m): 6:35pm On Nov 25, 2022
Moh247:
cool


If you no be Olosho or Yahoo boy abroad

Be rest assured you must work for every cent you earn, pay tax and pay bills like your life depends on it (actually your life depends on it during winter and when hungry)

*If you be waiter, you must stand for atleast 8 hours attending to customers and you must have manners

*IF you be security guard, you must stand on your feet and patrol for 10 hours straight (if you think standing is easy try it for just 3 hours straight)

*If you be cleaner, get ready to use your hands to clean public toilet with gloves and pick horrible items stuffed in the drainage for atleast 6 hours daily

*If you be caregiver, you must change Adult shitty diapers or that of an Imbecilic child, and monitor them all day, feeding and cleaning them

.

Naija no good,naija no good!!! but i will rather be here in naija doing well.

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Re: "I Am Suffering In Abroad": Nigerian Lady Working In UK Breaks Down In Tears by ModCaller: 7:05pm On Nov 25, 2022
Won't you work before? You dey mad?

Is it not the same work that you're working in Nigeria that you'll be working in abroad? Abeg shift!
Re: "I Am Suffering In Abroad": Nigerian Lady Working In UK Breaks Down In Tears by Sweetvie: 7:21pm On Nov 25, 2022
Lol... That's abroad for you.
No boyfriend to run to coz bf sef is trying to pay his own bills. No family
You work for every penny.
If you're lazy or rely on parent/ boyf you can't cope in abroad smiley

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