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Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by Nobody: 9:25pm On Nov 29, 2022
ednut1:
why are babes getting triggered na. I said some girls not all girls. Na just observation for discussion. Make una dey calm down na
Would you be of this opinion if a woman had created a thread this with same title and evidence? You will be part of the group to call her names or justify the guys by normalizing their actions. You would probably say it is natural for men to go after a woman with beauty, boobs, brain and bum. It is natural for men to go after a feminine woman. You will call the woman an immature attention seeker. But here you are crucifying ladies for going after a masculine man. Now should we mete same punishment on you for this? undecided

While you think you are dragging these ladies who may not even be on this forum you are actually showing how little minded you are. Truly no matter how well traveled an African man is,his barbaric nature can never be completely wiped off. grin

So because person message you fess, the person is desperate. See yarn for 21st century grin
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by Golan007: 9:26pm On Nov 29, 2022
CEwog91:
common sense you don't have..
I get pass your papa sha.
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by Magnoliaa(f): 9:29pm On Nov 29, 2022
ednut1:
Tables have turned, what if i be ritualist or womaniser. I for just dey chop and dump anytime i enter Nigeria.

Mod no front page o
This point is not what you think it is at all.

You think it is by APPROACHING that makes a lady easier?

All the ladies guys used to "use and dump", some of them were very laid back women that the guys pursued. The women were mostly on their own.

Y'all behaviours when it comes to cheating and reckless sex literally has nothing to do with the lukewarness/expressiveness of a woman.

You cheat on all kinds and womanise with anything, so long has it has a hole under its skirt.
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by pocohantas(f): 9:31pm On Nov 29, 2022
Magnoliaa:
Thank you!!!

I swear, this thread is just irritating my neepus somehow. undecided
Calm your neepus o. One even said he can’t wait to hammer so that he can respond to babes like this.

Imagine if a woman opened this thread. We won’t hear the last of how women can’t handle power or threats of menopause if she ignores those guys. cheesy cheesy
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by Nobody: 9:33pm On Nov 29, 2022
Me wey i wan dm Seun.... grin grin grin grin Wetin them go call that now......desperately desperadoric grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Wahala dey grin grin grin
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by CEwog91(m): 9:33pm On Nov 29, 2022
Golan007:
I get pass your papa sha.
try get sense for Ur life
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by GloriousGbola: 9:34pm On Nov 29, 2022
pocohantas:
Calm your neepus o. One even said he can’t wait to hammer so that he can respond to babes like this.

Imagine if a woman opened this thread. We won’t hear the last of how women can’t handle power or threats of menopause if she ignored those guys. cheesy cheesy
Someone who has been desperately chasing hot chicks out of his league will start to post them when he enters or ascends above them?

More like nigga will run wild in a bid to get all the neepus he could not touch back in the day.
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by ednut1(op): 9:34pm On Nov 29, 2022
Persephone1:
Would you be of this opinion if a woman had created a thread this with same title and evidence? You will be part of the group to call her names or justify the guys by normalizing their actions. You would probably say it is natural for men to go after a woman with beauty, boobs, brain and bum. It is natural for men to go after a feminine woman. You will call the woman an immature attention seeker. But here you are crucifying ladies for going after a masculine man. Now should we mete same punishment on you for this? undecided

While you think you are dragging these ladies who may not even be on this forum you are actually showing how little minded you are. Truly no matter how well traveled an African man is,his barbaric nature can never be completely wiped off. grin

So because person message you fess, the person is desperate. See yarn for 21st century grin
learn to read. A few years back maybe one person fit message me first. Just stating an observation. Nawa for una. Did i tell u i was interested in themhuh Lol
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by ednut1(op): 9:35pm On Nov 29, 2022
grin The replies by some women here dey make me laugh. Abi are you also doing what those babes are doing ni. Nawa o
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by ifihearam: 9:36pm On Nov 29, 2022
dazzlingd:
Then u should be used to it already. I don’t post on Facebook nor instagram but I sometimes get similar dms as you posted, I just respond nicely and may ignore if too busy. No big deal.
Shut up there lie lie

Nor be you one small rat take sweep mud the other day?
if you get messages you for get game..stop lying here super simp.
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by Golan007: 9:38pm On Nov 29, 2022
CEwog91:
try get sense for Ur life
I'll wait till your father has any.

That would be forever.
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by CEwog91(m): 9:40pm On Nov 29, 2022
Golan007:
I'll wait till your father has any.

That would be forever.
common sense is not common
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by Magnoliaa(f): 9:41pm On Nov 29, 2022
Persephone1:
Would you be of this opinion if a woman had created a thread this with same title and evidence? You will be part of the group to call her names or justify the guys by normalizing their actions. You would probably say it is natural for men to go after a woman with beauty, boobs, brain and bum. It is natural for men to go after a feminine woman. You will call the woman an immature attention seeker. But here you are crucifying ladies for going after a masculine man. Now should we mete same punishment on you for this? undecided

While you think you are dragging these ladies who may not even be on this forum you are actually showing how little minded you are. Truly no matter how well traveled an African man is,his barbaric nature can never be completely wiped off. grin

So because person message you fess, the person is desperate. See yarn for 21st century grin
Babeeee, Istg, I cannot laugh. grin grin

Fr. This thread still dey muzz me.

I legitly thought it was something despicable and amoral and unethical when I saw the topic and I avoided it, so it won't be like I am defending bad attitudes in women. I just jejely waka pass until I saw your comment addressing the matter directly.

I tell you, I go deactivate my account be that if to say the guys I relate with off- and on-line here dey reason this way o. lipsrsealed

I mean, I can count the number of male users I am extremely cool with; I nor get one big skeleton for cupboard or a major revelation/unravelling, but stilllll.

Damn. cheesy
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by Golan007: 9:41pm On Nov 29, 2022
CEwog91:
common sense is not common
E common for my side.

Speak for yourself.
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by Nobody: 9:41pm On Nov 29, 2022
ednut1:
learn to read. A few years back maybe one person fit message me first. Just stating an observation. Nawa for una. Did i tell u i was interested in themhuh Lol
Learn to think through before acting. Eyah.. now i know your pains, them no dey send you grin grin grin I will be using the same standard guys use here. does "pm" equate interest ? Why use few ladies as a yardstick to judge women? Why can't you just ignore? Must you open a thread? Do you know that one of those ladies can be your destiny helper? What if the pm is business oriented. What have you gained by opening this thread?

The real Nawa is for you oooo, you can do better dude! This is so immature !
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by ednut1(op): 9:45pm On Nov 29, 2022
Persephone1:
Learn to think through before acting. Eyah.. now i know your pains, them no dey send you grin grin grin I will be using the same standard guys use here. does "pm" equate interest ? Why use few ladies as a yardstick to judge women? Why can't you just ignore? Must you open a thread? Do you know that one of those ladies can be your destiny helper? What if the pm is business oriented. What have you gained by opening this thread?

The real Nawa is for you oooo, you can do better dude! This is so immature !
the topic clearly stated ‘some’ so why are you generalizing. As you can see I ignored most of them. Destiny helperhuh How urgent 2k babe wan help me. I have freedom to open any thread i want. It just for conversation purposes. This one wey all of una dey para ehn . Guilty of samehuh
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by Magnoliaa(f):
Persephone1:
Me wey i wan dm S.eun.... grin grin grin grin Wetin them go call that now......desperately desperadoric grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Wahala dey grin grin grin
Wahala ma sele.

Serious gbege.

pocohantas:
Calm your neepus o. One even said he can’t wait to hammer so that he can respond to babes like this.

Imagine if a woman opened this thread. We won’t hear the last of how women can’t handle power or threats of menopause if she ignores those guys. cheesy cheesy
I meannnn. They preach everyday about how money and status attract women... chase the cash and the beeches will chase you—so why exactly is this a big deal??

Somebody that will be the first person to run after women once he makes small change.

It is their life motto- some of literally want to make money to pepper their exes and catch up on all the sexual fun they missed out on in their youthful years.

Thank you for bringing in the menopause angle!

Oho.

So Mr. Ednut the Fake, can you now empathise a little with ladies who get chased by men all days of their lives? Are you starting to understand the irritation? And the simple lack of "interest?"

The fact that we just want to be left alone and not be hitched to a man most times. Are you seeing that it is not "shakara" now? Abi, shey na form you dey form for those girls, Mr. Big Man?

I am pretty sure those babes on a norm are unconventional. The average woman will not DM you, so what you're witnessing is just small.

Imagine what women are experiencing from the hands of men, the traditional pursuers, and yet we are demonised for not being able to entertain all those attention and DMs.
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by Nobody: 9:55pm On Nov 29, 2022
Magnoliaa:
Babeeee, Istg, I cannot laugh. grin grin

Fr. This thread still dey muzz me.

I legitly thought it was something despicable and amoral and unethical when I saw the topic and I avoided it, so it won't be like I am defending bad attitudes in women. I just jejely waka pass until I saw your comment addressing the matter directly.

I tell you, I go deactivate my account be that if to say the guys I relate with off- and on-line here dey reason this way o. lipsrsealed

I mean, I can count the number of male users I am extremely cool with; I nor get one big skeleton for cupboard or a major revelation/unravelling, but stilllll.

Damn. cheesy
I dey chaw when i see the thread, i comot spoon drop for plate before i choke on laughter. I just dey laugh since grin grin cheesy cheesy cheesy grin E for sweet me if i see am earlier, i for drag op reach synagogue grin cheesy grin Nah Se.un go settle the matta. Wetin dey boil nah, as per which levels? grin grin.

Had it been this thread was created by one of these toddlers he for no hook me, but ednut seem to be a sensible person on this forum, what happened?
Thank God not all guys dey like him oooo, you for don hear am cheesy grin cheesy. This thread just dey funny me grin

So does this mean we are right to think every "hello" means "i wan enter promise land" grin cheesy grin
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by Magnoliaa(f): 9:57pm On Nov 29, 2022
ednut1:
the topic clearly stated ‘some’ so why are you generalizing. As you can see I ignored most of them. Destiny helperhuh How urgent 2k babe wan help me. I have freedom to open any thread i want. It just for conversation purposes. This one wey all of una dey para ehn . Guilty of samehuh
Semantics is not the issue here, but the "fundamental" issue of your "logic".

You have not even maintained a streak of conversation with them...you have not befriended them, or have you?

With the exception of the one saying she doesn't mind if you have a lover, the rest are just basic messages. So what exactly gave you the impression of "desperation" about them?

How are you not getting this?

ednut1:
grin The replies by some women here dey make me laugh. Abi are you also doing what those babes are doing ni. Nawa o
You're acting like the 'typical Naija girl' at this point. The kind that is quick to tag men names all because she doesn't have interest in them. Or the one that thinks men want to chop her because they said "hi" to her.

I mean that's what you've been telling us. And we've accepted...to some extent.

I'll bet that if it was a babe you liked that messaged you first, or walked up to you...you wouldn't call that desperation.

Now, "our" point is...your lack of interest in having a conversation with those ladies doesn't warrant a thread...yes, you have the freedom.

And freedom ≠ right or right judgment. smiley

I used to see you in some light sha...and yes, I am just saying it for its sake.

I know my opinion of you doesn't have any objective influence.
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by Nobody: 10:03pm On Nov 29, 2022
ednut1:
the topic clearly stated ‘some’ so why are you generalizing. As you can see I ignored most of them. Destiny helperhuh How urgent 2k babe wan help me. I have freedom to open any thread i want. It just for conversation purposes. This one wey all of una dey para ehn . Guilty of samehuh
Your logic is, the ladies are after your money and status. Thats what i call bullshit on. Do you know anything about networking ? Or you have it all far above Bills and Bezo?

We are having conversation, same judgemental tone your initial post carried. grin cheesy. Abi, you drag, i drag. grin grin grin . We are paying you in the same coin, although i am genuinely amaze at your reasoning grin cheesy. Bobo wey dey shine grin grin

No i don't dm guys first but nah you i wan start with now. Make Nl kuku catch fire grin cheesy grin
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by Sweetvie: 10:06pm On Nov 29, 2022
doggedfighter:
E dey shack am ! grin
Lol... Funny
He have been abroad for years so it nothing.
Actually he ain't wrong it just that it not only the female, it's also applicable to guys. Even guy own worst... Just don't upload pic
They'll be running after anything under skirt. I won't dispute the fact that girls can do anything to date a guy abroad smiley
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by Princess80(f): 10:06pm On Nov 29, 2022
ednut1:
if your mental capacity is too low don’t engage me. Its 2am in Canada and 8 am in Nigeria . If you travel from Canada to Nigeria today. When its time to sleep in Nigeria your body will still be working with canada time which will still be in afternoon. Hope you learnt something new todayhuh
Hello, whats it like living in Canada, is it cheaper than the US?

How much do you need to get by a month?
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by Maxxim: 10:09pm On Nov 29, 2022
ednut1:
the topic clearly stated ‘some’ so why are you generalizing. As you can see I ignored most of them. Destiny helperhuh How urgent 2k babe wan help me. I have freedom to open any thread i want. It just for conversation purposes. This one wey all of una dey para ehn . Guilty of samehuh
Baba, I'm sure you don't need this shalaye, whoever get hit by your post should go and hug transformer, this is reality, guys are invisible cos they're broke yet this broke ladies finds it an abomination to date broke guys, same treatment should be forwarded to em too cos they're nothing but leeches
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by Magnoliaa(f): 10:09pm On Nov 29, 2022
Persephone1:
but ednut seem to be a sensible person on this forum, what happened?

So does this mean we are right to think every "hello" means "i wan enter promise land" grin cheesy grin
I guess people have their moments, lol.

Truly, someone mentioned a fact that the tone of a post is usually set from the onset by a poster.

There's a way you would present something, and automatically, people will start aligning with the original post even though it was something they used to vehemently disagree with.

That's exactly what he's saying o.

Hi = I wanna fk you silly and exploit you.

Sheyyyyy we've been saying it?

Infact sef, let's flip this on its head sef. We're not angry no more.

Thank you, ednut, for vindicating Naija babes: we USED to think every man that PMed us was only after something for his selfish purposes.

I agree those women are broke beeches and gold diggers. The same way every guy that has ever slide in my DM is a sex-starved gigolo, lmao.
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by Nobody: 10:09pm On Nov 29, 2022
Princess80:
Hello, whats it like living in Canada, is it cheaper than the US?

How much do you need to get by a month?
If this lady sends op a pm to ask these questions he would probably ignore and call her desperate.

Ednut1 do you see how flawed your reasoning is? grin grin
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by Magnoliaa(f): 10:17pm On Nov 29, 2022
Persephone1:
If this lady sends op a pm to ask these questions he would probably ignore and call her desperate.

Ednut1 do you see how flawed your reasoning is? grin grin
They all know and get what we're saying...but they will deny and argue it 'till the high heavens and shit, because, obviously, it is women that are calling this out.

I remember when the busty babe saga happened too, and CaveAdullam and I were arguing...he said there are other REASONS for why a man and woman can be friends that has nothing to do with money or sex. But value.

I wonder what he thinks about this OP's post.

Soon now, they will start saying we have a thing in this matter, meanwhile, it's on brand, for every threads. grin

He should ask bestdudes how far.
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by Princess80(f): 10:20pm On Nov 29, 2022
Persephone1:
If this lady sends op a pm to ask these questions he would probably ignore and call her desperate.

Ednut1 do you see how flawed your reasoning is? grin grin
huh?

Modified I had to go through the comment section lol.

I am actually a tourist lover and which to know how expensive canada is when compared to US
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by Nobody: 10:23pm On Nov 29, 2022
Magnoliaa:
I guess people have their moments, lol.

Truly, someone mentioned a fact that the tone of a post is usually set from the onset by a poster.

There's a way you would present something, and automatically, people will start aligning with the original post even though it was something they used to vehemently disagree with.

That's exactly what he's saying o.

Hi = I wanna fk you silly and exploit you.

Sheyyyyy we've been saying it?

Infact sef, let's flip this on its head sef. We're not angry no more.

Thank you, ednut, for vindicating Naija babes: we USED to think every man that PMed us was only after something for his selfish purposes.

I agree those women are broke beeches and gold diggers. The same way every guy that has ever slide in my DM is a sex-starved gigolo, lmao.
Exactly! Op claims he wanted a conversation but his write up isn't open for deliberations. A very accusing, nailing and close ended write up like Op's isn't conversational in anyway. cheesy The topic sentence alone says it all.

Gbam! That is it. Whoever sends a pm only lust for either money or sex. Nigerian thinking grin grin grin

Lemme just laugh biko. grin cheesy
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by Zonefree(m): 10:24pm On Nov 29, 2022
I don't understand why nairaland evening newspapers carry this matter for head like fake wig embarassed
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by Nobody: 10:25pm On Nov 29, 2022
Princess80:
huh?
Nevermind.

But you can send him a pm, nothing will happen. We dey your back grin grin grin grin grin cheesy
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by Nobody: 10:28pm On Nov 29, 2022
Zonefree:
I don't understand why nairaland evening newspapers carry this matter for head like fake wig embarassed
When your mates were responding in epistles where were you?

Now you have decided to show your miserable self because the ENPs are here. Dude try something else this is seriously getting stale. grin cheesy
Re: The Alarming Desperation Of Some 9ja Babes On Social Media by Princess80(f): 10:31pm On Nov 29, 2022
Persephone1:
Nevermind.

But you can send him a pm, nothing will happen. We dey your back grin grin grin grin grin cheesy
Hehe, i only wanted to know how expensive is Canada for a tourist.

I wasnt really interested in the viscious stereotyping the OP has against women.

It never bothers me anyways
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