Proserpina:
I see

You ain't blind before .

Theboy21:
I was with ma guy when his gf (side chick) called n billed him, he told her he doesn't have money that moment, she start nagging about how he sent funds to his lil bro at her presence some days before, n she was like, is that how he will show differences between her n his family when they get married?
It was his reply that got me mad, could you believe the asshole start petting her with words, had to later remind him how stupid he was

You did well talking sense into him,na so e dey take start

This in itself breeds entitlement, social media was abuzz when girls who got gifted cash by their significant other would often ask is this for bread or Akara. Truth is money is not easy to come by nowadays and anyone who isn't doing their bit to help you be financially responsible should be let go.

Wotoporiously speakingWotoporiously speaking...

zanshi:
This in itself breeds entitlement, social media was abuzz when girls who got gifted cash by their significant other would often ask is this for bread or Akara. Truth is money is not easy to come by nowadays and anyone who isn't doing their bit to help you be financially responsible should be let go.

Wisdom.

Proserpina:
True. But aside money what does a Nigerian Man have to offer?

Whatever the lady has to offer, aside money

9ja girls have turn relationship to full-time employment opportunity.

Immediately u gist any of them, you are automatically holding them money.

They are very useless and evil.....all of them

Savedday:
9ja girls have turn relationship to full-time employment opportunity.

Immediately u gist any of them, you are automatically holding them money.

They are very useless and evil.....all of them

Not all of them bro but 99% of them. Only 1% are useful. They have transformed relationship/marriage into a poverty alleviation program. I always tell young guys that they have not experienced genuine love until they date girls from other African countries. I'm married to a Kenyan and I'm seriously enjoying it. You guys just have to free Nigerian girls and go for girls from other African countries, trust me you will never toast a 9ja girl again.

Nor be small thing oh. She stop coming to my house because I didn’t give her urgent money she requested. While we were discussing on phone i told her she has entitlement mentality and her reply was yes she is entitled of my taking care of her and her needs as far as she is dating me. I weak.

It was then i ask her if we are married? We are just friends for God sake why should i be taking care if her? Her response was that I should not be asking for sex then. I told her if i have ever forced her to have sex? I told her sex is mutual and its for both of us that shouldn’t not be passed on me. That was the end of the relationship though I haven’t call her since.

ednut1:
Yahoo boys started this nonsense

I'm telling you. I know one who gives his babe 80k per month. Now let's say they break up and the girl meets a hard-working guy how do you expect her to value his efforts when her previous relationship she was getting 80k per month plus gifts and other goodies. All Yahoo boys deserve death sentence.

This I have seen.

FalseProphet1:

I'm telling you. I know one who gives his babe 80k per month. Now let's say they break up and the girl meets a hard-working guy how do you expect her to value his efforts when her previous relationship she was getting 80k per month plus gifts and other goodies. All Yahoo boys deserve death sentence.

This I have seen.

Well if yahoo boys spoilt their mindset and made them entitled then they should all marry yahoo boys.

fineboynl:
Nor me small thing oh. She stop coming to my house because I didn’t give her urgent money requested. While we were discussing i told her she has entitlement mentality her reply was yes she is entitled of my taking her of her and her need as far as she is dating me. I weak.

It was then i ask her if we are married? We are just friends for God sake why should i be taking care if her? Her response was that I should not be asking for sex then. I told her if i have ever forced her to have sex? I told her sex is mutual and its for both of us that shouldn’t not be passed on me. That was the end of the relationship.

You are dating an olosho. You are not the only one she's sleeping with. Any girl that uses sex as a leverage or exchange for money in a relationship is a professional prostitute. It's good you left her.

FalseProphet1:

I'm telling you. I know one who gives his babe 80k per month. Now let's say they break up and the girl meets a hard-working guy how do you expect her to value his efforts when her previous relationship she was getting 80k per month plus gifts and other goodies. All Yahoo boys deserve death sentence.

This I have seen.

no sane man should date ex of yahoo boy. Dey fit don use her glory

ednut1:
no sane man should date ex of yahoo boy. Dey fit don use her glory

When the average Nigerian man sees Breasts and nyash, all his senses vanishes. Even if they tell him that the girl has mental issues, as long as she's presentable, he'll manage her like that. The average Nigerian youth is a slave to sex.

This I have seen.

FalseProphet1:

When the average Nigerian man sees Breasts and nyash, all his senses vanishes. Even if they tell him that the girl has mental issues, as long as she's presentable, he'll manage her like that. The average Nigerian youth is a slave to sex.

This I have seen.

Well many are learning & regretting.

ednut1:
no sane man should date ex of yahoo boy. Dey fit don use her glory

They are always brain dead & worthless.

One kele was biling money for sharwama and pizza
Oh my God. I mumu reach that level? Tah

I ghosted the slowpoke asap. I go use my money buy suya eat for my mouth.
I no dey fetch water inside basket..never!

metaluterus:
I was wondering if men really even take care of their girlfriends ?!

hustle ooooo or na fvck n go.

Please avoid Nigerian girls as girlfriend, they will not let you progress. Spend your hard earned money on girls who date multiple guys. They all date a lot of guys, sex is overrated, don't let them use sex to manipulate you. Since I stopped dating Nigerian girls my life has changed and I have saved a lot of money

Bluetooth777:
Please avoid Nigerian girls as girlfriend, they will not let you progress. Spend your hard earned money on girls who date multiple guys. They all date a lot of guys, sex is overrated, don't let them use sex to manipulate you. Since I stopped dating Nigerian girls my life has changed and I have saved a lot of money

I couldn’t agree more.

Bluetooth777:
Please avoid Nigerian girls as girlfriend, they will not let you progress. Spend your hard earned money on girls who date multiple guys. They all date a lot of guys, sex is overrated, don't let them use sex to manipulate you. Since I stopped dating Nigerian girls my life has changed and I have saved a lot of money

Well put "They will not let you progress."

Live ya life make others live their lives.
Learn to give anyone in need not only girlfriends.

I just love the way men are getting wiser these days.

Stop worshipping pvssies. Even the owners are not so happy about that fuggly, smelly hole between their legs when it is not fvcked.

Ignore a girl and see how frustrated she'll become.

Soon, ladies will have to literally ask guys out and take care of them [men] to find husbands.

Omo, e be like say na only for Nairaland and some stupid Facebook groups I dey see these incessant wailings o. I never date yahoo boy before oh, but I dey always collect monthly salary or whatever una call am. Monthly salary with steady treats. It's why I will always advise women to look away from these dusties on this NL forum. Outside this forum, things are happening, no jokes. If you rely on these sorts of threads and cries, you'll think all men are this way.

I have been loved, doted on, and spoiled in my relationships, one idiot somewhere will now expect me to settle for less? When I am not mad.

God knows that I don't have power and might, the only power I have na to carry my babies, cook, read books, make up and massage my man's back. Any other thing, count me out. So, if any man thinks he wants to stress a whole "Oriaku" like me, he won't have peace. I was born to enjoy.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Omo, e be like say na only for Nairaland and some stupid Facebook groups I dey see these incessant wailings o. I never date yahoo boy before oh, but I dey always collect monthly salary or whatever una call am. Monthly salary with steady treats. It's why I will always advise women to look away from these dusties on this NL forum. Outside this forum, things are happening, no jokes. If you rely on these sorts of threads and cries, you'll think all men are this way.

I have been loved, doted on, and spoiled in my relationships, one idiot somewhere will now expect me to settle for less? When I am not mad.

God knows that I don't have power and might, the only power I have na to carry my babies, cook, make up and massage my man's back. Any other thing, count me out. So, if any man thinks he wants to stress a whole "Oriaku" like me, he won't have peace. I was born to enjoy.

Yes ooo my sister, you're born to enjoy from a dummy man.
Are you married?

If no, I see why (your mentality has enslaved you).

If yes, shame on your husband if he does not maltreat you. Such men are products of an unfortunate union.


Pray that your children meet a woman like you who will drag them through mud.

jeromestarks:



Yes ooo my sister, you're born to enjoy from a dummy man.
Are you married?

If no, I see why (your mentality has enslaved you).

If yes, shame on your husband if he does not maltreat you. Such men are products of an unfortunate union.


Pray that your children meet a woman like you who will drag them through mud.

If you like, talk trash from now till next year, truth will always prevail. If I want what I want, it's my business. After all, you always sing on every thread on how you want virgins or nothing even though you are already a wasted product.

Besides, I am married and expecting my triplets soon. I married a premium man and that's on period. So, go find your match elsewhere.

Proserpina:
True. But aside money what does a Nigerian Man have to offer?

More money..

UyaiIncomparabl:


If you like, talk trash from now till next year, truth will always prevail. If I want what I want, it's my business. After all, you always sing on every thread on how you want virgins or nothing even though you are already a wasted product.

Besides, I am married and expecting my triplets soon. I married a premium man and that's on period. So, go find your match elsewhere.

I like you too.

jeromestarks:



Yes ooo my sister, you're born to enjoy from a dummy man.
Are you married?

If no, I see why (your mentality has enslaved you).

If yes, shame on your husband if he does not maltreat you. Such men are products of an unfortunate union.


Pray that your children meet a woman like you who will drag them through mud.

Ignore her, you can obviously know her background from her comment. Na dem.

Tomcorp:


That boy nor get shishi. Ignore am.

lmao

UyaiIncomparabl:


If you like, talk trash from now till next year, truth will always prevail. If I want what I want, it's my business. After all, you always sing on every thread on how you want virgins or nothing even though you are already a wasted product.

Besides, I am married and expecting my triplets soon. I married a premium man and that's on period. So, go find your match elsewhere.

this woman..my chest.