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No means No dont take words for granted.

akaleb2015:
this question is very deep oh maybe you misunderstood her may be her no was yes this question is very deep oh maybe you misunderstood her may be her no was yes

gimakon2:
Bocking her is very childish brother. You do not expect you tell her once and she has to approve just like that.
Sometimes too, lets put ourselves in these girls' shoes, some of them can be stupid, we know , at the same time, some still have good heart, i have so many girls who turned me down for relationships, we still talk. like everyday and every time.

secondly, some of these girls also wont like to come into a mans life, probably because you are not settled financially. What if she gets pregnant along the line? Can you be able to cope with her problems, her nagging and co? What if.... so many what ifs....

A lot goes thru thru their head brother, they are also humans like us. Even if some stupid, no generalise.
Have a peaceful day!

NB : People dat mention me for stupid quotes, silence is best answer. I wont respond to your stupidity on this issue. In case you call me a simp, na your papa you day talk to.

As simple as that! Even if he doesn't want her anymore, why not kuku tell her? The guy is someyhing else tbh

Sweetplum:
Can't you be friends alone with sexual relationship?
What's your problem by being only friends without having sex?

Can’t u people also be friends without collecting money? What’s your problem by being friends only without billing the guy

Of course u know that girl is keep that guy by the side for some billing purposes

TristanX:
Can’t u people also be friends without collecting money? What’s your problem by being friends only without billing the guy

Of course u know that girl is keep that guy by the side for some billing purposes

Not all girls are after your money. How much una get sef?

You want to be a placeholder you better let her know

Thebest12:
There is a girl I asked to be my girlfriend. She said no to me. But she keeps disturbing me. Chatting me up everyday. I have tried to snub her several times but she keeps sending messages.

Pls what does she want and how do I get this girl out of my life? I want to block her, if I do so am I not overreacting?

alingo2013:
It is very true, as a guy that us to have many female friends I got tired of the sex sef, some even come plan blank to offer sex for cash, at a point I just got tired of it and started saying no to save my money became the better option, some still call to “check up on me" when there are broke Sha but I don't give them face anymore, I always thank God I had sense to always use condoms then I should be having three or four kids by now

I still don't blv u.

Enemyofpeace:
I don't want platonic relationship, I want vawulence in bed

Then your account ll suffereth violence.

Sweetplum:
Not all girls are after your money. How much una get sef?

Most Nigerian girls are after our money just tell yourself the truth

The question should be can u people ever be satisfied?

That question u asked, a Nigerian girl will still ask E-Money that question the moment she sees a guy as rich as Dangote

akaleb2015:
this question is very deep oh maybe you misunderstood her may be her no was yes this question is very deep oh maybe you misunderstood her may be her no was yes

Who has time for thkse silly games? He should still block her.

invite her come your house, give her gbola chop, her body go calm down......

TristanX:
Most Nigerian girls are after our money just tell yourself the truth

The question should be can u people ever be satisfied?

That question u asked, a Nigerian girl will still ask E-Money that question the moment she sees a guy as rich as Dangote

Shey we should do census n see the no of broke guys vs broke girls. Cos you dey talk now as if there are no rich women. Also, shebi you men are the head. You should be proud of your head naa

Henrydata:
I surprised you are talking like this. Don't you know she will take advantage of friendship and milk the guy dry?

The author of the post never said that anywhere that she collects money from him

SEND ME HER CONTACTS

I FOR LIKE FVCK HER

Thebest12:
There is a girl I asked to be my girlfriend. She said no to me. But she keeps disturbing me. Chatting me up everyday. I have tried to snub her several times but she keeps sending messages.

Pls what does she want and how do I get this girl out of my life . I want to block her, if I do so am I not overreacting?

stay away from such type of girl they are immature and have notin upstairs....and will make life misereble..for you...

@womenareapezz come see dis one o

Thebest12:
There is a girl I asked to be my girlfriend. She said no to me. But she keeps disturbing me. Chatting me up everyday. I have tried to snub her several times but she keeps sending messages.

Pls what does she want and how do I get this girl out of my life . I want to block her, if I do so am I not overreacting?

If she is not asking for money, keep chatting with her. My ten fingers and ten toes cannot count the number of girls that I have fuccked through this manner.

Thebest12:
Hmmmmm my body language should have told her that . I don't reply her texts anymore buh she keeps sending

Not everybody understand body language block her because she will start billing you unless you just want to bleep her you can keep her around.

Sweetplum:
I still don't blv u.

Then I don't believe you are in Nigeria, the things going on at the corner will amaze you, especially when a guy has small money, if you think am lying ask any Yahoo boy how many of his female friends have he slept with

Sweetplum:
But you guys still misbehave when yo meet females of value. You ll think her jovial attitude is a green light to initiate romance and few days to the romance, una go dey look for how to off her pants. SMH.

It's very wrong of a guy to do that. The community has turn everyone that way, despite the fact that we were not trained that way.
I met a girl that knows what she's doing and what she wants. I came to her place and made some sexual compliments on her body and she rebuked me ASAP.

She judged me straight away from that moment, I apologize later though but any time we're having conversation it seems the street part of me use to reflect lol.
So she try to avoid talking to me for some while.
I'm trying to adjust and follow her with reason as friends but she's not being opened to me about what I might be doing that is also wrong.
She always tagg me "giran" and "yahoo boy" which I've told her severally that I'm not a "fraudster" she should stop tagging me fraudster.

What I'm I trying to show here, I'm always ready to adjust when I see lady of value but ladies seems not to be really open like guys and they judge easily.
Me and this lady are no more in Talking terms because apart from trying to be a nice guy I respect my family name alot! She disrespected me and still continue tagging me "yahoo boy" so I had to put her in place with a long paragraph of sms.
She wanted the serious minded part of me, and that part of me don't tolerate sh!t from nobody. Apart from having value let's have tolerance and be outspoken about issues.

jeromestarks:
Trust me, doing that will make things worst: she might pack into his house. I've seen it before.


The best thing is to start making sexual advance at her until he sleeps with her. Then he should act like he didn't care.

Op Fvck her and pretend nothing happened then go ahead to ask another girl out. Post the new chick pix all over your WhatsApp so she can see. Hype the new girl and then invite that creepy girl for sex again.

Do this repeatedly and you will see her fade into oblivion.

BIG FAT TRUTH
BRO you Early begin do woman tin.
Believe me....

Sweetplum:
Shey we should do census n see the no of broke guys vs broke girls. Cos you dey talk now as if there are no rich women. Also, shebi you men are the head. You should be proud of your head naa

See ya mouth... if I catch u ehn

TristanX:
See ya mouth... if I catch u ehn

Cash app ni

Olaolex:
What is the content of her messages. Does it sound like she wants you? Or just casual chat?

Greetings and some kinda how was your night how is work. Those kinda stuffs

alingo2013:
Then I don't believe you are in Nigeria, the things going on at the corner will amaze you, especially when a guy has small money, if you think am lying ask any Yahoo boy how many of his female friends have he slept with

Those yahoo boys are exploring their sexual urge with the little change they have

O'boy what do you really want from her? You asked her to be your friend, she said no but choose to be friendly with you and you are complaining. I hope your desire for her is not carnal.

Thebest12:
Greetings and some kinda how was your night how is work. Those kinda stuffs

And she never showed any atitude to tell you that she only did shakarah initially.

Maybe she is expecting you to keep following her. And unfortunately for her, you backed off. She's only seeking for attention. She doesn't want to swallow her pride. She said no and does not want to say yes but expected you to keep chasing so that she can play hard-to-get. And maybe eventually she gives in. But you, as a no nonsense man you ignored her.
No time to check time.

You can still chat her and ask her what exactly deos she want.

Raphaeldhero:
BIG FAT TRUTH
BRO you Early begin do woman tin.
Believe me....

Na so oo.

That gender no like who like them. Na who wan destroy Dem na him Dem dey fall for.

Must she be your girlfriend before you can be friends?Dont shut the door on that relationship as that does not make you look matured.

Itt means you csnt handle your emotions when it has to do with rejection.


Kini omode mi mo sef

Thebest12:
There is a girl I asked to be my girlfriend. She said no to me. But she keeps disturbing me. Chatting me up everyday. I have tried to snub her several times but she keeps sending messages.

Pls what does she want and how do I get this girl out of my life . I want to block her, if I do so am I not overreacting?

Tell her she's annoying..

Same shiit is happening to me, a gal rejected me 3 times and today whenever she sees me flirting with others or playing with others she acts cold, bone face and label them people I like... I mean wtf is wrong with this bicches

Thebest12:
There is a girl I asked to be my girlfriend. She said no to me. But she keeps disturbing me. Chatting me up everyday. I have tried to snub her several times but she keeps sending messages.

Pls what does she want and how do I get this girl out of my life . I want to block her, if I do so am I not overreacting?

she just want u to be like a father to her not boyfriend, remember na December we dey, ur contribution for Christmas cloth is important

She will trap you soon

SafetyFirst:
Just tell her you're sorry for approaching her in the first place, that you're no longer interested.

Simple and shot.