BigBashiru:


If you check my write up on this thread you will see:

1. I never said a man should not care for the wife/abandon the wife.
2. I never said a man should use family funds to chase a woman.
3. I never said men should look outside in a reckless, undisciplined manner.

I just said a man cannot be told he is stuck with only his wife all his life and dare not go on a date with a girlfriend....that's all....

I never, said a man should sleep around.....

Interesting

You mean those poor Yoruba guys and men who impregnate a woman and automatically she become his wife will later in the day have a girfriend outside?

You mean those poor okada men should have a girfriend outside after some years in their baby mama union in the name of marriage?

Even those living in their parents house should later do the same after some years?

You mean these same poor men who should not be found following women at first but went ahead to impregnate a woman should still have a girfriend after some years?

BigBashiru:


sleeping around will contaminate you spiritually.....be warned....

Not really sleeping around with just anybody, but those girls I'm into a love relationship with. We must be fvcking bro. Otherwise, it is a not a love relationship.

IamMobisola:


You for include am to your previous post because you were biased on that one

Why should I go out of context when the phrase was used by the woman within the sphere of what transpired. We were not dealing with a case of paternity fraud like you introduced out of context. You sound pained. Wanna share your story?

I feel for the woman. Why do men do this to their wives? The wife is managing while he's spending on a side chick. I believe it's best to move on if you've lost interest totally in a relationship. Otherwise, it gets worse except when the man sincerely opts to change.The effect is often evident in children growing up in such a toxic environment.Ultimately, the society suffers.

peepydelano:
What a disrespectful uncultured woman. The husband should do the needful with her asap

yeye human being, so u are in support of wat d husband did? u and d man are 5&6.

See the husband sef , na so one go dey disturb me , he go dey abuse him wife for my face ,say him wife no fine ,him wife na this na that ,I go just dey laugh inside , if him get money to waste ,make him waste am ..puna him no go see collect ..na all this poor men wey dey cheat , na their own dey give headache pass ,you no get money to cater for your wife and children,na side chick you go dey pursue , na mumu dem be..

ibkayee:

Whilst I’m not really for making a big scene in public when you catch your partner cheating, I’m never going to tell a victim how to react.

It’s their prerogative and naturally, they’re likely highly emotionally driven in the moment.

Was she meant to bring them both a plate of nkwobi? Like I don’t understand

I wouldn't advice my own blood sister to go and fight another person in public because of a cheating husband. What if the girl picks up something and maims her or she in anger kills the girl? Anyway, she's likely going to get bleeped. it. Leave them and come back home and deal with him from a safe angle.
Most of those sidechiks are useless dogs waiting for who would waste with them.

Firstcitizen:


Why should I go out of context when the phrase was used by the woman within the sphere of what transpired. We were not dealing with a case of paternity fraud like you introduced out of context. You sound pained. Wanna share your story?

Title of the post is: Woman walks in on Husband and Side Chick. And yet it’s only the side chick you decided to put karma for while leaving the cheating husband’s karma.
It’s obvious you lack understanding.
Mtchww

peepydelano:
A mature and well cultured woman will walk away and sort it out with him whenever he returns home.

You're right

faithfull18:
God save us females from useless men like this, we also need peace of mind.

So the man is cheating with his fellow man abi?

Women and fish brain

MoneyMustBMade:


So the man is cheating with his fellow man abi?

Women and fish brain

Shift abeg, if the man faced his wife squarely, this topic wouldn't come up.

peepydelano:
What a disrespectful uncultured woman. The husband should do the needful with her asap

People like you behave like animal when they got their cheating

daughter of Efa!...with a grinning child at the back...it has not gotten up to this nau?

if you die because of one side chick of your ogbonge predator today,

many many side chicks go urinate for your grave during your home call oooo!

be careful..take life kulee and easy jeje to get what you want

Yeye Husband and Yeye wife

Man cheating is not a crime but you most respect and adore your wife at home with money... And if you want to have girlfriend inform her that's you're married and give her boundary so she will not try to destroy your home..

Every man is polygamous in nature but you need to have money coz women joy na money not you as a man

Poorman should not cheat

MoneyMustBMade:


You're right

Don’t mind these kids who don’t know what it takes to make a marriage work, little wonder the high rate of divorce in our modern time. Some Indomie generation men are spewing trash as well. I don’t respond to silly mentions anyway.

peepydelano:
Don’t mind these kids who don’t know what it takes to make a marriage work, little wonder the high rate of divorce in our modern time. Some Indomie generation men are spewing trash as well. I don’t respond to silly mentions anyway.

I swear that's why divorce is everywhere when you don't know your position as a man.. woman will trap on u

MoneyMustBMade:


I swear that's why divorce is everywhere when you don't know your position as a man.. woman will trap on u

Women can only trap men that want to be trapped, no woman can sexually tame a man but a woman’s maturity and ways of handling the flaws of her husband can make any man undo some habits. I don’t blame these kids, divorce means nothing to them. The few ones who’s blessed with wisdom will know well how to keep their homes.Modern Women should take a clue from their mothers and grandmothers

The man na real idiot. Who get sense no go follow the girl go salon in the first place. Take money, go make ur hair. Na him u still escort her go there. Who does that?

peepydelano:
What a disrespectful uncultured woman. The husband should do the needful with her asap

If that was your father doing such you your mother,would you blame your mother.....take a knife and slit you finger first before you start blaming someone for crying from same cut

peepydelano:
A mature and well cultured woman will walk away and sort it out with him whenever he returns home.

Try it with your wife first and lets see how you would come out of it.Maybe in the time of our mothers,not this day and age.

The man was lucky,she for burst that bottle for him head....silly side chick sef get mind siddon......she would have ended in the hospital hairless and without any clothes on.

Well said.
Speaking of nkwobi, lemme take madam out this wkend.

ibkayee:

Whilst I’m not really for making a big scene in public when you catch your partner cheating, I’m never going to tell a victim how to react.

It’s their prerogative and naturally, they’re likely highly emotionally driven in the moment.

Was she meant to bring them both a plate of nkwobi? Like I don’t understand

Women wahala too much.

Why can't she just allow the man to have a little goodtime with his side chic?

She no sabi say she don old plus that baby wey she carry for bck?

Some women sef.

peepydelano:
What a disrespectful uncultured woman. The husband should do the needful with her asap

I think you should look at yourself in a mirror and see if God will be happy with you with this statement of yours

Jman06:
Unless the wife contributes to the man's finances, she has no right whatsoever to question how the man spends his money!

Maybe the side chick is his source of happiness, sexually and otherwise, hence his decision to spend on her. The wife should deal with that and make do with whatever the man decides to give her.

But if the wife contributes equally to the family's finances, then the man is wrong and should be crucified

Then he shouldn't have married into first place instead of setting up a deception

I don't have such strength ooo, i rather mix raw rice and beans together then sit and select the rice from the beans instead of fighting my husband side chick

Let me talk practically... The wife and failed , but let's assume she has done all she needs to do that's not the way to go as thisnwomt prevent the man from cheating later.
If she mistakenly kills the side chick in the process would she be handed a trophy? She would spend d rest of her life in jail ana make lot of hair she desires there ? And d husband would have numerous other side chicks ...

And lastly what if somehow In the process of fighting the child is hurt or dies somehow , what would be her explanation? Wontbshe regret the whole scenario ? Won't u on nairaland blame her for been stupid ?

Bigleaf1006:


Try it with your wife first and lets see how you would come out of it.Maybe in the time of our mothers,not this day and age.

The man was lucky,she for burst that bottle for him head....silly side chick sef get mind siddon......she would have ended in the hospital hairless and without any clothes on.

And If she does and d woman dies , she would be given a trophy for her act ?.

Ballotelle:

And If she does and d woman dies , she would be given a trophy for her act ?.

Forget that, she did it on impulse, that can be defended by any sound lawyer in court or worst she gets manslaughter.......guy nah who dey alive dey got court o,if she die she die for nothing.

So many murder cases that have ended inconclusive and the killers walking away free.....if you know, you know

Bigleaf1006:


Forget that, she did it on impulse, that can be defended by any sound lawyer in court or worst she gets manslaughter.......guy nah who dey alive dey got court o,if she die she die for nothing.

So many murder cases that have ended inconclusive and the killers walking away free.....if you know, you know

What if she isn't fortunate to go away with it ? What if the side chick gat connections ? And if she gets away can she still have the Husband ? Can she get to marry another man easily ? And the period of trial in court what happens to her life after wards ? Would her job be waiting for her ? At the end u should know it's not worth it

Villa12:
Real men don't cheat

If this is a definition of real men then, there is no real men because all men cheat, men who love their wives make sure their wives never find out they cheat, the careless cheater are been caught like the men on video.
Men are wired that way and they move by sight.