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Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by candygist: 6:43am On Dec 17, 2022
anuoluwapogabri:
What is your business, if you are not interested in them shut up your mouth and date
whoever you want to, and stop judging them, are you God?
Another Single mother/ Baby Daddy spotted grin
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by Alexious(m): 6:59am On Dec 17, 2022
toujurs:
It seem you have a sister who is a single mum grin, This one affected you.
https://www.nairaland.com/7481276/someone-kindly-needs
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by Alexious(m): 7:00am On Dec 17, 2022
candygist:
Another Single mother/ Baby Daddy spotted grin
https://www.nairaland.com/7481276/someone-kindly-needs
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by GOFRONT(m): 7:03am On Dec 17, 2022
No wonder........ grin grin grin grin grin

I for say na!!!! grin grin grin grin
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by GoooodHardDick: 7:06am On Dec 17, 2022
anuoluwapogabri:
Abeg shut up, leave them alone, single this single that, are they not humans too, there are people who love them for who they are, are they not better than people who aborted theirs?
It's so obvious you're a single mother. You seem pained and bittered and those are exactly the traits of a single mother. We're not the cause of your pains and frustration here. Go and look for the man that got you pregnant and pour your frustration on him.

For as long as we're concern, we Nigerian guys will and must always Avoid Single Mothers like plague, nothing like new product and not overused products.
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by GoooodHardDick: 7:12am On Dec 17, 2022
anuoluwapogabri:
What is your business, if you are not interested in them shut up your mouth and date
whoever you want to, and stop judging them, are you God?
No wonder. I just saw your Post about your sister who's a single mother.

We're not the cause of your sister's stupidity. Your sister was extremely stupid, wayward and highly careless and irresponsible. Common wisdom should have told her to use condom but alas, because of her foolishness and wayward lifestyle she decided to go raw because the thing too sweet her! Now she's a single mother and you want to pour your bitterness on us! you dey ment?

Be informed that We Nigeria guys avoid single mothers like plague. Na sane man must ever settle for a single mother. New product is far better than over used cheap inferior products
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by Newyorkitis(m): 7:12am On Dec 17, 2022
Maynman:
The worse thing a man can do for himself is to marry a single mother.
Haaaaaaaa!
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by toujurs: 10:01am On Dec 17, 2022
Alexious:
https://www.nairaland.com/7481276/someone-kindly-needs
No wonder, i thought as much. Because a guy who doesn't have a single mum as a sibling would hardly say such. This one affected him.

I can't advice a friend to marry a single mum, most of them are full of resentment, very bitter and toxic.

It's just very few single mum, that still have their mental state in order.

The problem is most Nigerian women are lazy, they feel entitled to being taken care of and provided for. Now once she gives birth out of wedlock, she is out of the market, no free gifts from men, no love notes, all those attention from guys would be very less or gone.

You can imagine a lady, who feels she should be taken care of, Now the one taking care of a child single handedly, without no support, because most of these guys who impregnates ladies out of wedlock, most run away and move on to marry a responsible lady, while the lady being impregnates suffers the whole thing. Especially in nigeria.

The struggles she never expected to per take in, would render her very bitter, easily angered and toxic. No money from admirers.

Ladies should learn to love who love them, not whom they love. You can love a guy, because you benefit money, and you give him sex. When his done, he would leave you o!
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by Saintinoo(m): 10:43am On Dec 17, 2022
toujurs:
No wonder, i thought as much. Because a guy who doesn't have a single mum as a sibling would hardly say such. This one affected him.

I can't advice a friend to marry a single mum, most of them are full of resentment, very bitter and toxic.

It's just very few single mum, that still have their mental state in order.

The problem is most Nigerian women are lazy, they feel entitled to being taken care of and provided for. Now once she gives birth out of wedlock, she is out of the market, no free gifts from men, no love notes, all those attention from guys would be very less or gone.

You can imagine a lady, who feels she should be taken care of, Now the one taking care of a child single handedly, without no support, because most of these guys who impregnates ladies out of wedlock, most run away and move on to marry a responsible lady, while the lady being impregnates suffers the whole thing. Especially in nigeria.

The struggles she never expected to per take in, would render her very bitter, easily angered and toxic. No money from admirers.

Ladies should learn to love who love them, not whom they love. You can love a guy, because you benefit money, and you give him sex. When his done, he would leave you o!
Of all you have said, i think ladiea should stand on no sex till after wedding, this will increase their value and reduce this single mother of a thing, ladies should remain virgin till their wedding night.
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by toujurs: 10:53am On Dec 17, 2022
Saintinoo:
Of all you have said, i think ladiea should stand on no sex till after wedding, this will increase their value and reduce this single mother of a thing, ladies should remain virgin till their wedding night.
Sex till marriage, you say.

While most earn 40k and want to use an iphone 14 pro max.

Sex till marriage you say, while most don't want to work, but want to reap from someone else hardwork.

I have noticed alot about most women, they like short cuts to success, and it definitely comes with a price.

When women are willing to be contented with what they have, and spend accordingly to what they earn, and as well will to go through same route to success as others would. other than seeking short cuts.

When women are willing to control their emotions, and avoid being desperate. Thennnnn!

Women can keep their virginity till marriage.
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by Baronthecelebri(m): 11:49am On Dec 17, 2022
anuoluwapogabri:
Abeg shut up, leave them alone, single this single that, are they not humans too, there are people who love them for who they are, are they not better than people who aborted theirs?
mumu
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by Fountainofyouth(f): 12:44pm On Dec 17, 2022
For every single mothers out there, there are also single fathers, and i will never advise any lady to marry them because they are a truckload of trouble, they always go back to there baby Mamas to re-live old flames, avoid them like a plague.
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by Fountainofyouth(f): 12:56pm On Dec 17, 2022
Niftkid:
Our olden days parents were probably virgins when they got married then .
Now u expect me to marry u an still pay a huge ransome for your bride price when you already suck a nigarrr dick for just 2 indomie and 1 egg you yourself imagine it . angry
1) Thank God you said "probably", because not all olden days parents got married a virgin, same way prostitutes also exist back then, the internet only amplified it and made it rampant

2) Of course you will pay huge amount of money for bride price even if they sucked a diick for garri and groundnut, because you men diicked these set of girls and also disvirgined them, so who are you leaving them for? The air? Shebi na sex sex fvck fvck una like, you will marry your kind, and if you hate the huge bride price, go and tell your elders make Dem abolish am, na your gender create bride price in the first place.
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by Nobody: 1:03pm On Dec 17, 2022
Fountainofyouth:
1) Thank God you said "probably", because not all olden days parents got married a virgin, same way prostitutes also exist back then, the internet only amplified it and made it rampant

2) Of course you will pay huge amount of money for bride price even if they sucked a diick for garri and groundnut, because you men diicked these set of girls and also disvirgined them, so who are you leaving them for? The air? Shebi na sex sex fvck fvck una like, you will marry your kind, and if you hate the huge bride price, go and tell your elders make Dem abolish am, na your gender create bride price in the first place.
Shey those guys rape dem abi ? Most girls just like sleeping around. I and a girl was chi-chatting and I asked jokingly how many her body count is this girl told me frankly and even swear that she didn't know . A girl of 27yrs so for her not to know her body count definitely every spanner that comes her way is losing her jack..
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by Karlifate: 1:34pm On Dec 17, 2022
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by prophetfire: 1:44pm On Dec 17, 2022
Mrfixiit:
An average African today has sex matters running in his head 18 hours in a day. Everyone is h**ny looking for any opportunity to have sex.
So Africans indulge is sex matters more than Europeans and Americans?
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by prophetfire:
Kly003:
This is a major call for concern. I engaged 3 ladies today on a facebook chat and they were all single mothers. It seem to that guys has come to the awareness that marriage seem to be a scam. Now the adverse effect of this is; we are raising a generation of bastards and i fear for the next generation. Single mothers everywhere... (i am sure, we would have some on this nairaland comment)
What causes it?
1) Hypocritical monogamy being pushed down people's throats.
2) Marriage is a scam ideology that make men unwilling to marry and women unwilling to raise their homes.
3) Late marriage on the part of men, and because of this many women, since women lose value faster biologically, the men that would have married them go for younger women, creating a gap. Then those women are pushed into helping themselves.
4) Greed on the part of women who like to be collecting left, right and center. Therefore settling with one man isn't attractive to them.
5) Irresponsible men that can't control their dicks and they go about taking advantage of vulnerable ladies and siring kids left, right and center.
Las Las, society Don spoil. End time is here. Ala arudiala. huh huh
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by BigYash: 1:53pm On Dec 17, 2022
TheRareGem1:
"marriage seem to be a scam" but your parent are still together, my parents are still together, our parents are still together. But this woke generation call marriage scam. Very irresponsible generation
But our mothers weren't into hookup and threes*me/ gangbanging nau? You go allow your son marry girl when dey do hook up or girl when her body count don pass 10? These shit makes it scam these days. You no expect a girl with over 10 body count to have regards for husband.. Las las before you know divorce don happen.
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by prophetfire: 1:55pm On Dec 17, 2022
BigYash:
But our mothers weren't into hookup and threes*me/ gangbanging nau? You go allow your son marry girl when dey do hook up or girl when her body count don pass 10?
Ala arudiala!
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by BigYash: 1:57pm On Dec 17, 2022
prophetfire:
Ala arudiala!
Meaning? Write in English, and let's communicate. No dey hide under your language
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by prophetfire: 2:01pm On Dec 17, 2022
BigYash:
Meaning? Write in English, and let's communicate. No dey hide under your language
If you show your Bigyash, I will write in English. If not, read my previous post.
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by czarr(m): 2:22pm On Dec 17, 2022
anuoluwapogabri:
Abeg shut up, leave them alone, single this single that, are they not humans too, there are people who love them for who they are, are they not better than people who aborted theirs?
most single mothers have aborted at least one baby...its not like they are better than the ones who abort their own.....some single mothers decided to have a child because they fear because of the many abortions they have had they may not be able to conceive.
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by BigYash: 2:31pm On Dec 17, 2022
prophetfire:
If you show your Bigyash, I will write in English. If not, read my previous post.
I don't have bigyash.. I used to like bigyash ladies, hence my monica, but since I discovered it wasn't worth it,I am now a new man.. So,I hope your body don calm down now? I no see wetin person dey use toto when over 10 men don pass do personally. Its waste of time,resources and energy
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by Mrfixiit: 3:27pm On Dec 17, 2022
prophetfire:
So Africans indulge is sex matters more than Europeans and Americans?
Do you need anyone to tell you about it ?
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by SenatePresdo(m): 6:11pm On Dec 17, 2022
Mrfixiit:
An average African today has sex matters running in his head 18 hours in a day. Everyone is h**ny looking for any opportunity to have sex.
Sex is costly in Africa, especially in Nigeria. you didn't hear?
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by jeromestarks: 7:49pm On Dec 17, 2022
Truth be told, there is an increase in the number of single mothers in Nigeria due to the fact that many girls turned down good men to follow flashy guys who will fvck them and leave them.

Most I have met are with the ages of 24 -27.
Young girls living in bondage.
Young living in regrets.
Young girl living in despondency.

If a girl rejects you, simply move on and watch her regret her actions. Never struggle or stress yourself to get any girl. Once she says no, move. When the person she rejected you for dumps her, she will try to come back. This is your time to fvck her and throw her away when your done.

She saw you like second choice. Make her you forth choice.

Person wey love you no go stress you.
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by jeromestarks: 7:54pm On Dec 17, 2022
Kly003:
This is a major call for concern. I engaged 3 ladies today on a facebook chat and they were all single mothers. It seem to that guys has come to the awareness that marriage seem to be a scam. Now the adverse effect of this is; we are raising a generation of bastards and i fear for the next generation. Single mothers everywhere... (i am sure, we would have some on this nairaland comment)
Once a girl is above 23, there's a high possiblity that she's a single mother or has committed abortion once in her lifetime.
Don't marry such girls. They're a copy of their mothers.

If you marry a girl like that, you daughters will follow in her steps.
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by jeromestarks: 7:59pm On Dec 17, 2022
doggedfighter:
Single fathers and baby daddies too.






Girls impregnate themselves these days.

What's happening ?
No they did not.
The chose a fvcker over a husband simply because they thought they have time.
They thought the husbands are boring.
They wanted to enjoy life.

Now they're training their children alone. grin

They're paying for the choices they made.
Everyone pays eventually.
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by Savedday: 8:02pm On Dec 17, 2022
Because guys are beginning to realize how worthless and wicked 9ja girls are. Infact, in few years time, no reasonable guy would want to get marry to a 9ja girl and the number of single mothers will greatly increase.

Mark my words!
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by OrigeenalSeven: 8:44pm On Dec 17, 2022
Orgasmgiver123:
Na me dey fvck them woto woto I dangerous no be small

Damn... nasty... I'm out of here
Na be say you dun pour akamu inside plenty flask be that o
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by OrigeenalSeven: 8:45pm On Dec 17, 2022
Orgasmgiver123:
Na me dey fvck them woto woto I dangerous no be small

Damn... nasty... I'm out of here
Na be say you dun pour akamu inside plenty flask be that o
Re: Single Mothers Everywhere- What Is Happening! by Softmirror: 8:46pm On Dec 17, 2022
Kly003:
This is a major call for concern. I engaged 3 ladies today on a facebook chat and they were all single mothers. It seem to that guys has come to the awareness that marriage seem to be a scam. Now the adverse effect of this is; we are raising a generation of bastards and i fear for the next generation. Single mothers everywhere... (i am sure, we would have some on this nairaland comment)
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