₦airaland Forum

toujurs:
You say some , there are a whole lot of single mothers in this forum. A whole lot of them.

do you know any of them
comrade pls mention their names

BigYash:
I don't have bigyash.. I used to like bigyash ladies, hence my monica, but since I discovered it wasn't worth it,I am now a new man.. So,I hope your body don calm down now? I no see wetin person dey use toto when over 10 men don pass do personally. Its waste of time,resources and energy

Mrfixiit:
Do you need anyone to tell you about it ?

Who taught Africans ponography, runs, meet and Bleep sites etc?

OrigeenalSeven:
Na be say you dun pour akamu inside plenty flask be that o

In fact, I pour milk join the akamu

Kly003:
This is a major call for concern. I engaged 3 ladies today on a facebook chat and they were all single mothers. It seem to that guys has come to the awareness that marriage seem to be a scam. Now the adverse effect of this is; we are raising a generation of bastards and i fear for the next generation. Single mothers everywhere... (i am sure, we would have some on this nairaland comment)

I don't understand, oga poster u made these women single mothers, did they impregnate themselves? Why not channel your question to your useless gender that made these women single mothers. Those idoults that got them pregnant and ran away, without standing to take responsibilities, what are they?

freethinker01:
This is one of the statements that puts the society into this dismal and abysmal state as it is. I guess you have no iota of idea how this adversely affects the society at large. It's okay to be ignorant but to wallow and relish in it is not only detrimental to you but everyone around u. Seek knowledge, it'll liberate you!

I don't understand, if there are single mothers everywhere den there single father's so just rest!!!

Single mothers Dm to join a whatsapp group

Bimffo:
What is the problem of nairalanders with single mothers. Everynight, when I am surfing nairaland, there must be a thread about attacking single mothers.

What is your problem?

We are in a free world. Anyone can do as he/she deem fit so far they are not disturbing another person.

Every life is unique, and everyone has different journey. Do anything that rocks your boat. Don't stress any1 with the way you feel the world should be.

The vast majority of Nigerian men in Nigeria are frustrated. You did not know that? Unemployment, under(employment), inhalation of generator fumes, no money, insecurity etc.

What you see here is an outburst of frustration, nothing else. Oh! BTW, their greatest achievement is dangling their smelly preek along the streets in Nigeria chanting alfa meil alfa meil alfa meil!

jeromestarks:
If a girl rejects you, simply move on and watch her regret her actions. Never struggle or stress yourself to get any girl. Once she says no, move. When the person she rejected you for dumps her, she will try to come back.

Script for Nollywood.

When a girl rejects you, most times it's because you do not appeal to her, same way not all women appeal to you. People reject and get rejected all the time but move on to find other people who they feel more drawn to, or with whom they share a higher level of compatibility. Men leave women all the time. Women leave men all the time. C'est la vie.

A girl who rejects you will not try to come back, you hear? She will not regret her actions and try to reconcile with you. It ain't happening. Leave that Tyler Perry script for the silver screen.

You talk about moving on yet secretly hoping for her to get dumped and come back to beg you? The biggest lie young men tell themselves is that a girl who never wanted them will regret her actions. Please get over yourselves.

Farfalla:
Script for Nollywood.

When a girl rejects you, most times it's because you do not appeal to her, same way not all women appeal to you. People reject and get rejected all the time but move on to find other people who they feel more drawn to, or with whom they share a higher level of compatibility. Men leave women all the time. Women leave men all the time. C'est la vie.

A girl who rejects you will not try to come back, you hear? She will not regret her actions and try to reconcile with you. It ain't happening. Leave that Tyler Perry script for the silver screen.

You talk about moving on yet secretly hoping for her to get dumped and come back to beg you? The biggest lie young men tell themselves is that a girl who never wanted them will regret her actions. Please get over yourselves.

I know you have regretted rejecting a particular guy.
It's the truth. Guys always regret rejecting a good guy because he doesn't seem appealing at first (since he didn't come to impress her with what he doesn't have).
When she gets fvcked and dumped by the flashy guy she chose over the husband material, she will regret and tried to get back to him.

Sweetheart, there are about three girls on my WhatsApp DM right now who said no to me 3 years ago but are trying to date me now.

I will fvck them one after the other and dump their stupid pvssies.

A Twitter user shared screenshots of his chat with a girl who rejected him two years ago and how she tried to offer him her number now.

The stupid girl saw that he has made it and even suggested a hang out.
We read it here on NL.

Talk to your female friends and you will see that they regret rejecting a good guy. You have serious regrets about a guy you rejected too.

Many women are not even happy with the men they married. They married because they had no more choice and time is up for them. Their happiness is gone because they have rejected the good guys.

Sorry for your pains but you have missed the best man in your life. Trouble awaits you in the coming years.

Gerrard59:
The vast majority of Nigerian men in Nigeria are frustrated. You did not know that? Unemployment, under(employment), inhalation of generator fumes, no money, insecurity etc.

What you see here is an outburst of frustration, nothing else. Oh! BTW, their greatest achievement is dangling their smelly preek along the streets in Nigeria chanting alfa meil alfa meil alfa meil!

I can't help but feel sorry for them. Mental health issues are very real.

jeromestarks:
I know you have regretted rejecting a particular guy.
It's the truth. Guys always regret rejecting a good guy because he doesn't seem appealing at first (since he didn't come to impress her with what he doesn't have).
When she gets fvcked and dumped by the flashy guy she chose over the husband material, she will regret and tried to get back to him.

Sweetheart, there are about three girls on my WhatsApp DM right now who said no to me 3 years ago but are trying to date me now.

I will fvck them one after the other and dump their stupid pvssies.

A Twitter user shared screenshots of his chat with a girl who rejected him two years ago and how she tried to offer him her number now.

The stupid girl saw that he has made it and even suggested a hang out.
We read it here on NL.

Talk to your female friends and you will see that they regret rejecting a good guy. You have serious regrets about a guy you rejected too.

Many women are not even happy with the men they married. They married because they had no more choice and time is up for them. Their happiness is gone because they have rejected the good guys.

Sorry for your pains but you have missed the best man in your life. Trouble awaits you in the coming years.

Hehehe.
"...you have missed the best man in your life." Trouble awaits me indeed. I like your sense of humour.

I live in a very pragmatic world jerome. I have never had any regrets about any man whose romantic advances I rejected because I value compatibility in a relationship/marriage. If I rejected any man it's probably because we were never compatible in any way. Nothing to regret there. I even went ahead to forge wonderful friendships with some of the men whose romantic advances I rejected. They moved on and so did I. No hard feelings. No burnt bridges. One of my closest business associates is a man I rejected. I don't believe that there's got to be bad blood between yourself and your exes, or someone who turned down your romantic advances.

Like I said, people come and go. You seem like the type of person who finds it difficult to deal with rejection. It will do you (and your ilk) a lot of good to accept that sometimes people don't envision us in their lives and it's okay. No need to wish them ill, or wait for their "downfall". Bitterness can kill.

Niftkid:
You have 9 fuçking months to decide if u want a pregnacy or not so HE LEFT ME AFTER IMPREGNATING ME IS NOT AN EXCUSE

And if she decides to get an abortion, na the same una go label her LovePeddler for doing that. Can you folks get yourselves comported to address the issue as it ought to, and that is decide if both adults are to be held responsible and or if we are to protect the rights of the unborn children instead?

Pick up your broom and bucket kinda situation, only legends can understand

I want to marry a single mum.

anuoluwapogabri:
What is your business, if you are not interested in them shut up your mouth and date
whoever you want to, and stop judging them, are you God?

jeromestarks:
Truth be told, there is an increase in the number of single mothers in Nigeria due to the fact that many girls turned down good men to follow flashy guys who will fvck them and leave them.

Most I have met are with the ages of 24 -27.
Young girls living in bondage.
Young living in regrets.
Young girl living in despondency.

If a girl rejects you, simply move on and watch her regret her actions. Never struggle or stress yourself to get any girl. Once she says no, move. When the person she rejected you for dumps her, she will try to come back. This is your time to fvck her and throw her away when your done.

She saw you like second choice. Make her you forth choice.

Person wey love you no go stress you.

The problem is that most Nigerian girls are hypersexualized and
started having sex at a young age.
By the time a girl starts having sex at 15 her perception of relationships changes
The girl will want to explore and sleep around and so when a serious man comes along
she will drive him away with her attitude.
I mean most girls will prefer a bad boy that will sex them within a day or even hours after meeting them.
They will drive away a man that really want to marry them and is not demanding for sex.
Their over sexed pussy and mentality has made them forget they need responsible men around them.
They fall for bad boys and the sexual excitement it gives them.
Before you know it, they are single mothers.
In fact, some single mothers are still sleeping with the father of their child even though he does
not spend any money on the child.
I think this ideology of free sex is driving our girls crazy. It is having a psychological effect on them.
They are just too sexually active and oriented to have a responsible man marry them

Philosopher1979:
The problem is that most Nigerian girls are hypersexualized and
started having sex at a young age.
By the time a girl starts having sex at 15 her perception of relationships changes
The girl will want to explore and sleep around and so when a serious man comes along
she will drive him away with her attitude.
I mean most girls will prefer a bad boy that will sex them within a day or even hours after meeting them.
They will drive away a man that really want to marry them and is not demanding for sex.
Their over sexed pussy and mentality has made them forget they need responsible men around them.
They fall for bad boys and the sexual excitement it gives them.
Before you know it, they are single mothers.
In fact, some single mothers are still sleeping with the father of their child even though he does
not spend any money on the child.
I think this ideology of free sex is driving our girls crazy. It is having a psychological effect on them.
They are just too sexually active and oriented to have a responsible man marry them

Exactly.
About 5 years ago, a single mother (who was around 25 years old then) told one of my guys that she doesn't want to have sex before marriage cus she do not want to repeat the same mistake.
The guy fell for her stupid trap and agreed to no sex. He started plans on how to enroll her for jamb or start up a business for her and also put her bastard baby in a school (primary 4 or 5).

Unknown to him that the same girl was fvcking the father of her baby steadily.
I gave him some tips. He followed them and caught her fvcking the guy while claiming repentant bokoharam for him.

It took the help of police to stop him from killing her that day.

Last month, I heard the baby she gave birth to has grown (15 yrs old) and she's now working in a street beer parlor.
Customers fvck the mother and also fvck the bastard baby.

This is pathetic. I say this always.. Guys always get free license to their BABYMAMAs PUSSY. ALWAYS.

Even if she eventually gets married to another man, its very likely to still collect free banging from her Babydaddy.

Lolz. Lolz... Do not be deceived with what she says publicly about hating her sugar daddy.

jeromestarks:
Exactly.
About 5 years ago, a single mother (who was around 25 years old then) told one of my guys that she doesn't want to have sex before marriage cus she do not want to repeat the same mistake.
The guy fell for her stupid trap and agreed to no sex. He started plans on how to enroll her for jamb or start up a business for her and also put her bastard baby in a school (primary 4 or 5).

Unknown to him that the same girl was fvcking the father of her baby steadily.
I gave him some tips. He followed them and caught her fvcking the guy while claiming repentant bokoharam for him.

It took the help of police to stop him from killing her that day.

Last month, I heard the baby she gave birth to has grown (15 yrs old) and she's now working in a street beer parlor.
Customers fvck the mother and also fvck the bastard baby.

Kly003:
This is a major call for concern. I engaged 3 ladies today on a facebook chat and they were all single mothers. It seem to that guys has come to the awareness that marriage seem to be a scam. Now the adverse effect of this is; we are raising a generation of bastards and i fear for the next generation. Single mothers everywhere... (i am sure, we would have some on this nairaland comment)

I think it's time women should be discipline and engage into sex only when it's for pleasure and not to impose pregnancy on men

Gone are the days when you trap a man with pregnancy

This have nothing to do with legally married women who have issues in their marriage and opted for desperation

anuoluwapogabri:
Abeg shut up, leave them alone, single this single that, are they not humans too, there are people who love them for who they are, are they not better than people who aborted theirs?

You must be an ill mannered fool, I read your first comment, I ignored, feeling you are having a bad day, but reading another insultive comment on someone who never judged or insulted anyone.
You must be a coward and I pity whoever lives under same roof with you.

Useless thing.