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Manoftheyear:
Thanks for your kind words sir, the funny thing here is that I can't believe this is happening to me lol, it's quite unbelievable to me because I have never believed that love could conquer me this way

Manoftheyear:
The feeling of being defeated has taken over me, things I couldn't imagine doing are now things I do everyday all in the name of love. Men I'm finished, my back is already on the ground, the truth Is that I'm not a nice guy but how I got here I don't know. All the shits I accommodate lately all in the name of love makes me question my sanity, see me loving a woman with my money, body, time, attention and energy and still not appreciated and valued, and it seems like there's no way out for me. I'm in love with someone who appears lately like she doesnt give a fvck and it's quite sad, I'm dying slowly and no help is coming, got depressed on many occasions and still trying to stand strong but I still feel so weak and vulnerable. Talked to some friends but all the solutions and advice didn't work, I feel like I'm caged. I need help my people and that's why I'm here. I have never believed in love but here i am foolishly in love.

Enny2013:
Hope u ar not being charmed,bro?

Enny2013:
U can now join d redpillers. It is d association of men dat were once frustrated by Nigerian girls... They call themselves 'Redpillers' to boost their lost n damaged ego.

Karleb:
One funny thing about this is that, eventually you'd realize how foolish you were.

It's better to cut your loses and move on with your broken heart than to think you'd ever have a chance.

Manoftheyear:
I don't care about all I have invested in this shamble of a relationship, all I want is to get to control my mi d again, I can't control my mind

Karleb:
Start by blocking her in all forms.

Then, read about the red pill. It will should make you angry and hate her.

Yusufisraelj:
My brother falling in love toh, I don't know how that feels, I'm not so much an emotional person, so most times I relate with ladies via the mind, if she's intellectually sound and have character I zoom and pursue.

Again, never date a woman who's not interested in you after you've shown interest, it's a recipe for disaster, you only roll with a lady that wants to roll with you.

Yeah we men like to conquer things, but it's a thin line between when a lady likes you and playing hard to get and when she's not into you all together. The duration of persistence varies, but when over time she's non reciprocating of your love gestures baba let her be and move on, what goes around, come around, you'll find someone better always have this in mind, provided you're sincere.

And lastly no lady who's not your wife should be able to take your peace of mind, as long as you're dating, if she's willing then make effort if she's not be willing to let go, don't give a woman the place of God in your life, I don't know your Faith, but if God is not above everything else in your life, my brother you're not safe.

Manoftheyear:
Thanks bro

Dyfynezz12:
Bruh I feel ur pain, bt don't worry time heals.the only remedy is for u to find some1 else and give her ur love

Manoftheyear:
The feeling of being defeated has taken over me, things I couldn't imagine doing are now things I do everyday all in the name of love. Men I'm finished, my back is already on the ground, the truth Is that I'm not a nice guy but how I got here I don't know. All the shits I accommodate lately all in the name of love makes me question my sanity, see me loving a woman with my money, body, time, attention and energy and still not appreciated and valued, and it seems like there's no way out for me. I'm in love with someone who appears lately like she doesnt give a fvck and it's quite sad, I'm dying slowly and no help is coming, got depressed on many occasions and still trying to stand strong but I still feel so weak and vulnerable. Talked to some friends but all the solutions and advice didn't work, I feel like I'm caged. I need help my people and that's why I'm here. I have never believed in love but here i am foolishly in love.

Enny2013:
U can now join d redpillers. It is d association of men dat were once frustrated by Nigerian girls... They call themselves 'Redpillers' to boost their lost n damaged ego.

Manoftheyear:
I don't care about all I have invested in this shamble of a relationship, all I want is to get to control my mind again, I can't control my mind.
Do you know I once walked away from a woman I got engaged to because of her silly attitude, that's to show you that I don't tolerate nonsense but this one is very difficult for me to walk out from

Manoftheyear:
The feeling of being defeated olishly in love.

Manoftheyear:
Omah lay *I'm a mess* is best to describe my current situation now

BirtherOfKings:
U
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Megatone:
You dun chop am?....

That would determine my response

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Love is just an illusion it is not real.
There is nothing like unconditional love especially in this part of the world. Its always give and take.....

Try chop up am to your satisfaction because its obvious she is not into you. I been there so i know what am saying.

Baba no go they form ramsey noah or emeka ike....

I repeat chop am ruggedly no mercy las las na you go they run.

Enny2013:
Lol...is it dat bad? DNT she know u ar d man of d year? The G O A T?

Blessedmercy8:
He once sounded like you but now?
You too will soon fall. You just haven't met that woman yet.

MarketDispatch:
You too, act like you don't give a Bleep.

Karlifate:
It's because you've already placed this one on pedestal.

Manoftheyear:
Done that severally but will still go back to beg lol, I'm a finished man

Manoftheyear:
Thanks for your kind words sir, the funny thing here is that I can't believe this is happening to me lol, it's quite unbelievable to me because I have never believed that love could conquer me this way

Manoftheyear:
The feeling of being defeated has taken over me, things I couldn't imagine doing are now things I do everyday all in the name of love. Men I'm finished, my back is already on the ground, the truth Is that I'm not a nice guy but how I got here I don't know. All the shits I accommodate lately all in the name of love makes me question my sanity, see me loving a woman with my money, body, time, attention and energy and still not appreciated and valued, and it seems like there's no way out for me. I'm in love with someone who appears lately like she doesnt give a fvck and it's quite sad, I'm dying slowly and no help is coming, got depressed on many occasions and still trying to stand strong but I still feel so weak and vulnerable. Talked to some friends but all the solutions and advice didn't work, I feel like I'm caged. I need help my people and that's why I'm here. I have never believed in love but here i am foolishly in love.

fyzaila:
All these guys dishing redpill advice as if they can't be a victim of what manoftheyear is facing atm. Op was once an alpha male now love has turned him into a simp. I can't call u simp sha because love is a beautiful thing with the right person who share the same energy like yours.

My advice is to try and change environment so you can breath another fresh air. Maybe you can try going to a village. Try not going with your phone so that you can be engaged with other things. Because with phone now u will be tempted to call or chat her up. Avoid her for like one month and see. I am sure once u show i don't care towards her, trust me her attitude will change towards.