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Re: Please Help A Confused Brother. by Nobody: 1:08pm On Dec 21, 2022
ThMysteriousMan:
To be frank with you, i don't have any talent or passion for anything in particular. There's nothing special about me, i don't know why am created like that.

I want to learn the fashion designing just to have a skill.
Then go and join a thief gang. Be a pro armed robber.
Dunno where Seun's site saw all these cretins.
Re: Please Help A Confused Brother. by Fadafada231(m): 1:14pm On Dec 21, 2022
IceColdVeins:
You are ambitious, I like you.
Firstly set aside about 150k-200k for the purchase of a foreign used laptop with atleast 8GB RAM & 256GB SSD.

Furthermore, talk to your folks (parents or guardians) to help secure a collateral worth of 3 million.
Then register at Decagon Academy with the collateral, Decagon is a boarding school of IT boot camp for software engineering, where you’d be housed, fed and clothed for 6 months with intense software engineering training for free till you land your first job(you only get to start paying after you secure a job in the IT field.)

Step 4: while still at the registration process, set aside 50k or less to purchase a POS machine (saturated market right?) POS is the only business in Nigeria where you don’t suffer much loss. Even if you have no customers, your cash is still your money and the machine can be sold and remapped to another user.

Just look for a suitable location, perhaps close to a busy estate gate, bus stop or cloth market.

If you are lucky to be taken in by decagon, you can get a rep for your POS stand so you can still earn while you are in the academy.

After your graduation, quote my moniker and say you are still not sure of making it in life, I’ll shamefully leave this app and never look back.

Caveat: The advice above is only valid if you are a graduate and your folks can pledge a collateral of 3 million.
Is that IT only for a graduate? Because I have a junior brother of 16 yrs to enroll
Re: Please Help A Confused Brother. by ThMysteriousMan(op): 1:17pm On Dec 21, 2022
Sweetplum:
Then go and join a thief gang. Be a pro armed robber.
Dunno where Seun's site saw all these cretins.
This thing you typed hurts, i just wish you understand.
Re: Please Help A Confused Brother. by Nobody: 1:33pm On Dec 21, 2022
ThMysteriousMan:
This thing you typed hurts, i just wish you understand.
Life is about death or living.
You told us you wanted to learn a trade. You even gave tailoring as sample. I gave you a good advise. You said you don't feel like learning anything. Aside schooling, crime is the next available option. Good schools of nowadays be like training institution. So...I m just being blunt. Na so God create me too.
Re: Please Help A Confused Brother. by ThMysteriousMan(op): 1:38pm On Dec 21, 2022
Sweetplum:
Life is about death or living.
You told us you wanted to learn a trade. You even gave tailoring as sample. I gave you a good advise. You said you don't feel like learning anything. Aside schooling, crime is the next available option. Good schools of nowadays be like training institution. So...I m just being blunt. Na so God create me too.
No ma'am , you misunderstood me.
Re: Please Help A Confused Brother. by Nobody: 1:38pm On Dec 21, 2022
ThMysteriousMan:
No ma'am , you misunderstood me.
Ok. Sha find something good to do.
Re: Please Help A Confused Brother. by Mimidan001(m): 2:00pm On Dec 21, 2022
IceColdVeins:
You are ambitious, I like you.
Firstly set aside about 150k-200k for the purchase of a foreign used laptop with atleast 8GB RAM & 256GB SSD.

Furthermore, talk to your folks (parents or guardians) to help secure a collateral worth of 3 million.
Then register at Decagon Academy with the collateral, Decagon is a boarding school of IT boot camp for software engineering, where you’d be housed, fed and clothed for 6 months with intense software engineering training for free till you land your first job(you only get to start paying after you secure a job in the IT field.)

Step 4: while still at the registration process, set aside 50k or less to purchase a POS machine (saturated market right?) POS is the only business in Nigeria where you don’t suffer much loss. Even if you have no customers, your cash is still your money and the machine can be sold and remapped to another user.

Just look for a suitable location, perhaps close to a busy estate gate, bus stop or cloth market.

If you are lucky to be taken in by decagon, you can get a rep for your POS stand so you can still earn while you are in the academy.

After your graduation, quote my moniker and say you are still not sure of making it in life, I’ll shamefully leave this app and never look back.

Caveat: The advice above is only valid if you are a graduate and your folks can pledge a collateral of 3 million.
boss abeg shey I fit dm you on any other platform?
Re: Please Help A Confused Brother. by ThMysteriousMan(op): 2:05pm On Dec 21, 2022
Sweetplum:
Ok. Sha find something good to do.
By God's grace, i Will figure it out by next year
Re: Please Help A Confused Brother. by Vibech3cker: 3:46pm On Dec 21, 2022
Bro, I understand exactly how you feel.
You can just say we are exactly on the same boat. Ambitious but no drive .
We wanna do something possible change the world but, no guidance. Wrestling with ourselves day and night, make we "no fvck up".
Cause nobody gat our back .
Feeling nothing is special about you. that you can die and be forgotten just like that.


Here is my advice, find purpose. And the way to find purpose is by going to ur maker "Jehovah".
The reason you should do this is you are at a crossroad in your life. And, you can't make progress untill you are in harmony with your spirit. This will lay a solid foundation of self believe.
And trust me you need self believe in everything you aspire to venture into, be it skill learning , career, business, or whatever.





CONCLUSION: find Christ first. And he will find you.

Or as some may say "seek first the kingdom, and every other things will be added into you"
Re: Please Help A Confused Brother. by Vibech3cker: 3:50pm On Dec 21, 2022
Trust me you don't need advice.
What you need is "inspiration".
Re: Please Help A Confused Brother. by Vibech3cker: 3:59pm On Dec 21, 2022
Pls note, this juncture in ur life is not the time to find solace in the bossoms of women.
Pls run away from the as far as you can.
Cause in times like this they start showing that their fake caring attitude. And you begin to feel "aw she is the only one that understands me"
Be careful not to fall into that abys
Re: Please Help A Confused Brother. by ThMysteriousMan(op): 4:02pm On Dec 21, 2022
Vibech3cker:
Bro, I understand exactly how you feel.
You can just say we are exactly on the same boat. Ambitious but no drive .

We wanna do something possible change the world but, no guidance. Wrestling with ourselves day and night, make we "no fvck up".
Cause nobody gat our back .
Feeling nothing is special about you. that you can die and be forgotten just like that.
This is exactly how I feel.

But it wasn't like this when i was in secondary school.

I was among the brightest, if someone told me then , that at the of age of 26 I will be still struggling in life, i will take it as a joke
Re: Please Help A Confused Brother. by ThMysteriousMan(op): 4:08pm On Dec 21, 2022
Vibech3cker:
Pls note, this juncture in ur life is not the time to find solace in the bossoms of women.
Pls run away from the as far as you can.
Cause in times like this they start showing that their fake caring attitude. And you begin to feel "aw she is the only one that understands me"
Be careful not to fall into that abys
I am not a womanizer, i don't smoke nor drink.

That was why i was able to save such amount.
Re: Please Help A Confused Brother. by Sukkyy2010: 4:12pm On Dec 21, 2022
Ifakiland:
You be fool for real
Please let's know why the Op is a fool for the advice he put up there.
Re: Please Help A Confused Brother. by Sukkyy2010: 4:23pm On Dec 21, 2022
Sweetplum:
Life is about death or living.
You told us you wanted to learn a trade. You even gave tailoring as sample. I gave you a good advise. You said you don't feel like learning anything. Aside schooling, crime is the next available option. Good schools of nowadays be like training institution. So...I m just being blunt. Na so God create me too.
No one isn't blunt but at times we've to be sensitive with the way we outword to people especially a worrisome emotional issue like this.
Re: Please Help A Confused Brother. by Kreddy: 4:45pm On Dec 21, 2022
Mimidan001:
boss abeg shey I fit dm you on any other platform?
Werrey you wanna enter one chance!
3M as collateral hahaha
Re: Please Help A Confused Brother. by Vibech3cker: 4:53pm On Dec 21, 2022
Aswear we definitely on same boat bro.
ThMysteriousMan:
This is exactly how I feel.

But it wasn't like this when i was in secondary school.

I was among the brightest, if someone told me then , that at the of age of 26 I will be still struggling in life, i will take it as a joke
Re: Please Help A Confused Brother. by Nobody: 5:33pm On Dec 21, 2022
Sukkyy2010:
No one isn't blunt but at times we've to be sensitive with the way we outword to people especially a worrisome emotional issue like this.
The kingdom of God suffereth violence and the violent take it by force. You saw my initial educative soft advise.
Re: Please Help A Confused Brother. by Das1mama: 5:36pm On Dec 21, 2022
Bro get a container instead of renting a shop that requires paying of rent every year, you can start a barbing salon, laundery services and a POS in the same shop! EVEN THOUGH YOU NO SABI BARB, GET A BARBER AND GO INTO AGGREMENT with him and at the same time you learn from him. for the laundery na OYO for you if u knw sabi WASH and IRON. the POS na MISCEILANIOUS. thank me LATER!
Re: Please Help A Confused Brother. by headbasher96(m): 5:44pm On Dec 21, 2022
ThMysteriousMan:
Anambra.
go asaba go buy keke 8months u go make that 400k with interest and your keke go still dey
Re: Please Help A Confused Brother. by Clinghton: 10:34pm On Dec 21, 2022
[quote author=ThMysteriousMan post=119313608]I don't think am capable



Then look for what you can easily and happily do.
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