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Pells1:
Top 17 Feminist on Nairaland

1 Siofra
2 Sheistoopretty
3 sweetplum
4 Candidlady
5 Begoniaa
6 Pocohantas
7 Virginprincess
8 mariahAngel
9 doggedfighter
10 Blessedmercy8
11 Jeweltz
12 Samantha123
13 Persephone1
14 Simplepee
15 Abkayee
16 ernnie457
17 Biglittlelois
Let's pray for these ladies to get married too

What of Onyii22

Pells1:
Top 17 Feminist on Nairaland

1 Siofra
2 Sheistoopretty
3 sweetplum
4 Candidlady
5 Begoniaa
6 Pocohantas
7 Virginprincess
8 mariahAngel
9 doggedfighter
10 Blessedmercy8
11 Jeweltz
12 Samantha123
13 Persephone1
14 Simplepee
15 Abkayee
16 ernnie457
17 Biglittlelois
Let's pray for these ladies to get married too

My good friend, Sapphire, no make the list.

G00DHardDick:
What's this one saying?

If men stop asking for your hands in marriage, who will those thousands of women on Facebook and offline get married to? Is it trees and plants? If men Stop approaching you women, the rate of sucide among you ladies in Nigeria will be on the increase on a Daily, let alone if the man stop getting married to you, Nigeria govt will have to build a massive graveyard for this because the rate of women that will commit sucide Will be terrible.

Every Sane human knows a man gains absolutely nothing from marriage whatsoever, so what are you saying? How old are you exactly? Tell your gender to stop going online to complain that men ain't getting married to them. Tell them that's how it should be because men do not Gain anything from marriage.

It seems cognitive dissonance is far from you, why are you contradicting yourself and feeling like you are making sense? How old are you? Did you really pass through the four walls of a school?

You said men should stop getting married cos they gain nothing from marriage, so why do you care if thousands of women on Facebook and offline don't get married? Why do you care if suicidal women increase on a daily because of lack of marriage? What's your business if we marry trees and plant? How exactly does it affect your existence if we don't get married?

If men don't gain nothing from marriage, then stop getting married, go to Facebook and offline and shout it loud that men should stop getting married because they gain nothing from it,

If my gender keeps complaining about not getting married, it is not your business, it does not affect your existence, they don't use your phone to come online to complain, they should keep complaining as they see fit, it is their choice, stay away from marriage, no one put a gun to any man's head to marry us, simple.

EdoBoy90:
Recently, a lot of divorce issues have been rocking social media. The known ones are mostly from celebrities while unknown ones aren't on the internet. Off social media, many divorce cases are happening daily. This has become frequent. Our parents and grandparents lasted more than 30, 20, 40, 50 or 60 years in marriage those

Some of we guys with open arms to Ladies have seen hell in the hands of some ladies. Last month, a lady without basic education or vocational skills telling me, someone who is feedin

The good ladies in Nigeria currently are just less than 5%. This might be harsh but it is the truth.

We should tread with caution.

Ladies, what are the issues?

So you need to come online to cry? And the Nigerian men are saints I guess. Alase researcher

Biglittlelois:
It seems cognitive dissonance is far from you, why are you contradicting yourself and feeling like you are making sense? How old are you? Did you really pass through the four walls of a school?

You said men should stop getting married cos they gain nothing from marriage, so why do you care if thousands of women on Facebook and offline don't get married? Why do you care if suicidal women increase on a daily because of lack of marriage? What's your business if we marry trees and plant? How exactly does it affect your existence if we don't get married?

If men don't gain nothing from marriage, then stop getting married, go to Facebook and offline and shout it loud that men should stop getting married because they gain nothing from it,

If my gender keeps complaining about not getting married, it is not your business, it does not affect your existence, they don't use your phone to come online to complain, they should keep complaining as they see fit, it is their choice, stay away from marriage, no one put a gun to any man's head to marry us, simple.

Their constant complaining is already causing social media nusiance which is a Big turn off.

Advise your gender to stop posting and complaining of not getting married. They're disturbing we the internet users. We want peace on the internet! Leave us alone! A Man gains absolutely nothing from marriage whatsoever so rest, I'm sure you're still a teenager.

Dshocker:
Be it as it may, the truth is bitter.

I am a graduate and by the grace of God, i will still get married to a graduate.

Quote me anywhere "Educated women tends to cause more problems in marriage, than uneducated ones"...

Mind you, i never said every educated women, but the ratio is higher with them.

You are funny, that your so called truth is only meant for your gender and those that will listen to you

Pls don't get married to a graduate, practice what you preach, don't talk from both sides of your mouth

And since the ratio is higher with educated women, there is a 99% chance that your graduate wife will divorce you, so to be on a safer side, marry an illiterate, then make sure your daughters are illiterate, they must not even smell creche, so that they can have long lasting marriage, pls.

toujurs:
They are emotional being, especially after sex they become emotionally attached.

If you dump her afterwards, she begins to behave like a witch, and starts hunting you. Till she gets tired

laugh wan make me cry

Biglittlelois:
You are funny, that your so called truth is only meant for your gender and those that will listen to you

Pls don't get married to a graduate, practice what you preach, don't talk from both sides of your mouth

And since the ratio is higher with educated women, there is a 99% chance that your graduate wife will divorce you, so to be on a safer side, marry an illiterate, then make sure your daughters are illiterate, they must not even smell creche, so that they can have long lasting marriage, pls.

The chances of you getting married is -0%

ravensckar:
I think there's something fundamentally wrong with Nigerian women! They don't seem to understand that it takes two to tango. Relationship isn't a two-way thing to them; it's only about themselves alone. Anyone who enters marriage with that flawed mentality is bound to fail at it.

Secondly, I think not knowing about the opposite se.x too is a recipe for marital disaster. A man should know a lot about the woman nature and a woman too should know a lot about men and their ways. For example, most Naija women think that se.x is the only thing that can keep a man loyal to them. Hence, they focus more on having a sexy body rather than working on themselves to become more likable.


Most Naija women can hardly hold a meaningful conversation with their partner, they can hardly contribute meaningfully to issues, most don't have the requisite skills to become their partner's 'buddy'. To them, relationship is about the man providing the money while they in turn provide the se.x. Tufia!


That right there is why I'll always love my wife; that lady is very wise and likable. She's not only a wife but a partner; she's my gist partner, personal adviser on work and family matters, she's my account officer, best friend and my ......... *ehm* *coughs*


There was a time she went to visit my dad and stumbled on him negotiating with an electrician to help fix a light issue. My wife just laughed and told my dad not to pay anyone a dime that she will do it. She requested for a plier and screw driver and within a short while she don fix the light. My papa fear! Up till this moment, it never ceases to amaze him. She's the reason why I developed my technical skills too, me wey no dey fit fix anything before self don turn senior man.

In conclusion, until Nigerian ladies do away with their crude mentality and become more dynamic. Marriages will continue to crash.

brilliant bro

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We stopped reading at this point....

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Where is this nonsense coming from?!

Prove kee u dia

truth hurts.

G00DHardDick:
Their constant complaining is already causing social media nusiance which is a Big turn off.

Advise your gender to stop posting and complaining of not getting married. They're disturbing we the internet users. We want peace on the internet! Leave us alone! A Man gains absolutely nothing from marriage whatsoever so rest, I'm sure you're still a teenager.

Lol you are not the owner of social media and the internet, you can't even invent anything talk more of toothpick so rest, they will keep coming online to complain as they see fit, if you hate seeing their complaints, pluck out your eyes, or better yet block them, at your age you don't expect me to teach you how to block people online assuming you are not an illiterate, commone sense should tell you nobody can hold anybody online, if men gain nothing from marriage stop getting married, stop ranting on behalf of us, nobody put a gun to men's head to marry us, so rest.

G00DHardDick:
A Man gains absolutely nothing from marriage. A woman gains so much that if she doesn't get married, she might end up killing herself. Have you ever seen a man displaying rings around? No! But a woman displays hers for the world to see. To a woman, marriage is her greatest achievement in life.

A man gains absolutely nothing from marriage, the earlier you understand this the better for you

We gain bills my brother. The ones that makes you age like a chimp. You will see your age mates that are single and wonder if you have lived for ages

Dshocker:
The chances of you getting married is -0%

Lol you seem hurt because I told you the bitter truth, accept your reality cos what you proclaimed in your previous comment will be your reality, and unlike you, i don't come online to spread falsehood just to be seen as making sense when you are the complete opposite.

toujurs:
They are emotional being, especially after sex they become emotionally attached.

If you dump her afterwards, she begins to behave like a witch, and starts hunting you. Till she gets tired

Which lady did this to you that you now think every woman is the same way


Mtchewwwww!!

Baddosqqi:
We gain bills my brother. The ones that makes you age like a chimp. You will see your age mates that are single and wonder if you have lived for ages

CC: Biglittlelois

Bro.Tell them a man gains absolutely nothing from marriage. This One has been here arguing with me endlessly. Aunty rest! A man gains absolutely nothing from marriage

Not particularly Women. these days d rate of immorality is getting uncontrollable. We dont have men and woman going to marriage what we have now is boys & girls. People do not understand marriage neither are they prepared enough

Fiscus105:
MAY YOU NOT GAIN ANYTHING IN YOUR MARRIAGE! AMEN.


meanwhile, man gains more in marriage much more than woman,
1. An adult will discard her pertenal name and start bearing ur name.

2. One person will bear so much pains for 9 months to bear children

3. The children will not bear the name of person that had excruciating pain but man.

4. She will be doing house chores for u while u be like king in the parlor

5. Man that his even in the least in his office, when he gets home, he will be controlling woman and kids like king.

So much more.

don't blame men, blame nature that designed it that way, and by the way you are moronic to blame nature anyway, because nature is the only perfect phenomenon until the so called western civilization toxic feminism messed up everyone brain and way of life, and that's why marriages in america is in a mess and utter disarray today

Pells1:
Top 17 Feminist on Nairaland

1 Siofra
2 Sheistoopretty
3 sweetplum
4 Candidlady
5 Begoniaa
6 Pocohantas
7 Virginprincess
8 mariahAngel
9 doggedfighter
10 Blessedmercy8
11 Jeweltz
12 Samantha123
13 Persephone1
14 Simplepee
15 Abkayee
16 ernnie457
17 Biglittlelois
Let's pray for these ladies to get married too

Marry them or their kind at your own peril

These ones are carriers of miserable lives for men who will be unfortunate enough to cross their path in marriage.

AyeMoJuba:
Marry them or their kind at your own peril

These once are carriers of miserable lives for men who will be unfortunate enough to cross their path in marriage.

Chai
Kpele o

uncleck:
After divorce, men easily move on and remarry. Women most times turn bitter and aggressive. They become paranoid. Many of them end up doing hookup.

In contrast, during ordinary relationship women tend to move on quicker than men.

Just like that Psquare ex wife that was commenting on and condemned the girl the guy decide to date, calling her skeleton. As in wetin concern her, the both of them have separated.

jidexpet:
Totally agreed with you boss
Men didn't benefit from marriage, let's forget about divorce for now. Go and check those healthy family, 80% of them Father must have kicked d bucket. Too much responsibilities have sent Nigerian Men to early grave. For the remaining 20% When the time comes for Father to reap d fruits of their labour, our mothers always favour in the process they turned Children against their responsible father..

very very very correct and realistic comments bro

Pells1:
Top 17 Feminist on Nairaland

1 Siofra
2 Sheistoopretty
3 sweetplum
4 Candidlady
5 Begoniaa
6 Pocohantas
7 Virginprincess
8 mariahAngel
9 doggedfighter
10 Blessedmercy8
11 Jeweltz
12 Samantha123
13 Persephone1
14 Simplepee
15 Abkayee
16 ernnie457
17 Biglittlelois
Let's pray for these ladies to get married too

U forgot Jennyclay

Pells1:
Top 17 Feminist on Nairaland

1 Siofra
2 Sheistoopretty
3 sweetplum
4 Candidlady
5 Begoniaa
6 Pocohantas
7 Virginprincess
8 mariahAngel
9 doggedfighter
10 Blessedmercy8
11 Jeweltz
12 Samantha123
13 Persephone1
14 Simplepee
15 Abkayee
16 ernnie457
17 Biglittlelois
Let's pray for these ladies to get married too

Wotoporiously speaking

Omo this category mad

Who go win the award like this?

ernnie457:
Ever since I joined this nairaland all I see is hate against women...like una no get women for una life....the fact that u got hurt by one or two or more women doesn't mean we are all alike it's so annoying...it's toxic!

Sorry girl. U mean u are different.

Wotoporiously speaking

You get time dey ask questions that you will never have an answer to

Just dey play dey play o

CHoccolaTE:
This is what useless Nigerian men want naa, I said it.

They want to be catered for 100% but also control the women catering for them like slaves.

Hopeless, greedy and lazy animals.

It is not about men, because you can't marry all of them, and it not about other women who are either happily married or being bitter after leaving marriage. Life na per head, it is about you whether you are happily married now or you are bitterly divorced or you are still doing over sabi spinster. The choice is yours

ravensckar:
I think there's something fundamentally wrong with Nigerian women! They don't seem to understand that it takes two to tango. Relationship isn't a two-way thing to them; it's only about themselves alone. Anyone who enters marriage with that flawed mentality is bound to fail at it.

Secondly, I think not knowing about the opposite se.x too is a recipe for marital disaster. A man should know a lot about the woman nature and a woman too should know a lot about men and their ways. For example, most Naija women think that se.x is the only thing that can keep a man loyal to them. Hence, they focus more on having a sexy body rather than working on themselves to become more likable.


Most Naija women can hardly hold a meaningful conversation with their partner, they can hardly contribute meaningfully to issues, most don't have the requisite skills to become their partner's 'buddy'. To them, relationship is about the man providing the money while they in turn provide the se.x. Tufia!


That right there is why I'll always love my wife; that lady is very wise and likable. She's not only a wife but a partner; she's my gist partner, personal adviser on work and family matters, she's my account officer, best friend and my ......... *ehm* *coughs*


There was a time she went to visit my dad and stumbled on him negotiating with an electrician to help fix a light issue. My wife just laughed and told my dad not to pay anyone a dime that she will do it. She requested for a plier and screw driver and within a short while she don fix the light. My papa fear! Up till this moment, it never ceases to amaze him. She's the reason why I developed my technical skills too, me wey no dey fit fix anything before self don turn senior man.

In conclusion, until Nigerian ladies do away with their crude mentality and become more dynamic. Marriages will continue to crash.

True!

EdoBoy90:
Recently, a lot of divorce issues have been rocking social media. The known ones are mostly from celebrities while unknown ones aren't on the internet. Off social media, many divorce cases are happening daily. This has become frequent. Our parents and grandparents lasted more than 30, 20, 40, 50 or 60 years in marriage those days.

It has been proven that most marriage that crashes, 80% of it are caused by ladies. Blessing CEO, the popular Relationship Therapist also affirmed it.

Ladies, what is the issue? Don't marry someone you know that you won't spend the rest of your life with or don't waste a guy time.

Some of my friends who are in abroad, never marry Nigerian Ladies. One of them in Germany, married a Ghanaian. The other one in the UK, married a woman from Sierra Leone. In the US and Canada same issue.

Broken homes or in a society with a lot of divorcees lack basic moral and cultural values. This doesn't build a healthy community or society at large.

Some of we guys with open arms to Ladies have seen hell in the hands of some ladies. Last month, a lady without basic education or vocational skills telling me, someone who is feeding her, clothing her and working in one of the Multinational companies that I am the least, Just because guys are flopping around her. Sometimes, I wonder the mindset of some ladies. They see beauty or guys flopping around them as an achievement.

The good ladies in Nigeria currently are just less than 5%. This might be harsh but it is the truth.

We should tread with caution.

Ladies, what are the issues?

That’s the front for bitter single ladies

Wickedfacts:
Not wisdom, experience. If such women were wise, their marriages won't have scattered.

Meanwhile, washed up divorcee ladies don't ever want to see their fellow women enjoy marriages. They come up with various stupid stories and ideas to poison the minds of their fellow ladies.

Tell me how this doesn't apply to Nigerian men? Go and look at the comments from Nigerian men that want to get married or want to take their wives abroad.

How are you guys different? Nigerian men and women are just as bad as each other.

Once again the gender that gains nothing from marriage is bothered about what is happening to marriages or women. One would think you guys should be happy. Enjoy lives with your sidechicks or your fellow men - but no, you can’t do that.

Leave women the fck alone!!!

1Sharon:
Tell me how this doesn't apply to Nigerian men? Go and look at the comments from Nigerian men that want to get married or want to take their wives abroad.

How are you guys different? Nigerian men and women are just as bad as each other.

Your post is a wide tangent off point. I specifically mentioned divorcees.

Misery loves company.
Okay, let me ask you a question. Have you ever seen a divorcee giving advice to married couples on how to enjoy their marriages?