toujurs:
They are emotional being, especially after sex they become emotionally attached.

If you dump her afterwards, she begins to behave like a witch, and starts hunting you. Till she gets tired

G00DHardDick:
A Man gains absolutely nothing from marriage. A woman gains so much that if she doesn't get married, she might end up killing herself. Have you ever seen a man displaying rings around? No! But a woman displays hers for the world to see. To a woman, marriage is her greatest achievement in life.

A man gains absolutely nothing from marriage, the earlier you understand this the better for you

OboOlora:
Nor be dem fault Op, na men show them shege.

Normally, these young girls de see marriage as relationship that they can just walk out of and jump into another one

Apart from sex and making babies, what other things do these brainless broads bring to marriage anyways?

Oh I forgot, they bring ring light and make up kits

Awon hoeloshi

Fiscus105:




MAY YOU NOT GAIN ANYTHING IN YOUR MARRIAGE! AMEN.


meanwhile, man gains more in marriage much more than woman,
1. An adult will discard her pertenal name and start bearing ur name.

2. One person will bear so much pains for 9 months to bear children

3. The children will not bear the name of person that had excruciating pain but man.

4. She will be doing house chores for u while u be like king in the parlor

5. Man that his even in the least in office, when he get home, he will be controlling like king, among others.

Pells1:
Top 16 Feminist in Nairaland

1 Siofra
2 Sheistoopretty
3 sweetplum
4 Candidlady
5 Begoniaa
6 Pocohantas
7 Virginprincess
8 mariahAngel
9 doggedfighter
10 Blessedmercy8
11 Jeweltz
12 Samantha123
13 Persephone1
14 Simplepee
15 Abkayee
16 ernnie457

Let's pray for these ladies to get married too


Husband available here chief
Anyone with baal should subscribe shapaly

EdoBoy90:


Waiting for them

EdoBoy90:
Recently, a lot of divorce issues have been rocking social media. The known ones are mostly from celebrities while unknown ones aren't on the internet. Off social media, many divorce cases are happening daily. This has become frequent. Our parents and grandparents lasted more than 30, 20, 40, 50 or 60 years in marriage those days.

It has been proven that most marriage that crashes, 80% of it are caused by ladies. Blessing CEO, the popular Relationship Therapist also affirmed it.

Ladies, what is the issue? Don't marry someone you know that you won't spend the rest of your life with or don't waste a guy time.

Some of my friends who are in abroad, never marry Nigerian Ladies. One of them in Germany, married a Ghanaian. The other one in the UK, married a woman from Sierra Leone. In the US and Canada same issue.

Broken homes or in a society with a lot of divorcees lack basic moral and cultural values. This doesn't build a healthy community or society at large.

Some of we guys with open arms to Ladies have seen hell in the hands of some ladies. Last month, a lady without basic education or vocational skills telling me, someone who is feeding her, clothing her and working in one of the Multinational companies that I am the least, Just because guys are flopping around her. Sometimes, I wonder the mindset of some ladies. They see beauty or guys flopping around them as an achievement.

The good ladies in Nigeria currently are just less than 5%. This might be harsh but it is the truth.

We should tread with caution.

Ladies, what are the issues?

ibkayee:
I thought men didn't care about marriage and benefited the least from it?

Why are all these threads talking about divorce and the 'sanctity' of marriage being made by men?

The rare threads with women posters are probably men under disguise too

G00DHardDick:


May you and your brothers not Gain anything meaningful in life at large Amen.

Meanwhile all those things you listed there are complete thrash.

1. You think bearing a man's name freaks him out? Of what important is that trash? Na so u dull?

2. Do you expect a man to Carry a child in his stomach before? Does a man have womb? U need to Grow up

3. Is it woman's name the kids will bear before? How old are you?

4. A man can employ a maid or servant to do all house chores, so this is a lame and useless excuse. Perhaps you're the lazy type.

5. This is completely Rubbish. You want to control the man before? Like are you okay?

toujurs:
They are emotional being, especially after sex they become emotionally attached.

If you dump her afterwards, she begins to behave like a witch, and starts hunting you. Till she gets tired

Ten06: I know a woman who cater for the husband 100% but still respect the husband.
It is those ones with pride and arrogancy that allow wealth to control them

Pells1:
Top 16 Feminist in Nairaland

1 Siofra
2 Sheistoopretty
3 sweetplum
4 Candidlady
5 Begoniaa
6 Pocohantas
7 Virginprincess
8 mariahAngel
9 doggedfighter
10 Blessedmercy8
11 Jeweltz
12 Samantha123
13 Persephone1
14 Simplepee
15 Abkayee
16 ernnie457

Let's pray for these ladies to get married too

ernnie457:
Ever since I joined this nairaland all I see is hate against women...like una no get women for una life....the fact that u got hurt by one or two or more women doesn't mean we are all alike it's so annoying...it's toxic!

Fiscus105:



It pains you, but u said man not gain anything in marriage nah, why are crying again.

Oga, go and amend ur damage life and stop transferring ur tattered life on women.

Fiscus105:



It pains you, but u said man not gain anything in marriage nah, why are crying again.

Oga, go and amend ur damage life and stop transferring ur tattered life on women.

ernnie457:
Ever since I joined this nairaland all I see is hate against women...like una no get women for una life....the fact that u got hurt by one or two or more women doesn't mean we are all alike it's so annoying...it's toxic!

Flier:
How many people divorced in your street in the last 10 years? If you can point 3 then you are living at lekki
I am close to 40 and I’ve never seen up 3 for real out of 500 couples I know
Nigerian ladies are good only less than 1% are bad

HomeTutorsPro:

More like:
Ever since you joined nairaland, you still don't know that nairaland is the home of rubbish.
If you want to keep your sanity, just read the rubbish, type your own rubbish and move on.
99% of the people on this forum don't do what they type.
Know this and know peace.

stuffs2002:
They go arround spending hatred and BITTERNESS against the male gender thereby causing more divorce .


Any normal woman should avoid all these bittered women at all cost if you want your marriage/relationship to work

ravensckar:
I think there's something fundamentally wrong with Nigerian women! They don't seem to understand that it takes two to tango. Relationship isn't a two-way thing to them; it's only about themselves alone. Anyone who enters marriage with that flawed mentality is bound to fail at it.

Secondly, I think not knowing about the opposite se.x too is a recipe for marital disaster. A man should know a lot about the woman nature and a woman too should know a lot about men and their ways. For example, most Naija women think that se.x is the only thing that can keep a man loyal to them. Hence, they focus more on having a sexy body rather than working on themselves to become more likable.


Most Naija women can hardly hold a meaningful conversation with their partner, they can hardly contribute meaningfully to issues, most don't have the requisite skills to become their partner's 'buddy'. To them, relationship is about the man providing the money while they in turn provide the se. x. Tufia!


That right there is why I'll always love my wife; that lady is very wise and likable. She's not only a wife but a partner; she's my gist partner, personal adviser on work and family matters, she's my account officer, best friend, and my ......... *ehm* *coughs*

Lanty01:
Women everywhere are the same. The problem is you, swallow the redpill.