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A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by VGlobal: 10:32am On Dec 27, 2022 |
WORKING & LIVING WITH NIGERIANS ABROAD Being a Ghanaian, I’ve had this bad impression about Nigerians. I grew up in Ghana thinking Nigerians were negative energies around anyone. I was literally brainwashed mostly by the media to see Nigerians as thieves, murderers, scammers, etc. But after 6 years of working and associating with Nigerians outside of Ghana, the following are what I’ve found and discovered about them. I’m writing this not because my best friend back in the UK is a Nigerian, and not because my senior manager and team lead at my present employer are Nigerians. This is my honest observation! Arguably, if you put the average Ghanaian and a Nigerian under the same conditions and environment, the Nigerian would undoubtedly outperform the Ghanaian. They are bold, smart and have this relentless quest and effort for learning and perfecting their craft. What a Nigerian cannot do does not exist. I started a DevOps Engineering program for a career alternative and Nigerians especially their women from different career fields constitute about 60% of the class. I was scared to take this step—to move from risk management to pure IT but I was shocked to see Nigerians in nursing, HR, journalism, sales, etc here in Canada taking on the challenge. I quickly reached out to most of my Ghanaian friends but none seem to be interested. This is a fortune field in IT….and when I asked these Nigerians why many of them are here, they told me “this is the surest way to make money by doing less”. Truth is, if you’re starting anything abroad and there’s no Nigerian in it, just know that that thing has no promise ��. A Nigerian wouldn’t attempt what doesn’t bring any monetary gain or value to them! I’ve noticed that a Nigerian wouldn’t lie to you unless they’re scared of you or stand to gain something exceedingly beneficial from doing so. This confirms why the most genuine and honest folks I’ve ever associated with outside of Ghana are Nigerians. When a Nigerian is sharing an opportunity with you, they disclose everything dito-dito. They withhold nothing—they tell you as it is. My people would give you a half information and still be all over the place saying that they’ve helped you. You have no idea how many Ghanaians have made themselves demi-gods out here because they’ve been here for ages and feel everything must be ran through them. If you don’t go their way, you’re a target for gossip! A Nigerian sees an opportunity in every situation, and it cuts across. They’re mostly interested in building a sustainable business than for a quick profit. This explains why wherever there are both Ghanaian and Nigerian traders, the Nigerian merchandise would cost less than the Ghanaian—even if they have the same suppliers. I see that here in Calgary at the various African markets. Show me any work environment or office without a Nigerian and I’ll show you a work that’s less fulfilling and rewarding. The energy around Nigerians is positive and motivating. Nothing scares them than failure so they work hard for success because success is greatly celebrated in their culture. Where I come from, if you’re making any progress, there’s 100% chance you’ll lose 99% of your friends—they’ll spread lies about you out of dislike. Some would also attribute your progress to things other than your personal efforts. “You see that girl, she’s being chopped by so so and so person. You see that guy, he’s an occult. You see that guy, he’s rushing in life. Etc”. Your own family would turn themselves into avowed enemies—praying to see you fail so that they’ll use you as a bad example like “you see that guy, he was rushing in life but see how he’s crushed like a fragile glass.” My people have a long way to go. They must know that it’s okay for anyone irrespective of age to be great at what they do. In fact, people can build a fortune at age 40 or less through genuine means. Let’s inhale some positivity! We glorify timidity, ignorance and sycophancy as signs of humility but Nigerians encourage boldness, assertiveness and being daring. If there’s a Nigerian in your trade or profession, get closer, you’ll learn a lot from them. I’ve learned a lot from my association with them and I’m always grateful for having one as my direct supervisor at work! ~The End~ By Jay Kwashie 482 Likes 49 Shares |
Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by Nickisindigo(m): 10:46am On Dec 27, 2022 |
Media don't help matters 74 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by morikee: 11:23am On Dec 27, 2022 |
Nigerians were never bad people it's just that our Government failed us i haven't seen hospitable people as Nigerians. Forgive my blunders. 340 Likes 23 Shares |
Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by Nobody: 11:23am On Dec 27, 2022 |
Brb 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by StrongAlphMale: 11:23am On Dec 27, 2022 |
A Nigerian wouldn’t attempt what doesn’t bring any monetary gain or value to them! Unfortunately the same country some daft humans are planning to vote in a disaster again just as they did before but their plans has failed woefully 156 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by depure(m): 11:24am On Dec 27, 2022 |
Ghana and peace of mind 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by obedience4(m): 11:24am On Dec 27, 2022 |
A Nigerian in disguise trying to rightly hype Nigerians 53 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by Nsonaso(m): 11:24am On Dec 27, 2022 |
Hahaha. |
Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by Soso990240(m): 11:25am On Dec 27, 2022 |
People generalize things too much. Definitely not all Nigerians are bad.. But Ghanaians and South Africans makes it look like all Nigerians are bad.. not fair to the good people around. 92 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by Kharol1234: 11:25am On Dec 27, 2022 |
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Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by Papichulostunne(m): 11:25am On Dec 27, 2022 |
That long epistle just to clarify indirectly that Niaja jollof naim win am? Mad oh.! 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by azpekuliar: 11:25am On Dec 27, 2022 |
We know he is actually talking about Southern Nigerians but we are not ready to have that conversation yet. 146 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by sukkot: 11:25am On Dec 27, 2022 |
charle tell us how the nigerian would blow out the whole office during lunch time with smell of abula and iru and shaki 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by Ashirioluwa: 11:26am On Dec 27, 2022 |
Nickisindigo: Those bad eggs Nigerians don’t help matter too. 21 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by Benz03: 11:26am On Dec 27, 2022 |
I know things are not too well in the country
But I'm proud to be a Nigerian 95 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by callmetoniaa: 11:26am On Dec 27, 2022 |
God bless Nigerians.. 18 Likes |
Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by opalu: 11:26am On Dec 27, 2022 |
Ok 1 Like |
Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by Kenneth10110(m): 11:27am On Dec 27, 2022 |
Nigerians are hardworking as long as they'll make good money the problem is Bad governance if the government was good the country would have been far developed then the citizens love to much competition and show offs. 16 Likes |
Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by Opportuneke(m): 11:27am On Dec 27, 2022 |
The Ghanaian is actually referring to the Omoluabis 19 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by Kiddogarcia(m): 11:27am On Dec 27, 2022 |
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Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by Coolcash1: 11:27am On Dec 27, 2022 |
Nigeria...good people great nation. 5 Likes |
Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by yesloaded: 11:27am On Dec 27, 2022 |
We are Godly people God bless every Nigerians 5 Likes |
Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by julaion: 11:27am On Dec 27, 2022 |
Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by Benjaniblinks(m): 11:27am On Dec 27, 2022 |
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Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by ahnie: 11:28am On Dec 27, 2022 |
Beautiful well written zuzu piece. I m proud to be an isoko Nigerian. 12 Likes |
Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by Grape1: 11:28am On Dec 27, 2022 |
Hmmm...No Comment. Wetin I know b say we know ourselves. 2 Likes |
Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by KanuSE: 11:28am On Dec 27, 2022 |
When you meet a good Nigerian you have in deed met an angel. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by Nobody: 11:28am On Dec 27, 2022 |
Op is right though, Nigerians are special breeds 9 Likes |
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