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Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by thestreets(m): 5:23pm On Dec 28, 2022

faceLAGOS:
I just don’t know why.

I can’t marry a nonvirgin.

I know if I’m able to hustle enough money before or early 40, I will settle for a very young virgin.

I don’t mind gromming her.

u dey talk early 40. 1 day alone self too much 4 your story to change. #Fact

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Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by Enny2013(f): 5:30pm On Dec 28, 2022

Some pasts always have a way to harm d future.
U cannot decisively live a rough and careless past and expect me to accept and forget.
Nothing like decency most times.

@op, u ar an adult, choose what u want.

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Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by Nobody: 5:38pm On Dec 28, 2022

faceLAGOS:
I just don’t know why.

I can’t marry a nonvirgin.

I know if I’m able to hustle enough money before or early 40, I will settle for a very young virgin.

I don’t mind gromming her.

See Wise guy who knows his Onions.

Make sure you have something tangible on ground and never stop planning for the future before you venture into the journey of marriage. Even if it takes time getting in your 40s, always ignore the gullible naysayers who will want to pressure or mock you.

Poverty is a miserable experience which i can never wish my enemy.

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Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by faceLAGOS: 5:54pm On Dec 28, 2022

thestreets:
u dey talk early 40. 1 day alone self too much 4 your story to change. #Fact

Thanks bro.

Thanks for the word of encouragement.

Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by SPAMBOX7: 5:57pm On Dec 28, 2022

Nonexisting1:
From my observation this girl posses some good qualities of a wife material..but I don't really know if she was just a victim of circumstances that pushed her to got pregnant two times
All the girls that did what she did turn out to be "good girls" after commiting those evils which is why pastors that did yeye miracles in those days claimed to have been in secret cults before repenting. No be today shit dey yansh. Nothing pushes a Nigerian girl to get pregnant twice if not greed for material things and love for dick. Go ahead with your lovey dovey simping, we will be here when it will all burst.

No single cap

Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by kwaso2(m): 6:18pm On Dec 28, 2022

You are under her manipulation. Open your eyes

Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by jeromestarks: 6:23pm On Dec 28, 2022

If you commit to her, you're commiDEAD!

You will be out of any union with her in less than 5 years and you will regret it throughout your entire life.

Rape ko, Rade ni.
She opened her pvssy twice and u think it's a mistake.
She will open it again.
Once a girl is fvcked by a guy, he can fvck her again.

Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by stacyadams: 6:26pm On Dec 28, 2022

I never meet Naija woman wey no talk say them rape them virginity comot for their body...some dey mistakenly see their Toto on top prick come discover say them don disvirgin.... angry

Note

Toto dey work 365 days a year,no vacation, no rest,no holidays.na until owner of Toto die before Toto go rest grin

Mosdii come and remind them.

Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by Nobody: 6:47pm On Dec 28, 2022

Snowx:
I fall in love with her because of some attributes I saw in her..she's not endowed as some will perceived that was the reason.

I met her in church..I started observing her and noticed shes Humble and posseses some qualities of wife material..

I got close to her and we started talking, we hanged out. And talked and share most of Our likes and dislike etc.

But what shocked me most was her past life, she was raped when she was about to enter convent but that wasnt my issue. after the incident she got admission in the University in her first year she got pregnant and that affected her academics seriously coz she carried the pregnancy and bore the child.

As she was narrating her ordeal to me she said she doesn't know what actually was wrong coz before she could know it again she met the same guy and got pregnant again.. she told me she really acted stupidly this time..she terminated it in the 8th weeks.

She said she was telling me this coz she discovered that i was in love with her..that if after I finally settled down with her without letting me know her past life she won't be happy coz I saw perfection in her instead of imperfections that she won't be happy in the marriage if we later settle down..

her last date was 3yrs ago but they didn't end up due to tribe and religion which the girl family doesn't support, she told the guy about her child but didn't tell him about the abortion.

From my observation this girl posses some good qualities of a wife material..but I don't really know if she was just a victim of circumstances that pushed her to got pregnant two times..she wrote her final exams 3years ago but due to that incident that happened in her first year she wasn't able to defend her project.

Pls I need your advice as I have not been able to think right is getting to couple of months I have been on this thought.

You might have been shown in your dream about this girl.

Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by Karleb(m): 6:51pm On Dec 28, 2022

That's too much baggage.

Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by BigYash: 7:05pm On Dec 28, 2022

Zonefree:

How sure are you she was raped considering she got pregnant months later?

Female rape victims detest men, but, your beloved girlfriend couldn't even wait to heal before swallowing a gbola to get pregnant twice.

I've said this countless times here, Nigerian girls hardly say they got deflowered with their consent. They usually use this rape format to scam the gullible SIMPle men.

Most girls always claim rape ,when they want to cage a simp.. Simp will now start acting like the best guy on earth to please the bitch.. Make her comfortable ,and when she gets used to you,she will certainly go back to the dicks, and simp will remain broken for life.. Op be careful, your newly found love might be manipulating you.. Blike say na ur first time.. No worry,you go learn by experience grin

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Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by weslay: 7:07pm On Dec 28, 2022

Redflags everywhere.

Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by sexy74(m): 7:20pm On Dec 28, 2022

Snowx:
I fall in love with her because of some attributes I saw in her..she's not endowed as some will perceived that was the reason.

I met her in church..I started observing her and noticed shes Humble and posseses some qualities of wife material..

I got close to her and we started talking, we hanged out. And talked and share most of Our likes and dislike etc.

But what shocked me most was her past life, she was raped when she was about to enter convent but that wasnt my issue. after the incident she got admission in the University in her first year she got pregnant and that affected her academics seriously coz she carried the pregnancy and bore the child.

As she was narrating her ordeal to me she said she doesn't know what actually was wrong coz before she could know it again she met the same guy and got pregnant again.. she told me she really acted stupidly this time..she terminated it in the 8th weeks.

She said she was telling me this coz she discovered that i was in love with her..that if after I finally settled down with her without letting me know her past life she won't be happy coz I saw perfection in her instead of imperfections that she won't be happy in the marriage if we later settle down..

her last date was 3yrs ago but they didn't end up due to tribe and religion which the girl family doesn't support, she told the guy about her child but didn't tell him about the abortion.

From my observation this girl posses some good qualities of a wife material..but I don't really know if she was just a victim of circumstances that pushed her to got pregnant two times..she wrote her final exams 3years ago but due to that incident that happened in her first year she wasn't able to defend her project.

Pls I need your advice as I have not been able to think right is getting to couple of months I have been on this thought.

My. Rother abeg run for cover.

Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by womenareapezz: 7:51pm On Dec 28, 2022

Snowx:
I fall in love with her because of some attributes I saw in her..she's not endowed as some will perceived that was the reason.

I met her in church..I started observing her and noticed shes Humble and posseses some qualities of wife material..

I got close to her and we started talking, we hanged out. And talked and share most of Our likes and dislike etc.

But what shocked me most was her past life, she was raped when she was about to enter convent but that wasnt my issue. after the incident she got admission in the University in her first year she got pregnant and that affected her academics seriously coz she carried the pregnancy and bore the child.

As she was narrating her ordeal to me she said she doesn't know what actually was wrong coz before she could know it again she met the same guy and got pregnant again.. she told me she really acted stupidly this time..she terminated it in the 8th weeks.

She said she was telling me this coz she discovered that i was in love with her..that if after I finally settled down with her without letting me know her past life she won't be happy coz I saw perfection in her instead of imperfections that she won't be happy in the marriage if we later settle down..

her last date was 3yrs ago but they didn't end up due to tribe and religion which the girl family doesn't support, she told the guy about her child but didn't tell him about the abortion.

From my observation this girl posses some good qualities of a wife material..but I don't really know if she was just a victim of circumstances that pushed her to got pregnant two times..she wrote her final exams 3years ago but due to that incident that happened in her first year she wasn't able to defend her project.

Pls I need your advice as I have not been able to think right is getting to couple of months I have been on this thought.

dopamine trigger simp undecided

I only know of 5 dumbest people in the world, and you are number 4 among the 5th undecided

Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by Coinmamax: 8:13pm On Dec 28, 2022

Jennyclay:
If you truly and genuinely love her, then you will forget about her past. Love conquers all things. Love has no boundaries.

deceiver... This nor be Nollywood

Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by Truvelisback(m): 8:36pm On Dec 28, 2022

Jennyclay:
If you truly and genuinely love her, then you will forget about her past. Love conquers all things. Love has no boundaries.

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Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by Truvelisback(m): 8:40pm On Dec 28, 2022

Snowx:
I fall in love with her because of some attributes I saw in her..she's not endowed as some will perceived that was the reason.

I met her in church..I started observing her and noticed shes Humble and posseses some qualities of wife material..

I got close to her and we started talking, we hanged out. And talked and share most of Our likes and dislike etc.

But what shocked me most was her past life, she was raped when she was about to enter convent but that wasnt my issue. after the incident she got admission in the University in her first year she got pregnant and that affected her academics seriously coz she carried the pregnancy and bore the child.

As she was narrating her ordeal to me she said she doesn't know what actually was wrong coz before she could know it again she met the same guy and got pregnant again.. she told me she really acted stupidly this time..she terminated it in the 8th weeks.

She said she was telling me this coz she discovered that i was in love with her..that if after I finally settled down with her without letting me know her past life she won't be happy coz I saw perfection in her instead of imperfections that she won't be happy in the marriage if we later settle down..

her last date was 3yrs ago but they didn't end up due to tribe and religion which the girl family doesn't support, she told the guy about her child but didn't tell him about the abortion.

From my observation this girl posses some good qualities of a wife material..but I don't really know if she was just a victim of circumstances that pushed her to got pregnant two times..she wrote her final exams 3years ago but due to that incident that happened in her first year she wasn't able to defend her project.

Pls I need your advice as I have not been able to think right is getting to couple of months I have been on this thought.

This is why i said in my other thread that Virgin is the Best option. Bro, it is never too late for u to decide.

Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by theophorus(m): 8:42pm On Dec 28, 2022

Snowx:
Pls I need your advice as I have not been able to think right is getting to couple of months I have been on this thought.

If someone tells You all their Life secret, it's a good sign that they Really Love you.

There are very few People who have conscience and from your narration She is one of them.

Pray about it and if you get the Green Light please go ahead.

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Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by SodiumValproate: 8:57pm On Dec 28, 2022

Zonefree:

How sure are you she was raped considering she got pregnant months later?

Female rape victims detest men, but, your beloved girlfriend couldn't even wait to heal before swallowing a gbola to get pregnant twice.

I've said this countless times here, Nigerian girls hardly say they got deflowered with their consent. They usually use this rape format to scam the gullible SIMPle men.

Exactly why Jeon does so too.

She was raped by her cousins severally and one time by her uncle.

The most painful part is that she was compelled to marry on of the cousin.

It is a thing of culture and Islam sadly cry

Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by SodiumValproate: 8:58pm On Dec 28, 2022

HeartlessMan:
OP na which of dem she be?

That 2nd one mad grin

Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by abbasajao(m): 9:28pm On Dec 28, 2022

Any gurl wey dem don table her matta for Nairaland don finish.

Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by Itsokayo: 9:42pm On Dec 28, 2022

Jennyclay:
If you truly and genuinely love her, then you will forget about her past. Love conquers all things. Love has no boundaries.

will u keep kwayet huh

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Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by Kreddy: 10:54pm On Dec 28, 2022

Jennyclay:
If you truly and genuinely love her, then you will forget about her past. Love conquers all things. Love has no boundaries.

Hmm Miss Conqueror....Gbefun..adviseress

Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by compton11(m): 11:39pm On Dec 28, 2022

HeartlessMan:
OP na which of dem she be?

I keep saying it, former bitches are not good for marriage, when they retired,they are only good to be used as sex maid.

Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by compton11(m): 11:41pm On Dec 28, 2022

Run nigga run.

Go and Marry a virgin,it is good for u grin

Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by Crystalsweetnes(f): 11:46pm On Dec 28, 2022

Op, this is not as hard as you making it look. If you think you can't get over her past, let her go and don't waste her time. Her past doesn't make her a good or bad person. Follow your head prayerfuly. You marrying someone with no past mistakes (virgin)doesn't guarantee you a peaceful home. Put that at the back of your mind

Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by timiade446(m): 12:06am On Dec 29, 2022

Na always rape everytime grin

Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by pansophist(m): 12:39am On Dec 29, 2022

You are the only one that can answer your question. To know others is intelligence, but to know yourself is true wisdom. Her past is a sharp edge that borders male insecurities, and every time you remember it, you will feel very bad.

You have to ask yourself if its something you can live with. If you decide to be with her, make sure the traumas from her past are something both of you deal with, or else your relationship will suffer.

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Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by morinto: 1:09am On Dec 29, 2022

Have met a girl like this too. I love the girl die. Like our soul connect together. Me and this girl fit talk 24 hrs without getting bored and am very free talking with her. But she confess to me about her past in which I felt sorry for her. Even though I love her I can't let the past just go. I don't have her but am scared of what people will say to me if dey find out about her past. That just my concern and that why I just ignore moving the friendship to the next level

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Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by Thermodynamics(m): 1:17am On Dec 29, 2022

Jennyclay:
If you truly and genuinely love her, then you will forget about her past. Love conquers all things. Love has no boundaries.

Shut up, which kind forget her past.

Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by Thermodynamics(m): 1:21am On Dec 29, 2022

Jennyclay:
The most important thing is she has proven faithfulness. He should go on with the relationship

What if she hide her past from him? If I were to be in her shoes I would have kept my past to myself.

The man will still find out one way or the other, and when he does, he will make the marriage a living hell for you, maybe start beating you.

Re: I Fall In Love Before I Realized Her Past Life, Now Am Confused by Thermodynamics(m): 1:26am On Dec 29, 2022

Snowx:
I fall in love with her because of some attributes I saw in her..she's not endowed as some will perceived that was the reason.

I met her in church..I started observing her and noticed shes Humble and posseses some qualities of wife material..

I got close to her and we started talking, we hanged out. And talked and share most of Our likes and dislike etc.

But what shocked me most was her past life, she was raped when she was about to enter convent but that wasnt my issue. after the incident she got admission in the University in her first year she got pregnant and that affected her academics seriously coz she carried the pregnancy and bore the child.

As she was narrating her ordeal to me she said she doesn't know what actually was wrong coz before she could know it again she met the same guy and got pregnant again.. she told me she really acted stupidly this time..she terminated it in the 8th weeks.

She said she was telling me this coz she discovered that i was in love with her..that if after I finally settled down with her without letting me know her past life she won't be happy coz I saw perfection in her instead of imperfections that she won't be happy in the marriage if we later settle down..

her last date was 3yrs ago but they didn't end up due to tribe and religion which the girl family doesn't support, she told the guy about her child but didn't tell him about the abortion.

From my observation this girl posses some good qualities of a wife material..but I don't really know if she was just a victim of circumstances that pushed her to got pregnant two times..she wrote her final exams 3years ago but due to that incident that happened in her first year she wasn't able to defend her project.

Pls I need your advice as I have not been able to think right is getting to couple of months I have been on this thought.

If I be you OP, I no go marry her, I go just forget about her. Women past matters a lot wether you like it or not.

Decide with your head and not with your heart otherwise you are likely to regret it, women plenty for town, you go see better one when get clean past with wife material quality. This is just what I'll do sha if I were you, if you like use your head, if you like use your heart, na you sabi.

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