Epurogonogono:

After all she told you, do you still love her?

Do you think you would be satisfied/happy if you marry her?

Do you think you can take care of another man's child?


Does she love you as much as you think you love her? Or she is still in love with the man who impregnated her twice?


Are you prepared to face the father of the child if he eventually comes back for his child, after you have catered for the child?

Do you think she is telling you the whole truth or she is still keeping something away from you like she did to her last boyfriend?



If I were in your shoes, I won't continue the relationship, considering what you've stated.

Thermodynamics:

The man will still find out one way or the other, and when he does, he will make the marriage a living hell for you, maybe start beating you.

Snowx:
I fall in love with her because of some attributes I saw in her..she's not endowed as some will perceived that was the reason.

I met her in church..I started observing her and noticed shes Humble and posseses some qualities of wife material..

I got close to her and we started talking, we hanged out. And talked and share most of Our likes and dislike etc.

But what shocked me most was her past life, she was raped when she was about to enter convent but that wasnt my issue. after the incident she got admission in the University in her first year she got pregnant and that affected her academics seriously coz she carried the pregnancy and bore the child.

As she was narrating her ordeal to me she said she doesn't know what actually was wrong coz before she could know it again she met the same guy and got pregnant again.. she told me she really acted stupidly this time..she terminated it in the 8th weeks.

She said she was telling me this coz she discovered that i was in love with her..that if after I finally settled down with her without letting me know her past life she won't be happy coz I saw perfection in her instead of imperfections that she won't be happy in the marriage if we later settle down..

her last date was 3yrs ago but they didn't end up due to tribe and religion which the girl family doesn't support, she told the guy about her child but didn't tell him about the abortion.

From my observation this girl posses some good qualities of a wife material..but I don't really know if she was just a victim of circumstances that pushed her to got pregnant two times..she wrote her final exams 3years ago but due to that incident that happened in her first year she wasn't able to defend her project.

Pls I need your advice as I have not been able to think right is getting to couple of months I have been on this thought.

Jennyclay:
eehhh... He should go and find out na. All I know is that if I were to be in her shoes I will not tell him my past. I've come to realize men don't like when a lady is being open up & plain.

Thermodynamics:

You'll just make things worst for yourself in the future. This is why I am going to marry a virgin, to avoid all these plenty stories.

Snowx:
I fall in love with her because of some attributes I saw in her..she's not endowed as some will perceived that was the reason.

I met her in church..I started observing her and noticed shes Humble and posseses some qualities of wife material..

I got close to her and we started talking, we hanged out. And talked and share most of Our likes and dislike etc.

But what shocked me most was her past life, she was raped when she was about to enter convent but that wasnt my issue. after the incident she got admission in the University in her first year she got pregnant and that affected her academics seriously coz she carried the pregnancy and bore the child.

As she was narrating her ordeal to me she said she doesn't know what actually was wrong coz before she could know it again she met the same guy and got pregnant again.. she told me she really acted stupidly this time..she terminated it in the 8th weeks.

She said she was telling me this coz she discovered that i was in love with her..that if after I finally settled down with her without letting me know her past life she won't be happy coz I saw perfection in her instead of imperfections that she won't be happy in the marriage if we later settle down..

her last date was 3yrs ago but they didn't end up due to tribe and religion which the girl family doesn't support, she told the guy about her child but didn't tell him about the abortion.

From my observation this girl posses some good qualities of a wife material..but I don't really know if she was just a victim of circumstances that pushed her to got pregnant two times..she wrote her final exams 3years ago but due to that incident that happened in her first year she wasn't able to defend her project.

Pls I need your advice as I have not been able to think right is getting to couple of months I have been on this thought.

faceLAGOS:
I just don’t know why.

I can’t marry a nonvirgin.

I know if I’m able to hustle enough money before or early 40, I will settle for a very young virgin.

I don’t mind gromming her.

Law 10: Infection: Avoid the unhappy and unlucky

Obaaderemi2:
And they will still fvck her afterwards, if she's not loyal to you. It's like you've not disvirgined a girl before who later left for another man.

Jennyclay:
Good for you.

That's your own cup of agbo.

imagrg:
Ladies, because of their fish brains always end up as victims of circumstance in the hands of some rudderless young men whose only aim in life is to put their big gbola in any hole on a woman's body. These same kind who have, through their promiscuous acts ruined the lives of young ladies, come here to paint ladies black.
They shouldn't worry, my love, Siofra is out there to squeeze their balls on the Romance Section. Trust her to do a good job of it!

One child but but aborted the one one that could have been second

My problem is if this feelings wld be there for some years. But I might remember i wasn't the first man neither the father of her first child it might weigh me down..

I would have advised this guy to marry this lady but the fact that she has two children for another man would create a negative effect on him later.
In summary, take your share and advise her to go back to the father of her two children.

imagrg:
Ladies, because of their fish brains always end up as victims of circumstance in the hands of some rudderless young men whose only aim in life is to put their big gbola in any hole on a woman's body. These same kind who have, through their promiscuous acts ruined the lives of young ladies, come here to paint ladies black.
They shouldn't worry, my love, Siofra is out there to squeeze their balls on the Romance Section. Trust her to do a good job of it!

I would have advised this guy to marry this lady but the fact that she has two children for another man would create a negative effect on him later.
In summary, take your share and advise her to go back to the father of her two children.

Epurogonogono:

After all she told you, do you still love her?

Do you think you would be satisfied/happy if you marry her?

Do you think you can take care of another man's child?


Does she love you as much as you think you love her? Or she is still in love with the man who impregnated her twice?


Are you prepared to face the father of the child if he eventually comes back for his child, after you have catered for the child?

Do you think she is telling you the whole truth or she is still keeping something away from you like she did to her last boyfriend?



If I were in your shoes, I won't continue the relationship, considering what you've stated.

AbujaCitiBlog:
Those things to me are not a red flag in any way. So, for me it is whether she has ever practiced Lesbianism. That's what scares me. Any woman who have ever played with Lesbianism should never ever be married by a straight man. Because once a lesbian, always a lesbian.

Snowx:
I fall in love with her because of some attributes I saw in her..she's not endowed as some will perceived that was the reason.

I met her in church..I started observing her and noticed shes Humble and posseses some qualities of wife material..

I got close to her and we started talking, we hanged out. And talked and share most of Our likes and dislike etc.

But what shocked me most was her past life, she was raped when she was about to enter convent but that wasnt my issue. after the incident she got admission in the University in her first year she got pregnant and that affected her academics seriously coz she carried the pregnancy and bore the child.

As she was narrating her ordeal to me she said she doesn't know what actually was wrong coz before she could know it again she met the same guy and got pregnant again.. she told me she really acted stupidly this time..she terminated it in the 8th weeks.

She said she was telling me this coz she discovered that i was in love with her..that if after I finally settled down with her without letting me know her past life she won't be happy coz I saw perfection in her instead of imperfections that she won't be happy in the marriage if we later settle down..

her last date was 3yrs ago but they didn't end up due to tribe and religion which the girl family doesn't support, she told the guy about her child but didn't tell him about the abortion.

From my observation this girl posses some good qualities of a wife material..but I don't really know if she was just a victim of circumstances that pushed her to got pregnant two times..she wrote her final exams 3years ago but due to that incident that happened in her first year she wasn't able to defend her project.

Pls I need your advice as I have not been able to think right is getting to couple of months I have been on this thought.

faceLAGOS:
I just don’t know why.

I can’t marry a nonvirgin.

I know if I’m able to hustle enough money before or early 40, I will settle for a very young virgin.

I don’t mind gromming her.

Buhari4sale:
Hmmmm

This should be the past op is talking about