[color=#990000][/color]At your age, you should be able to speak the truth to your mum and of course your sis from religion point of view or life experiences.
You're 20 years of age, don't tell me you're young. you're an adult.

I don't know your religion though as a muslim who I am, I will tell you this. it's revealed in the Holy Quran to the Prophet Muhammed, SAW, that the key to the door to Paradise for a wife is at the foot of his husband.

Also, the key to the door to Paradise for a child is at the foot of his or her mum. So, don't beat or disrespect your mum.

Lessons: A wife should not disrespect his husband and a child shouldn't disrespect his or parent(s).

Don't be scared to to tell your mum that there will be consequences for what she's doing to your dad on her and on her children, especially you as a male child, because you'll get married later in life.

Tell her that what will it be her reaction, if in the future you get married and your wife is maltreating like that?

Tell her that you're psychological down because of the way she treats your dad and you don't know what might happen to you, if the act continues from her. Also, tell her when you think about what she always did to your dad, you always cried when you're alone.

Believe me, your mum would react by telling you that, are you okay? are you alright? Even she might want to use offence words or curse you, don't be scared that is normal. Just be assertive and don't disrespect or insult her.

By the time she's alone and thinks about what you tell her, that guilty conscience will catch her and probably she'll change for better.

If you're a Christian or a Muslim, inform your Imam or Pastor, if this persists. Be good.

BirtherOfKings:


Sounds made-up.. anyway pray for your parents.dont take sides too

The woman in the compound over my fence is much worse.
Her husband don leave her. But no day passes that she doesn't insult him.
She's a bitter, terrible woman.

The OP's story might not be made up.

ahnie:

Hahahahahaha
God rest his soul

Yeah
Sorry where are you chatting from if I may ask,I mean which state?

Blacksavage:

Yeah
Sorry where are you chatting from if I may ask,I mean which state?

U.s.a

daboy18:
My 16 years old sister left the house since Christmas eve only to be returned yesterday evening at 11pm , my dad was very angry he promised to deal with her in a way she will never forget throughout her life , my mum said he shouldn't or else they will be war.

When the girl returned my dad asks where she was and she was busy chewing gums and turning her eyes like she was having epepilsy seizure my mum was shouting at him to leave her alone but my dad hit her omg the slapped sound it still haunting me.

It was my first time seeing my dad being a man of the house that he is supposed to be long time ago and I was so proud of him but that didn't last long when my mum slapped my dad back and they started fighting omg .

She beat him up my dad is not strong cus of diabetes she locked him outside saying if I dare to open the door for him she will locked me out too.

I quietly went inside my room crying and I left the house early morning to go and look for my dad he is actually at his elder brother place he says he will not return back.

I feel sorry for him and I have sworn to never marry a woman like my mum she doesn't deserve the titled wife or mother and as for my sister she is cursed for disrespecting dad and the time she will realize her mistakes it will be too late for her.

I wish my dad a long life so I will over pamper him when I become rich, I am only 20 and one day I will make him proud.

Please don't let your mum kill your dad, please I beg you.... Don't leave your dad alone, stay with him inside or outside... Don't allow him out alone and make sure you don't allow her beat your dad eve again, you are 20 years God's sake.

dumahi:
This is a difficult situation. Boy, I'm sorry I have to say this: Since your Dad is sick, BECOME THE MAN OF THE HOUSE. This is because, obviously, your mom isn't wise and will ruin that family if allowed to remain so.

Since you're so wise, I'll give you this tip (not for fools): Every woman will respect you if you show her manly strength with righteous anger. So do this: Next time your Mom treats your Dad this way just because he is unwell, BEAT YOUR MOM AND WOUND HER, and warn her as follows: "Don't ever disrespect MY Dad again. If you don't respect MY Dad who is YOUR husband, then, you deserve no respect from your son". After that, become very stubborn to her until she begs you to stop.

If she starts respecting your Dad, start respecting her.

don't answer this person o. If she doesn't bath you with acid while you are sleeping then she would make sure she poison you to death. Just be prayerful and work hard to succeed in life and keep pretending to love her so she can still invest a little in your education, then when you make it just ditch her for one corner.

ahnie:

U.s.a

See cruise which part of Nigeria dear

Blacksavage:


See cruise which part of Nigeria dear

Cruise ke?

ahnie:

Cruise ke?

I thought you were joking,well if it's true
Nice meeting you though

Blacksavage:

I thought you were joking,well if it's true
Nice meeting you though

You too.
United state of asaba(u.s.a)
My pleasure

ahnie:

You too.
United state of asaba(u.s.a)
My pleasure

Omo you burn me up
Sorry can I have your number?
You can message me privately

Blacksavage:




Omo you burn me up
Sorry can I have your number?
You can message me privately

Don't worry,thanks for the fun.
Take care and thnks for the laughs.

I don't even know my number off hearts,so no need for it.

Do have a splendid night.
Bye

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Don't worry,thanks for the fun.
Take care and thnks for the laughs.

I don't even know my number off hearts,so no need for it.

Do have a splendid night.
Bye[/quote]
You too

Eluala:


Unfortunately your dad's apparent inability to be the man of the house has affected you too in a negative way. A sheep can't raise a lion. Your chance at survival is that you have to get more adventurous, wipe out what you learned from your father, go out there and seek education on how to be a man. Teach and groom yourself to be what your father could not be.

Your mother did not just beat your father because he is weak from diabetes, she has already beat him and been beating him psychologically for a very long time. Trust me there is a reason other animals are still afraid of an old, sick and even wounded lion. It's a mind thing and if a man fails to be the man in the manner God has assigned the duty to him as the king lion, the head of the pride, then hyenas like your mother will fill the role.

At 20 I could imagine myself and the things I could do, the decisions I could take. At 17 I was already bold and big enough mentally to live a lone in a different town from my parents, yet I was in SS3. At 17 there were tough decisions I took despite all efforts by my father to impose his choice on me. He eventually had no choice but to respect my emergence a a man of my own. At 20 I was already way into my undergrad studies, the question of my parents disrespecting me was not even contemplated. You are 20 and from the way you wrote, you seem helpless. You need to start being a man by standing up to your mother in a way that she could understand that you are not afraid of losing anything she thinks she could offer or withhold from you. You father did not do it, that's why your mother has the guts to beat him up and dare him to do his worst, which is perhaps cry like you did. If you want it be respected, you have to earn it and trust me it is not served a la carte. When you are ready to be the man, then you will realize that you run decisions with your head, more that your heart and if you need to physically teach your mother a few lessons, the man in you will do it. For now, I can only hear a boy speaking like a child. '''My mother my mother''.

What you wrote above tells me you are still a 20 year old child. Grow up, else your condition will be worse than your father's.

You must have really beaten and wounded your mum at 17. Right?

Ona no dey ever get sense... So the only way to man up is to go physical with your woman... Like you have no alternative...

Kids in adult's body...

Tueh!

Parents have no right to beat children. Just as parents should not quarrel in front of their children

daboy18:



Hmmm beating my mum never i cannot try that , not even in my dream sorry this your advice is not good

Until she kill your father one day , may be soon. Just do something hard to make her stop hitting your dad. Remember he is sick.

Dshocker:


You want to be friends with his dad, like wtf?

What's wrong with being friends with someone going through a difficult time. I bet u 23

I always say this, family is important,but I can't kill myself for family...if I were u, I'll do everything possible to leave that house for my sanity, I will not even care about my mother and sister again, when their head is correct they will come find me...see eh this life , everybody must run him/ her own race...the only family I can die for are my direct children....

ahnie:
You're still getting it all muddled up.
The girl and the mum are business partners,just that the mum is the dormant partner.shes the one leasing the girl out,she compensates her with cash n goodies.
The op on the other hand,should leave that house for good and stay far from the crazy mother.hes old enough to go out n hustle,instead of bn parasitic on his mum who obviously is the bread winner.

The father on the other hand also needs to leave that house before he's beaten to death
Make he go pinch tent for village

just shutup if u have nothing reasonable to say, how's a 20 years old leaving with his parents a parasite to his mum, are u ok...I just hate women like u, u are trying to make excises for that heartless woman...tufia!

Iasisi69:
why you dey attack men Everytime ?

omo eh, I just hate the lady...she still get mind de play mind games, de give subtle excuse for the devilish woman...omo nawa o....this kind ppl self.

ahnie:

He just shown you how he treats his parents at home.
You cud decipher he's obviously still bn fed by his parents,he go don beat his mama get k-legs,that's if e Neva beat her die.

Bahahahahahahahahahahahhahhahahabababahahah

daboy18:
My 16 years old sister left the house since Christmas eve only to be returned yesterday evening at 11pm , my dad was very angry he promised to deal with her in a way she will never forget throughout her life , my mum said he shouldn't or else they will be war.

When the girl returned my dad asks where she was and she was busy chewing gums and turning her eyes like she was having epepilsy seizure my mum was shouting at him to leave her alone but my dad hit her omg the slapped sound it still haunting me.

It was my first time seeing my dad being a man of the house that he is supposed to be long time ago and I was so proud of him but that didn't last long when my mum slapped my dad back and they started fighting omg .

She beat him up my dad is not strong cus of diabetes she locked him outside saying if I dare to open the door for him she will locked me out too.

I quietly went inside my room crying and I left the house early morning to go and look for my dad he is actually at his elder brother place he says he will not return back.

I feel sorry for him and I have sworn to never marry a woman like my mum she doesn't deserve the titled wife or mother and as for my sister she is cursed for disrespecting dad and the time she will realize her mistakes it will be too late for her.

I wish my dad a long life so I will over pamper him when I become rich, I am only 20 and one day I will make him proud.

tId you so much l9ve your wife then be the man that he was not. Stand up to ur mother don't insult or beat her but challenge her but she refuses if possible you and ur dad Leave the house for Her make she no go beat your papa die

daboy18:
My 16 years old sister left the house since Christmas eve only to be returned yesterday evening at 11pm , my dad was very angry he promised to deal with her in a way she will never forget throughout her life , my mum said he shouldn't or else they will be war.

When the girl returned my dad asks where she was and she was busy chewing gums and turning her eyes like she was having epepilsy seizure my mum was shouting at him to leave her alone but my dad hit her omg the slapped sound it still haunting me.

It was my first time seeing my dad being a man of the house that he is supposed to be long time ago and I was so proud of him but that didn't last long when my mum slapped my dad back and they started fighting omg .

She beat him up my dad is not strong cus of diabetes she locked him outside saying if I dare to open the door for him she will locked me out too.

I quietly went inside my room crying and I left the house early morning to go and look for my dad he is actually at his elder brother place he says he will not return back.

I feel sorry for him and I have sworn to never marry a woman like my mum she doesn't deserve the titled wife or mother and as for my sister she is cursed for disrespecting dad and the time she will realize her mistakes it will be too late for her.

I wish my dad a long life so I will over pamper him when I become rich, I am only 20 and one day I will make him proud.

You are 20. How can you be this clueless?

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BirtherOfKings:


Sounds made-up.. anyway pray for your parents.dont take sides too

Are you that stup*d? He shouldn't take sides because he is a teenager and doesn't know what is going on? What a stup*d comment

dumahi:
This is a difficult situation. Boy, I'm sorry I have to say this: Since your Dad is sick, BECOME THE MAN OF THE HOUSE. This is because, obviously, your mom isn't wise and will ruin that family if allowed to remain so.

Since you're so wise, I'll give you this tip (not for fools): Every woman will respect you if you show her manly strength with righteous anger. So do this: Next time your Mom treats your Dad this way just because he is unwell, BEAT YOUR MOM AND WOUND HER, and warn her as follows: "Don't ever disrespect MY Dad again. If you don't respect MY Dad who is YOUR husband, then, you deserve no respect from your son". After that, become very stubborn to her until she begs you to stop.

If she starts respecting your Dad, start respecting her.

That was too harsh. How could you tell a son to disrespect his mom? That has no iota of intelligence. The best thing to do is to understand and respect his dad's decision. Stay far away fr such woman and try to live a better life without her. Any woman that can beat her husband is automatically cheating on him likewise the husband that beats his wife.

They should flee from the woman and try to be good where ever they are.

daboy18:
My 16 years old sister left the house since Christmas eve only to be returned yesterday evening at 11pm , my dad was very angry he promised to deal with her in a way she will never forget throughout her life , my mum said he shouldn't or else they will be war.

When the girl returned my dad asks where she was and she was busy chewing gums and turning her eyes like she was having epepilsy seizure my mum was shouting at him to leave her alone but my dad hit her omg the slapped sound it still haunting me.

It was my first time seeing my dad being a man of the house that he is supposed to be long time ago and I was so proud of him but that didn't last long when my mum slapped my dad back and they started fighting omg .

She beat him up my dad is not strong cus of diabetes she locked him outside saying if I dare to open the door for him she will locked me out too.

I quietly went inside my room crying and I left the house early morning to go and look for my dad he is actually at his elder brother place he says he will not return back.

I feel sorry for him and I have sworn to never marry a woman like my mum she doesn't deserve the titled wife or mother and as for my sister she is cursed for disrespecting dad and the time she will realize her mistakes it will be too late for her.

I wish my dad a long life so I will over pamper him when I become rich, I am only 20 and one day I will make him proud.

I guess your mom is the bread winner for the family abi??

Won ti doh idi e ya.

BirtherOfKings:


Sounds made-up.. anyway pray for your parents.dont take sides too

I can't give u enough middle finger emoji ���������

It would be fascinating to see how your brain works. Do you know how big ONLY Nigeria is? Do you think over 200 Million Nigerians' home are well and striving?

Sad and non-functional brain cells. Sorry, but Season greetings to you though

So you're advising him to solve violence with violence, what if she kills him?

I mean he's her son and she has the right to do whatever she wants with him, even if it means killing him if he's going to use violence on her, since she brought him to this world after all... Don't forget that after beating her up, he's still going to eat her food as she's the one who cooks in the house, she could spike his food with poison.

And if you ask me, a child that beats up his or her mother doesn't deserve to live and children should never involve themselves in their parents issues.

He could also end up killing her during the process of beating her up.

dumahi:
This is a difficult situation. Boy, I'm sorry I have to say this: Since your Dad is sick, BECOME THE MAN OF THE HOUSE. This is because, obviously, your mom isn't wise and will ruin that family if allowed to remain so.

Since you're so wise, I'll give you this tip (not for fools): Every woman will respect you if you show her manly strength with righteous anger. So do this: Next time your Mom treats your Dad this way just because he is unwell, BEAT YOUR MOM AND WOUND HER, and warn her as follows: "Don't ever disrespect MY Dad again. If you don't respect MY Dad who is YOUR husband, then, you deserve no respect from your son". After that, become very stubborn to her until she begs you to stop.

If she starts respecting your Dad, start respecting her.

Samantha123:
So you're advising him to solve violence with violence, what if she kills him?

I mean he's her son and she has the right to do whatever she wants with him, even if it means killing him if he's going to use violence on her, since she brought him to this world after all... Don't forget that after beating her up, he's still going to eat her food as she's the one who cooks in the house, she could spike his food with poison.

And if you ask me, a child that beats up his or her mother doesn't deserve to live and children should never involve themselves in their parents issues.

He could also end up killing her during the process of beating her up.

You ended up not saying anything.Seems you are insupport of the mother and sister because no word of caution from you to them?

You haven't answered my questions, what if she kills him? will you then come out and take responsibility for inciting violence against his mother in the first place?

Or what if he kills her? Will you take responsibility for initiating that he beats her up? Because you'll be seen as an accomplice.

Justbehave:
You ended up not saying anything.Seems you are insupport of the mother and sister because no word of caution from you to them?