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Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by HellVictorinho6(m): 4:29pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Honestly, I can't do anything about it. All of them have said their minds so let the worst happen. |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by etrange: 4:29pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
The father didn't handle the conversation well. He can't have it both ways. He talked to the kid as if he was an adult and the kid replied as an angry grown up man (I'm assuming he's a teen). This idea of upsetting our children and then calling them disrespectful when they get pissed is just ridiculous. Heck... the child was even playing the adult role by trying to explain to him that his issues with thier mum shouldn't affect thier relationship, but the pop was behaving like the teenager. So he shouldn't complain when he's addressed as one. 8 Likes |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by ThothHermes: 4:31pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
PoliteActivist:You dey do sarcasm with your papa? 3 Likes |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by Nobody: 4:32pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
KingLennon: Those thunderous slaps from our mums would have thrown your brain into reset. Slap that would mute you for 10 seconds, before you start crying, and when you start, you will be changing gears cry and finally end up vomiting. Indomie generation kids would never understand. |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by Kobojunkie: 4:32pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Guyman01:This is Rubbish reasoning you offer up here. If you were not able to meet up on promises because your company has been downsized why not tell thr kids the truth? Why think them fools and make up stupid lies or completely ignore them when telling them the truth can even endear them towards you and help them see that life is not always golden? 4 Likes |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by Kobojunkie: 4:33pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Crestine:Too bold to conclude? |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by freeman67: 4:34pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Killbillz: Let's not assume it's always women poisoning mind children's overtime. Most times action speaks louder than words. One can not always justify not tending to his offsprings with flimsy excuses like your mama made me mad, then later in life if the child is successful he will now want to come and be entitled to a part of his success. No matter how a woman try to poison a child's mind, unless the man is cut off completely there is no way the child won't remember the little things he does for him/her. The only area I see in that conversation is the tone both of them used. I will assume the dad did know better too. The son should have been more respectful who else is to teach him? From the look of things the mother cherish anyhowness too. She is happy the boy is on her side instead communicating respectfully or she trying to instill some good manners in him. 6 Likes |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by Kobojunkie: 4:34pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
SeriouslySense:Did you read at all? The father fed the boy a stupid lie pretending him a fool in all and you think more respect is what he needs to give his parents? 2 Likes |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by Kobojunkie: 4:35pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Mandesz:The boy is yahoo for wanting a present his father promised him? 2 Likes |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by Goalnaldo(m): 4:35pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
I saved this SS two days ago
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Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by Kobojunkie: 4:36pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
gasparpisciotta:Wow.... you must think yourself smart, right! 2 Likes |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by PoliteActivist: 4:36pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
ThothHermes: If he just told you your mum, who is the only one there for you, is no good. And that he'd bring your overdue Christmas present only "when I'm free"! 1 Like |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by Richy4(m): 4:36pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
PoliteActivist:Assuming that in the course of their conversation the father asked him to call him someday and he said that, I would have said he was being sarcastic... His father putting a call through to him and him, ignoring the calls and makes such remarks changed the narrative in my opinion 1 Like |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by Kobojunkie: 4:37pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Cantonese:Rude in what sense? The foolish father, rather than own up to his fault decided to use the mother as deviation and you believe that makes the boy a rude boy?. 2 Likes |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by benqo01(m): 4:37pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
HARDLY DO U SEE A MAN POISONING THE MIND OF CHILDREN'S AGAINST THE MOTHER,BUT YOU SEE 99% OF WOMEN DO THIS ALOT SERIOUSLY I FIND THAT VERY SILLY 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by Kobojunkie: 4:37pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
PoliteActivist:I think he went away to cry! 1 Like |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by Drella(m): 4:38pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
LadySarah: That's how Afro Americans talk. |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by Streetmovement(m): 4:38pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Wotoporiously speaking Right from when I opened this thread I knew it was gonna be black Americans their kids are very madly outspoken due to the exposure of their culture and their kind of environment and parents... there's no smoke without a fire. They all got it wrong on their own part *The mother, father, and the kid. The mother should teach the kids to respect both parents irrespective of the circumstances that surrounds em...but she failed *The father should learn to put his children first and ignore every topic that looks like a war flames when dealing with the kids...bringing em mum's up in their conversation was a wrong move on his part. *The kid is probably too expose and cajoled by the things he see happening around him and more so he doesn't know which side to stand, considering the fact he's probably staying with the mum, she must have fed him with bad information concerning his dad....wetin the boy dey pick from two of them na wetin he dey exhibit so 1 Like |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by Antyxx: 4:38pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
What a brave child. Gifting is a normal thing in western world and I understand how hurt the child would have been. Seeing his friends dad give them different gifts but this useless of his father is looking for excuses up and down. If i were that child, I would never speak with such father again. I trust myself,at age 13, I would not take shit 3 Likes |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by Kobojunkie: 4:39pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
PoliteActivist:ROFLMAO I think he probably went away to cry too. 1 Like |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by castrokins(m): 4:41pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Looks Like What The Mom Wrote And Not The Boy. And Since He's So Mature He Should Have Answered The Damn Phone. Of Course, He Couldn't Answer Cos Phone Was With Mom. 3 Likes |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by VEHINTOLAR: 4:41pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Guyman01: The only sensible comment I have read so far ! You're a wise man,may God bless you and replace your lost job with a better one. 2 Likes |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by Guyman01: 4:42pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
LadySarah: What happened to the petition signed by thousands of Nigerians against British government? |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by Connoisseur(m): 4:42pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Richy4: Irresponsibility begets disrespect 1 Like |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by occfx: 4:46pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Foodqueen: Single mothers are the most toxic women in Nigeria especially if they are not rich. The rich ones manages to play feminist but the average and poor ones are dangerous. Again they train their kids badly. 1 Like |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by MansoryMX(m): 4:47pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
From what the father said, their mom isn't a peaceful person but violent and she is responsible for this show of shame! Thinking anyone gives a fvxk about her and her kids or her kids daddy. Nobody fvxking care woman! If you can't create a peaceful home, don't disturb us with your family issues. We all have ours. 1 Like |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by Antyxx: 4:47pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
VEHINTOLAR:Both of you are stu*pid and dum*b. Sometimes I wonder where you guys are from, where in the conversation does the child say deadbeat? Or how does the conversation have to do with the mum? A child was asking his father for his Christmas gift, which on the norm, he doesn't need to ask, but the useless father gave excuses and brought his exwife into the conversation. Yet,in your dumb skull, the mum tutored the child, how? Is it the mum that told the useless father not to get his child gift? I pity the fools that marry your type 3 Likes |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by SeriouslySense(m): 4:49pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Maybe i am wrong, because i do not fully understand what went on, but from my experience as a kid, i notice parents may act poorly, and it helps to calm them down. when they are calm they are able to perhaps act better. How did you react to your parents as a kid, when they acted poorly, perhaps , your parents were the perfect model. The father will be a bit agitated, his kids acting like another adult, he should understand his child and act more appropriately. Kobojunkie: |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by dominique(f): 4:50pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Goalnaldo: Very dumb opinion from a retarded piclmesha. What efforts did the father make to bond with his child(ren)? There's no way a father can make efforts to get across to their children that the children won't know, it's highly impossible! So basically a father can abandon his kids for the best part of their formative years then when the kids grown they should reach out to ask why he stayed away? That nonsense! The kind of rubbish you men justify can be so nauseating 4 Likes |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by tbambam: 4:50pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
ExAngel007: Y'll saying the kid is right don't know how manipulative some mother's could be . They have been turning their kids to their fathers days immemorial and it's still happening till today. What if the man comes out and say the mother's involvement in these disrespect? Its amazing how no once called the mother out for disrespecting the father of his kids publicly by posting this online.. I mean it's their family problem , why post this online.. well it will boomerang on her because the internet never forgets. When women fail in logic , they turn into emotions , coercing through anger which will definitely burn their fingers later on.. guess what their excusee will be after burnt finger? "I don't know what came over me" 1 Like |
Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by occfx: 4:51pm On Dec 29, 2022 |
Slynation: No be small otele. Nigeria and inferiority complex. I hate any I to know person. 1 Like |
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