joeeee240:


This is not a good issue to have. If you notice green light, act on it and make the approach. And fùck her

You'll need the experience

I've lose many girls, like uncountable girls by not approaching...
Some even went to hate me and even call me girls and weak...

My only problem is not knowing when to approach...

Ahuitzotl:
Just went through your story and I can relate. You're not alone because we all wished to have known the redpill before breakfast time, but as they say "half a loaf is better than none" and who knows? This half loaf could be the part where you get to live the best of your life...What would you give to live the best of your life? An arm? A leg? A broken heart?? A dozen of those? Some people aren't that lucky as you to reach this epiphany....Others will live and die ignorant of the dynamics at play and suffer for it....You get to eat your cake and have it...cheer up..

Yeah. I've long resolved to make a feast out of the half-loaf. Thanks

joeeee240:



Ah yes. Welcome to the journey of the red pill. Dont worry, many men have walked the same path before you. And many will walk after you.

Every man passes through these 3 stages; blue pill to red pill to silent skilled seducer.

The first part of your journey starts when you take the red pill. For most people, it's a heart break. For some, it's losing out on a girl. For some, a bitter divorce. But whatever your reason, the best thing that can happen to a man is take the red pill.

The second part of your journey is the new world the red pill exposes. Like in the movie the matrix, you're exposed to the ugly truths of female nature. The lies, deceits and manipulation. How you can never be loved unconditionally by a woman except your mum. How as man, you must improve or perish.

The second part is the most painful. Filled with anger, rage, self pity, hopelessness. If you're not careful, it might break you.


The third part of your journey which you are yet to enter is finding a way to make the red pill work for you NOT against you.


Your specific situation

While it's bad to brag about the wealth, the opposite which is self pity or self deprecation is just as worse.

Try not to be condescending about your financial situation. You can say your broke without acting out of self pity. Lead with your vibe, personality and charisma. Girls love this more than anything


As for attitude from girls, there are two things that might be the cause:

1) you act rude or give her attitude and then she gives it back. Remember girls mirror the vibe you give off.

2) She was testing you. In this case, the worst thing you can do is to be reactive. You're meant to act unphased. This doesn't mean tolerate disrespect. But if she is testing you, dont get all angry and butt hurt or cut her off.

Hold your frame, pass the test and watch her attraction for you increase

BRO PLS DO U HAVE D MATRIX MOVIE

ALL THOSE LIES, DECEIT N MANIPULATION I WANT TO WATCH D MOVIE

Seandisputed:

Little does he know it doesn't work that way.
He must be having serious esteem issues.

And the lady just made it worst.

He might end up hating on women if he continues like that.

He needs a serious red pill orientation.

Many guys misinterpret RedPill as men who hates women, when you try explaining to them that it gives you control over the other gender actions, you can't be easily manipulated by women once you have a dose of the RedPill in you.

Many movies have lied to them, especially naija love movies.

traware:

Andrew Tate is loud,abrasive and obnoxious.The complete opposite of what a redpiller should be.
Personally,i believe all he does is parrot some redpill and even some white nationalist talking points just to sell his Hustlers University course and make money off young,impressionable men.
The fact that he is has become so popular among so many young men displays the alarming lack of masculine male role models in the world today especially in the west.
His tweet to the 19year old environmentalist Greta Thurnberg a few days ago showed how pathetic he really is.
A 36year old man trying his best to validate himself to and seek for the attention of a 19year old basic Becky.

I highly disagree with you but everybody thinking is different you either like or dislike him your choice.

Olayinka8793:
I know the world is unfair, but that unfairness gets even more pronounced and more brutal against people with disabilities like me.

For clarification, my disability is hearing loss in both ears, but I speak fluently and communicate by lip reading (not sign language). I work as a barber with my own salon.

If complete bodied men could suffer the consequences of simping, one wonders what the fate of disabled guys like me would be in the hands of these jezebellic daughters of Eve.

I have really suffered materially in my last two fake relationships.

I have followed the red pilled thread from the beginning (no jokes), taking in its enlightening truth and exposition to the brutal realities of the dating game, and not once was a sentence related to redpill truth was dedicated to the disabled guys out there. This thread seems to have a blantant assumption that all the men who comes across its truths are complete bodied and suffer no disability.

Much as I respect Ubunja, I resent him for not fulfilling his promise to delve into writing liberating redpill truths that focus on the disabled. Only thegidredpiller has taken his time to personally look into my matter, and his advice centered on working to continue to build and improve myself ( worthy advice but I need to get laid, body no be wood, but I haven't been so far able to get a bf to satisfy my desires, only demonic girls attracted to my money and dumping me without seeing their pants)

Please note that by mentioning disabled, I mean guys whose disabilities hasn't prevent them from living a normal productive life, not limited by their disabilities.

Dear Ubunja, does that greenlight, chosen stuff also applies to we disabled but productive guys? Because as your teaching says, chasing girls is a wrong approach that usually ends up in us getting used as we try to win her over.

hey, I do remember our talk last time. But writing for people in your situation will not be easy cause I don't have too many real life cases to draw from. But I haven't totally forgot about it.

traware:

Andrew Tate is loud,abrasive and obnoxious.The complete opposite of what a redpiller should be.
Personally,i believe all he does is parrot some redpill and even some white nationalist talking points just to sell his Hustlers University course and make money off young,impressionable men.
The fact that he is has become so popular among so many young men displays the alarming lack of masculine male role models in the world today especially in the west.
His tweet to the 19year old environmentalist Greta Thurnberg a few days ago showed how pathetic he really is.
A 36year old man trying his best to validate himself to and seek for the attention of a 19year old basic Becky.

That's a long and fancy way of saying that he was simply trolling her

traware:

Andrew Tate is loud,abrasive and obnoxious.The complete opposite of what a redpiller should be.
Personally,i believe all he does is parrot some redpill and even some white nationalist talking points just to sell his Hustlers University course and make money off young,impressionable men.
The fact that he is has become so popular among so many young men displays the alarming lack of masculine male role models in the world today especially in the west.
His tweet to the 19year old environmentalist Greta Thurnberg a few days ago showed how pathetic he really is.
A 36year old man trying his best to validate himself to and seek for the attention of a 19year old basic Becky.

I may not disagree with your description of the man but that is less of my concern. His recent scuffle with the kid is clear transgression of law 5.

Also, when in such position in the hierarchy, it is wise to select one's battles. A nonentity could attack a famous person and if the famous person engages, he gives the nonentity unmerited relevance making the nonentity equally famous. (I believe this was also described by Greene).

His engagement with the kid cost him his reputation and gave her more relevance.

Real life manifestation of the things we read. I hope say we dey learn sha.

BentizilL:

Pls chief can you explain what's written on that second picture...
I don't grab it..

Women will shit test you to know what kind of man are you
She will know If you are a Player or desperate looser after the shit test
There is a common phrase in game
" Fake it till you make it" this is the mindset of the player
They use it to win the heart of women
Player knows how to master the Game that's why they have many options they are more attractive to women

Unlike beginners in the GAME trying hard to impress her
walking on eggshell
Afraid of hurting her feeling
Running out of what to say

Tombrown3:


And the lady just made it worst.

He might end up hating on women if he continues like that.

He needs a serious red pill orientation.

Many guys misinterpret RedPill as men who hates women, when you try explaining to them that it gives you control over the other gender actions, you can't be easily manipulated by women once you have a dose of the RedPill in you.

Many movies have lied to them, especially naija love movies.

There are some things that you're not even supposed to even do whether you have redpill knowledge or not. More than half of what is in the redpill is just something you're to know if you're really sensible and have self respect as a guy.

Reach me on WhatsApp bruv.
Anyway I can help you out, I will.

It's well with you.

Olayinka8793:
Alright bro. I understand you.

Oxxx xxxx xxxx

Pukkalolo:


The write up wasn't about women.

Exactly. It's was more related to accomplishing dreams than women even. Focus, be determined and most importantly improve and the world will be in your palm.
People don't know how important improving by 1% everyday seems. In a world where most people are on a fast lane to destruction. Improving by 1% is a great development.

YxCEc2kUDRp2RWy:

That's a long and fancy way of saying that he was simply trolling her

Trolling her?Andrew was flirting with her.
His tweet was no different than a teenage boy or a man who is inexperienced with women approaching a woman and telling her his lambo is parked outside or he knows a famous person or he is packing 9 inches in his trouser

Someoneschild2:



I may not disagree with your description of the man but that is less of my concern. His recent scuffle with the kid is clear transgression of law 5.

Also, when in such position in the hierarchy, it is wise to select one's battles. A nonentity could attack a famous person and if the famous person engages, he gives the nonentity unmerited relevance making the nonentity equally famous. (I believe this was also described by Greene).

His engagement with the kid cost him his reputation and gave her more relevance.

Real life manifestation of the things we read. I hope say we dey learn sha.

I hate the description but she owned him with her tweet
That tweet is now in the top 10 most liked tweets in the history of twitter

traware:

Trolling her?Andrew was flirting with her.
His tweet was no different than a teenage boy or a man who is inexperienced with women approaching a woman and telling her his lambo is parked outside or he knows a famous person or he is packing 9 inches in his trouser

BULLSH*T!

Greta is the highest profile climate activist on the planet.

Tate took a potshot as influencers regularly do to boost his brand. Greta used the BDE meme astutely and that's all there is to it.

The investigation into Tate has been going on for months. He already shared on December 25th that he was in Romania. The Romanians arrested him over his cam girl business. That's public knowledge. He's openly admitted he first became really rich from being a p*mp.

Greta is not sexually appealing by any beauty standard in the known universe, so your postulation is sh*t.

And I say this as someone who is not a fan of his.

You can come at him with many criticisms; but to say he is inexperienced with women is obnoxious capping.

If you feel say e sure you, go convince girl to run cam and collect commission from her sweat; make you chop slap. Hate with sense!

-Lord

LordAdam16:
BULLSH*T!

Greta is the highest profile climate activist on the planet.

Tate took a potshot as influencers regularly do to boost his brand. Greta used the BDE meme astutely and that's all there is to it.

The investigation into Tate has been going on for months. He already shared on December 25th that he was in Romania. The Romanians arrested him over his cam girl business. That's public knowledge. He's openly admitted he first became really rich from being a p*mp.

Greta is not sexually appealing by any beauty standard in the known universe, so your postulation is sh*t.

And I say this as someone who is not a fan of his.

You can come at him with many criticisms; but to say he is inexperienced with women is obnoxious capping.

If you feel say e sure you, go convince girl to run cam and collect commission from her sweat; make you chop slap. Hate with sense!

-Lord

I am surprised people are giving that dipstick their time and energy.

LordAdam16:


BULLSH*T!

Greta is the highest profile climate activist on the planet.

Tate took a potshot as influencers regularly do to boost his brand. Greta used the BDE meme astutely and that's all there is to it.

The investigation into Tate has been going on for months. He already shared on December 25th that he was in Romania. The Romanians arrested him over his cam girl business. That's public knowledge. He's openly admitted he first became really rich from being a p*mp.

Greta is not sexually appealing by any beauty standard in the known universe, so your postulation is sh*t.

And I say this as someone who is not a fan of his.

You can come at him with many criticisms; but to say he is inexperienced with women is obnoxious capping.

If you feel say e sure you, go convince girl to run cam and collect commission from her sweat; make you chop slap. Hate with sense!

-Lord

1.Greta Thurnberg is physically unattractive to you and i maybe but not to millions around the world.She is white isnt she?That is good enough for hundreds of million of people

2.What is Andrew's MO apart from bragging about his cars and how rich he is?What sort of women does that attract to a man?High value women or gold diggers?

3.As for the Romanian authourities and Andrew's human trafficking brouhaha,i could careless because the less i see of Mr Peanut head with no chin,the better

Olayinka8793:
Thanks buddy. I appreciate it.
Your number has been saved, you can erase it now if you wish.
I will reach out to you soon as I gets less busy with barbing customers

You have a great super power that most people don't have. You can lip read! Trust me....you are even more able than I am. You have a SUPERPOWER!

Do you know sign language too? I tried learning this a while back...but didn't get round to it.

Trust me....if you are dedicated to your business....you dress well....you make money....and you learn to relate well with oopposite sex without giving your MEAT...your self confidence will improve and you will get laid.

The first thing is for you to see yourself as normal (even with hearing loss). Then learn to converse with the opposite sex in a confident manner without giving them your money in exchange.

Overtime...some ladies will find you appealing enough to lay with because you are smart...hardworking...make your own money and you have your life all together.

As blind as Cobham (music producer) is....there are many ladies that would date him again if he becomes single again.

I saw Cobhams in Oregun many yrs back. Dude was driving latest Toyota Land cruiser and his PA was with him. That PA later became his wife. Granted they have a child who is blind...but ...he is married.

Finally...May I ask...have you seen a consultant audiologist to check if you can benefit from specialised hearing aids?

I am rooting for you Bro!

Martinez39s:
I am surprised people are giving that dipstick their time and energy.

Careful Martinez,i have been on this forum since 2014 and been redpilled since 2013
You seem to have become arrogant,insultive and big headed.A far cry from how i remember you

And you still divorced him, I swear marriage this days naa just jollof party.

traware:

1.Greta Thurnberg is physically unattractive to you and i maybe but not to millions around the world.She is white isnt she?That is good enough for hundreds of million of people

2.What is Andrew's MO apart from bragging about his cars and how rich he is?What sort of women does that attract to a man?High value women or gold diggers?

3.As for the Romanian authourities and Andrew's human trafficking brouhaha,i could careless because the less i see of Mr Peanut head with no chin,the better

You're talking rubbìsh. He wasn't flirting with her. Greta is incredibly unattractive.

His money, clout and status attracts all types of women from all works of life. It's basic economics

Lots of fake wannabe red pillers on this thread with zero pvssy and zero game

traware:


The fact that he has become so popular among so many young men displays the alarming lack of masculine male role models in the world today especially in the west.

This here is a pure gold

Andrew is just like Dan bilzarian ... They fizzle over time the only smart of them is Kevin Samuel too bad they killed him. We only have Ben Shapiro left. God help E

Vulcanheph:

The annoying fact about the recent sequel , THE MATRIX RESURRECTION is the fact that they changed the whole storyline from the first three movies that evolved around NEO and gradually changed it to Trinity.

it was a complete disappointment. Almost all Hollywood movies now revolves around women. I stopped watching their stupid movies mostly any one that features Dwayne Johnson

joeeee240:


You're talking rubbìsh. He wasn't flirting with her. Greta is incredibly unattractive

His money, clout and status attracts all types of women from all works of life. It's basic economics

Believe it or not,Greta Thurnberg white skin adds to her attractiveness in many parts of the world including in the world a darker shade of skin brotha like Andrew Tate resides in

joeeee240:
Lots of fake wannabe red pillers on this thread with zero pvssy and zero game

Hello.Do you see the link below?That is the link to an iconic thread at the time created in November 2014 where i posted my views.
Back then,the term manosphere was neither widely used,researched on or even understood as it is today.

https://www.nairaland.com/1978856/seven-reasons-why-should-never

traware:

Believe it or not,Greta Thurnberg white skin adds to her attractiveness in many parts of the world including in the world a darker shade of skin brotha like Andrew Tate resides in

Bro that girl is UNATTRACTIVE. How low can you get to hate on Tate that you're willing to call her attractive