Fiscus105:




It seems you are not man enough for her in true sense.
If the girl talked about how she can be parasite to u all through and you never for once told her how she would start working and let her know that it's only her finger that cannot deceive her if truly she wants peace and ready to enjoy marriage.

You lack confident to tell her that,instead you chickened out but quickly rush gragra to faceless forum to bash every girls

For real
Well, This is expected. But I don't think you understand this write up at all

nicerod:


That's nice their mentality


I have met 2 nairalandrs like that before

Lol

Na your Aunty go cause am
maybe your aunty don make her see you as person wey dey desperate to find love

Iambro:
Na your Aunty go cause am
maybe your aunty don make her see you as person wey dey desperate to find love

To be honest, we were both desperate, but it changed when I saw what I never bargained for. My sister only gave me the number and expect me to do the needful. The truth is that, she seem classical than what I could do with

There are so many shameless girls around, she couldn't even hide her stupidity despite been introduced by a big sister

The next time you might see her she for done become full olosho

I admire your maturity, there's no need of talking to her physically

Fiscus105:




It seems you are not man enough for her in true sense.
If the girl talked about how she can be parasite to u all through and you never for once told her how she would start working and let her know that it's only her finger that cannot deceive her if truly she wants peace and ready to enjoy marriage.

You lack confident to tell her that,instead you chickened out but quickly rush gragra to faceless forum to bash every girls

What da fuuuck you saying niqqa

Fiscus105:



You see some can easily discuss with such GUYS because it's not yet step into shoe of boyfriend/husband, immediately they enter that ring of relationship, it becomes toxic.

May you not meet a lady who sees husband/boyfriend as DONKEY.

Amen

Ikennaford:

What da fuuuck you saying niqqa

Epp me ask am o, maybe he go tell u...

He didn't try to read the write up and understand it before jumping to judge the writer.

Dshocker:


Be fooling yourself....

Why the lies?

I didn't say it so you believe me because even if you come down to my ghetto in Delta, you still won't believe, I am only giving the OP some support.

According to baba fela “Run o”

If i was the one,i will size up to her taste,once i fu*k her like 5 times, i will begin to act broke.

All these girls that doesn't have sense need to be thought a bitter lesson, the expensive restaurant she wants you two to go to, trust me she can't pay for it. And she will never pay for it.

It one that even surprises me, is an ugly girl saying she wants to be taken care of, like you kidding me, you are not even fine, see your teeth like cowries and you looking for who will take care of you. .

She might not be extravagant, it's possible she's living a lifestyle she can afford which is not your own reality. Good that you left her

meedoLock:
So, there was this lady introduced to me by my aunty as a single guy, you know the African way of patronizing someone who is due for settling down. The general view is that you should settle down to be responsible.
So this babe is also single, just concluded her service year less than a year ago. She stays my big sister street, so my sister, haven't observed her for long, approached her, got her number and now she want me to be running her maybe something good might come out of it .
I was partially in support of it cos I like to kill my fish on my own, not the one killed for me' but out of love and respect, I collected the number and linked up with the babe on watsap asap.
To cut it short, she was also ready to have a serious relationship like. But our problems started first from her utterances on guys who are not financially bouyant, according to her, such man should not be giving a chance, she's also too logical to reason with, she uses an iPhone and want me an Android user to be servicing the sub.

She also doesn't want us to meet on a low-key, but all these expensive eateries. I was playing along for a while, until I found out it would amount in futility if taken to a higher levels.

One, I might not be able to be up to task to her extravagant life styles, and that would cut us short. However, we never really met, I do visit my sister and we see from distance but we act as if we don't know each other since she insist we meet on a classic mode.

I've already reduced our conversation and I guessed she also sensed the signal.
My take is that some babe I've refused to learn how to relate with guys, knowing what one's wants and what one's could get, not to think about themselves alone but others.

I'm not against ladies sizing up guys but if love and peace of mind is what you want, then you should stop being too materialistic.

I don't see myself dignifying you if you have refused to show me thesame gesture. Hence, my little observation about ladies getting too many affairs wrong. Some might say I'm not man enough but it's just that I'm a guy who doesn't play or toy with ladies feelings. No game irrespective of how you portray yourself to me, I go just free u before it go deeper....

Compliments to Nairalanders

Just run for ur Life. Na Jennyclay and Siofra dem type u just jam.

meedoLock:

Thanks, I will take this as a piece of advice

merci Monsieur...

Fiscus105:




It seems you are not man enough for her in true sense.
If the girl talked about how she can be parasite to u all through and you never for once told her how she would start working and let her know that it's only her finger that cannot deceive her if truly she wants peace and ready to enjoy marriage.

You lack confident to tell her that,instead you chickened out but quickly rush gragra to faceless forum to bash every girls

Calculative criticism

meedoLock:
So, there was this lady introduced to me by my aunty as a single guy, you know the African way of patronizing someone who is due for settling down. The general view is that you should settle down to be responsible.
So this babe is also single, just concluded her service year less than a year ago. She stays my big sister street, so my sister, haven't observed her for long, approached her, got her number and now she want me to be running her maybe something good might come out of it .
I was partially in support of it cos I like to kill my fish on my own, not the one killed for me' but out of love and respect, I collected the number and linked up with the babe on watsap asap.
To cut it short, she was also ready to have a serious relationship like. But our problems started first from her utterances on guys who are not financially bouyant, according to her, such man should not be giving a chance, she's also too logical to reason with, she uses an iPhone and want me an Android user to be servicing the sub.

She also doesn't want us to meet on a low-key, but all these expensive eateries. I was playing along for a while, until I found out it would amount in futility if taken to a higher levels.

One, I might not be able to be up to task to her extravagant life styles, and that would cut us short. However, we never really met, I do visit my sister and we see from distance but we act as if we don't know each other since she insist we meet on a classic mode.

I've already reduced our conversation and I guessed she also sensed the signal.
My take is that some babe I've refused to learn how to relate with guys, knowing what one's wants and what one's could get, not to think about themselves alone but others.

I'm not against ladies sizing up guys but if love and peace of mind is what you want, then you should stop being too materialistic.

I don't see myself dignifying you if you have refused to show me thesame gesture. Hence, my little observation about ladies getting too many affairs wrong. Some might say I'm not man enough but it's just that I'm a guy who doesn't play or toy with ladies feelings. No game irrespective of how you portray yourself to me, I go just free u before it go deeper....

Compliments to Nairalanders

Firstly op, wanting to meet you in an eatery doesn’t mean you’re going there to spend a fortune, get a drink for you both, it will cost you less than 5k. Abi where do you want to meet her? Your house? Bukka? For kiosk?

You also said she owns an iPhone and it would require you to sub for her, Chief na the same sub wey them Dey do for iPhone and android, in fact android consumes more data.

Lastly, your Aunty would not want you to date or marry her if she was promiscuous. They stay on the same street and she knows her better. Them don give you wife, go marry and stop making excuses

Hmmm.. men have cease to be men. So because she suggested eateries as meeting point, she's not reasonable? By the way, which eatery is not expensive nowadays? Ordinary buka, you'll still spend a reasonable amount of money to eat what you want. So I don't see that as her being too extravagant.

As for stating what she wants in a man, she has every right to choose her kind of man according to her taste and not settle for anything short of that just for the sake of it. That you don't measure up to her kind of man doesn't make her unreasonable. It's her choice. The beat you can do is let her go and then you look for someone who doesn't mind your current financial status.

By the way, what makes you think you can roll with someone who's using an iphone when you are using an android phone? A fresh grad for that matter... You guys are levels apart and that alone is a red flag.

My dear, she's not for you. Like you said, go and catch your own fish by yourself. Hang your bag where your hand go reach.

Yesterday I linked up with a girl I met a day before Christmas. I went straight to the point and she no even think am twice to gree( mind you we’ve not been talking since I collected her number ). Flag number 1. she’s hookup package . Flag number 2. She started telling me story of how her ex dumped her cos of money for cloth - she’s materialistic.
Flag number 3, I almost bleeped her at the toilet of the bar


I was thinking of considering her but now, I’m sorry to say na to fhuck and dump her,

By God grace she should be here tomorrow, I’ll give her best sex of her life and kiss her goodbye.. no time.


@ op, ensure you fhuck her , then dump her. She’s for the street !!

What is the probability that OBI will win

bsonenterprise98: Monopoly of Nairaland is finally over

This op talked about his experience with a lady and he didn't generalise and insult all women and call them names. He also gave some advice for ladies.
Good one

You should thank God she reveal her true colors from day one, not those ones that will pretend just to get married first

Most Nigerian girls now have this cash out immediately mentality.

Make me sef chop am because him fit chop me and let go anytime make me sef do my own too.

Connected1:
Same thing I did Mid-November but in my case I chose her myself.

She wants me to finance her fantasies and to think her parents are very poor.

Anyways I left her something she won't forget in a short while, I gave her the best sex of her life and up till now she can't face me directly, I heard she hides whenever I pass her vicinity.

Lol, na that nacking dem dey take trap simps na. Nacking her and getting out shows that you ain't a simp.

toujurs:
If i was the one,i will size up to her taste,once i fu*k her like 5 times, i will begin to act broke.

All these girls that doesn't have sense need to be thought a bitter lesson, the expensive restaurant she wants you two to go to, trust me she can't pay for it. And she will never pay for it.

It one that even surprises me, is an ugly girl saying she wants to be taken care of, like you kidding me, you are not even fine, see your teeth like cowries and you looking for who will take care of you. .

I just chop rice and chicken finish no kill me abeg

meedoLock:


I dey tell u o, but it got to a time she started asking me if I want a relationship or I want a talking-friend. But u don show me red light, what would you have me do na?

Opi dey suspect that lady to be a member of nairaland.
I dey suspect say na @blessedmercy8 ur Aunty link u with

Zeinymira:
She might not be extravagant, it's possible she's living a lifestyle she can afford which is not your own reality. Good that you left her

As comfortable as I am in my own little way, I have a daughter now and I am going to teach her to live a simple but classy life.


Unfortunately no matter how rich a lady or her parents are, it is another man that will marry her and you can never tell the size of pocket of the young man that will marry your daughter even though you will strive to ensure she doesn't end up with a broke visionless guy, but it pays for a single lady to live a simple inexpensive lifestyle as this act alone endears her to men that will most likely take her serious.



I speak as a married man. When I married I was very comfortable to the extent I could afford the expensive lifestyle of any lady, but I still made some personal observations and evaluation of the ladies I met when I was ready to settle down and one of the things I considered was their lifestyle, their utterances, their perspective about life generally, how they related with their siblings and how they treated people of less financial value, and lastly their closeness to their maker; and some if not all of these things I mentioned, almost every Nigerian man (rich, poor or average) considers them when picking a wife, except for entertainment celebrities who marry for showoff and to boost their showbiz career.

If to say you marry this one she will finish you with expensive eateries and eddible catering coupled with monthly IPhone subscription just before you start life and you will take loans from banks just to keep up with her lifestyle and before you blink you will be quickly broke and with huge banks debts hanging over your neck. Choose wisely man.
Thank God she revealed her true colours to you early and not later when you must have taken it to extremely serious levels.

2dice01:
Red flag all the way

She want you to be subbing for her
She want expensive date
She want expensive lifestyle
All on your head


She is for G-boys and Sugar daddies

Very very correct!!!

emmanuelbrown26:

Opi dey suspect that lady to be a member of nairaland.
I dey suspect say na @blessedmercy8 ur Aunty link u with

Wahala lol

meedoLock:
So, there was this lady introduced to me by my aunty as a single guy, you know the African way of patronizing someone who is due for settling down. The general view is that you should settle down to be responsible.
So this babe is also single, just concluded her service year less than a year ago. She stays my big sister street, so my sister, haven't observed her for long, approached her, got her number and now she want me to be running her maybe something good might come out of it .
I was partially in support of it cos I like to kill my fish on my own, not the one killed for me' but out of love and respect, I collected the number and linked up with the babe on watsap asap.
To cut it short, she was also ready to have a serious relationship like. But our problems started first from her utterances on guys who are not financially bouyant, according to her, such man should not be giving a chance, she's also too logical to reason with, she uses an iPhone and want me an Android user to be servicing the sub.

She also doesn't want us to meet on a low-key, but all these expensive eateries. I was playing along for a while, until I found out it would amount in futility if taken to a higher levels.

One, I might not be able to be up to task to her extravagant life styles, and that would cut us short. However, we never really met, I do visit my sister and we see from distance but we act as if we don't know each other since she insist we meet on a classic mode.

I've already reduced our conversation and I guessed she also sensed the signal.
My take is that some babe I've refused to learn how to relate with guys, knowing what one's wants and what one's could get, not to think about themselves alone but others.

I'm not against ladies sizing up guys but if love and peace of mind is what you want, then you should stop being too materialistic.

I don't see myself dignifying you if you have refused to show me thesame gesture. Hence, my little observation about ladies getting too many affairs wrong. Some might say I'm not man enough but it's just that I'm a guy who doesn't play or toy with ladies feelings. No game irrespective of how you portray yourself to me, I go just free u before it go deeper....

Compliments to Nairalanders

So using an iPhone is now a success factor. She want you to take her to an eatery in banana island abi?
In 2023, Una don start again.
Congrats!

Ask her how much she has in her bank account. They think it's easy to make money. Who has money to waste on a lady.