Tookool:

Firstly op, wanting to meet you in an eatery doesn’t mean you’re going there to spend a fortune, get a drink for you both, it will cost you less than 5k. Abi where do you want to meet her? Your house? Bukka? For kiosk?

You also said she owns an iPhone and it would require you to sub for her, Chief na the same sub wey them Dey do for iPhone and android, in fact android consumes more data.

Lastly, your Aunty would not want you to date or marry her if she was promiscuous. They stay on the same street and she knows her better. Them don give you wife, go marry and stop making excuses

Lol. Thanks anyway, I never said she's not wifey materials. But you know the saying that first impression matter most. I think she expected too much, and I don't currently fit in yet. I had to withdraw inorder not to bring about inevitable disappointment.

I have zero sympathy for materialistic girls, they deserve everything that comes their way. The are broke but they want people richer than their fathers. If you see them rating boys ehn you would be surprised, they don't understand that most guys are just simple and low-key. That's how I heard one of my course mate insulting a guy that he's keeping his bed on there floor in his room in school that he's not her class, my brothers this girl shares a room with her sister and both their beds are on the floor. That's why all these guys doing fa ke life rat their cake and have it. Useless girls

Blessedmercy8:
Hmmm.. men have cease to be men. So because she suggested eateries as meeting point, she's not reasonable? By the way, which eatery is not expensive nowadays? Ordinary buka, you'll still spend a reasonable amount of money to eat what you want. So I don't see that as her being too extravagant.

As for stating what she wants in a man, she has every right to choose her kind of man according to her taste and not settle for anything short of that just for the sake of it. That you don't measure up to her kind of man doesn't make her unreasonable. It's her choice. The beat you can do is let her go and then you look for someone who doesn't mind your current financial status.

By the way, what makes you think you can roll with someone who's using an iphone when you are using an android phone? A fresh grad for that matter... You guys are levels apart and that alone is a red flag.

My dear, she's not for you. Like you said, go and catch your own fish by yourself. Hang your bag where your hand go reach.

Oh! This is constructive enough, but don't you think it's wrong of her to demand money from me when we are even yet to meet officially? Yes I might not fit in to the level of her financial thirst yet but she obviously made it look money stuff.

Bahamas95:
Few years from now you'll see aunty in Shiloh searching for MIRACLE HUSBAND.

That's if she doesn't get HIV from too much knacking

Zonefree:

Bang her and stop taking too much.

sex craze
Has led to downfall of many men!

toprealman:

So usingan iPhone is now a success factor. She want you to take her to an entry in banana island abi?
In 2023, Una don start again.
Congrats!

Sorry sir/ma. But we can all learn from something at times. My whole content is pointing to the fact that I need to critically observe whom I pitch my tent with.

meedoLock:



Oh! This is constructive enough, but don't you think it's wrong of her to demand money from me when we are even yet to meet officially? Yes I might not fit in to the level of her financial thirst yet but she obviously made it look money stuff.

I'm eating. Will get back to you

meedoLock:


Lol. Thanks anyway, I never said she's not wifey materials. But you know the saying that first impression matter most. I think she expected too much, and I don't currently fit in yet. I had to withdraw inorder not to bring about inevitable disappointment.

Meeting in an eatery is not “too much” infact it’s the best place to meet. Do you know you guys can even meet there, do all the talking without buying anything …or maybe you just buy a table water. You should be happy she didn’t even request to meet in an expensive restaurant.
Like you said “first impression matters” …you can’t be running away from small eatery, Abi won’t you be taking her and the kids there on some days, maybe after church or atleast on holidays.

Blessedmercy8:


By the way, what makes you think you can roll with someone who's using an iphone when you are using an android phone?

.

iPhone is a symbol of status for small-minded folks. All it takes to own an iPhone nowadays is to become a fool, even against all reason.

Loverboi2cute:
swallow TRP u no gree... new luk @ what dis gender is doing to u... obviously an entitlement mentality bìtçh... messing with ur medulla

I bet my balls op don spend some cash on her, ordinary kissing he never kiss the girl.

Faber:
I bet my balls op don spend some cash on her, ordinary kissing he never kiss the girl.

Kissing keh, we never meet physically, na only live video and audio we dey do

Dshocker:


Be fooling yourself....

Why the lies?

Where's the lie
Were you there
How were you there

Zonefree:

Bang her and stop taking too much.

Some of you think that it is every man that is a cheap banger

Some men carry grace, it is just not anyhow they bang

meedoLock:



Oh! This is constructive enough, but don't you think it's wrong of her to demand money from me when we are even yet to meet officially? Yes I might not fit in to the level of her financial thirst yet but she obviously made it look money stuff.

She's all about the money, but that's not necessarily the biggest red flag. Odds are she doesn't give one cent what you think of her. Beyond your money, she doesn't see anything worth cherishing in you. She doesn't care about the way she may come across. Only high value women should have the effrontery to think that way. The question is: is she a high value woman?

Has she mentioned how she will provide value yet? I guess not. Because the entitled thinks by their presence, they are already doing you a favour associating with you.

Blessedmercy8:
Hmmm.. men have cease to be men. So because she suggested eateries as meeting point, she's not reasonable? By the way, which eatery is not expensive nowadays? Ordinary buka, you'll still spend a reasonable amount of money to eat what you want. So I don't see that as her being too extravagant.

As for stating what she wants in a man, she has every right to choose her kind of man according to her taste and not settle for anything short of that just for the sake of it. That you don't measure up to her kind of man doesn't make her unreasonable. It's her choice. The beat you can do is let her go and then you look for someone who doesn't mind your current financial status.

By the way, what makes you think you can roll with someone who's using an iphone when you are using an android phone? A fresh grad for that matter... You guys are levels apart and that alone is a red flag.

My dear, she's not for you. Like you said, go and catch your own fish by yourself. Hang your bag where your hand go reach.

What makes you think guys using Android phones don't rock babes using iphone?

Stop believing nonsense....

Op just lacks game...thats his problem.

He doesn't know how to control his frame.

Connected1:
Same thing I did Mid-November but in my case I chose her myself.

She wants me to finance her fantasies and to think her parents are very poor.

Anyways I left her something she won't forget in a short while, I gave her the best sex of her life and up till now she can't face me directly, I heard she hides whenever I pass her vicinity.

Wait are you saying she's hiding from you because of sex or is there something else you're not telling us.

AsapTeddy:


What makes you think guys using Android phones don't rock babes using iphone?

Stop believing nonsense....

Op just lacks game...thats his problem.

He doesn't know how to control his frame.

Lol. I'm not a game guy o, there are other underlying reasons why I drew my conclusion which is best known to me. We are just trying to learn from our time to time mistakes

Well it's simple.
She is simply not for you.
Not all ladies are wife materials, except you want daily headache in your marriage.

One of my colleagues Ngozi, even at 43, still single yet her shakara no be here.
From the day 1 of your interaction, this lady Will tell you straight up that if you are not rich, there is no point bothering yourself about starting any relationship with her.
That she can't marry a man and be suffering..
This is a lady that earns around 500k oh.

It's pains me that as we dey pity her, she no dey pity herself, her own is money, money,money.
You must be rich or no relationship.

Gosh, to think NG will clock 50 pretty soon as time is running and waits for no man.

Zeinymira:
She might not be extravagant, it's possible she's living a lifestyle she can afford which is not your own reality. Good that you left her

Lies.

If it's her class and lifestyle then she should pay for her own bills and let's boy pay for his in the so called costly restaurant. A girl that is asking for subscription na runs girl!

The truth here is that the boy sister did not chose her for the boy but the sister is simply telling the boy to go and get a wife!

Now instead of the mugu to go and bring a young 18 to 20 years girl and marry her, he is looking for so called big girls.

Today, 99% of ladies especially from 28 yrs and the ones that has finished university without husband are all runs ladies and they will become single mothers when they reach 35 yrs.
Full stop!

toujurs:
If i was the one,i will size up to her taste,once i fu*k her like 5 times, i will begin to act broke.

All these girls that doesn't have sense need to be thought a bitter lesson, the expensive restaurant she wants you two to go to, trust me she can't pay for it. And she will never pay for it.

It one that even surprises me, is an ugly girl saying she wants to be taken care of, like you kidding me, you are not even fine, see your teeth like cowries and you looking for who will take care of you. .

It is the ugly one that does the most. This is as a result of thier stereotypes treatment their beautiful friend got

theamazonguru:
Well it's simple.
She is simply not for you.
Not all ladies are wife materials, except you want daily headache in your marriage.

One of my colleagues Ngozi, even at 43, still single yet her shakara no be here.
From the day 1 of your interaction, this lady Will tell you straight up that if you are not rich, there is no point bothering yourself about starting any relationship with her.
That she can't marry a man and be suffering..
This is a lady that earns around 500k oh.

It's a pains me that as we dey pity her, sho no dey pity herself, her own is money, money,money.
You must be rich or no relationship.

Gosh, to think NG will clock 50 pretty soon as times are running and waits for no man.

Omo That one loud o. Is it until she menopause before she look for a companion and not a Billionaire.

meedoLock:



Lol. I'm not a game guy o, there are other underlying reasons why I drew my conclusion which is best known to me. We are just trying to learn from our time to time mistakes

LoL bro...

By game..I don't mean yahoo oh.

From the op's post, you could tell that the babe has a higher frame. In order words, she viewed herself as the prize ( the Op has to get) and she chatted from that frame.

So she has the upper hand.

seanwilliam:
Yesterday I linked up with a girl I met a day before Christmas.

I was thinking of considering her but now, I’m sorry to say na to fhuck and dump her,

By God grace she should be here tomorrow, I’ll give her best sex of her life and kiss her goodbye.. no time.

@ op, ensure you fhuck her , then dump her. She’s for the street !!

This is how people run into SPIRITUAL PROBLEMS — sexual covenant is very strong!

Run away from sexual immorality if you love your life — DEMONS will reduce in your life if you keep your body, mind AND thoughts pure

Android user servicing Iphone user with sub, na that one go first kii you..

Lukayly:
Android user servicing Iphone user with sub, na that one go first kii you..

Bro. Na the first red flag for me be that o. She indirectly let me realise when her sub is about to finish. Sub of not less than 2k depending on how exhausted

Gohs:


This is how people run into SPIRITUAL PROBLEMS — sexual covenant is very strong!

Run away from sexual immorality if you love your life — DEMONS will reduce in your life if you keep your body, mind AND thoughts pure

na that demon I Dey like.
Make I leave fresh fish ? U Dey whine me

Your auntie no read her well ni?

Tookool:

Meeting in an eatery is not “too much” infact it’s the best place to meet. Do you know you guys can even meet there, do all the talking without buying anything …or maybe you just buy a table water. You should be happy she didn’t even request to meet in an expensive restaurant.
Like you said “first impression matters” …you can’t be running away from small eatery, Abi won’t you be taking her and the kids there on some days, maybe after church or atleast on holidays.

Stop kidding! If you take most ladies to an eatery and don't buy anything but just talks, I bet you she'll just conclude that you're not ready.

Be realistic and never make that mistake.

That was how I met one that I liked, collected number only for me to ask that we see and the first thing she said was needing money to make her hair before coming to see me

meedoLock:



Sorry sir/ma. But we can all learn from something at times. My whole content is pointing to the fact that I need to critically observe whom I pitch my tent with.

critical observation indeed for something that is obvious.
Bro do you thing abeg.

seanwilliam:
na that demon I Dey like.
Make I leave fresh fish ? U Dey whine me

May God open your eyes to see that you are surrounded by darkness.

Jesus is the only way out.

My advice:
Please attend a praying church e.g CAC, MFM and pray away the spirit of fornication and any other sexual immorality from your life.

You will make heaven in Jesus name.
Amen.

Gohs:


May God open your eyes to see that you are surrounded by darkness.

Jesus is the only way out.

My advice:
Please attend a praying church e.g CAC, MFM and pray away the spirit of fornication and any other sexual immorality from your life.

You will make heaven in Jesus name.
Amen.

I believe in God, but I’m not religious.

Besides , it’s just sex bro. I am not making any promises to anyone .