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Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by Moniya4Real(m): 8:12pm On Jan 05, 2023
sircatherine45:
"
...Because of sex..."


Wow.

Ma'am, please care to explain the bolded?
Of course, I am a virile man with a very high libido. The reason I want to be with any lady now is because of loneliness and unfettered access to sex… don’t mind 3 to 4 times a week.
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by Kobojunkiee: 8:18pm On Jan 05, 2023
xristos:
kai grin cheesy i salute u bros..ure one of the most controversially complicated persons existing
Let me guess, you don't agree with what God Himself says so you kick against me instead? undecided
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by FavouredNK: 8:24pm On Jan 05, 2023
Kobojunkiee:
■ God said your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God - Genesis 3 vs 16 & Luke 20 vs 34 - 36, so first, please stop dragging God's name into this. Second, how do you define "genuine love"? Are we all the same that we should all then define it the same way we do for ourselves and for others? undecided

2. Stop lying! How does the time of consummation impact a person's ability to be in or act in a relationship? Following your insinuation here, most Churchians who claimed to possess God and genuine love shouldn't see the end of their marriages then, but sadly, the divorce rate in your religious settings mirrors that of those outside of such settings, implying that what your claims here are baseless imaginings and nothing more. undecided

3. Sure, but humans change too. undecided
You sure have a way of reading your bible upside down if you do have one and I will never stop connecting God to marriage because marriage is a union ordained by God himself so you just have to deal with that. Moreso I don't care about your definition of genuine love, I define mine by my understanding and yes call it whatever you like but I am proudly a Christian and goes to church. And so because I stand on the rock that is Jesus, I don't give a damn about ur unguided talk about Christians but one thing I m sure of is that myself, my whole family members and my marriage will outlive you and ur cohorts in Jesus name, Amen!!
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by xristos(m): 8:24pm On Jan 05, 2023
Kobojunkiee:
Let me guess, you don't agree with what God Himself says so you kick against me instead? undecided
No.1 is out of context.. eunuchs are a minority for specific purposes..so has nothing to do with marriage population
No.2 is on point... marriage is of dis world
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by sircatherine45(m): 8:30pm On Jan 05, 2023
Moniya4Real:
Of course, I am a virile man with a very high libido. The reason I want to be with any lady now is because of loneliness and unfettered access to sex… don’t mind 3 to 4 times a week.
Please pardon me for assuming you were a female.

Well, if you want sex almost all the time, it's to find a lady who can match same energy. You won't find them amongst the hardworking ones, only the lazy ones, and you'll need to balance time with your money making ventures, your kids and your sexual appetite. It's a herculean task, but it's achievable.
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by FavouredNK: 8:33pm On Jan 05, 2023
Kobojunkiee:
1. I am not giving you validation. You told a story and I simply acknowledged receipt of your side of the tale! However, I look forward to also hearing from the other person in the partnership to conclude on the truth of your claim. That's all! undecided

2. Na you tell story! undecided
I honestly i did not look at your username before wasting my precious time responding to you because I do know that most of these J. People usually reason things upside down as their heads doesn't do the normal 360". So check the next door, I m not available.
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by MamaletASO: 9:08pm On Jan 05, 2023
Dis festive period alone..my brother spend almost #150,000 (imagine how many kpekus u go f*CK with dat) on his wife..and till now, each time brother want to f*CK her kpekus she always complain she is tired..

My brother is a born again but right now he is thinking why can't he get a second wife (so as to be getting regular kpekus).. or he might be forced to go and get a girlfriend outside..

Marriage nah scam

Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by Kobojunkiee: 9:16pm On Jan 05, 2023
FavouredNK:
■You sure have a way of reading your bible upside down if you do have one and I will never stop connecting God to marriage because marriage is a union ordained by God himself so you just have to deal with that.
■Moreso I don't care about your definition of genuine love, I define mine by my understanding and yes call it whatever you like
■but I am proudly a Christian and goes to church. And so because I stand on the rock that is Jesus, I don't give a damn about ur unguided talk about Christians
■but one thing I m sure of is that myself, my whole family members and my marriage will outlive you and ur cohorts in Jesus name, Amen!!
1. Oh, so to read it right-side up is to completely ignore what God said so you can assert instead that which you prefer? undecided

2. So you do at least understand that we each have our own individual ideas of what genuine love pertains then? Then what was that nonsense-filled ramble earlier about genuine love as if it were overarching? undecided

3. That all means absolutely nothing where marriage is concerned. grin

4. That can never happen actually, and Jesus Christ is exactly the reason why. grin
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by Kobojunkiee: 9:20pm On Jan 05, 2023
xristos:
■No.1 is out of context.. eunuchs are a minority for specific purposes..so has nothing to do with marriage population
■ No.2 is on point... marriage is of dis world
1. How do you come to conclude that they are a minority? Or are you under some delusion that because a person is in a marriage it means the person was created by God to live as a Eunuch or what? undecided

2. Hence the reason you need to stop dragging God into your debates regarding marriage because there is no amount of God that will cause your marriage not to fail. Consider the case of Moses, Ezekiel, Hosea..... the list goes on. undecided
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by Kobojunkiee: 9:22pm On Jan 05, 2023
FavouredNK:
■I honestly i did not look at your username before wasting my precious time responding to you because I do know that most of these J.
■ People usually reason things upside down as their heads doesn't do the normal 360". So check the next door, I m not available.
1. Now you descend to attacking my username as if your case is made legit by that dumbness on your part? undecided

2. You have yet to show here that you can even reason halfway through that which you prescribe. undecided
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by Tunagee(m): 10:04pm On Jan 05, 2023
IamMobisola:
I guess you were under the rocks when the police said when they questioned the children they gave accounts of how their father used to beat her up and also how on one account he had told the kids to also join hands in beating her.
''How on one account he had told the kids to also join hands in beating her''
Even nollywood would not portray such lie
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by IamMobisola(f): 10:27pm On Jan 05, 2023
Tunagee:
''How on one account he had told the kids to also join hands in beating her''
Even nollywood would not portray such lie
You can go and ask the kids why they mentioned that
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by Gospel2Day: 12:21am On Jan 06, 2023
Kobojunkiee:
Again....
■Did Jesus Christ ask anyone to build what you call Christian centers to begin with?
■Did Jesus Christ ask anyone to attend church services and submit themselves to pastors and mogs to begin with?
■Did Jesus Christ say you can even use His name for that which is not approved by Him? undecided
Again, I pity your ignorance.
Did Jesus ever hold spiritual/religious meetings in buildings, like the Temple and people's homes?
Did He ever tell His disciples to NEVER build a place to hold spiritual/religious meetings?
Did you ever see the sentence "the church that meets in someone's house" in your own Bible?
What you do not understand is the difference between the Infancy Stage of the Divine Movement called Christianity or Church and its Developed/Mature Stage.
Have you ever seen any child under the age of 20 thinking or talking about building a house or edifice?
Does that mean that child will NEVER build his/her own house?
You're clearly ignorant and incapable of Deductive Reasoning?
From your words, I could easily diagonize your problem. It's both spiritual and mental.
Jesus started the Sunday meeting with His disciples as He was always appearing to and visiting them on the first day of the week.
Read what Apostle Paul said to believers in 1Corinthians 16 also, about Christians meeting every Sunday.
Read church history, you will find out that early believers fasted twice every week and meet in the evening to pray and break their fast on Wednesdays and Fridays.
Read and cure your ignorance before rushing to the internet to announce your ignorance to the world and shame yourself.
Shalom.
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by Kobojunkiee: 12:39am On Jan 06, 2023
Gospel2Day:
Again, I pity your ignorance.
■ Did Jesus ever hold spiritual/religious meetings in buildings, like the Temple and people's homes?
■ Did He ever tell His disciples to NEVER build a place to hold spiritual/religious meetings?
■ Did you ever see the sentence "the church that meets in someone's house" in your own Bible?
■What you do not understand is the difference between the Infancy Stage of the Divine Movement called Christianity or Church and its Developed/Mature Stage.
■ Have you ever seen any child under the age of 20 thinking or talking about building a house or edifice? Does that mean that child will NEVER build his/he own house? You're clearly ignorant and incapable of Deductive Reasoning? From your words, I could easily diagonize your problem. It's both spiritual and mental.
■ Jesus started the Sunday meeting with His disciples as He was always appearing to and visiting them on the first day of the week. Read what Apostle Paul said to believers in 1Corinthians 16 also, about Christians meeting every Sunday.
■ Read church history, you will find out that early believers fasted twice every week and meet in the evening to pray and break their fast on Wednesdays and Fridays. Read and cure your ignorance before rushing to the internet to announce your ignorance to the world and shame yourself.
Shalom.
1. Jesus Christ instead went around calling people out from the synagogues and temples, and homes to come to follow Him instead. undecided

2. Jesus Christ taught His followers to not use His name for that which He did not command of them, so when you build your churches and claim you do it for Jesus Christ, you actually commit sin against Him who never gave you permission to attach His name to such activities. undecided

3. Jesus Christ said those who belong to Him are those who do as He commands them to. So, if you are busy following the examples of others rather than doing only that which Jesus Christ commands, then you are not of Jesus Christ - John 14 vs 15 - 20. It is not ok to state that because you saw the words "the church that meets in someone's house" in scripture means you should do the same using the name of Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ, again, said His friends are those who do as He says - John 15 vs 14. undecided

4. What you just spewed there amounts to a meaningless bullsheet. Jesus Christ didn't teach any of His followers such bullsheet. undecided

5. Ah! Deductive reasoning ... that is what you call the many doctrines and traditions of men which Jesus Christ instead warned His followers against proclaiming them all lies which are meant to deceive and delude many away from following the Truth of God - Matthew 15 vs 1 - 14 & Mark 7 vs 1 - 13. Jesus Christ called them all lies, so, yeah! undecided

6. Wow... so because Jesus Christ rose on the 3rd day, you conveniently concluded that to mean your Sunday meetings are sanctioned by Him? You must think of yourself as a deductive-reasoning champion in your church to have come up with that one .... LOL. You even found a way to rope Paul into what is foolishness. So, even though Jesus Christ never commanded it, meaning He never gave you permission to use His name for your Sunday worships, you think it makes sense to claim you do it for Jesus Christ, and use His name as though it is sanctioned by Him because of your deductive reasoning abilities? grin

7. So, never mind the fact that Jesus Christ made it abundantly clear in His Law — God's New Covenant and agreement in the Kingdom of God— that the only way to honor Him, and the Father, is to obey His teachings and commandments, you believe instead that following pagan rituals such as this fasted two times a week on Wednesdays and Fridays which you suggest dates back to your church history — starvation diets are Pagan rituals and not commanded by God by the way - Zechariah 7 & Isaiah 58 — using the name of Jesus Christ is what Jesus Christ wants from His followers? undecided
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by stevenson007: 3:15am On Jan 06, 2023
MissJoy29:
I don't understand how "MANY MARRIAGES" mean "many women".
So na only woman dey dey inside marriage?

You just want to turn this into female bashing conversation & you want me, a female to join you?
Nah!
Mission

I have been looking for you, I need a quick information from you, it's urgent. Please how can I contact you?
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by Mummiesboy: 5:11am On Jan 06, 2023
TheChameleon:
How is this news ?

Everybody already knows except the gullible members of his congregation.
Hater free yourself from mental slavery
This is 2023
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by MissJoy29(f): 7:28am On Jan 06, 2023
stevenson007:
Mission

I have been looking for you, I need a quick information from you, it's urgent. Please how can I contact you?
Looking for me?

We know each other?
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by Danyl(m): 8:55am On Jan 06, 2023
judedwriter:
And what brings forgiveness but LOVE??

Once love is absent in a marriage, it's finished.

I thought about it this morning.... What brings love between people, is it sex? No.

It's emotional bonding. Friendship. Couples must learn to be best of friends.

AGAPE love (God's love) too binds a couple together.
I have come to realize that God made marriage to work when there is true companionship the moment you make something else the reason ylwhy you are married to someone the devil will fight it to a pulp. because eventually the kids becomes the target.
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by Gospel2Day: 11:15am On Jan 06, 2023
Kobojunkiee:
1. Jesus Christ instead went around calling people out from the synagogues and temples, and homes to come to follow Him instead. undecided

2. Jesus Christ taught His followers to not use His name for that which He did not command of them, so when you build your churches and claim you do it for Jesus Christ, you actually commit sin against Him who never gave you permission to attach His name to such activities. undecided

3. Jesus Christ said those who belong to Him are those who do as He commands them to. So, if you are busy following the examples of others rather than doing only that which Jesus Christ commands, then you are not of Jesus Christ - John 14 vs 15 - 20. It is not ok to state that because you saw the words "the church that meets in someone's house" in scripture means you should do the same using the name of Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ, again, said His friends are those who do as He says - John 15 vs 14. undecided

4. What you just spewed there amounts to a meaningless bullsheet. Jesus Christ didn't teach any of His followers such bullsheet. undecided

5. Ah! Deductive reasoning ... that is what you call the many doctrines and traditions of men which Jesus Christ instead warned His followers against proclaiming them all lies which are meant to deceive and delude many away from following the Truth of God - Matthew 15 vs 1 - 14 & Mark 7 vs 1 - 13. Jesus Christ called them all lies, so, yeah! undecided

6. Wow... so because Jesus Christ rose on the 3rd day, you conveniently concluded that to mean your Sunday meetings are sanctioned by Him? You must think of yourself as a deductive-reasoning champion in your church to have come up with that one .... LOL. You even found a way to rope Paul into what is foolishness. So, even though Jesus Christ never commanded it, meaning He never gave you permission to use His name for your Sunday worships, you think it makes sense to claim you do it for Jesus Christ, and use His name as though it is sanctioned by Him because of your deductive reasoning abilities? grin

7. So, never mind the fact that Jesus Christ made it abundantly clear in His Law — God's New Covenant and agreement in the Kingdom of God— that the only way to honor Him, and the Father, is to obey His teachings and commandments, you believe instead that following pagan rituals such as this fasted two times a week on Wednesdays and Fridays which you suggest dates back to your church history — starvation diets are Pagan rituals and not commanded by God by the way - Zechariah 7 & Isaiah 58 — using the name of Jesus Christ is what Jesus Christ wants from His followers? undecided
You don't deserve my response.
You need to enrol first in a children Bible Reading class before you can qualify to engage in adult discussion about the Bible.
Good bye.
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by Gospel2Day: 11:18am On Jan 06, 2023
Kobojunkiee:
1. Jesus Christ instead went around calling people out from the synagogues and temples, and homes to come to follow Him instead. undecided

2. Jesus Christ taught His followers to not use His name for that which He did not command of them, so when you build your churches and claim you do it for Jesus Christ, you actually commit sin against Him who never gave you permission to attach His name to such activities. undecided

3. Jesus Christ said those who belong to Him are those who do as He commands them to. So, if you are busy following the examples of others rather than doing only that which Jesus Christ commands, then you are not of Jesus Christ - John 14 vs 15 - 20. It is not ok to state that because you saw the words "the church that meets in someone's house" in scripture means you should do the same using the name of Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ, again, said His friends are those who do as He says - John 15 vs 14. undecided

4. What you just spewed there amounts to a meaningless bullsheet. Jesus Christ didn't teach any of His followers such bullsheet. undecided

5. Ah! Deductive reasoning ... that is what you call the many doctrines and traditions of men which Jesus Christ instead warned His followers against proclaiming them all lies which are meant to deceive and delude many away from following the Truth of God - Matthew 15 vs 1 - 14 & Mark 7 vs 1 - 13. Jesus Christ called them all lies, so, yeah! undecided

6. Wow... so because Jesus Christ rose on the 3rd day, you conveniently concluded that to mean your Sunday meetings are sanctioned by Him? You must think of yourself as a deductive-reasoning champion in your church to have come up with that one .... LOL. You even found a way to rope Paul into what is foolishness. So, even though Jesus Christ never commanded it, meaning He never gave you permission to use His name for your Sunday worships, you think it makes sense to claim you do it for Jesus Christ, and use His name as though it is sanctioned by Him because of your deductive reasoning abilities? grin

7. So, never mind the fact that Jesus Christ made it abundantly clear in His Law — God's New Covenant and agreement in the Kingdom of God— that the only way to honor Him, and the Father, is to obey His teachings and commandments, you believe instead that following pagan rituals such as this fasted two times a week on Wednesdays and Fridays which you suggest dates back to your church history — starvation diets are Pagan rituals and not commanded by God by the way - Zechariah 7 & Isaiah 58 — using the name of Jesus Christ is what Jesus Christ wants from His followers? undecided
You don't deserve my response.
You don't appear to me or sound as someone who is born again at all.
Good bye.
Shalom.
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by judedwriter(m): 11:33am On Jan 06, 2023
Danyl:
I have come to realize that God made marriage to work when there is true companionship the moment you make something else the reason ylwhy you are married to someone the devil will fight it to a pulp. because eventualfly the kids becomes the target.
Marriage is the deepest level of friendship. Nothing more, nothing less.
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by Nobody: 12:48pm On Jan 06, 2023
Kobojunkiee:
What about loving and standing by a woman who has great ideas? Isn't that allowed in these things or are men the only ones whose dreams are worth picturing oneself in? undecided
If a man loves a woman simply because not her great ideas and did not see himself in them succeeding together and having a great family, then the marriage too will crash.

Is just like the plans of God for our lives,
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by Kobojunkie:
Baddosqqi:
■If a man loves a woman simply because not her great ideas and did not see himself in them succeeding together and having a great family, then the marriage too will crash.
■Is just like the plans of God for our lives,
1. I am afraid I don't follow! undecided
2. What plans of God for our lives? undecided
Re: Many Nigerian Marriages Have Ended Long Ago – Pastor Kinsgley Okonkwo by MissJoy29(f): 6:17pm On May 24, 2023
stevenson007:
Mission

I have been looking for you, I need a quick information from you, it's urgent. Please how can I contact you?
Hi
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