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Tegabadguy:
the question is for women

The question should be directed to men, african men with selfish and rotten mentality will you ALL ever change? Always faulting women for everything. Women are always loyal in marriage and the African men with rotten mentality misbehave more, that's when they know they have the right to cheat and to marry as many wives as they can. So answer the question yourself.

diogo23:
Must you turn it to a debate?

yes she will turn it to a debate, it's high time you tell your folks to start creating thread about the evil that u men do rather than discussing about women like jobless things.

DaddyCK:
brother u all ways naggggin..... are u pregggganant? (no ofeinse)_

Help me ask am oooo? All of they nag more than women here. They are all forming masculinity while their feminine traits is even more than that of the real gender.

Prettygirl200:
The question should be directed to men, african men with selfish and rotten mentality will you ALL ever change? Always faulting women for everything. Women are always loyal in marriage and the African men with rotten mentality misbehave more, that's when they know they have the right to cheat and to marry as many wives as they can. So answer the question yourself.

Have u sat down and quietly ask urself, why the marriages of Celebrities who lived happily as couples, and bore children together and never had issues that made them part ways, but get issues after tieing the knot? And in most cases, the Drama usually comes from the wives. They are most the first to bring the Drama online. Take Psquare ex wife for an example.

Truvelisback:
Have u sat down and quietly ask urself, why the marriages of Celebrities who lives happily as couples, and bears children, gets issues after tieing the knot? And in most cases, the Drama usually comes from the wives?

You know in Africa, most of the times it's when the woman acts up that's what people always see, have you bothered to ask yourself what these women have been enduring in that marriage secretly have you? Take yul as an example he has been cheating on that woman for years and nobody knew untill gistlover exposed him he had to admit, a woman that has been with him through thick and thin for 19 good years. See IVD and bimbo, bimbo dropped out of school bc of that human, she supported him and made him what he was but what happened after he made money he started maltreating the wife cheating on her and neglecting his own kids shey she died in that marriage. So please and please men are the reason these women behave like this. They are wicked and they make these women go through so much pains all in the name of marriage. So next time create a thread about men and stop nagging all the time.

Prettygirl200:
You know in Africa, most of the times it's when the woman acts up that's what people always see, have you bothered to ask yourself what these women have been enduring in that marriage secretly have you? Take yul as an example he has been cheating on that woman for years and nobody knew untill gistlover exposed him he had to admit, a woman that has been with him through thick and thin for 19 good years. See IVD and bimbo, bimbo dropped out of school bc of that human, she supported him and made him what he was but what happened after he made money he started maltreating the wife cheating on her and neglecting his own kids shey she died in that marriage. So please and please men are the reason these women behave like this. They are wicked and they make these women go through so much pains all in the name of marriage. So next time create a thread about men and stop nagging all the time.

Yul case is a bit different. I'm talking abt partners who have been living like couples and bore children together. The relationship could be 8 to 10years old or more but immediately or after tieing the knot, the lady starts displaying some funny behaviours no one expected from her.

Truvelisback:
This is more common among the female folks. They tend to live happily with Partners and even bear children together but immediately the knot is tied, problems starts. She would start misbehaving. I just pray and hope that the likes of Davido's own and others don't happen that way.

Have you prayed for your own?

PROPEACE:
Have you prayed for your own?

I'm praying ooo. It's not easy mehn!

Truvelisback:
Yul case is a bit different. I'm talking abt partners who have been living like couples and bore children together. The relationship could 8 to 10years old or more but immediately or after tieing the knot, the lady starts displaying some funny behaviours no one expected from her.

And am telling you it's not true!!!

Prettygirl200:
And am telling you it's not true!!!

next time say I AM. Not am

VawulenceProMax:
next time say I AM. Not am

kid, you have no right to correct me okay? So take your bad mouth go one side. And pls don't quote me I don't want to exchange words with a child.

Prettygirl200:
kid, you have no right to correct me okay? So take your bad mouth go one side. And pls don't quote me I don't want to exchange words with a child.

to suck my preek dey hungry you . But you must pay for that favor

VawulenceProMax:
to suck my preek dey hungry you . But you must pay for that favor

kid tell your mother to help you. She will be damn good!!!

Prettygirl200:
I will tell my mother to help you. She will be damn good!!!

sweet 3some, me you and your mother. Fix location asao

VawulenceProMax:
sweet 3some, me you and your mother. Fix location asao

If you like twist my words, as long as you have gotten message m satisfied.

Do you campaign after elections had been won
Most ladies are pretenders
When a lady is ready to marry. She will just look for any ready and available guy
After which she will now be available to the ones he desired
This is what we tell simps but love will not let them see it.

Prettygirl200:
The question should be directed to men, african men with selfish and rotten mentality will you ALL ever change? Always faulting women for everything. Women are always loyal in marriage and the African men with rotten mentality misbehave more, that's when they know they have the right to cheat and to marry as many wives as they can. So answer the question yourself.

hmmm but will are in african

Samantha123:
In most cases, you'd find that the men stop being romantic after the wedding and I think the women would get bored and start feeling frustrated.

For instance, it may happen that the couple used to go out on a date nights every week and the man would constantly buy his girlfriend flowers and tells her how much he loves her, but immediately they get married, everything stops.

Remember that we women are emotional beings and we like the attention from our men.

How you people come up with stories like this scares men.

Most of our parents never had all these luxuries in marriage yet their marriage lasted over 50 yrs an so on.

I think you're right

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Samantha123:
There's this mentality that some men usually have after marriage, that thing of saying, "she's now mine and there's no more need for me to always be romantic with her."

Even if they were living together with children, it may not be the same as to when they're now married because again before marriage, you may find that there were certain things the man used to do by himself in the house without always expecting the woman to be the one to do them.

But after marriage, them man would now expect the woman to do all house hold chores even with her full time job and hectic schedule... Even when he's not busy with anything, he would prefer to just sit back and do nothing.

Obviously the woman will get frustrated.

Sama!!!! And u pronounce yourself as an African woman. No problem. Can we exchange roles. U go out and look for the Dole,legit, and I stay back home running chores with the house girl or help and at nite I lay the bed for us to sleep. Grin grin grin all d way.

Then don't get married, after all, no one is forcing you guys to get married.

What's so scary with buying your wife flowers and telling her how much you love her? And taking her out on a date once every week or every two weeks? What's so scary about that?

AbdulMagaji:
How you people come up with stories like this scares men.

Most of our parents never had all these luxuries in marriage yet their marriage lasted over 50 yrs an so on.

I wouldn't mind changing roles... But there wouldn't be a need for a house girl since you'll be staying at home doing the chores.

Since you'll be a house husband, you'll be the one responsible in cleaning the house.

starstaz:
Sama!!!! And u pronounce yourself as an African woman. No problem. Can we exchange roles. U go out and look for the Dole,legit, and I stay back home running chores with the house girl or help and at nite I lay the bed for us to sleep. Grin grin grin all d way.

Samantha123:
Then don't get married, after all, no one is forcing you guys to get married.

What's so scary with buying your wife flowers and telling her how much you love her? And taking her out on a date once every week or every two weeks? What's so scary about that?

Do African ladies value flowers? Don't even try that with a typical Naija lady. Money is the only language they understand.

AbdulMagaji:
How you people come up with stories like this scares men.

Most of our parents never had all these luxuries in marriage yet their marriage lasted over 50 yrs an so on.

In our time now, Love is a Debt. Immediately u propose to a lady, u are indebted.

There's nothing wrong with being romantic every now and then... Not everything is always about the money.

Even rich men buy their wives flowers every now and then just to strengthen that emotional bond between the two of them... I'm an African girl, but believe me when I say being romantic as a man will take you far in your marriage.

Truvelisback:
Do African ladies value flowers? Don't even try that with a typical Naija lady. Money is the only language they understand.

Samantha123:
Then don't get married, after all, no one is forcing you guys to get married.

What's so scary with buying your wife flowers and telling her how much you love her? And taking her out on a date once every week or every two weeks? What's so scary about that?

You are obviously a teen with little or no knowledge about marriage!

So you want to tell me now that you can be thrilled with flowers!

It will surprise you that all these your fantasies is what ends most union in Nigeria today.

AbdulMagaji:
You are obviously a teen with little or no knowledge about marriage!

So you want to tell me now that you can be thrilled with flowers!

It will surprise you that all these your fantasies is what ends most union in Nigeria today.

I have told Samantha123 that Nigerian ladies don't fancy flowers. Money is the only language they understand.

Samantha123:
I wouldn't mind changing roles... But there wouldn't be a need for a house girl since you'll be staying at home doing the chores.

Since you'll be a house husband, you'll be the one responsible in cleaning the house.

It's my perogative to apply my God's given wits to execute my homely talent as a full time House Daddi, and one of a better way to do it is to have a staff in my employ - I may choose a male or preferably a feminine staff. I believe a house Daddi is a full time job and will gladly prosecute it with all seriousness and vigour. There must be no complain, what a woman can do; a man should equally do it better .

Since I'm a teen with no knowledge, then okay.

AbdulMagaji:
You are obviously a teen with little or no knowledge about marriage!

So you want to tell me now that you can be thrilled with flowers!

It will surprise you that all these your fantasies is what ends most union in Nigeria today.

Why must you employ someone?

starstaz:
It's my perogative to apply my God's given wits to execute my homely talent as a full time House Daddi, and one of a better way to do it is to have a staff in my employ - I may choose a male or preferably a feminine staff. I believe a house Daddi is a full time job and will gladly prosecute it with all seriousness and vigour. There must be no complain, what a woman can do; a man should equally do it better .

Samantha123:
Why must you employ someone?

U wanna teach me how I will do my job again. If it's you, won't you employ a help?