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BigBashiru:
Yes she did.....cos she is "fed up" or "bored"....that's women for you....

I call BS. I’m sure there’s a gap in the story the narrator conveniently omitted

feranmi888:
It depends on the individual, infact the individual might be a responsible, loyal babe and all, but she can along the line change. I bought my gf a 2013 toyota camry, full option, thumb start, panoramic ...etc. The first day she ever said I LOVE YOU like for real the way it sounded was real. Months after we had issues, she claimed she couldnt drive home that night, but drove to GRA at one of her clients apartment hotel to stay the night, she was given an executive suit. That night I drove behind her, trying to stop her not to go, but omo she speed speed speed, i just dey talk am for my mind sey see this life, car wey i buy this woman na him she take her hand drive herself go her client apartment go sleep. I off.

When I newly dated this girl in school and then found out that she was using a spoilt phone which she was using rubber to hold it together. Even as a student with limited fund, I used my month allowance to buy this girl a new BlackBerry phone. Before I handed her the phone, I topped airtime and data on it. Then that evening, that girl uploaded the picture of her other guy on her WhatsApp profile. In less than three weeks, the other guy called me to warn me to leave his girlfriend. And before that, in less than a week, this girl asked me what I have done for her during a minor quarrel. Fear women.

ibkayee:
So she just served him divorce papers for absolutely no other reason other than she wanted to stay in the US?

The guy sounds very possessive and controlling, so whilst I can’t categorically say he did anything or what he did, I won’t be surprised if there are gaps in this story and incriminating details have intentionally been left out.

Something about this story creeped me out

Anything not in favour of women creeps you out, even fathers day creep you out, so hush & rest

ibkayee:
I call BS. I’m sure there’s a gap in the story the narrator conveniently omitted

Your gender doesn't need any gaps in a story to act irrational.

theredaddy:
Anything not in favour of women creeps you out, even fathers day creep you out, so hush & rest

2elliot:
Your gender doesn't need any gaps in a story to act irrational.

Geddifok

ibkayee:
Geddifok

when was the last you even had a gud one ... be forming linda holmes there

theredaddy:
when was the last you even had a gud one ... be forming linda holmes there

Grown man talking about ‘a gud one’ lol *cringe*

Wickedfact:
I once bought Rav4 for an unfortunate idiot I wanted to marry. One day, she asked me to stop making noise in her car. Vehicle I bought and paid for with my money.
Used style to collect the car and dumped her. She cried taya, I didn't budge. The mother begged for months, I refused.

Women are like fire. Useful but you must know how to manage them.

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Wellington123:
Your statement would only be true for a man who deliberately marries and ambitious woman and try to suppress are growth so that she will not be better than him… there are about 4 billion women in d world, a man can find a woman who is not ambitious who is family oriented and just want to birth children, nurture them, take proper care of her husband and in return, her financial burden is borne by the man… and if the man has what it takes, and goes for this kind of arrangement then where is d wickedness in this?… have u noticed that most successful career women are single these days? High value men don’t want them because of the obvious

Please speak for yourself @bolded.

Only evil men with unnecessary pride and power mania avoid successful women.

Are men not funny? If they see a women who is willing to depend on her husband instead of being successful and career oriented, they call her liability or gold-digger. When a woman decides to pursue a career and be ambitious, they still complain.
If the career woman is married the husband starts hoping and praying against her progress so she doesn't end up being too successful and showing she is smarter and more hardworking than him.
In their wicked minds women must be inferior to men in every way possible.

If you had or have a daughter, will you want her to marry a man that outrightly tells you he would hate for your daughter to be more successful him? Answer that question honestly.

2elliot:
You still dey speak grammar. You never know nothing. Women are very brutal and they don't care about your feelings. On the 23rd of December, I sent my supposed girlfriend some cash for the Christmas. Babe called me to say that I was the best, blah blah. Since that 23rd till just yesterday, is when this babe called my line. I was really engaged with stuffs that 25th and so I didn't call or text her, and she didn't either. No Christmas message, nothing. After the 25th, I locked up and didn't try to call, and she didn't either too, until just that yesterday.

Obviously she doesn't love u or even care, she's just interested in what u give to her.

She doesn't see u as a boyfriend bt a sponsor and that's because of she's a hungry girl and u keep feeding her by sending her cash.

I explained the difference btwn genuine love relationship and control/money induced relationship u dey cry I'm speaking grammar.


Continue giving her ur cash u go soon know hwfr.

ibkayee:
Grown man talking about ‘a gud one’ lol *cringe*

i wasnt expecting you will bring the dictionary into this how naive can you be

theredaddy:
i wasnt expecting you will bring the dictionary into this how naive can you be

I wasn’t pointing out the misspelling if that’s what you mean, I was saying it was corny

deepwater:
Lol

I am more concerned about your friend's power and capabilities to MAKE or not make his wife or daughter a judge at will

Is that how judges are made in Nigeria?

Like Why didn’t he make himself a judge?

Has all that power and couldn’t get himself American citizenship to be with his family to the point where his wife is plotting a divorce just for a blue passport

ibkayee:
I wasn’t pointing out the misspelling if that’s what you mean, I was saying it was corny

who says corny can't be true boya ko ni gud night

Speak only for the women you know personally. Matter of fact go tell it to their faces.

These daily incessant misogynistic generalizations are getting ridiculous

Munzy14:
Truth.

But it will be tagged misogynist case.

A friend told me recently, his wife school ends the day he married her..No more upgrade.

If he needs a doctor or lawyer in his house, it should come from their children.

I think issues like this made him have this stand.

Women abuse power and authority..They place emotions first and only.

A man helped a common typist reach a point of almost becoming a judge..His compensation was a divorce letter . If not for the fact some of his in-laws are understanding, that marriage would have ended since.

Truth is this same man won't do this in his next life.

It is well..

Dshocker:
Men don't abuse power, except from few.

But most women will abuse it.

yet we have more terrible leaders and power abuser who are men.
You see things right in front of you and decide to be blind to the facts of it.

There's nothing wrong with "upgrading" your partner, but make sure you've improved yourself first.

Do your part and let God handle the rest. You should be highly placed to the extent that their misdeeds won't make any difference in your life. The young man in your story was too focused on "upgrading" his wife. You're planning to turn a typist to a chief judge but as a lawyer that you have always been, you've no plan for yourself? Your destiny dey forbid presidential ambition?

People frequently conceal their inadequacies by professing to have invested in someone. For example, why should a 20-something year old illiterate send his or her partner to school? You're afraid to read? Wetin do your own brain? LMAO Iffahear say na love. The goal is to get you to do the reading, the cramming, the work, while they sit back and reap the reward of their "investments."

Same goes to very young parents who fail to upgrade themselves with claims that they are investing in their children. You don't have SSCE but you want your kids to stop at Ph.D. You're still struggling with Microsoft Excel (basic level) but you want your kid to learn 50 programming languages before age 15. E easy na im you no wan learn

If helping or upgrading you will make me broke, then God has not ordained me to bless you. God is not wicked. God does not have to destroy a man to uplift another. Na you no get sense.

All these fake stories no dey move me

cococandy:
yet we have more terrible leaders and power abuser who are men.
You see things right in front of you and decide to be blind to the facts of it.

Hard facts

cococandy:
Speak only for the women you know personally. Matter of fact go tell it to their faces.

These daily incessant misogynistic generalizations are getting ridiculous

I am not expecting anything cool from a coded feminists engrossed with western acclaimed wokeness which is cancerous.

Facts are glaring.

Even you, if placed in authority, Will soo much abuse it..Going by your online antics..
Let me start by telling you in your comment.

A fortune if na one with sense and conscience.

Acidosis:
There's nothing wrong with "upgrading" your partner, but make sure you've improved yourself first.

Do your part and let God handle the rest. You should be highly placed to the extent that their misdeeds won't make any difference in your life. The young man in your story was too focused on "upgrading" his wife. You're planning to turn a typist to a chief judge but as a lawyer that you have always been, you've no plan for yourself? Your destiny dey forbid presidential ambition?

People frequently conceal their inadequacies by professing to have invested in someone. For example, why should a 20-something year old illiterate send his or her partner to school? You're afraid to read? Wetin do your own brain? LMAO Iffahear say na love. The goal is to get you to do the reading, the cramming, the work, while they sit back and reap the reward of their "investments."

Same goes to very young parents who fail to upgrade themselves with claims that they are investing in their children. You don't have SSCE but you want your kids to stop at Ph.D. You're still struggling with Microsoft Excel (basic level) but you want your kid to learn 50 programming languages before age 15. E easy na im you no wan learn

If helping or upgrading you will make me broke, then God has not ordained me to bless you. God is not wicked. God does not have to destroy a man to uplift another. Na you no get sense.

The bolded got me

Most parents want thier children break their own records.

After all, palm wine tapper can give birth to a professor

Kids get the basic foundation to become kings and Queens in their niche/Destiny path.

Mccallistas:
You see?
These things just don't happen. But we neglect red flags a lot.

can one says his spouse dream to travel outside is bad??

deepwater:
Lol..

Is that how judges are made in Nigeria?

women are too wimpy by themselves.. they'll need a man to teach them 'how a lady would pee!

Munzy14:
The bolded got me

Most parents want thier children break their own records.

After all, palm wine tapper can give birth to a professor

Kids get the basic foundation to become kings and Queens in their niche/Destiny path.

I know right

deepwater:
Lol..

Is that how judges are made in Nigeria?

women are too wimpy by themselves.. they'll need a man to teach them 'how a lady would pee!

2elliot:
You still dey speak grammar. You never know nothing. Women are very brutal and they don't care about your feelings. On the 23rd of December, I sent my supposed girlfriend some cash for the Christmas. Babe called me to say that I was the best, blah blah. Since that 23rd till just yesterday, is when this babe called my line. I was really engaged with stuffs that 25th and so I didn't call or text her, and she didn't either. No Christmas message, nothing. After the 25th, I locked up and didn't try to call, and she didn't either too, until just that yesterday.

I have experience this event too and it's mostly those broke, average and trenches ladies who does such things. They are always in survival mode, Most of their parents are broke and irresponsible.

Same thing happened to me around December too and i have Vowed that, That last year would be the End of all these Shiiits. If you want to Die, You should Die Abeg. I no dey send shishi. They will only reach out to you when they need your help. And mind you, No be only you she buzz ooo. You are just a fraction among the contributors lol.

Na only my Mom, Junior Sisters and Brothers dey enjoy my money now. The money i sent to my sister recently, Con see how she dey thank me dey show me love everyday and that's how she has always been doing. The thing con dey Totori me like i should send her more and more

TheboyGhost:
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truthsayer009:
Unnecessary stress to be honest. The major issue you are having is that you are worried about her leaving. Oh well, I am not for the most part. So that one doesn't worry me. All this extra steps is not necessary.

Alright bro

Make no mistake. The woman is unhappy in the marriage but due to it being Nigeria, she has no choice but to submit. She is only pretending. The first chance she gets to return to America, she will go and never come back again. A Good woman can't leave a good man. If she is being mistreated, she will always have malice secretly in her heart for her husband.

Typical. Insult all the women you know and expect coolness in response from the one person who actually defends them.

Go and tell them to their faces that you think they put emotions first and only. No side talking behind their backs.

Munzy14:
I am not expecting anything cool from a coded feminists engrossed with western acclaimed wokeness which is cancerous.

Facts are glaring.

Even you, if placed in authority, Will soo much abuse it..Going by your online antics..
Let me start by telling you in your comment.