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Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by oluwaseyi0: 2:49pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Unfortunately most women can't manage bigger status There was one sent to school by the husband who now want to abandon the husband to travel out with the kids The wife is even calling the man illiterate and forcing him to go to school at old age 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by TheChameleon: 2:50pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
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Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by BigYash: 2:50pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Una never know women. If the table was turned, and women given power like men. Many of them would turn their husbands to slaves in physical chains. Some women are good,no doubt. But when counting good women,count the present hookup girls out.. Marry them and na one chance you enter 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by chivic(m): 2:51pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
It might have gone bad for him.But alot of people have upgraded their wives and it turned out to not only be the best thing but it saved them and there family.. That one wife can sell anything for pleasure does not mean that others will do the same 6 Likes |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by dazzlingd(m): 2:52pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
We declare this thread open for vawulence 6 Likes |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by Mindlog: 2:52pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Gaps in the story, another tales by moonlight. Seeing messiah complex strewn all over the story. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by Tobitrueman(m): 2:52pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Smallxixi: Have you finished? 7 Likes |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by chriskosherbal(m): 2:53pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
let me enjoy comments 2 Likes |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by Nobody: 2:53pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Never you upgrade a Nigerian Woman! I repeat, never you upgrade a Nigerian Woman, and don't open her eyes by taking her to where her father has not been to. Just feed her, clothe her, buy her a car to go to the market and take the kids to school and pick them up. That is all! Once the kids are 18 years old, you can upgrade her, she is free to go anywhere she likes then, once she leaves, get a younger girl and do the same. Write your will, 80% for your children, 10% for her and 10% for your smallie. Case closed! Never you upgrade a Nigerian lady! Especially those one speaking phonetics because they watch Netflix. 34 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by jaxxy(m): 2:54pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Depends on the type of woman u have... By ur woman I hope u mean ur wife not ur girlfriend? Modified: Reading the post, it seems to depend on the type of marriage u have and the type of relationship u have with u wife. The woman doesn't love him she only loves the conditions, influence and things he does for her to keep her under his control. Buying gifts for each other doesn't mean shit when u have excess money to throw around. Any day she sees him as powerless over her like she gers favored directly by a governor or president here in Nigeria she will still show her true colors again. That is not love it is control. 2 Likes |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by qtguru(m): 2:55pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Depends on the lady, if na Day 1 paddy sure why not, but if na brokie babe used to simps Hell No. I helped a babe come into my company, which was the same babe, that helped me get my first job. A debt owed, A debt paid. man too go fall your hand, if na FB 12 Likes |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by yemmit90: 2:55pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
It is actually a fortune/blessing with a right woman. Besides, I will call it inferiority issue on the side of men. If you are not move an inch or jealous about her success, you have successfully cut than her power to intimidate you with it. The only set of men that women loves, that can successfully deal with their egos and problems are those that don't value them. 3 Likes |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by Successfulben: 2:56pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
You just came here to defend your gender. I don't really have regards for women but this write-up has further worsen everything. I know that there are still few good women like my mother and I pray I get married to one like her. Smallxixi: 4 Likes |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by Kaycee54321(m): 2:57pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Upgrading your Woman is a fortune... especially if your woman is an OG type of woman. That said, upgrading your woman to a level elevated above yours is 9 times out of 10, a recipe for DOOM. Gateman wey carry e babe enter Oga house, if Oga pikin begin eye the babe, naso the relationship go enter voicemail. More often than not. If in doubt, run the code. 16 Likes |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by Nobody: 2:57pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
BMathew:I v never seen a higher level of wickedness like this. Women that divorced their husbands v reasons. Flimsy or genuine ones. Don't put the sin of sinner of an innocent. If we should talk about what men are doing, you ll be shocked too! 4 Likes |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by AMI3(m): 2:58pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Though I didn't read that long story. Since I have grown up and I understand the value of life the only person that feel threatened if I commite resources to and they fail me are my kids. If I empowered any woman and she disappoint me I will not feel threatened because any I do for a woman I don't attached emotion to it be my wife or my girlfriend. Because women are unpredictable. Don't spend more than what u have for a woman no matter how much u love Women are like betnaija game always play by rule don't bet more than what u can not afford to lose 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by InvertedHammer: 2:59pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
BMathew:/ It has nothing to do with the upgrade. USA provides a certain level of comfort that women would be foolhardy to refuse especially if they have a relation over there doing well. You could have billions of naira in your account in Nigeria, maids, drivers, cars and mansions; but once you drive outside of your mansion, Nigeria stares you in the face. Women are built for comfort. But you could have something equivalent abroad and still live a decent private life. How many years do we have in this life? Beyond a certain age, people learn that there are things more important in life than account balance eg. not being diabetic or hypertensive. Noise from generators alone is enough to make someone abandon ship. NB: Upgrade your woman. If she wants to leave, she can. That should be the least of your worries if you are confident in your abilities. You will notice that men upgrade their women to make themselves look good. / 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by Deeprooted: 2:59pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Funny bank gave me an interest of 2,012.94kobo (2 thousand, twelve naira,ninety four Kobo) and debited 3,016 as Electronics transfer bla bla bla... 2 Likes |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by Tannhauser(m): 2:59pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by benqo01(m): 3:00pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Jennyclay: YOU RE SO SHALLOW MINDED 2 Likes |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by Dshocker(m): 3:00pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
ibkayee: But truth is that most women can't control power. 10 Likes |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by Ebubu: 3:01pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
this is very true no ever upgrade your woman if you’re upgrading her, do it as charity without any expectation she’ll remain forever with you out of gratitude. she’ll use you to elevate, then expect a better man than you in status. don’t elevate her at all, or elevate her as a charity act without expecting her to stay with you forever. always maintain the gap in power between you two. upgrading can be changing of wardrobe to look hotter, changing of iphone, sponsoring her education, school fees, rent, etc. funny enough this also applies to wife 7 Likes |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by tiswell(m): 3:01pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
ibkayee:since it's the man being the victim,something must always creep you ingrates and heartless gender out 8 Likes |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by Ishilove: 3:02pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Trash 3 Likes |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by mariahAngel(f): 3:02pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Onucs: You don't say! Who are you? God's assistant? 2 Likes |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by Nobody: 3:03pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Wiseandtrue: For a female, this is quite an impressive perspective to have. 7 Likes |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by Originalsly: 3:03pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Hmmmm .... something I'm chewing but not ready to swallow... first time visitor ... 2 year visa ... allowed to travel pregnant? ... at what stage?... 4 months after giving birth she's still there? ... she has overstay her time allowed ... 6 months ... is she that special? ...nI guess she just can't return to the US..... and that will definitely affect any future travel to the UK/Canada. I don't understand why one will base their advice to all based on a single experience. There are thousands of men who upgraded their wives and are now happily reaping the benefits. We are too quick to paint with a broad brush. 6 Likes |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by Munzy14(m): 3:03pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
olamidedivotee:Truth. But it will be tagged misogynist case. A friend told me recently, his wife school ends the day he married her..No more upgrade. If he needs a doctor or lawyer in his house, it should come from their children. I think issues like this made him have this stand. Women abuse power and authority..They place emotions first and only. A man helped a common typist reach a point of almost becoming a judge..His compensation was a divorce letter . If not for the fact some of his in-laws are understanding, that marriage would have ended since. Truth is this same man won't do this in his next life. It is well.. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by Ebubu: 3:04pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
InvertedHammer: even in nigeria, men upgrade women and they use the new status to bargain for dating with richer men than you. 6 Likes |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by pepericozi: 3:04pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
[quote author=Prince111111 post=119899805]It isn't a threat provided you married your own wife. I personally love to see ambitious women. [/quot You are right. I did the same thing. Though, she was tough thereafter but for the sake of the children and with little endurance, we live happily till now. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Upgrading Your Woman, A Threat Or A Fortune? by Ebubu: 3:06pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Originalsly:those are men of old, the men of this generation are served hot breakfast after upgrading women. 7 Likes |
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