DriveByKiller:
thanks for your civility.

But I look at it this way....a man having a child outside matrimony and keeping the wife in the dark is directly equivalent to a woman doing the same, i.e having a child outside and not telling the man as well. Although it is rare.

Now when a woman gets impregnated by another man while she's in a marriage with her husband and she tricks the husband into believing that child is his and he cares for, nurtures and passes his wealth to this perfect stranger , this particular crime has no equivalent to any sin of in matrimony or paternity a man can do.

It is as different as their reproductive system . That kind of crime is down to biology and only females have the biological make up to commit such crime. There's just no male equivalent.

kulikuli45:


I understand your position totally.

However, I'll beg to differ based on impact.

Consider a situation where the man has a first son outside his home. Or a case I personally witnessed where a man has 3 daughters with his wife and finally got a son from his 'girlfriend' outside which the wife didn't know of. In this particular case, tje man's brothers and sisters were all aware and kept quiet about it because they claimed they were considering his wife's emotions.

However, when the man died, these same relatives agreed that his belongings belonged to this son since the girls will marry and go away.

Infact, they even told the wife that she can stay in the house as long as she liked but the house belongs to the boy whenever she leaves (or dies).

I do not think that her pain is less than the man who experienced paternity fraud.

IamMobisola:
It’s not just in the north, it’s in every state.
Men started it, but na women go finish am for them and even scatter the table sef.

From the time of our forefathers, where men think they can do and undo without being chastised, they cheat on their wives and even decided to call it Polygamy all because of greed. Still happens in this age. When a woman cheats on her husband, she is tagged a slut but when a man cheats on his wife he is being referred to as a man being a man. Some women have taken it upon themselves to enjoy same freedom men have given themselves when it comes to sexual immorality, unfortunately men don’t get pregnant else maternity fraud would be worse than what paternity fraud is which is the men’s saving grace.
The fear of loosing out in the equation is what brings about Paternity fraud.

Make una enjoy your life

NEUDUDE:


Women cant scatter nothing

I blame the set of weak breed of men we have nowadays, person like me. I no trust no woman. You with your paternity fraud out on the street the second i get a whiff. Useless lots

Spandau:


HIV loading up.

worldclass68:




I no go again

IamMobisola:
It’s not just in the north, it’s in every state.
Men started it, but na women go finish am for them and even scatter the table sef.

From the time of our forefathers, where men think they can do and undo without being chastised, they cheat on their wives and even decided to call it Polygamy all because of greed. Still happens in this age. When a woman cheats on her husband, she is tagged a slut but when a man cheats on his wife he is being referred to as a man being a man. Some women have taken it upon themselves to enjoy same freedom men have given themselves when it comes to sexual immorality, unfortunately men don’t get pregnant else maternity fraud would be worse than what paternity fraud is which is the men’s saving grace.
The fear of loosing out in the equation is what brings about Paternity fraud.

Make una enjoy your life

Tallesty1:
I read one crazy story on twitter yesterday. Man thought he is done having kids so he did a vasectomy to avoid getting the wife pregnant only to discover much later that he didn't father any of the kids

JealousCobra:
What about Benue State? Tiv land to be precise.

Verifried:
If you no fear women,I go fear you!


Get your Google voice from me today jare.. no Dulling

ibkayee:
Paternity fraud is bad etc yeah yeah yeah but sorry I find it hard to feel bad for a community of men who are generally quite flippant and callous about their extramarital affairs and expect/force cooperation from the woman.

What’s good for the goose is also good for the gander. Pele but una go dey alright last last

kulikuli45:
This is a two way street.

Many men also have kids outside that their wives (or nuclear family) do not know about.

Everywhere don spoil. Manage the one wey life give you.

Franklydes:
mumu, aleast the the child get identity and a known mum. The issue here is women who do this and make men believe that the child is his while is not and this happens for years and men keep taking care of the child who is not his

Franklydes:
mumu, aleast the the child get identity and a known mum. The issue here is women who do this and make men believe that the child is his while is not and this happens for years and men keep taking care of the child who is not his

Dimples2022:


Let me let you into a little secret, most other men know that it’s their child but they plot with the woman and stay quiet! Right here on NL there are some men who know that’s it’s their child but they don’t say shi because they’re also in a committed relationship… it’s a 2 way street.

kulikuli45:


How do you jump into a civil conversation and call someone mumu?

What kind of upbringing did you have?
Were you raised by a hoodlum as a child?
Abi dem forbid courtesy for your family?

Franklydes:
I get you but the one women do is soooooooooo painful.

DriveByKiller:
this took place in the East, right.

The good news is that that decision can be challenged in court. There are established legal precedents already.

How do we challenge paternity fraud after everything?

Verifried:
Don't be narrow minded. Google voice is a means of communication not only for Yahoo but also for freelancers and tech guys. Think fiver and upwork.

kulikuli45:

humanity is in the gutters.
Both parties are messed up.
We should all do better.
But then again, collateral damage is a fundamental part of evolution.

kulikuli45:


I understand your position totally.

However, I'll beg to differ based on impact.

Consider a situation where the man has a first son outside his home. Or a case I personally witnessed where a man has 3 daughters with his wife and finally got a son from his 'girlfriend' outside which the wife didn't know of. In this particular case, tje man's brothers and sisters were all aware and kept quiet about it because they claimed they were considering his wife's emotions.

However, when the man died, these same relatives agreed that his belongings belonged to this son since the girls will marry and go away.

Infact, they even told the wife that she can stay in the house as long as she liked but the house belongs to the boy whenever she leaves (or dies).

I do not think that her pain is less than the man who experienced paternity fraud.

Verifried:
If you no fear women,I go fear you!


Get your Google voice from me today jare.. no Dulling

4ward4:


So if I get you right , he should have died without a son and left his property and his name to be ruined? Placing too much emphasis on a female child , shouldn’t be done .
Thank God for IVF now , one can target exactly what he wants with some money. In as much as we will try to sooth the pain of others it is necessary to let it known that all sex of children is important in a marriage … Just when a man dies, we will get to know if he will truly lives on.

Sir, this conversation about full disclosure and honesty. Our actions have far reaching and traumatic effects on those we call our loved ones.

Verifried:
dm me bruv. Number dey my Profile