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Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by wonderr(m): 6:53pm On Jan 16, 2023
Dshocker:



Bros na matter of time, e go happen, i swear.

If your wife no gree ear word, beat nonsense comot from her head.
ahhhhhh I will rather send her packing
Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by wonderr(m): 6:54pm On Jan 16, 2023
Sammy101111:
Answer my question op
Is your house face me I last you house
How can your tenant be in your kitchen with out you knowing
yes Its a face me I slap you house
Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by wonderr(m): 6:55pm On Jan 16, 2023
Sammy101111:
Call your wife and warn her again
Tell her you’ve got nothing to loose
That if she continue doing that nonsense that don’t she know she is married that you will send her back to her parent . And call the guy face to face and tell him maturely that does he want to destroy your home was that why he rented the house to destroy your home and tell him to stop the friendship with your wife that she is a married woman which conversation are they both having at night . Warn him


For the Op that post this
There is something you need to know about woman . This ladies know how to manipulate things they will do something wrong and still act like they are the one affected . So from now play wiser . Your wife as seen you finish she knows you are weak ( sorry for saying that ) please now You have to be harder on her if she don’t want to listen na you marry your wife no be she marry you . Tell her if she doesn’t listen to you if you start your attitude she will hate . Try to always record them when they are talking at night and go and show your family and her family and tell them back that what is a married woman doing with a single man in your own house .
If she is acting stubborn
The fastest way to make her stop is to shame her cause a public reaction scream shout on her in public tell in front of everyone one . That she is a landlady why is she disgracing her self with a tenant .
Before she shame you shame her in public
If she act stubborn



And I don’t understand is your house face me I slap you waything tenant they find inside your flat apartment inside your kitchen for that matter you have allowed shit from start you are weak bro . That first day you caught him in your kitchen you should have change it for the guy badly and shame the guy call all the remaining tenant that they should help you oh before you go mad at the guy that what he’s he looking for in your kitchen does he want to poison you .


Woman will always take advantage of weak men
yes it's a face me I slap you house
Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by pansophist(m): 6:58pm On Jan 16, 2023
You're just a male by designation, not a man. So you really need advice from strangers on how to handle this situation? Soft men everywhere.

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Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by wonderr(m): 6:58pm On Jan 16, 2023
Sammy101111:
Call your wife and warn her again
Tell her you’ve got nothing to loose
That if she continue doing that nonsense that don’t she know she is married that you will send her back to her parent . And call the guy face to face and tell him maturely that does he want to destroy your home was that why he rented the house to destroy your home and tell him to stop the friendship with your wife that she is a married woman which conversation are they both having at night . Warn him


For the Op that post this
There is something you need to know about woman . This ladies know how to manipulate things they will do something wrong and still act like they are the one affected . So from now play wiser . Your wife as seen you finish she knows you are weak ( sorry for saying that ) please now You have to be harder on her if she don’t want to listen na you marry your wife no be she marry you . Tell her if she doesn’t listen to you if you start your attitude she will hate . Try to always record them when they are talking at night and go and show your family and her family and tell them back that what is a married woman doing with a single man in your own house .
If she is acting stubborn
The fastest way to make her stop is to shame her cause a public reaction scream shout on her in public tell in front of everyone one . That she is a landlady why is she disgracing her self with a tenant .
Before she shame you shame her in public
If she act stubborn



And I don’t understand is your house face me I slap you waything tenant they find inside your flat apartment inside your kitchen for that matter you have allowed shit from start you are weak bro . That first day you caught him in your kitchen you should have change it for the guy badly and shame the guy call all the remaining tenant that they should help you oh before you go mad at the guy that what he’s he looking for in your kitchen does he want to poison you .


Woman will always take advantage of weak men
he also has a right to the kitchen we all use it together but since he is single he hardly cook infact he has never cooked in the kitchen before the only thing that takes him to the kitchen is my wife
Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by wonderr(m): 6:59pm On Jan 16, 2023
Blunttruth:
Problems of face me I face you. That's the only explanation for the guy entering kitchen. It means you all share kitchen. If your wife is obedient she would listen to you. For the guy he is a bad guy. Na dem. The ones who sleeps with married women. He has studied you and knows you are not always around. The way to a mother's heart is to show affection to the kids. The woman will turn to mumu. You have to step your foot down.
thank you
Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by wonderr(m): 7:00pm On Jan 16, 2023
SensetionalGoal:
cool

I would dealt with the foolish tenant long before now if I were op walai...

Allowing him to come close to ur wife and family is ur worst mistake , you shouldn't have gave him such leverage...

I will advise you to warn him seriously never to come close to ur kitchen again, be firm about it and be ready to take drastic action because it seems their relationship has gone far...
it's a face me I slap you house we all share the same kitchen
Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by wonderr(m): 7:02pm On Jan 16, 2023
Slynation:
You are only being insecure young man... Although you have every reason to feel that way, but the mistake you made is letting a young man with full functional preeq into your home when you have a young wife...!!

The best way to deal with it is too stop thinking of the unknown, or your fears will surely come to reality one day...!!

Many men are yet to realize there wives are bored at home tho and they have no plans of spicing up their relationship.
but I can't spend all day with my wife because I don't want her to be lonely
Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by Slynation(m): 7:31pm On Jan 16, 2023
wonderr:
but I can't spend all day with my wife because I don't want her to be lonely
You don't have to spend all day with your wife, no one actually does tho, but that time you ain't working make out time to be with your wife, gist and play with her...

Your wife is supposed to be your companion, your best friend, gist partner, your resource and go to partner etc, but what we have this days is the normal routine of men going to work, coming back tired and the only conversation they normally have with their wives is all about the kids and "is the food ready" ??

Now your wife is taking solace in someone who can make her laugh so hard, crack jokes and makes her happy, more reasons your complain is falling on deaf ears, she will always go back to the young man afterall they ain't intimate and therefore didn't break any law...

Communication is the key to any lasting relationship, be it dating or marriage union, so instead of suspecting foul play, why don't you join in there conversation and see if they will carry you along, it will determine your next course of action...

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Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by Sammy101111(m): 9:36pm On Jan 16, 2023
wonderr:
he also has a right to the kitchen we all use it together but since he is single he hardly cook infact he has never cooked in the kitchen before the only thing that takes him to the kitchen is my wife



The truth is that your wife do not respect you just do what I explain to you and change your ways with her so she can give you a lot of respect

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