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Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by CHoccolaTE: 4:10pm On Jan 17, 2023 |
Romanoff: You put up very intelligent points in this debate but the thing with arguing with males is that they hate losing to females so they keep taking you round in circles until they wear you out or they change the topic to another one they can defend properly or they start using ad hominens and telling you how you are irrational or untruthful or emotional and so on. Very difficult and irritating gender. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Romanoff(f): 4:15pm On Jan 17, 2023 |
CHoccolaTE: I know this too well. It's why I know how to stand my ground and stay on my own point. I admire guys here who can argue intelligently and civilly. Them no reach 10 for this forum. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by CHoccolaTE: 4:19pm On Jan 17, 2023 |
@topic, There is nothing wrong with girls from single parent homes, stigmatizing them is another one way to force women to stay in toxic marriages, tolerating abusive men so they don't end up making their daughters products of broken homes. Some girls that come from homes where both parents are present also end up as bad wives because their parents never respected or loved each other and were always fighting, or the parents lived like brother and sister, no intimacy, closeness or affection. The important thing is the common sense and wisdom of the wife or husband, not whether their parents divorced or stayed together in unhappy marriages. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by CHoccolaTE: 4:23pm On Jan 17, 2023 |
Romanoff: Honestly, the mindset of males on this forum makes me pity Nigerian women. These are the men they are married or have to tolerate at the office, compound etc. I wish I can stand my ground when arguing with them but I have a short temper and I am likely to start using rude words when they spout nonsense, which always ruins the debate. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Romanoff(f): 4:53pm On Jan 17, 2023 |
CHoccolaTE: Most of them here are kids hiding under the cloak of anonymity. It's how they contribute to marital issues that will make you realize that they are nothing but kids who are either still collecting pocket money from their parents or are just "woke" on Nairaland but are closeted simps. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Kobojunkie: 8:24pm On Jan 17, 2023 |
pleasureosondu:But what makes you think your childhood experience with your parents is the preparation you need for this said exam? And also, what in the world led you to conclude that marriage is meant as some sort of exam for Pete's sake? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Kobojunkie: 8:28pm On Jan 17, 2023 |
pleasureosondu:Why do I keep sensing that your posts are born of anxiety? So many irrational conclusions and behind them all is a fear that hurt awaits you in the future as a result of your own past and possibly that of others. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by mylove4God(f): 10:36pm On Jan 17, 2023 |
@op.. you forgot that those single or separated parents came from parents that are together. There is no formula to couple that will stay together or not. We should just hope and work towards having the type of family we desire. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by pleasureosondu(m): 8:04am On Jan 18, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:The saying "Once bitten, twice shy" isn't an irrational statement but factual and only a few wise individuals can see through it. I'd have expected you to have debunked my statements with fact since you already admitted that I may have been a victim. So, Tell us why we shouldn't be careful with a girl from a seperated home since she's mostly likely, not gonna have the necessary qualities needed to keep a marriage which makes her vulnerable to walk away from a marriage if there's crisis as is the norm today. After all, that's what her parents did. So, debunk that statement with facts. |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by pleasureosondu(m): 8:11am On Jan 18, 2023 |
mylove4God:Agreed but if we go this way, the point of this thread will be diverted. So, let's stay on the topic which is, it's quite difficult to wife a lady from a separated home. The challenges they created is completely different and tougher from ladies that has both parents living together. |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by pleasureosondu(m): 8:26am On Jan 18, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: 1. You can't give what you don't have. There's are reasons why parents are considered as a child's best teacher. You're definitely not a parent,so you won't understand. 2. Life has stages. The experiences and challenges you currently have, you never had them 10 years and more are incoming as you grow older. If you don't address your current issues, you can't move forward to the next stage. Marriage is a stage for those who are prepared, not for some Hot folk. |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by CallmeTrinity: 11:28am On Jan 18, 2023 |
Noooooo |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by 00FFT00(m): 11:30am On Jan 18, 2023 |
pleasureosondu: Did she separate her parents?. 2 Likes |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Savechild23: 11:30am On Jan 18, 2023 |
Be ready to carry the blame |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Trilz(m): 11:31am On Jan 18, 2023 |
I can't Because they didn't enjoy those type of parent love. |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by ednut1(m): 11:31am On Jan 18, 2023 |
Many of the divorces today are from people whose parents have been together for a long time. It has no correlation. This is how people miss out on their soul mates with useless standards. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by maryjones9009: 11:31am On Jan 18, 2023 |
Thanks for sharing.. |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Imstrong2(m): 11:31am On Jan 18, 2023 |
That's a red flag |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Chee59(f): 11:32am On Jan 18, 2023 |
Are you marrying her parents? Would it also be right for a lady to marry a man whose parents are separated? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by naijapikin2(m): 11:32am On Jan 18, 2023 |
pleasureosondu:fully behind you. |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by VawuIenceProMax: 11:33am On Jan 18, 2023 |
No i can marry a hoe like Siofra who doesn't even know her father |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by emerged01(m): 11:34am On Jan 18, 2023 |
That shouldnt be a barrier. I'm from a broken home. Among all my prayers is that my children shouldnt experience a broken home. 4 Likes |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by BRATISLAVA: 11:35am On Jan 18, 2023 |
But it's okay to marry men from separated parents. This forum is so full of garbage that it stinks. I said it: after the clown was exposed for living a double life (as a red pill hater boy online and on the other hand a slave husband to a woman who out earns him), others would bring up new topics to continue the misogyny. Then, that failing, they will retrieve the old vomit from the sewer where they invent such topics, and resume the usual drivel. This is one of such topics. Since malignant guest was busted, the place has received less anti-female posts. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by na2016: 11:35am On Jan 18, 2023 |
pleasureosondu: This isn't a problem but run any partner that brings the parent into your matter ool |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by ufuosman(m): 11:36am On Jan 18, 2023 |
I no think say people dey reason that tin self... Marry where u get peace abeg 3 Likes |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by incogni2o: 11:36am On Jan 18, 2023 |
Immatex: I don't think its nonsense there is a higher chance of children of divorced parents getting divorced. So you have to Consciously be against it both as the child of the divorced parents and the person marrying the child |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by NothingDoMe: 11:36am On Jan 18, 2023 |
pleasureosondu:oya answer |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Mrkumareze(m): 11:38am On Jan 18, 2023 |
There's a saying; a dog reared by a woman eats chicken egg. Traditionally, it's a bad omen for a dog to feed on egg. |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by xristos(m): 11:43am On Jan 18, 2023 |
i'm a victim on one that couldnt be managed, Omo e hard o....i cant advise u Spiritual intervention is strongly required...or rely on calculated risk or luck |
Re: As A Guy, Can You Marry A Girl From A Separated Home? by Fancy4e: 11:47am On Jan 18, 2023 |
Fiscus105:you lie my friend…..We we’re raised by widowed mother all by herself, after she lost her husband when I was 3, she is so Godly nd taught everyone on how to live nd respect their spouse……she goes as far as settling close couples. So my dear, when someone is bad, that person is bad, irrespective of the family’s background……you all know the main cause of divorce in our society, so stop making it look like they weren’t raised properly. 6 Likes 1 Share |
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