dobnina:
This is very painful and sad.
She should have gone for family planning after the sixth child.
Its too late to abort. She should stop thinking so it doesn't affect her health and the babies.
God will surely come through for her and her husband.

Tk4all:
I think she should go with the abortion option.

6 children in our present naija no be small thing.

dobnina:

Noooooooooooo.
Abortion is risky at this stage.
If anything happens to her, the husband will run away and the 6 children will suffer.
Pls let her stay alive, give birth to the twins, hustle more with her husband and take care of all of them.

UnfairLife7:
■Nigeria isn't saner climes where government support the less privileges. She will be having 8 children in total if she chose not to abort it. What will become the fate of these innocent children? How will she survive with these children in Nigeria? She fainted yesterday and was rushed to the hospital. It was confirmed that she has been thinking so much and she doesn't eat well. This has affected her health conditions.
■ Her family and that of the husband had been so helpful according to her and it has really taken a toll on them. She even lost one of her uncle who has been supportive. This woman is sad, she's broken and shattered into pieces. I'm even scared of her life because she's not getting good medical attention for her condition. She doesn't eat well for herself and the foetus. I'm even bothered about her life, I sincerely hope all what she's going through wouldn't tell on her on the day of delivery.
■Please what's your advice for this woman and her family

Kobojunkiee:
1. What has Nigeria to do with the foolishness of your neighbor?

2. What does it matter what the women feels? Did anyone stop her and her husband from using protection /family planning before now?

Focus on getting the Kids out from under such foolish parents instead. Is there child services that can come take them away or something?

3. The last thing the couple needs is your pity. Instead, they need to be made to realize their wickedness instead.

Mindlog:
Child services in Nigeria?

Kobojunkiee:
Na hope I get say something like that dey to rescue those poor souls.

UnfairLife7:
My pregnant neighbour has been so restless and sick having discovered she's carry twin


This neighbour of mine is pregnant with 6 other kids. She has been finding it difficult to feed her family including her 6 children. Her husband is an electrician and plumber but he hasn't been getting job inorder to take care of his family. The children had been out of school for several years

as been thinking so much and she doesn't eat well. This has affected her health conditions.



Please what's your advice for this woman and her family

DBestDoc:



My advice is for them to enroll the other 6 children in a public school. There’s no reason why those children should be out of school considering the fact that Public schools are FREE.

About her pregnancy, she’ll be fine. She’s already used to and enjoys being broke and hungry. No problems at all.

Rechargeam247:
Children are God's gifts but hey, you need to take precautions.

They should find other sources of income, that's just the way out. They have a family of 12 to cater for.

Ulunne777:
When she knew the family planning had Been removed,she and her husband should have halted sexual relations until a suitable one is pit in place.
I once offered to take someone like her to family planning,I didnt see her again. Imagine a woman going to her 1st daughters house for omugwo with her own baby.

She should release the babies for Adoption.Thats the only remedy.