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Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by VendorGB: 3:32pm On Jan 20, 2023
Nwodosis:
Women are more caring in a relationship than when they are being married, for them to pick up thier caring attitudes which are dormant in marriage, they need a rivalry, either as a side chick or a second wife.
You just spoke my mind!
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Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by ifihearam: 3:40pm On Jan 20, 2023
Whats your business?
Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by pansophist(m): 4:28pm On Jan 20, 2023
Goodlady:

Ok. I guess men too need rivals. You don't treat people that do well to you badly.

Yes men need rivals. The question is, how will you do it? I'll tell you how. Be a good wife, and there will be no need for a rival.

This man is not marrying another wife because his wife was a good wife, but because she is a bad wife denying him of her matrimonial duties.

The advantage of being responsibile about anything is that you enjoy the proceeds of the loads you carry.

Until when a woman starts paying groom price, and carry the bill 100% of the household, you won't be able to rival men in any way.

When people talk about being responsible/accountable, lots of women run away from it, but that's actually where your power lies. It's hard to be responsible, hence only few people enjoy the benefits of it.

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Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by pansophist(m): 4:31pm On Jan 20, 2023
fyzaila:



In this case, the woman he is intending to bring in is not so young like that i think. She said from her findings she is just 2yrs older than her and she has 2 kids already. Just that my sis is alot fatter than her.

To be fat is even worse than being old. There are women whom are ten years older than me that I can be with, but some fat ones even fifteen years younger, I won't touch with a stick.

Your sister go husband house go fat, come de deny am sex and romance, and refuse to change. Imagine when a person is their own worse enemy. Tell her say her village people live inside her.

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Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by Saintmary(f): 4:40pm On Jan 20, 2023
fyzaila:
I don't know how i can help this situation gaskiya. My sis has been troubled ever since she went through her husband's WhatsApp chat with one particular woman. She told me she has been suspecting her husband who is always with his phone 247 for like 4 months now. She said he is always pressing his phone even till past 12am. When she noticed this she talked to him about it but he told her "it is his phone not hers, everyone should do whatever they like with their phone" she said she even denies him s3x sometimes because of this and also she's nonchalant about cooking and house chores all so that he can change and stop. But he doesn't seem bothered. And they have 2 kids.

So one particular night he slept off and the phone fell off his hand so she took it b4 it locks and went through his chats. She discovers he has been having emotional affairs with a divorced woman. It seems to her the woman was his ex. He is planning on marring her as his 2nd wife. And the woman also has two kids.

She said he hasn't defaulted in his responsibilities to the family. Me personally, i don't know what to do to console her to accept reality. Since our religion permits polygamy.

Nairalanders please what can you say about this situation now.


What do you want Nairalanders to do about this issue now?
Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by fyzaila: 4:41pm On Jan 20, 2023
pansophist:


To be fat is even worse than being old. There are women whom are ten years older than me that I can be with, but some fat ones even fifteen years younger, I won't touch with a stick.

Your sister go husband house go fat, come de deny am sex and romance, and refuse to change. Imagine when a person is their own worse enemy. Tell her say her village people live inside her.

You're not nice i swear. She has been fat right from pre marriage and that was how he saw her and toast her. So her fattness shouldn't be an issue here.

And besides she only started denying him the matrimonial duties when he became much addicted to his phone. She was only doing it to see if he will change and stop. But it seems it is otherwise

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Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by fyzaila: 5:08pm On Jan 20, 2023
Saintmary:



What do you want Nairalanders to do about this issue now?

To help provide solutions that can savage her relationship with her husband.
Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by Qatar2022: 6:02pm On Jan 20, 2023
fyzaila:
I don't know how i can help this situation gaskiya. My sis has been troubled ever since she went through her husband's WhatsApp chat with one particular woman. She told me she has been suspecting her husband who is always with his phone 247 for like 4 months now. She said he is always pressing his phone even till past 12am. When she noticed this she talked to him about it but he told her "it is his phone not hers, everyone should do whatever they like with their phone" she said she even denies him s3x sometimes because of this and also she's nonchalant about cooking and house chores all so that he can change and stop. But he doesn't seem bothered. And they have 2 kids.

So one particular night he slept off and the phone fell off his hand so she took it b4 it locks and went through his chats. She discovers he has been having emotional affairs with a divorced woman. It seems to her the woman was his ex. He is planning on marring her as his 2nd wife. And the woman also has two kids.

She said he hasn't defaulted in his responsibilities to the family. Me personally, i don't know what to do to console her to accept reality. Since our religion permits polygamy.

Nairalanders please what can you say about this situation now.
Brother face your own life, it's not against the law, its his choice let him be
Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by Fahvvy: 6:14pm On Jan 20, 2023
fyzaila:


You're not nice i swear. She has been fat right from pre marriage and that was how he saw her and toast her. So her fattness shouldn't be an issue here.

And besides she only started denying him the matrimonial duties when he became much addicted to his phone. She was only doing it to see if he will change and stop. But it seems it is otherwise


This is to show you how daft she and lots of women are undecided...
((Yes lots of women! Because I know almost every woman will act like this undecided))...

You're suspecting your man because he's addicted to his phone and rather than have a conversation with him you decide to throw tantrums!? undecided ...

How stupid can one be?! undecided...

Just imagine...
Weaponizing sex and neglecting your matrimonial responsibilities all because of mere suspicion, Kai!!! undecided...

Imagine if the husband stopped providing for her all because she's spending too much time in school grin...

I think it's high time men start mirroring women's action, atleast that way they'll see the erroneousness of their actions undecided...

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Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by Isabi4lov: 6:20pm On Jan 20, 2023
It is painful especially if the second wife has children from her previous relationship, since your religion permits 4 wives , there's nothing anybody can do about it .

At least if you one your pepper wife , pepper her with person wey dey high pass her , no be to go carry one local champion.

Your sister is worried because she has no money of her own .

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Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by Goodlady(f): 7:21pm On Jan 20, 2023
Nwodosis:

That will be acceptable when women start paying the groom price. Equality in marriage should start from who is paying the pride price or the groom price.
See as I dey look you?
Aren't you a man?
We ll not alter God's creation. So you men too should stop altering it by marrying more than one wife or advocating adultery. What a man can do, a woman ll do it better
Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by HltSong: 7:56pm On Jan 20, 2023
Nyascobar1414:
Your Inlaw is a redpiller, a man that knows he is a pussI slave,hahahaa...

A woman denying a man that has many option or pussy sĀ£x? Piss| slaves like me

grin grin grin grin
Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by HltSong: 7:57pm On Jan 20, 2023
Nyascobar1414:


wise words! Cos we be puss| slaves

grin grin grin
Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by samuel051: 8:17pm On Jan 20, 2023
Fahvvy:
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This is to show you how daft she and lots of women are undecided...
((Yes lots of women! Because I know almost every woman will act like this undecided))...

You're suspecting your man because he's addicted to his phone and rather than have a conversation with him you decide to throw tantrums!? undecided ...
How stupid can one be?! undecided...

Just imagine...
Weaponizing sex and neglecting your matrimonial responsibilities all because of mere suspicion, Kai!!! undecided...

Imagine if the husband stopped providing for her all because she's spending too much time in school grin...

I think it's high time men start mirroring women's action, atleast that way they'll see the erroneousness of their actions undecided...
I swear,very dumb fellow,if the reverse was the case,those 1diots feminist wannabe would have shredded the man to pieces.
Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by frozen70(f): 8:39pm On Jan 20, 2023
fyzaila:
I don't know how i can help this situation gaskiya. My sis has been troubled ever since she went through her husband's WhatsApp chat with one particular woman. She told me she has been suspecting her husband who is always with his phone 247 for like 4 months now. She said he is always pressing his phone even till past 12am. When she noticed this she talked to him about it but he told her "it is his phone not hers, everyone should do whatever they like with their phone" she said she even denies him s3x sometimes because of this and also she's nonchalant about cooking and house chores all so that he can change and stop. But he doesn't seem bothered. And they have 2 kids.

So one particular night he slept off and the phone fell off his hand so she took it b4 it locks and went through his chats. She discovers he has been having emotional affairs with a divorced woman. It seems to her the woman was his ex. He is planning on marring her as his 2nd wife. And the woman also has two kids.

She said he hasn't defaulted in his responsibilities to the family. Me personally, i don't know what to do to console her to accept reality. Since our religion permits polygamy.

Nairalanders please what can you say about this situation now.

This man in question is about taking another wife because they must have known each other even before he met his wife

The other woman needs him and she already have two kids so, he doesn't mind going in for her

Let your sister calm down and be humble , he may not marry the second woman after all but may keep in touch with the other woman

A woman can not stop a man from marrying another woman but her good attitude can stop the man from taking another woman
Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by fyzaila: 9:11pm On Jan 20, 2023
frozen70:


This man in question is about taking another wife because they must have known each other even before he met his wife

The other woman needs him and she already have two kids so, he doesn't mind going in for her

Let your sister calm down and be humble , he may not marry the second woman after all but may keep in touch with the other woman

A woman can not stop a man from marrying another woman but her attitude can stop the mab from taking another woman

Your first paragraph is kind of true. Ok hmmm
Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by fyzaila: 9:14pm On Jan 20, 2023
Qatar2022:

Brother face your own life, it's not against the law, its his choice let him be

Hehehe i am a sister o. And the woman is my sister. The thought of having a co wife is driving her nuts.
Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by freddie009(m): 9:19pm On Jan 20, 2023
Nwodosis:
Women are more caring in a relationship than when they are being married, for them to pick up thier caring attitudes which are dormant in marriage, they need a rivalry, either as a side chick or a second wife.

This is what I told a friend, that his girlfriend doesn't take him seriously because she can predict his moves. When she sees that if she sees that you can move on easily, it will put on her toes. She will be the one trying to impress you.

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Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by koyyess: 9:21pm On Jan 20, 2023
Your sis no get work.... na why she dey work herself.

If you get money with children, wetin you wan use d0g do?

I know say this story fake sha.
Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by Qatar2022: 9:24pm On Jan 20, 2023
fyzaila:


Hehehe i am a sister o. And the woman is my sister. The thought of having a co wife is driving her nuts.
Your sister made a big mistake by denying him sex and other things she did , she should pretend that the whole thing does not affect her
Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by Birniwa(m): 12:33am On Jan 21, 2023
Lol, she took it b4 it locks..

Women and the writer of this story are both amazing!
Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by saysoo: 12:38am On Jan 21, 2023
fyzaila:
I don't know how i can help this situation gaskiya. My sis has been troubled ever since she went through her husband's WhatsApp chat with one particular woman. She told me she has been suspecting her husband who is always with his phone 247 for like 4 months now. She said he is always pressing his phone even till past 12am. When she noticed this she talked to him about it but he told her "it is his phone not hers, everyone should do whatever they like with their phone" she said she even denies him s3x sometimes because of this and also she's nonchalant about cooking and house chores all so that he can change and stop. But he doesn't seem bothered. And they have 2 kids.

So one particular night he slept off and the phone fell off his hand so she took it b4 it locks and went through his chats. She discovers he has been having emotional affairs with a divorced woman. It seems to her the woman was his ex. He is planning on marring her as his 2nd wife. And the woman also has two kids.

She said he hasn't defaulted in his responsibilities to the family. Me personally, i don't know what to do to console her to accept reality. Since our religion permits polygamy.

Nairalanders please what can you say about this situation now.
Wetin concern you,?
Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by Saintmary(f): 11:43am On Jan 21, 2023
fyzaila:


To help provide solutions that can savage her relationship with her husband.

Let her use her hand to repair her bad character.
Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by Nonexisting1: 12:01pm On Jan 21, 2023
Since our religion permits polygamy.
Your religion permits polygamy so why are you disturbing us? The gentleman has all the rights to marry as many wives as he wants, your sister should resist the urge to be an enemy to his happiness. Madam rest. Meanwhile any marriage weh these bitter single and divorced vaginarians no break in this country now, maybe na angel Michael himself be the pastor that officiate am.

Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by Kobicove(m): 1:57pm On Jan 21, 2023
Just tell you sister to accept her fate
Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by Pzpropertylimit(m): 2:12pm On Jan 21, 2023
SHE CAN LEAVE PLS. THE SECOND ONE IS COMING . LET HER HOLD HER PUSSY AND FOOD .
Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by samuel051: 6:02pm On Jan 21, 2023
Pzpropertylimit:
SHE CAN LEAVE PLS. THE SECOND ONE IS COMING . LET HER HOLD HER PUSSY AND FOOD .
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Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by OrigeenalSeven: 8:40pm On Jan 22, 2023
fyzaila:
I don't know how i can help this situation gaskiya. My sis has been troubled ever since she went through her husband's WhatsApp chat with one particular woman. She told me she has been suspecting her husband who is always with his phone 247 for like 4 months now. She said he is always pressing his phone even till past 12am. When she noticed this she talked to him about it but he told her "it is his phone not hers, everyone should do whatever they like with their phone" she said she even denies him s3x sometimes because of this and also she's nonchalant about cooking and house chores all so that he can change and stop. But he doesn't seem bothered. And they have 2 kids.

So one particular night he slept off and the phone fell off his hand so she took it b4 it locks and went through his chats. She discovers he has been having emotional affairs with a divorced woman. It seems to her the woman was his ex. He is planning on marring her as his 2nd wife. And the woman also has two kids.

She said he hasn't defaulted in his responsibilities to the family. Me personally, i don't know what to do to console her to accept reality. Since our religion permits polygamy.

Nairalanders please what can you say about this situation now.

Allow him to marry a second wife he his tired of eating one soup he want to taste anoda soup
Re: My Sister's Husband Is Planning On Taking In A Second Wife...please Help by OrigeenalSeven: 9:11pm On Jan 22, 2023
fyzaila:
I don't know how i can help this situation gaskiya. My sis has been troubled ever since she went through her husband's WhatsApp chat with one particular woman. She told me she has been suspecting her husband who is always with his phone 247 for like 4 months now. She said he is always pressing his phone even till past 12am. When she noticed this she talked to him about it but he told her "it is his phone not hers, everyone should do whatever they like with their phone" she said she even denies him s3x sometimes because of this and also she's nonchalant about cooking and house chores all so that he can change and stop. But he doesn't seem bothered. And they have 2 kids.

So one particular night he slept off and the phone fell off his hand so she took it b4 it locks and went through his chats. She discovers he has been having emotional affairs with a divorced woman. It seems to her the woman was his ex. He is planning on marring her as his 2nd wife. And the woman also has two kids.

She said he hasn't defaulted in his responsibilities to the family. Me personally, i don't know what to do to console her to accept reality. Since our religion permits polygamy.

Nairalanders please what can you say about this situation now.


just fold ur hands and watch the turn of events as it unfold

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