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Chatting With An Ex by Maddestdp(op):
It's just 5 days I broke up with the girl I love due to so many challenges we've been facing over 6 years. We separated for 6 months last year and started dating a new girl while she also dated someone but she said it didn't last 2 weeks coz the guy cheated. What I never did to her. Now, the girl I was dating has gotten pregnant for me and I am planning wedding with her. She did same thing that always make us break up and I see it as an avenue to stay away from her. I love her so much. It's emotionally draining coz we do have great sex. The energy in bed for us is fire. The sex made me emotionally attached to her.
I unblocked her today and chatted her up coz my intention is to make her my side chick.
Attached is our chat this morning and do you think I am overdoing things and was it necessary to chat her up. Should I just forget her or find a way to make peace with her and we fucking. This is a girl that has once confessed to me that any guy that she sleeps with she imagine I am the one on her. It's my image she always see and she doesn't feel it like the way I do with her.

Re: Chatting With An Ex by Medianna(f): 11:37am On Jan 25, 2023
I don't have time to be reading all this long manifesto that is not bring money.
What have you being doing.all this 6 yearshuh
Maybe the next person can advice you.
Re: Chatting With An Ex by Titan12(m): 1:18pm On Jan 25, 2023
Finished man !
grin
Re: Chatting With An Ex by zed7:
Grow up and move on. You want to get married and then keep an ex as a side chick? You're better off playing with a loaded gun in your mouth.

Better move on and forget her. If you're the type so concerned about cheating on your wife, better look for someone else without history. Personally, I'll say zip up, extra marital sex is wahala.
Re: Chatting With An Ex by DaddyCash: 4:00pm On Jan 25, 2023
Lover boy,

Please let go!
Re: Chatting With An Ex by marlow1962(m): 4:04pm On Jan 25, 2023
Mtchew

Omo like this so, bottle mineral na 200h o, fuel no dy to buy. Black market na 500 for 1 Ltr, I do park my car taytay, if I Even manage see fuel station wer get petrol, na to carry my bed 🛌 along . Fear no dy let me on ac again.

Omo Nigeria don die o, and one mugu say na ex gf mata be em problem.
Re: Chatting With An Ex by Earthstorms(m): 4:20pm On Jan 25, 2023
Maddestdp:
It's just 5 days I broke up with the girl I love due to so many challenges we've been facing over 6 years. We separated for 6 months last year and started dating a new girl while she also dated someone but she said it didn't last 2 weeks coz the guy cheated. What I never did to her. Now, the girl I was dating has gotten pregnant for me and I am planning wedding with her. She did same thing that always make us break up and I see it as an avenue to stay away from her. I love her so much. It's emotionally draining coz we do have great sex. The energy in bed for us is fire. The sex made me emotionally attached to her.
I unblocked her today and chatted her up coz my intention is to make her my side chick.
Attached is our chat this morning and do you think I am overdoing things and was it necessary to chat her up. Should I just forget her or find a way to make peace with her and we fucking. This is a girl that has once confessed to me that any guy that she sleeps with she imagine I am the one on her. It's my image she always see and she doesn't feel it like the way I do with her.
One girl is pregnant for you, you are planning to marry her at the same time planning to keep your long time girlfriend as a side chic, death dey hungry you.

Does the long time girlfriend know that your new girlfriend is pregnant for you?

Just move on if you want to marry the new girl.
A point will come when your old girlfriend will blame you for the 6 years she wasted dating you.

When her new relationship does not work out or if she find it difficult getting married, she will remember you and blame you for her ordeal, you better not be around her then.
Re: Chatting With An Ex by Maddestdp(op): 5:14pm On Jan 25, 2023
It's noted sire

Earthstorms:
One girl is pregnant for you, you are planning to marry her at the same time planning to keep your long time girlfriend as a side chic, death dey hungry you.

Does the long time girlfriend know that your new girlfriend is pregnant for you?

Just move on if you want to marry the new girl.
A point will come when your old girlfriend will blame you for the 6 years she wasted dating you.

When her new relationship does not work out or if she find it difficult getting married, she will remember you and blame you for her ordeal, you better not be around her then.
Re: Chatting With An Ex by Zonefree(m): 7:44pm On Jan 25, 2023
You're just punishing yourself unnecessarily. The girl no even rate you at all.

After your long epistles, she only reply with few words.

I'll advise you block and delete her number to save you from further embarrassment.
Re: Chatting With An Ex by Gadafii: 7:45pm On Jan 25, 2023
You actually sat down to type that Bible for someone, you are a jobless weak man

Your shalaye too much
Re: Chatting With An Ex by Ginaz(f): 8:39pm On Jan 25, 2023
i only pity that girl you are about to marry whom you don't have much affection for.
Re: Chatting With An Ex by Maddestdp(op): 8:41pm On Jan 25, 2023
Ginaz:
i only pity that girl you are about to marry whom you don't have much affection for.
But once we marry the love will grow coz she is a type of woman of every man's dream
Re: Chatting With An Ex by aheadv: 8:43pm On Jan 25, 2023
lol
Re: Chatting With An Ex by Ginaz(f): 8:58pm On Jan 25, 2023
Maddestdp:
But once we marry the love will grow coz she is a type of woman of every man's dream
see no matter how sweet the sex was with your ex, the fire and passion won't care for the children when you guys toxicity will destroy the peace in the family.

forget your ex and move on! you shouldn't be messaging, it shows you're still emotionally tied to past.

focus on the girl you wanna marry pls. that's how some of you will carry emotional baggage into marriage and it would be the innocent spouse who suffers from lack of love and affection for what they didn't bargain.

sweet sex turns sour at a point! sex don't make a happy home by itself.
Re: Chatting With An Ex by Sonnobax15(m): 9:07pm On Jan 25, 2023
undecided
Mehnnnnn this ain't our problem right now as Nigerians..Just bought fuel for #500 per litre and you dey here dey disturb us about your ex wahala undecided
Re: Chatting With An Ex by Nobody: 9:10pm On Jan 25, 2023
You talk too much son

Re: Chatting With An Ex by ITbomb(m): 9:11pm On Jan 25, 2023
You really love this girl
Re: Chatting With An Ex by Nobody:
Girls get turned off by guys that talks too much. say less and be unpredictable that’s how you put them in check..see my own chat with an ex wey still dey find relationship but niggas like me don’t date, we bang the pussy and move on asap

Re: Chatting With An Ex by nicerod(m): 10:02pm On Jan 25, 2023
grin

Stop thinking with ur d1ck

U will soon complicate things for ursef.



Let x be x


Be warned.





Pvci plenty my guy
Re: Chatting With An Ex by Nobody: 11:54am On Jan 26, 2023
The love will clear from your eyes when you finally get HIV aids.

Mumu

Maddestdp:
It's just 5 days I broke up with the girl I love due to so many challenges we've been facing over 6 years. We separated for 6 months last year and started dating a new girl while she also dated someone but she said it didn't last 2 weeks coz the guy cheated. What I never did to her. Now, the girl I was dating has gotten pregnant for me and I am planning wedding with her. She did same thing that always make us break up and I see it as an avenue to stay away from her. I love her so much. It's emotionally draining coz we do have great sex. The energy in bed for us is fire. The sex made me emotionally attached to her.
I unblocked her today and chatted her up coz my intention is to make her my side chick.
Attached is our chat this morning and do you think I am overdoing things and was it necessary to chat her up. Should I just forget her or find a way to make peace with her and we fucking. This is a girl that has once confessed to me that any guy that she sleeps with she imagine I am the one on her. It's my image she always see and she doesn't feel it like the way I do with her.
Re: Chatting With An Ex by Houseofglam7(f): 1:27pm On Jan 26, 2023
Another pussywhipped human.
I’m sure Nigeria has more important stuff to fuss about.
Re: Chatting With An Ex by toujurs: 2:57pm On Jan 26, 2023
Merch:
You talk too much son
grin grin
Re: Chatting With An Ex by Maddestdp(op):
After all the comments here. She called me yesterday. She can't move on but I made her know there is no way with the way I spoke. I can't ignore the red flags nor leave the pregnant one.
Re: Chatting With An Ex by Muffassa: 9:03am On Jan 28, 2023
Maddestdp:
After all the comments hear. She called me yesterday. She can't move on but I made I know no way with the way I spoke. I can't ignore the red flags nor leave the pregnant one.
Thank God you don later recieve sense there's more to life than pussy, nigga move on
Re: Chatting With An Ex by Sniper101(m): 9:48am On Jan 28, 2023
Baba dey use code
take dey Beg for a come_back

🤣🤣🤣
Re: Chatting With An Ex by GoodHardDickk: 10:24am On Jan 28, 2023
Mumu SIMP man.

This is what happens when you are a simp. To let go will be difficult. That olosho and prostitutes have finished tasting all the dicks around and decided to come Back to u with an extremely over used wide hoe and u see nothing wrong with it? Idiotic simp.
Re: Chatting With An Ex by GoodHardDickk: 10:25am On Jan 28, 2023
Sniper101:
Baba dey use code
take dey Beg for a come_back

🤣🤣🤣
He's a very stupid SIMP man. That's exactly how to know a SIMP
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