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JovialRPiller:
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Ketapu:
One of the best ways to know if a lady consider you her best option for intimacy is to ask yourself this question.

Is she making rules for you or breaking her rules for you?

If she is making rules for you, she doesn't rate you well on her option list. You are just another beta or orbiter to be exploited for attentions and any other nonsexual things.

If she's breaking her rules for you, she considers you as one of her best options, a.k.a an alpha. She will do anything to ensure she doesn't lose you. That include bombarding you will sex.

Base on this explanation, I'm sure you know the category you belong to in this lady's rating.

I actually commend you for not forcing your way into her. You let her go once you realize she's not interested. She could have accused you of rape if you had force your way to have sex with her. Never force or manipulate a lady to have sex with you. The little enjoyment you get can end up being your doom either now or in the far future. There are many stories of men whose lives were destroyed based on that.

I also like that you didn't back down during your chat with her. You maintained your frame.

My Recommendations

1. Move on from this lady. She already made the rule that she's not interested to chat or be with you anytime soon. Turn that anytime soon to forever. Don't lodge around or stalk her while you wait for when her "anytime soon" will be over. That's just scarcity mentality. There is nothing special about her. You will meet many more ladies within the time left for you to live on Earth. Explore your options. Relate with more ladies. Let this lady become history to you.

2. Read the 36th law of the "48 laws of power" which states that "Disdain Things You Cannot Have: Ignoring Them is the Best Revenge."

This law is one of my favorite laws in dealing with ladies not sharing similar interests with me. Such ladies literally become dead to me and I don't acknowledge their existence again once they make it clear they won't give me what I want. It's always amusing to me when I later see them doing their best to get my attention. I just chuckle or even laugh and let them continue to work to get my attention which I still won't give them. There is nothing special about any vagiina. I've had sex with multiple ladies. Apart from some vagiina being wider than others, there is nothing special about sex with any lady. It still baffles me why some guys will always go the extra mile just to get laid.

For God sake, block that lady on all medium of communication and move on with your life. Most likely when she realizes that you no longer give a fucck about her and that you have another lady you now relate with, she will likely try to get back with you or she will also not care.

In either case, you win because you didn't waste your time trying to persuade a lady with low interest in you.

2dice01:
She said she dont want to see you soon that means want space Bro give her the whole Planet

Just Block her on social media then
Delete her number

Move on

Lordfranklin:
Kill shot!
Thanks for your input

JESHAL:
As a practising Christian or a religious person, the amoral nature of the redpill sometimes might not be condusive to your spiritual growth, it's very dark in the most abstract sense, it's challenging the teaching of light espoused by the gospel but you have to understand that it should not destroy your faith but serve as a challenge to your understanding of human nature ( specifically female nature) due to the fall of Adam, it's of necessity to understand it not because you want to execute it tenets like spinning plates ( fornication or adultery), but so that you won't fall victim to the wiles of female nature due to ignorance or naivety, once you are unplugged something within you awaken, you can never go back to your bluepilled state because everything you view will be from a redpill lense .

JovialRPiller:
😁😁

JovialRPiller:
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JovialRPiller:
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Pukkalolo:
You gain more romantic success when you understand this very core aspect of women I'm about to talk about.
Ladies who I go sexual with don't experience any guilt.. infact after they leave my place, I get messages like, "Yesterday, was fun." Or "Thanks dear, I enjoyed my time with you." These ladies are sexually comfortable with me: They don't feel deceived; they don't feel cheap or used. They feel comfortable showing me their naughty sexual side


Back to you and the lady.....See, she's saying, "I shouldn't have let it happen."

The reason she felt bad and guilty for going sexual with you is because she's not sexually comfortable with you. Nothing more nothing less.

Yes, she's probably sexually attracted to you, but the major thing is she doesn't feel any sexually comfortableness with you.....and your alpha fronting and your stone-cold aura wasn't also helping matters. You ended up reviving her psychologically barriers:" he just wants to Bleep me and use me for sex" and "if I give him the pussy, he might think I'm a cheap slut."


Anyways, I hope this was helpful.

dhiqson:
How's jeshal not the man of the year!!!!!!!?
Sir hit me more with your trailer load of wisdom...

CaveAdullam:
Should in case you missed it: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1617063923827748864?t=OpIc_WodZNnUJicOtvZAMg&s=19

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RedpillAnalyst:
That is pre valentine's gift.

Let's do this valentine differently

https://www.nairaland.com/7541313/valentine-2023-no-simping-edition

Haydens:
If you ask a girl her name after a long convo and she no ask you back is it wise to collect her number?

Haydens:
If you ask a girl her name after a long convo and she no ask you back is it wise to collect her number?

Haydens:
If you ask a girl her name after a long convo and she no ask you back is it wise to collect her number?

akwesenana:
That denotes lack (or apparent lack) of interest. Can never be me.

JovialRPiller:
Walk away
Girls full street

Kuvasin:
it doesn't make sense to collect her contact

Kenneth10110:
Hello Ubunja and everyone please there is this argument going on I'll try to be brief.


The issue is Dat there's this man doing everything for a girl just to make her accept his marriage proposal, her family already giving in buh the babe is still not accepting. The man in question just opened shop for her gave her money to run POS too in the shop and bought her a new phone. Then there is this guy that comes to the shop she tells him how she doesn't like the man then at times after closing her and the guy goes home to have sex( she has feelings for him but his broke). The girl decides she can't marry the guy later but she would marry the man because the guy is broke and not ready for marriage. She has chosen the man over the guy who we assume his an alpha male.


Now in this scenario

1. Please who does the girl truly love remember she still rejected the guy to marry the man

2. Who gains more between the man and the guy after the man married her.

3. If she loves the guy why did she not follow true love and reject the man