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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Angelfrost(m): 2:49pm On Jan 29, 2023
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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Sammy07: 2:49pm On Jan 29, 2023
[quote author=Olachase post=120474060][/quote]

Awwn not bad, remove her pictures
Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Ance4Liverpool: 2:51pm On Jan 29, 2023
This question is not for us
Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Romanoff(f): 2:51pm On Jan 29, 2023
tellwisdom:


Which luxury, poor gurl

Oshey Mr money, Omo Dangote.
Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by jessylaurel(f): 2:55pm On Jan 29, 2023
Kobojunkie:
I hope you are also not thinking of plunging into hypogamy as well, cause I can all but assure you the chances are 83% that you will regret that decision over the cause of your marriage. undecided

Meaning. How much do have. You think everyone is stupid and greedy like you.
Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by cozy7(m): 2:55pm On Jan 29, 2023
FriendsAndFans:
I am planning on getting married this year, so i want to seek guidance from married folks how they were able to raise funds to sponsor their introduction and wedding.

i dont have a partner yet, i just want to plan ahead.
I suggest u start saving ASAP, especially if your marrying from d East. Its better to hv enough cash n not need it, than need more cash n not hv it. Expect unplanned n unexpected expenses. Bottomline, whatever u doing for a living, work harder, u will surely need more cash. Especially if u plan doing all white, court n trad. For me, I did all within a mth, I spent hell.

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Sammy07: 2:57pm On Jan 29, 2023
Olachase:
😊😊

I'll think about it wink
Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by jessylaurel(f): 2:57pm On Jan 29, 2023
FriendsAndFans:

for some reasons you drove fear into me embarassed i know hypogamy means marriage into a lower caste, class, or social group.
Men dont bother much about where they find love. Also in Nigeria, its hard to differentiate between the lower class and the middle class. Its just the lower class and the higher class

Don't let any myopic mentality of another drive fear into you. Together the both of you can make it and be great.
Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by blowjohn(m): 2:57pm On Jan 29, 2023
Derailing the thread. Omo, the mallam selling suya no gree collect old notes this afternoon o.
Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Dshocker(m): 2:58pm On Jan 29, 2023
Romanoff:
We cut our coat according to our fabric.

We didn't sell asoebi to raise funds, we didn't task family members or friends, we didn't beg or borrow.

We did a small traditional marriage and went to the court to seal it.

Everything no pass 800k.

The monetary gifts we got, we used to buy luxuries needed in our house.

Best decision of our lives.

Lol....

The 800k you mentioned dey sound like N800m for him ear.

Baba no get coins, but him want do wedding, wahala wahala wahala.
Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by MrNipplesLover(m): 2:59pm On Jan 29, 2023
jeromestarks:
Imagine what men go through just to pay bride price, sponsor wedding ceremony and take care of in-laws.

Do not go through such stress just to have a woman who was fvcked when she was intact (virgin) by a boy who didn't even know her parents not to mention paying bride price on her.

A woman who has given her best (virginity) to another man should not expect the best from you.

A woman you did not disvirgin will fvck her ex the moment he shows up to her on Facebook or in the market. Never marry such a woman. Just fvck her and let others continue fvcking her.


Do not allow any family sell a woman who has been fvcked and mounted by many men to you as a bride. She isn't a bride anymore cus she has no pride left in her. No glory left in her, she's now a cargo of bad news.


Only a fool will suffer to marry a woman who has been fvcked and mounted by many men. Are you the fool?



Finally, fvck any girl you want but it comes to marriage, take the pains to find a virgin woman and marry. Better to suffer to find a virgin woman and have a lasting peaceful home than to marry a woman who has been fvcked and mounted by many men and SUFFER IN YOUR MARRIAGE.


No hymen, NO COMMITMENT.

May the gods of the universe bless this gee for me...

Nothing can be 'truer' than this...

This really impressed me a lot...

Na man u be...

Stay blessed, bro...

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by boxypane(m): 2:59pm On Jan 29, 2023
Simple. I been work n still dey work

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by zedegit: 3:00pm On Jan 29, 2023
LincolnOnyeabor:
Why save when you can do what is called Lagos Marriage??


How does it work?
Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Nobody: 3:01pm On Jan 29, 2023
Romanoff:
We cut our coat according to our fabric.

We didn't sell asoebi to raise funds, we didn't task family members or friends, we didn't beg or borrow.

We did a small traditional marriage and went to the court to seal it.

Everything no pass 800k.

The monetary gifts we got, we used to buy luxuries needed in our house.

Best decision of our lives.

Nice 1

But I expect a one time in a life opportunity like this to be celebrated in a loud way

But one can only cut according to the fabrics
Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Romanoff(f): 3:01pm On Jan 29, 2023
Dshocker:


Lol....

The 800k you mentioned dey sound like N800m for him ear.

Baba no get coins, but him want do wedding, wahala wahala wahala.

Wahala for who go borrow money for wedding o.
Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Nobody: 3:02pm On Jan 29, 2023
Just did my online trading
When I saw I had the right person. I married her

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Zeewirld: 3:02pm On Jan 29, 2023
FriendsAndFans:
I am planning on getting married this year, so i want to seek guidance from married folks how they were able to raise funds to sponsor their introduction and wedding.

i dont have a partner yet, i just want to plan ahead.
...

The most important part of wedding is FOOD AND DRINKS.Get this right by giving a competent vendor ,who isn't related to both parties,to handle the cooking and distribution of both on your day.

Live within your means I found it insulting to borrow for wedding,or not being able to buy a car after wedding because you incurred humongous amount on wedding.

Budget.It is very easy to be deceived into spending to 'celebrate your day'..You will be tempted to splurge on things that aren't necessary.As such,I can't overemphasize the importance of Budgeting and financial discipline.

Gifts and presents.Please ensure you attach a gift or wine to every card/I.V that you will be sending out.It shows that you value everyone that you will be inviting and it always produce a sweet savour.

Accomodations;It is important you ask your guests the kind of accomodations that they can afford and work on arranging it for the people you are inviting from far places.Inform them on time the reservations and the cost implications of it.



Pray and be positive-minded .Wars are won in the mind ,and a thankful and positive mindset conquers all.

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Romanoff(f): 3:02pm On Jan 29, 2023
acewines:


Nice 1

But I expect a one time in a life opportunity like this to be celebrated in a loud way

But one can only cut according to the fabrics

It was loud enough for us o.

We kuku no too like people (crowd).

All we did was to convince our families that it was what we wanted.

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Akeem1759(m): 3:03pm On Jan 29, 2023
You should better save up your and own chains of businesses or investment, its obvious this drive is coming from what you've been seeing arojnd you lately.. When the time comes, carry 10% or 20% of your money and use for the wedding. Ma te oo
Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by John3v19: 3:03pm On Jan 29, 2023
Dshocker:


Scammers everywhere
The "tares" part got me laughing grin grin
Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Iriruaga100(m): 3:03pm On Jan 29, 2023
I had 750k when I started the process of getting married. My our families was our support base. Start with what you have.

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by gentlejas: 3:03pm On Jan 29, 2023
Habit of savings and budgeting.
Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by youngtee5(m): 3:07pm On Jan 29, 2023
Olachase:
nope buh marry from osun or Ondo you will enjoy ur marriage or will you Marry my wife sister
Lol

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Assassink: 3:10pm On Jan 29, 2023
Innobee99:
When I was planning for wedding, I didn't even have close to 50k but when it came close doors began to open and the day was a huge success
Hmmm,what about Windows?

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by rottable(m): 3:12pm On Jan 29, 2023
Romanoff:
We cut our coat according to our fabric.

We didn't sell asoebi to raise funds, we didn't task family members or friends, we didn't beg or borrow.

We did a small traditional marriage and went to the court to seal it.

Everything no pass 800k.

The monetary gifts we got, we used to buy luxuries needed in our house.

Best decision of our lives.


Mine was similar to yours. Introduction and traditional marriage together then court.

We spent less than 200k

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Zeewirld: 3:12pm On Jan 29, 2023
Godsown0:

U never get money u wan marry i laff u grin
...He is being intentional . That's a good thing.Moreso,one doesn't needs so much to get married if the person has sense.

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by udemzyudex(m): 3:16pm On Jan 29, 2023
jeromestarks:
Imagine what men go through just to pay bride price, sponsor wedding ceremony and take care of in-laws.

Do not go through such stress just to have a woman who was fvcked when she was intact (virgin) by a boy who didn't even know her parents not to mention paying bride price on her.

A woman who has given her best (virginity) to another man should not expect the best from you.

A woman you did not disvirgin will fvck her ex the moment he shows up to her on Facebook or in the market. Never marry such a woman. Just fvck her and let others continue fvcking her.


Do not allow any family sell a woman who has been fvcked and mounted by many men to you as a bride. She isn't a bride anymore cus she has no pride left in her. No glory left in her, she's now a cargo of bad news.


Only a fool will suffer to marry a woman who has been fvcked and mounted by many men. Are you the fool?



Finally, fvck any girl you want but it comes to marriage, take the pains to find a virgin woman and marry. Better to suffer to find a virgin woman and have a lasting peaceful home than to marry a woman who has been fvcked and mounted by many men and SUFFER IN YOUR MARRIAGE.


No hymen, NO COMMITMENT.

How would you know she's a virgin?
Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Zeewirld: 3:17pm On Jan 29, 2023
Olachase:
nope buh marry from osun or Ondo you will enjoy ur marriage or will you Marry my wife sister
...Is your wife's sister a good girl? How old is she?
Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by Zeewirld: 3:23pm On Jan 29, 2023
McStoic:


Hmmm. Expatiate sir
...I believe the Lagos marriage he/she meant is the one that you will jump on a woman, impregnate her and she will park in and both of you will be co-habiting as couples

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Re: How Were You Able To Raise Money And Finance Your Wedding ? by iamademorlar(m): 3:23pm On Jan 29, 2023
Innobee99:
When I was planning for wedding, I didn't even have close to 50k but when it came close doors began to open and the day was a huge success

I tapped into your grace sir...
My own wedding is comin up this year also and things are very tight at the moment
I'm prayin for grace and favor

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