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Meektunz:
With all sense of honesty no sign at all....

PUSSY ASS NIGGAR EVERYWHERE
WEAKLINGS PARADING THEMSELVeS AS MEN
I AM SO ASHAME OF SHARING DIS GENERATION WITH WEAKLINGS LIKE U. U ARE JUST A DISGRACE TO MEN OUT THEIR.
D SIGNS WERE THEIR FRoM TIME, BUT BCS OF STUPID LOVE OR WHATEVER, U DIDNT SEE IT.
THEN, D WAY U ACCEPT A BITCH IS D WAY D BITCH WOULD TREAt U. ALL THESE CAUSED GENDER ARE ONLY HERE TO ADD TO UR SoRRY. CARRy UR CROSS

My first question is,do you treat her nicely,do you appreciate the little things she does and I don't mean buying her gifts,women are children basically and gifts just don't do the tricks anymore

Anytime these type of men come online to paint their wife black, my first thought has always been the same: I need to hear her side of the story too.

Women endure a lot in marriages and keep quiet, but the minute she decides to show the man a little shege from all he's been dishing her, they run online to complain (or call family meeting on her head).

investorcj:
My first question is,do you treat her nicely,do you appreciate the little things she does and I don't mean buying her gifts,women are children basically and gifts just don't do the tricks anymore

Please no vex me this morning. If I talk wetin Dey my mind u no go like am with this comment .

Sixfeetbelle:
Anytime these type of men come online to paint their wife black, my first thought has always been the same: I need to hear her side of the story too.

Women endure a lot in marriages and keep quiet, but the minute she decides to show the man a little shege from all he's been dishing her, they run online to complain (or call family meeting on her head).

show a man a little shege ? By disgracing him in front of his brother?
Wetin happen to putting the differences aside till the visit comot?


Do you even know what respect means to a man?

TradingGod:
The guy is right


The OP messed up by giving that bitčh too much leverage in that house

If OP had clipped her wings the very first day they started dating all these rubbish wouldn't have happened




All these stories of men allowing their wife to have a say in thier house is the problem of all this domestice violence shit



Put a woman in her place and she will never have the boldness and effontry to disgrace you infront of her inlaws

I don't believe any man is weak to handle his woman even if it lead to violence. Some choose that path of not acting to let peace reign. Men happen to be on the loosing end of it all when it comes domestic violence. They might lose custody of the kids. Most of such violences are triggered by the woman which OP happens to be a victim. I don't know this dude but i can feel what he's feeling. What he needs most is a way out peaceful. He's going through h£ll. Just profer a solution.

Meektunz:
God bless you brotherly, I've been tongue, hands and legs tied just for peace to reign but people think I'm weak but no i'm not. Do you know that there was a day i told her I'm tired of the marriage and she asked me "were we married before" that she has been outta the marriage long ago.

Hence it has gotten to her making such comments, just start make plans for a divorce right away. Start talking to a lawyer concerning. Do not wait for the paternity tests again. In the course of the divorce processes, you can mention the paternity tests. This is big sh!t you got to deal with. Your safety isn't even assured now. The dev!l has infilrated alot of homes looking for who to k!ll and cause havoc. Start speaking with your family about your decisions. Speak to them about divorce not some kinda reconsideration. Seek legal processes now. Start now before NL go carry your matter with another headline.
Just take it easy buddy. This will also pass.
*peace*

My Advice now cost $250 .


Slightly Negotiable...

And she's okay with this? Omor where una dey meet these women come even gather mind turn them wives sef And she's okay with this? Omor where una dey meet these women come even gather mind turn them wives sef ...

seanwilliam:
show a man a little shege ? By disgracing him in front of his brother?
Wetin happen to putting the differences aside till the visit comot?


Do you even know what respect means to a man?

Same thing it means to a woman.


He alone knows the kind of home he built and why it's crumbling in his very before. Don't be too quick to judge the woman until you've glanced into her marital life first.

Meektunz:
God bless you brotherly, I've been tongue, hands and legs tied just for peace to reign but people think I'm weak but no i'm not. Do you know that there was a day i told her I'm tired of the marriage and she asked me "were we married before" that she has been outta the marriage long ago.

Chai you don't mean it

You married an ungrateful woman, you need to end that union or you may not survive it.

boxer022:
You married an ungrateful woman, you need to end that union or you may not survive it.

Ungrateful and foolish Woman. She's behaving like those idiot here shouting feminism without even understanding what feminism is... She's not longer in the marriage with you, like you state that she said which marriage.

She's having someone else giving her good backing.... You'll be surprised that she's already cheating on you and doesn't see or respect the marriage because to her type marriage is just another relationship....

Many women are like that... Treating marriage like the previous relationship... Why many stupid men will tell you marriage will make a bad person, a good person.

All in all... Humans don't change. That's what I always remind my wife to be, because she's of the opinion that many woman will change after marriage but I understand her plight for where she's from marriage is the highest respectable union, while to others it's never was.

You can never make woman who's used to having 5 boyfriend's to keep to one husband after marriage and you can't expect a lady who never respect her boyfriends to respect her husband.

May lady's have this mentality that they can do any how and anything in marriage and the man wouldn't have a choice. Forgetting that the man married her for a peace of mind.

Allowing peace to reign doesn't mean you are weak. My advice would be to not sleep with her again, avoid her as much as possible and try to lay a trap for her.

Probably tell her you are traveling and ask someone to observe her movement and inform you so you can trace her.... I am certain she's not longer in love with you probably because you give her too much power from the start of the relationship and it's something you can't control now...

Don't sleep with your two eyes close until you've gotten rid of her.

Stay bless... Your real woman will locate you.

Many many men will marry all this wasted girls flooding the street.

Test those gold diggers while you are dating them... Only a foolish man who's looking to get married settle for one girl before proposing.

If you want to marry... Date more than 4 girls. Test them all. Marriage is a forever thing, don't start on the wrong step.

Meektunz:
I just want to know how to harden my heart and do it cos her family have been very people, I've tried talking to them severally about her but she seems not to be able to solve anything. Besides right now all that matters to me is ending this marriage.

Dey play

BinamRex:
Didn't you notice this before you got married to her? Carry your cross.

You guys should stop asking this particular question.

Women change once they marry and start bearing children.

Their pre-marriage character doesn't always matter

Meektunz:
God bless you brotherly, I've been tongue, hands and legs tied just for peace to reign but people think I'm weak but no i'm not. Do you know that there was a day i told her I'm tired of the marriage and she asked me "were we married before" that she has been outta the marriage long ago.

Nawaoo! You're weak, bros. Just accept it, make we no too vex for you.
You need to sit up.

TradingGod:
The guy is right


The OP messed up by giving that bitčh too much leverage in that house

If OP had clipped her wings the very first day they started dating all these rubbish wouldn't have happened




All these stories of men allowing their wife to have a say in thier house is the problem of all this domestice violence shit



Put a woman in her place and she will never have the boldness and effontry to disgrace you infront of her inlaws

You're a wise man

Lol so if we tell you now to just ignore whatever she does and keep enduring will you do that?
There you have your answer

Meektunz:
I just want to know how to harden my heart and do it cos her family have been very people, I've tried talking to them severally about her but she seems not to be able to solve anything. Besides right now all that matters to me is ending this marriage.

If u tell that kind woman say u want divorce.... she no go even answer u....she go just turn am to fight and more disrespect opportunity..

. if u stay in a rented apartment....gather money.....rent another place....if she don comot..pack all ur stuff....comot for house....

Branch her family...tell her folks...not that u came to tell them to beg her....But u are just notifying them the marrige is over.... she will get the news flash once...no be small small

After 6 moths lawyer can come in to serve papers
Or u can resolve....sometimes time apart dey reset marriage....

Killbillz:
And she's okay with this? Omor where una dey meet these women come even gather mind turn them wives sef

I just wonder! Tales of life.
On the contrary, OP didn't make a wise decision on this.
@OP, still eat her food. I'll advise you start eating her food again. Tell her to give you food. If she refuses, go make food for yourself. Do this everytime you're hungry. Just don't stop. Those kids you've there are observant.
Again, hence you've not gotten traces of cheating, how about you still make sexxxx advances towards her and get to detect her countenance towards that. You guys ain't divorced yet. She's still your wife. In the idea you don't wanna venture into any of those anyloner with her, make hay with the divorce papers. That union is no longer healthy for either of you.
Bro, you so need 2 take dis easy. U know, some ppl has mentioned here how no one has heard your wife's story. With the little you mentioned, things are not just okay over there.

Lonestar124:
If I were you, I will just carry my brother to a close eatery and have our meal...

You disgrace yourself in the presence of your brother I swear...

Big time. Going to the kitchen to cook, what a shame!

seanwilliam:
Please no vex me this morning. If I talk wetin Dey my mind u no go like am with this comment .

You asked for inputs and I gave you mine,what did I do to get you angry