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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by gfelo(m): 9:35am On Feb 10, 2023 |
if u are an idle person is going to be hard o, me like this hardly u meet me at home, get busy if he come and do not see u, he will stop coming |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Nobody: 9:36am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Jennyclay: Wow! Some of your mates are already studying for their Ph.D.'s. I know several of them in the US. Nigerian girls like you. But look at you. Chai! |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by aktolly54(m): 9:38am On Feb 10, 2023 |
KeyEndurance:drink small liquor so you can have liver to confront him about his attitude. So he has money to borrow you and can't use his money cook food for his own house? Invite girl come around always ,he will comfort himself whenever a girl is in your house and won't behave like glutton. Just explain the situation to him in a amicable way, everyone understand. He need to understand both of you need to contribute to feed otherwise he should cook in his house before coming. |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by gfelo(m): 9:38am On Feb 10, 2023 |
if na real friend he just look at u like say u just dey joke mariobalotelli09: |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by yemex04(m): 9:38am On Feb 10, 2023 |
If you don't have where to go which warrants him always meeting you at home then you should reciprocate the kind gesture by going to meet in first in wherever he calls home. |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by TheNewAgeFarmer(m): 9:39am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Don't shut your friend out because of food. This phase will pass. |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Boyooosa(m): 9:39am On Feb 10, 2023 |
KeyEndurance: Don't tell him to stop... Help him to get engaged. Discuss on how he can get something doing that can give him food. Try all your best to secure a job for him if you can... Be his friend as much as you can and allow God to help you both |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by McEphiks(m): 9:40am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Jennyclay: What has this got to do with relationship? You don't have to exhibit your asinine sense of reasoning to the world, do you? Issh! I'm allergic to deliberate stupidity. |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by jimb(m): 9:40am On Feb 10, 2023 |
that kin guy dey later travel out.. |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Rubbiish(m): 9:40am On Feb 10, 2023 |
KeyEndurance:Do not inconvenience yourself to please any friend o. If u have, u can give, but if u don't have, do not stress yourself. Do u know the funny thing about this, once this ur friend start making it, he will not even remember ur good deeds towards him or help u. He will only help his wife & kids. Help friends only when it is convenient! You can go out of your way to help family members, but not friends, do not stress yourself to help friends, It is not worth it. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by mmaha: 9:40am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Dont stop your friend coming to your house. A popular saying Ä giver never lack". As he keep coming to your house it means he is going through top time. Ask him bros what is happening, you dont have a job or what? let me see how we can go about it. He will then explain better. |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by faceland: 9:42am On Feb 10, 2023 |
dawnomike: He is no longer a guest... No more entertainment, he should be helping around. |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Paracetamol01: 9:42am On Feb 10, 2023 |
You should visit him too at his own place often unannounced |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by seanwilliam(m): 9:42am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Medianna:lol |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Khallicopyro: 9:44am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Medianna:God bless you for that |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by jaxxy(m): 9:44am On Feb 10, 2023 |
KeyEndurance: Before I hastily judge him it might be due to his personal situation bt that is no reason to put his problems on u. If he's coming just to take stuff and not adding value tell him to reduce his coming or else he will drag u down with him. He's being selfish and insensitive. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by engronwe22: 9:46am On Feb 10, 2023 |
The best thing is you should be going out every, whenever you notice he is coming to your house, you have to be going out too, don't allow him to meet you in the house, know exactly the time he normally come, go out before his arrival. |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Rubbiish(m): 9:46am On Feb 10, 2023 |
mmaha:Are there no beggars in your area? Why are u not giving to them all, so u won't lack? If u don't give with sense in this life, u will suffer & those u helped won't help u, even if they are in position to, na then your eyes go clear! 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by SamPeeLamen(m): 9:47am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Oga Endurance, just endure, this too, shall pass 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by wehdone(m): 9:47am On Feb 10, 2023 |
I don't know if you will see yhis reply, but I hope you do. You said he comes to eat daily in your house? Reduce how often you cook. Let's say you normally cook what you will eat for 2-3 days... Try to cook noodles that will only last a meal. Don't cook stew, rice, soup, etc... Just a daily food portion at a time. If he asks what's up that there's no food, tell him that things are a bit rough for you right now. Give him #150 to buy his owm noodles to cook. Tomorrow, eat out before returning home. You could buy noodles to be cooked late in the night (when he has gone back to his place). By the time you do this for like a week, he will reduce the way he comes to your house (if he is a fake friend or if he just wants to leach on you). Thirdly, you should also go to his house (before he comes to yours, behave the exact same way he behaves in your house. Listen to what he says, watch his body language, see what he does, etc... And act accordingly. Finally, call him in advance and tell him you're expecting a visitor, that you will need some privacy this period... Invite your gf ar a trusted female friend to come stay with you all day. Bring different chics for like 3-5 days. He'll find another hobby and leave your house alone. However, if after telling him you have some financial difficulty he keeps coming to see you, support you to buy food or brings food from his place (no matter how poor the food is), encourage you and tell you say e go better, etc (you know those things good friends say and do), please feed him and feed him well. He's a true friend 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by CosmicJames(m): 9:48am On Feb 10, 2023 |
KeyEndurance: Thank God you have to give. Pray to have more so you can continue to give. Know that it is possible that it would have been the other way round. According to your usename, endure. This time will pass and you will be fine. |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by seanwilliam(m): 9:48am On Feb 10, 2023 |
It’s easy.. start complaining to him on how things are hard, ask start borrowing money from him without returning it. Also start visiting him often too. |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by UnfairLife7(m): 9:49am On Feb 10, 2023 |
KomonSense:don't mistake her for your miserable mother and cheap sisters 😂 |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by GorillaApp(m): 9:51am On Feb 10, 2023 |
mariobalotelli09:Omo this your sense na follow come o |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by fabolouz1(m): 9:52am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Be blunt with him, no need trying to please him and displease yourself . |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Imyourex(m): 9:52am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Jennyclay: I don't get, first you attacked his grammar, next you attacked his pocket, I don't think you even read the guy's post, was he talking about relationship or his friend. Bia, everybody is struggling these days, don't accuse an innocent person. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Sweetvie: 9:55am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Country hard |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by olisaEze(m): 9:55am On Feb 10, 2023 |
You kuku look for somewhere to be going too! You’re always available at home that’s why he always comes calling. Next time he catches you at home, dress up and tell him you’re going out. He’ll get the message after you’ve done it to him more than once. But pray the roles don’t get reversed someday, because all it takes is one hurtful word to wipe away years of friendship. |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Quim2: 9:57am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Medianna: Some things are forever until you stop them |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Sunny91(m): 9:57am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Wisdom is profitable to direct, Do not make any mistake to stop him from coming to your house the wisdom here is that advice him to get a job or regret your action later in the future. |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Sweetvie: 9:57am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Rubbiish:wotowoto😂😂 |
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