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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Tsufyaan: 9:57am On Feb 10, 2023 |
KeyEndurance: Nawa went me dey look for person wey go help me eat my food for here. Just try to see if he's not using you aside that nothing do una and with time you guys will make it together. |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by RZArecta(m): 9:57am On Feb 10, 2023 |
KeyEndurance:change your locks. There's no polite way to this thing but I perfectly understand. You just might need a woman to move in and tell him iyawo needs privacy if he insists on visiting carelessly. No be curse but from childhood, we were taught not to over visit people to avoid becoming a nuisance, try hooking him up with gigs or jobs also. Trust me, I know just how you feel |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by UnfairLife7(m): 9:59am On Feb 10, 2023 |
RPG2020:hmmmm It is well |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Mina79(f): 9:59am On Feb 10, 2023 |
KeyEndurance:Stop buying food stuff in the house or ensure you eat before he comes or start eating out for sometime and he will stop coming. |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by InvertedHammer: 10:00am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Jennyclay: / If only you know how many American and British citizens fail English 101 or equivalent in universities. Na written communication. Everyone understands his points except you. Maybe you are the problem. / |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by kitken: 10:02am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Do the best u can do. Remember, love ur neighbor as u love ur self. The Almighty sees ur heart. ... u have a good heart. |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Rubbiish(m): 10:03am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Killbillz:Any friend always taking from u can never make a good friend. A good friend will always try to create that balance. Him fit carry woman, but i am sure he has never sacrifice up to 5k for u. Read my quote below before I saw urs. Rubbiish: |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Coolbadguy: 10:03am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Jennyclay: Borrow some sense since you don't have any. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by FashionCookie(f): 10:03am On Feb 10, 2023 |
LordviccoDaGuru:Like I stay in the same city with my kid sister. I went to her house just once ast year. She complain tire...person wey don marry, wetin I wan come do there? I'm too busy with work and always tired when I close for me to start going up and down in the name of visitation. Me that don't even have a normal weekend again. I'll now use my Sunday for rest to go to people's houses. No b me... |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by HONNESSTY(m): 10:05am On Feb 10, 2023 |
One of the greatest mistake u can ever make in life is to tell a friend to stop visiting based on what u just typed. We know how unfriendly the economy of the country is at the moment, it will be unwise to tell him directly to stop coming rather use wisdom in managing your food for only ya stomach. Never tell a friend to stop visiting u, if u ask me I go tell u say e get y |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by romunu(m): 10:05am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Stop waiting for him at home, any time he wants to visit, tell him to meet you at a joint, tell him how hard you can feed these days, then he will understand, that times are reallly hard. |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Dshocker(m): 10:05am On Feb 10, 2023 |
KeyEndurance: What you should know is that, no condition is permanent and the same guy can blow within a twinkling of an eye. So advise you don't allow food or assistant destroy your friendship with him. Now here is the deal breaker; When ever he comes, also lament and complain how things are bad and terrible for you financially. Do not offer or give him food/money, with time he would limit his visit, because he knows it won't be fruitful. Why am saying this is, because you might need his help tomorrow. |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by FashionCookie(f): 10:09am On Feb 10, 2023 |
benzics:One of my acquaintance was complaining I don't go out or visit people. I asked her to her face if she was sharing money in her house? Dey your dey make I dey my dey...wetin hard there? If it's not business or money, my hand no dey. Like I don't even think I miss out on anything if I don't go out. I enjoy it more when I'm indoor...except evening outings. Just imagine "waka-ing" up and down in this hot Nigerian weather that can twist someone's brain. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Ubanz: 10:10am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Anytime he comes you lock up. If he ask of food Tell am stories too. U too can be broke. |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by afrika4real(m): 10:12am On Feb 10, 2023 |
KeyEndurance:ask to visit him as well. |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by IBBG(m): 10:13am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Just ask him to bring money so that you can add yours to cook. Since he is always eating at your place. And the means to constantly cater to such need from your end limited. Any reasonable friend would oblige. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Nobody: 10:13am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Jennyclay:Your second paragraph is pako English too. You should have simply said “the body and headline of your post give me headache.” |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by DeHumbleTboy: 10:16am On Feb 10, 2023 |
KeyEndurance: |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Nobody: 10:19am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Please stop coming to my house for now, there are issues I need to resolve. |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by FireUpNow(m): 10:21am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Life hard we know. Use wisdom but don't forget tomorrow because the table can turn the other way. I am just saying though |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Nobody: 10:23am On Feb 10, 2023 |
KeyEndurance: He no get work? |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by sirjamesjnr(m): 10:24am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Sonnobax15:I never tell a brother not to come to my house even when I know he is using my head. I believe I keep getting richer by being kind. Food is nothing. Learn to share. It’s painful but the force of nature will always come handy when you need it most. There’s seed time and harvest time. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Musisco01(m): 10:24am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Jennyclay: Your quotation shows your fragile mentality of slavery. Is English our mother tongue in this country? So why shame someone for errors in his vocabulary of English. If not for they colonized us in west Africa and all, coupled with the bad governance we are experiencing, who are the westerners to begin with? 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Nobody: 10:25am On Feb 10, 2023 |
KeyEndurance: You gave him your key? Oga ooh |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Bigman247(m): 10:26am On Feb 10, 2023 |
If the tables turned and you were the one going to his house, will he stop you from visiting? If you have food, give him to eat and if not let him know your situation. But do not stop him from visiting, you might need his help in future. |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by PotatoSalad(m): 10:29am On Feb 10, 2023 |
samwash:Na them be this. Gaslighting association of Nigeria. |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by sirjamesjnr(m): 10:31am On Feb 10, 2023 |
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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by PotatoSalad(m): 10:35am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Killbillz:Pesin dey use you and u no know. Well it's the kind of friends you keep around you though. Never had anyone come to my house and start behaving like he owns the place. I'll send you out immediately. Dey try toughen up bro. No dey let people take advantage of you |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Allisgud: 10:38am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Medianna:what do u expect the friend to reply at this point in time of Nigeria 🤪🤪🤣 |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by PotatoSalad(m): 10:38am On Feb 10, 2023 |
FashionCookie:True af. That's why whenever I decide to visit anyone, they're eager to see me. I have close peeps in this city that i haven't seen since November and we still communicate everytime. Make yourself less available and people will value and respect you more 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by FashionCookie(f): 10:40am On Feb 10, 2023 |
PotatoSalad:Way to go bros! As Warri people will always say... "Long time no see better pass you've come again." 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Allisgud: 10:40am On Feb 10, 2023 |
KeyEndurance:that one good na,it simple means he is contributing for food, always borrow from him |
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