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Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by correctguy101(m): 2:56pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
KeyEndurance: No mind am o jare. Person dey complain say things hard, Mr Advisor dey ask am to go buy dog. How will he care for the dog when he himself never chop bellefull. Las Las, the dog and that your friend will become friends and double the burden on you. I just dey pity the OP with most of the advice I dey see on here. |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by DjRickyNG: 3:29pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Jennyclay: Always swaying with non-witty comments. Ur spiteful temerity & presumptuous haste to hate,plunder & annihilate every men will damnify you! Just a warning. I won't waste my time talking to you a second time! |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by correctguy101(m): 3:33pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
CosmicJames: Fact of life.. There be friends of mine whom I fed and housed far back 2012-2015. Not like I had too much but I just accommodated them cos the streets were really tough during those years for them. Sometimes this daddy fit no get cash but we will still use the little on me to drink monkey tail end borrow food stuff from a neighbor of mine. Those days were crazy and fun filled, aswear. But their story today is different One of this my mumu guys no dey let me rest if I visit or he visits, na to use drink and food punish me. There are two of them like that wey dey give me cash just for the fun of it. Them no dey ever agree for me to spend money when they're with me. When I look back, na just to SMH and laff at life. Some people have made people wicked though but just be happy you can help someone, and be done with it. Life's crazy James, this I know... |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by KeyEndurance: 3:50pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
dettolgel:Your Comment Gave me joy |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by OvertheTop(m): 3:53pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
KeyEndurance: in that Case, You guys should start contributing 50:50 to the food Money, preparation, and Eating. so you can save some money. |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Abrahamweb(m): 4:25pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Jennyclay:See this mumu o, wetin concern "someone's daughter" for wetin Op talk now |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by KeyEndurance: 4:37pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
[quote author=wehdone post=120783324]I don't know if you will see yhis reply, but I hope you do. You said he comes to eat daily in your house? Reduce how often you cook. Let's say you normally cook what you will eat for 2-3 days... Try to cook noodles that will only last a meal. Don't cook stew, rice, soup, etc... Just a daily food portion at a time. If he asks what's up that there's no food, tell him that things are a bit rough for you right now. Give him #150 to buy his owm noodles to cook. Tomorrow, eat out before returning home. You could buy noodles to be cooked late in the night (when he has gone back to his place). By the time you do this for like a week, he will reduce the way he comes to your house (if he is a fake friend or if he just wants to leach on you). Thirdly, you should also go to his house (before he comes to yours, behave the exact same way he behaves in your house. Listen to what he says, watch his body language, see what he does, etc... And act accordingly. Thank You so Much |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by KeyEndurance: 4:44pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
InvertedHammer:My God Bless You For Me |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by KeyEndurance: 4:54pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Allisgud:but am paying back |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by KeyEndurance: 5:03pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Jamahyel:Yes Ofcourse |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Emmychem(m): 5:19pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Bro, discuss it with ur galfrnd.... Tell her to change her attitude whenever she's around... Believe me the guy won't be coming again. |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Autobot05: 5:34pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
akpunda86: You go let the dog bite am just once ... he won't come again |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by millionboi2: 6:15pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
dawnomike:very simple oo, better than stoping him from coming 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by kevinexit(m): 6:16pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Jennyclay: Did the guy mention relationship 🤔? Ashawo kobo kobo .. what do you even have to offer seff with ur smelling pu..ss.y |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by millionboi2: 6:26pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
FashionCookie:same with me 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Nobody: 6:38pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
PotatoSalad: True... Its not like people take advantage of me. I love giving people very long rope to fvck themselves up with so when I decide no one, not even himself will blame me cos him go know say na him side the fvckup dey. As him done prove say him nor go change na to turn back on am finally 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by millionboi2: 6:45pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Tsufyaan:like seriously Location |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by millionboi2: 6:48pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
FashionCookie:lol in d name of friendship. |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by olusegxz: 8:07pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
You have more likes than the post itself mariobalotelli09: |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by FashionCookie(f): 8:41pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
millionboi2:I no dey too do friendship o. Apart from my sisters...I'm very ok alone. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by millionboi2: 8:45pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
FashionCookie:they are just few of us in this world 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Poleski: 9:32pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
- Stop offering food. - Stop making yourself available all the time. - Tell him things are tough for you too. Problem solved! |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by Allisgud: 9:49pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
KeyEndurance:pay him back and ask for contribution for food by telling him u don't have any food stuff at home him go ja |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by FashionCookie(f): 10:18pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
millionboi2:Friends? Like I don't even envy people with friends. I'm not bragging, I do more in friendship so what's the need? Make I kuku dey on my own make I know say na only me dey. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by KomonSense: 8:27am On Feb 11, 2023 |
UnfairLife7: God have mercy on you |
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