Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? - Romance (2)

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Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by davillian(m): 6:35pm On Feb 14, 2023

It's still de usual toto
They can gift you

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Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by Thomasankara(m): 6:35pm On Feb 14, 2023

[/color]who then will you marry[color=#770077]

StrongAlphMale:
Only a Fool would waste his time dating a Nigerian girl.

You should bang them, dump them and move on.

Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by Ara21(f): 6:36pm On Feb 14, 2023

Nairaland men will not kill somebody, have you seen a lady force any of these men to give them gift huh

You people should change topic for today.

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Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by wonlasewonimi77: 6:36pm On Feb 14, 2023

What is the probability that OBI will win

chicoMX81: OBidient are truly fixing everything...nice move to have another top forum in Nigeria

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Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by Justbehave(m): 6:38pm On Feb 14, 2023

CaptainStephen:
like I said, you all being broke and young is a summative assessment.

Broke for obvious reasons and young in age, mindset and exposure. I never had to nurge my wife to reciprocate in giving and etc even when we were dating.

Oga go and sit down one place. Naso una go dey talk like say woman na special being. Na your type dey give women moral to dey misbehave and entitled.

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Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by Shadysen: 6:39pm On Feb 14, 2023

That mentality makes me to hates them bitches, fucking selfish beings.

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Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by Spandau: 6:39pm On Feb 14, 2023

Jamest162:
i still don't understand the mentality Nigerian girls have.
They love receiving all the time.

It is the olosho, call girl, hook-up mentality that took 3 decades to finally settle in the psyche of almost all of them so that even the ones yet unborn are already prepped to think like that.

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Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by mmsen: 6:39pm On Feb 14, 2023

Nigeria? It is one sided everywhere. Valentine's Day is an import from the extremely gynocentric Anglo-Saxon world.

Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by ikeno(m): 6:41pm On Feb 14, 2023

It's not surprising to we guys anymore that naija girls are self-centered, selfish, thoughtless,unappreciative, entitled bit*ches that feel that it's their right to always collect.

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Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by winner37(m): 6:41pm On Feb 14, 2023

Zenith bank spoiled everything for me oo, babe no want pick up my call

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Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by Spandau: 6:42pm On Feb 14, 2023

Ara21:
Nairaland men will not kill somebody, have you seen a lady force any of these men to give them gift You people should change topic for today.

No they won't. They have something on their minds and they will say it. And you will listen.

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Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by BigYash: 6:43pm On Feb 14, 2023

CodeTemplar:
That isn't the issue here. Even if we are all just broke and young as your said, why should two people who truly love themselves leave the responsibility of showing love to one party always.

The idea of a man being a provider was inspired by the Holy bible and was for his household or immediate family.
The love of money and social pattern of ladies being approached has slowly allowed greed to creep into romantic relationships.

No mind that one.. Na idiot.. Sense no gum am

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Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by franchasng: 6:44pm On Feb 14, 2023

CodeTemplar:
According to Britannica, Valentine's Day, also called St. Valentine's Day, holiday (February 14) is a day when lovers express their affection with greetings and gifts.

lovers express love with gift and greetings.
Why is it a one sided affair with Nigerians? Hardly will your see ladies giving gift and when they do, it is more likely to be inferior in value to what they expect and demand.

Stop blaming Nigerian girls, it is not their fault, this thing has to do with our Nigerian culture and tradition.

In Nigeria we don't practice gender equality from birth starting from our homes. We teach our male kids to become breadwinners from childhood and teach our female kids to focus on being pious, looking beautiful, learning how to cook, how to organize the home and how to complement the male.

If truly Nigerian guys want a change in all these, we must start from the family settings, starting from our individual homes by teaching our daughters, our sisters, nieces, etc how to be independent, how not to rely on men for anything, and then we must also teach the boys same and then the boys must be ready to play the roles we believe are meant for girls and not expect a girl that serves them food, clean their house, do chores.

Whiteman's culture no sweet lets not envy them.

Why our guys are complaining is because of bad economy as a result of successive useless leaders and failed governments like Buhari and APC that have made Nigeria a hell for young men.

If Nigeria's economy is booming with good jobs available for able bodied youths willing to work and business opportunities available for those willing to be self employed, believe me, you guys wont even complain about all these.

Blame Nigerian failed leaders not the Nigerian girls on this one abeg

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Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by shantti(m): 6:47pm On Feb 14, 2023

wonlasewonimi77:
What is the probability that OBI will win

Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by oliverwrites: 6:50pm On Feb 14, 2023

Everything is one sided. Wedding anniversary o, birthday o, everything.

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Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by shantti(m): 6:51pm On Feb 14, 2023

It's because they think we can't do without sex.

Men, please listen, whether u are married or not. Let's make a resolution. Let's deny women sex for two years, let's see who will cry first. You will see that they will start crying 😭 and begging 🥺us with gifts. Please let no man touch a woman for the next two years no matter what, let's correct this anomaly please

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Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by Lumig: 6:52pm On Feb 14, 2023

Because the females in most relationships are leeches and liabilities

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Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by lomprico(m): 6:56pm On Feb 14, 2023

CodeTemplar:
According to Britannica, Valentine's Day, also called St. Valentine's Day, holiday (February 14) is a day when lovers express their affection with greetings and gifts.

lovers express love with gift and greetings.
Why is it a one sided affair with Nigerians? Hardly will your see ladies giving gift and when they do, it is more likely to be inferior in value to what they expect and demand.

Not only valentine, Christmas, birthdays (including your own birthday o) new year, anniversaries, anything celebration.

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Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by AdejorLawrence(m): 7:00pm On Feb 14, 2023

CodeTemplar:
According to Britannica, Valentine's Day, also called St. Valentine's Day, holiday (February 14) is a day when lovers express their affection with greetings and gifts.

lovers express love with gift and greetings.
Why is it a one sided affair with Nigerians? Hardly will your see ladies giving gift and when they do, it is more likely to be inferior in value to what they expect and demand.

The simple answer is majority of them don't know how to love and they have entitlement mentality.

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Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by oyeb15: 7:04pm On Feb 14, 2023

Who cares again

Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by Nobody: 7:04pm On Feb 14, 2023

Qatar2022:
Nigerian girls are selfish, all they think about is themselves only

Confirmed.

Including about 70% of their Men too. Their Greed have no boundaries.

Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by TriCee: 7:05pm On Feb 14, 2023

Hmmm

Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by riverbird: 7:05pm On Feb 14, 2023

Because Nigerian women are 99.9% selfish.

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Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by benqo01(m): 7:09pm On Feb 14, 2023

TO BE SINCERE WITH YOU GUYS 90% OF NAIJA GIRLS RE FUCKING GREEDY, SO SELF CENTERED IT IS ALWAYS ALL ABOUT THEM SO DISGUSTING.

THIER WHITE COUNTERPART RE REALLY TRYING

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Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by planetx: 7:12pm On Feb 14, 2023

They are giving you the sugar walls, so what else do you want from women.

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Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by Karnice600: 7:12pm On Feb 14, 2023

StrongAlphMale:
Only a Fool would waste his time dating a Nigerian girl.

You should bang them, dump them and move on.

Okay. No wahala. Please send us the address of your mum and sisters. There are some able men here that want to pay them, bang them, dump them and move on.
On a serious note, jokes apart.

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Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by xynerise: 7:15pm On Feb 14, 2023

I don't know what you guys are saying about Nigerian girls but my wife surprised me today grin

.

Wonderful NIGERIAN woman she is wink

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Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by Edeyoung: 7:17pm On Feb 14, 2023

Topics like this shouldn't grace front page

Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by remsonik(f): 7:20pm On Feb 14, 2023

I don't have any boyfriend, if I have a husband would pound yam for him. Today is a blessed day and I celebrating it with my loved ones

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Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by DMCA: 7:25pm On Feb 14, 2023

meobizy:
For Africa’s biggest forum, this place lacks creativity. Na Reddit sure pass.

Your white supremacists
cool

Re: Why Is Valentine Day A One Sided Affair In Nigeria? by Agonglo17: 7:26pm On Feb 14, 2023*

CodeTemplar:
According to Britannica, Valentine's Day, also called St. Valentine's Day, holiday (February 14) is a day when lovers express their affection with greetings and gifts.

lovers express love with gift and greetings.
Why is it a one sided affair with Nigerians? Hardly will your see ladies giving gift and when they do, it is more likely to be inferior in value to what they expect and demand.

Because pussy is a commodity here as with all 3rd-world economies

For 95% of Niaija girls, the only thing of value (or the most valuable thing they have in their lives) is their pussy; you cannot expect them to give it out free in the name of Valentine

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