A beautiful young lady has taken to social media to express her distress over the incessant demand for sex from men on the first date. In the video, the young lady, visibly upset, wonders if this experience is unique to her.

She expresses her shock at instances where men go as far as kicking women out of their houses at midnight if they decline to have sex with them.

In tears, she expresses her desire not to be beautiful or shapely, wishing that these incidents wouldn't happen to her. She believes that her beauty and shape are the reasons men are eager to sleep with her.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-eUuMNZympE

She expresses her shock at instances where men go as far as kicking women out of their houses at midnight if they decline to have sex with them.

In tears, she expresses her desire not to be beautiful or shapely, wishing that these incidents wouldn't happen to her. She believes that her beauty and shape are the reasons men are eager to sleep with her.

You don’t want sex and you went to sleep in a man’s house who is not your sibling or father? Dey play!

For every date you have with a man, pay your transport fare and foot your bills yourself, this attracts respect and takes away horrible demands

Every woman these days wants money before the first date.

The yam never done is not necessary.

If not for sex , plenty men won’t care about women , I’ve heard men wishing there was a way sexual libido could be turned off .

It's a normal thing when it's obvious that you have nothing to put on the table and you have already claimed dual transportation, voluptuous refreshments, then there must be a match

One of the main reasons why many men want sex on the first is that they know women have sex on the first date.
Nobody wants to be the guy who has to go through weeks, months, and multiple dates for sex, while another guy did it after the first meeting/date.
If it was true that the vast majority of women never sleep on the first date (even if the guy is her type and makes her wet) and never had one night stands, I believe that most men wouldn't mind taking a little longer. But since it is not true, the fact that you don't want sex on the first date is interpretated as a lack of genuine attraction for him. Nobody wants to be the fool that has to wait and do x y z while another guy didn't have to do anything or wait at all.

Haydens:
Just imagine you went to a shop and bought a phone of ₦70,000 then you brought it home, then your friend was like nah I bought this exact phone for ₦30,000 and another one tells you nah I bought t it for ₦2,000 and another told you that I got it for free. You that bought it for ₦70,000 how will you feel ? Well his writing is not about phone.

Most men wouldn't mind if a virgin does not want sex on the first date. But since the average woman is far from a virgin...

.........but several ladies want man's money even without meeting him for once physically.





It's not bad to collect money on first day, but awkward to have sex on first day.

WHAT'S EVEN SPECIAL IN HAVING SEX WITH A MAN ON FIRST DAY? (If you don't have ulterior motive to siphon him and run)

Woman & Toddler reasoning!

Kipaji:
One of the main reasons why many men want sex on the first is that they know women have sex on the first date.
Nobody wants to be the guy who has to go through weeks, months, and multiple dates for sex, while another guy did it after the first meeting/date.
If it was true that the vast majority of women never sleep on the first date (even if the guy is her type and makes her wet) and never had one night stands, I believe that most men wouldn't mind taking a little longer. But since it is not true, the fact that you don't want sex on the first date is interpretated as a lack of genuine attraction for him. Nobody wants to be the fool that has to wait and do x y z while another guy didn't have to do anything or wait at all.


Most men wouldn't mind if a virgin does not want sex on the first date. But since the average woman is far from a virgin...

After 70.5 body count ...e reach my turn u wan form good girl....and no be say one or two of ur exes no dey hit whenever they like

It's unfortunate, but you Ladies enhanced and propagated such. Same Ladies that always demand to be respected are same Ladies who go about to first disrespect their bodies even before men clone such opportunities. Just imagine the widespread nudity from women everywhere, yet they want their bodies respected. U can't eat your cake and still want it.
We warned you all but we were told to mind our businesses. Now na morning!

Same goes to those enhancing feminism wrongly, we have been warning them but they wouldn't listen too. Always propagating things that would lead to anarchy

Amotolongbo:
You don’t want sex and you went to sleep in a man’s house who is not your sibling or father? Dey play!

For every date you have with a man, pay your transport fare and foot your bills yourself, this attracts respect and takes away horrible demands

Well said.

A woman should always have money to get back home and be willing to spend it. A woman should also not extensively pre invest on a date using debt. If the man doesn't like you - he can go. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

If women feel there's nothing wrong in billing a man they've just met, then there shouldn't be anything wrong with a man wanting to sleep with a woman he has just met ...

I mean...
It's not news that men enter relationships primarily for s.ex and women enter relationships primarily to have someone meet their needs ...

So why can't both parties have what they want?🤷🤷🤷

I don't demand sex on the first date.

Infact, I don't demand premarital sex on any day. No sex until marriage. And if I am going to marry you, you MUST be a VIRGIN.

Wait oh, what are you doing in a man's room at midnight? Na church night vigil?

All this ladies self

What else should a man expect from you as a lady on the first date?,

Nasoh one mumu girl the interrogate me the other day, saying that "she know that its because of her cocky jar that I am claiming I love her"

Well if not for it, wat else

If you are in a man's house on a first date by midnight, sister, use your brain na. That's not dating. You have come for marriage. So you be prepared to do what married people do

No mine her she want trend

Auntie if you can't spread your legs stop sleeping in men house, make your papa house contain you.

Wow classic word

Amotolongbo:
You don’t want sex and you went to sleep in a man’s house who is not your sibling or father? Dey play!

For every date you have with a man, pay your transport fare and foot your bills yourself, this attracts respect and takes away horrible demands

Passionnn:
If you are in a man's house on a first date by midnight, sister, use your brain na. That's not dating. You have come for marriage. So you be prepared to do what married people do

😂😂😂

What is beautiful in this one Madness dey her body but if a guy gives her money on the 1st date she will take it so why don't you give him sex to thank him

Passionnn:
If you are in a man's house on a first date by midnight, sister, use your brain na. That's not dating. You have come for marriage. So you be prepared to do what married people do

It got dark and too late to go back home😁😁😁

One came and finished two Hollandia yogurt and One short bread .

Later mark we knack , she told me she is not in the mood .

I pursue her commit. No time to waste.

This is after she don bill me transport money and make me go stock my fridge .

Amotolongbo:
You don’t want sex and you went to sleep in a man’s house who is not your sibling or father? Dey play!

For every date you have with a man, pay your transport fare and foot your bills yourself, this attracts respect and takes away horrible demands

I agreed with you absolutely.

To whom much is given, much is expected

Every woman these days wants money before the first date...

just stopped going to church, I'll rather be enjoying nkwobi, stepping it down with a chill beer on a Sunday morning than, being in church for a mortal man to be gaslighting me, cos I'm guilty of everything a pastor preaches in church, and I don't intent to change

Where is the beauty in the lady. I’m still looking.

You are surprised that men just want to have sex with you when all you do from childhood to adulthood is portray yourself as sexual object. You dance on TikTok showing bum bum and big breast.

You wear artificial beauty materials making you look unnatural and wild.

You want men to lavish money on you simply because they desire to be friends with you.

They will always want to fvck you as long you are like that

Shey na on the last day you want make them request am?
🤓🤓🤓

Ok. But you ladies want 20k fare for a distance of 6km that is not up to 2k on Uber. Don't ask for transport fare when next you go visiting a guy

Women too wants sex on the first day in exchange for money.
98% of women are doing hookup these days, one foolish girl that also complained that men want sex on the first meet still told me to pay her 30k on that same first day to Bleep me. If I see one more woman complain again ehn.

Amotolongbo:
You don’t want sex and you went to sleep in a man’s house who is not your sibling or father? Dey play!

For every date you have with a man, pay your transport fare and foot your bills yourself, this attracts respect and takes away horrible demands

Gbamsolutely nothing else to say!

Those "every men" you sampled are fornicators who believe in tasting the garri before buying it even if they won't eventually buy!

A lady is not garri to be sampled at the market and decide whether to buy or not!

Flee fornication!
It is haram!

Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“… Wed them with the permission of their own folk and give them their mahr (dowry) according to what is reasonable; they should be chaste, not adulterous, nor taking boyfriends…” [al-Nisa 4:25]

As an unmarried lady your parents/guardian are totally responsible for your upkeep not your boyfriend/Alhaji!