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| Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by bingbagbo(m): 8:44pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Their many women in their prime, age of marriage and they are still unmarried. What could be the reasons? Ladies, gents, please have your say |
| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by Light78: 9:25pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Many of them are Igbos. It's because of money and the type of families they come from. A Yoruba girl will be pregnant and do small marriage, but Igbos, them go wan show the whole community. That's my own opinion. E no dey hard for hausa girls to get married. Very easy. See, let me tell you, many Igbo guys have girls they want to marry, but no money for big celebration. 51 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by Qatar2022: 9:39pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
They're selective before but now they can't be selected 29 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by Nazgul: 9:45pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Bad Economy: Nigeria is currently at its worse state. So many male graduates in their 30s earn less than 150k. And with the ever rising inflation, that money can't even get them a comfortable one bedroom apartment in Lagos. And because of this most are either still living in their parents house or squatting with friends. Also with the high cost of marital expenses these days (no thanks to greedy in-laws), most guys would just prefer to remain single and Hussle harder, unfortunately as the years go by, girls in their age bracket begin to clock 30 without and serious suitor coming their way. Japa syndrome: The problem with this Japa syndrome is that the ratio of guys to girls escaping from Nigeria is on a landslide. For every 1000 youths that leaves Nigeria, 900 are males, 100 are females. Out of those 900 males, 700 would try to settle with a citizen over there so they can get permanent stay. Unfortunately, this act is seriously affecting girls back home cos as the years go by, they'll begin to suffer from scarcity of eligible suitors. Deaths I don't need to emphasize on this much, cos we all know that male youths die more than their female counterparts. Other reasons include promiscuity amongst ladies. Double or triple dating and when the most responsible suitor finds out he ends everything leaving her with the useless ones who definitely wouldn't marry her. Bad character...etc. 45 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by ChristisGod: 9:47pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
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| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by Afrobasic(m): 9:54pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
You've not seen anything, give it 5 years.  Answer to your question: No sane man wants to deal with a liability. Except the simps ofcourse. 10 Likes |
| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by Goodlady(f): 10:00pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Light78:How true is this? We need more prove 1 Like |
| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by Goldendick: 11:06pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Light78: I'm particularly interested in how you got to the conclusion that 'majority' of the unmarried 30's babies are Igbos. Did you take a poll? Run a survey? Or a quiz? I don't get it 8 Likes |
| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by Almaigaa: 5:15am On Feb 21, 2023 |
bingbagbo: Most Igbo ladies are still busy enjoying life and hustling at 30's. They will only settle down at 40.😀😀😂 If you know, you know.  7 Likes
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| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by Almaigaa: 5:16am On Feb 21, 2023 |
Goldendick: Everyone in Nigeria knows that, such ladies are Igbos 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by Almaigaa: 5:20am On Feb 21, 2023 |
Goodlady: Igbo women get married at 40's. They want to enjoy life and hustle from 15 to 40. I know this cause I stay for Igbo land See the picture of Amaka, who recently got married at 47 4 Likes
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| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by Dshocker(m): 5:22am On Feb 21, 2023 |
bingbagbo: The economy is terrible and most guys are not doing well financially. And on the other hand, the girls have also commercialised their bodies, making it difficult for the guys to find a good partner. So you can imagine electing another terrible leader like Bola Ahmed Tinubu for another 8yrs and the condition everyone will find themselves at that time. Vote Peter Obi, vote competence, vote accountability. 9 Likes |
| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by Almaigaa: 5:24am On Feb 21, 2023 |
Goodlady: See Ngozi. She is still single and flexing her life at 45. 4 Likes
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| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by ednut1(m): 6:11am On Feb 21, 2023 |
Why una dey focus only on women when men are also not getting married. Its the economy and unrealistic standards of some people. Alot of women grew up seeing their mum enduring marriage, but due to feminism and wokeness many ladies only want marriage if there is a rich man involved. In some places and tribes a big wedding costing 10m and above is a norm. Many don’t want small marriages and keep waiting till they are past the sell by date. 7 Likes |
| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by Sonnobax15(m): 6:14am On Feb 21, 2023 |
 Being too over selective,and in some cases, traditional and marital rites dey scare serious men away too.. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by Dzzzz: 6:16am On Feb 21, 2023 |
[quote author=Light78 post=121083340]Many of them are Igbos. It's because of money and the type of families they come from. That’s why Yoruba marriages don’t last..Because you meet a Yoruba girl in 2months and next Na belle that’s why you end up finding ought no be your pikin then after 1hr marriage done end. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by blinking001(m): 6:22am On Feb 21, 2023 |
Economy 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by MonthlySalary: 6:57am On Feb 21, 2023 |
I am searching for a lover I am looking for a lady and a lover who I can start a relationship with. I am a graduate and a working class. I am 7.3mts tall and athletic build. I am handsome too I am employed and also have a side business that I work on... I was born in June and in my early 30s Also you should know, I am an introvert and this contributed alot to why I am a very jealous lover. I like to go out swimming and I am a good footballer. I write poetry too. I am a believe in God but I have my doubts. I despise alcohol the same way i HATE POLITICS and I despise not being honest. What I am looking for... I am looking for a working class lady whose spoken English is impeccabl. I do not need the most beautiful woman on earth but I won't mind if you are beautiful and presentable because of our kids. Kids whose parents are beautiful always have an upper hand over their peers. I am not particularly bothered about the lady's tribe. I would be glad if the Lady is earning higher than I currently do. I am looking for someone who we can both grow together 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by BigYash: 7:07am On Feb 21, 2023 |
No sane man wan marry olosho(the hookup girls) put for hux. Majority of the ladies are retired ,acting in that sector,as we see these days. Some niggas just use some of them as baby mamas. Since na pikin person first dey make niggas marry,so after having the kids,there is no need of putting yourself into prison,all in the name of marriage again nau  So many reasons sha, if I dey count day fit break o.. Some guys are seeing what most men go through in the hands of the women they call wives. So the fear of getting married and being divorced later,the fear of not having peace of mind after marriage ,are also some of the reasons. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by GeorgWashinton: 7:09am On Feb 21, 2023 |
All these useless guys on nairaland with pussy matter ehn...walahi Nigerian men are as useless as Nigerian women 2 Likes |
| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by AfahaAbia(m): 7:31am On Feb 21, 2023 |
Light78: The bolded above is very correct. 4 Likes |
| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by Lolachef(f): 7:38am On Feb 21, 2023 |
And most of your yoruba wives are Iyawo polybag. Light78: 1 Like |
| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by Tallesty1(m): 7:41am On Feb 21, 2023 |
bingbagbo:Boko haram killed their soul mates |
| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by udede(m): 7:56am On Feb 21, 2023 |
Let me talk the one i know. In igbo land, the cost of marriage is no longer affordable for most young men especially when the ladies are not interested in low key marriage. The ladies will blatantly reject a man who earns 40k a month and wait for lexus driving young man that never comes 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by candygist: 7:59am On Feb 21, 2023 |
Almaigaa: Guy, this hotel is located at iyana ipaja. 2 Likes |
| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by udede(m): 7:59am On Feb 21, 2023 |
GeorgWashinton:Hmmmm Nigerian men are useless, Nigerian ladies are useless. Don't you belong to one of the genders you just condemned ? 1 Like |
| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by GeorgWashinton: 8:01am On Feb 21, 2023 |
udede:Even if I belong to one, I don't take pussy matter like cross of Calvary. |
| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by imagrg(m): 8:09am On Feb 21, 2023 |
E dey pain you because your prick small. GeorgWashinton: |
| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by GeorgWashinton: 8:13am On Feb 21, 2023 |
imagrg:Keep crying you worthless piece of human debris. Keep useless pussy matter on your head like cross of Calvary when your mates are riding benz and working to make life better. |
| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by hayor2015: 8:16am On Feb 21, 2023 |
| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by imagrg(m): 8:17am On Feb 21, 2023 |
Most of these ladies prefer hookup to being married and tied down. It's in their DNA. It's only when they lost their value at 40 you hear them singing: Carry me dey go my husband house. That's after their toto don grow too much mucous. Dem go come look for one simp wen e go cum dey blow am for dem and wife them. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Many Ladies In Their 30's Are Unmarried Now, What's The Cause? by talk2hb1(m): 8:23am On Feb 21, 2023 |
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