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Re: . by CSTRR: 4:14pm On Feb 23, 2023 |
When you make a whoree a housewife. She is for the streets. 1 Like |
Re: . by smartjackie(f): 4:20pm On Feb 23, 2023 |
The best thing for her to do is to leave her husband, go back to her ex and then feel the SHEGE.. Nonsense and ingredient.. e be like say suffering no dey tire some people. |
Re: . by Socratiz: 4:45pm On Feb 23, 2023 |
It is obvious you're suffering from Stockholm Syndrome. You need to see a therapist. Send me a DM if you don't mind |
Re: . by Jozilinn: 8:56pm On Feb 23, 2023 |
She should leave abeg, toxic life fit her odeee🥱🥱🥱 |
Re: . by Karlifate: 9:09pm On Feb 23, 2023 |
dochenaj: Right @ bolded. There are usually hints, here & there — through words, actions or inactions — but men in 'love' dismisses them as intangible, and they eventually get burnt for it. |
Re: . by purples25(f): 12:17am On Feb 24, 2023 |
Your ex brainwashed you but you won't see it now. Your head will clear up probably after a year of separation from him. Abusive people... do terrible things to you...then keep you close to them by doing good deeds and saying so many kind and sweet words filled with romantic ideals. It's hard to see past gaslighting smoke most times. That thing your ex does just kills it. Ignoring you while pregnant and coming back after it has been removed. I think he just intends to use his charm and your love for him to keep you around until he's done with you. When a man is not serious, but wants you around, he'll keep giving you little hints to keep you hooked, to hold up your hope. Such a man will never take a bold step like meeting your parents - he would just be feeding you drops of kindness amid plenty wickedness, and guilt trip you with words when you try to get out of the situation. I think your fiance is the real deal. He stepped up to his duty and commitment much faster, not mistreating you and then guilt tripping you for wanting better, like your ex did. |
Re: . by Zenithphil8368: 12:44am On Feb 24, 2023 |
Women and their irrational confused emotions. I dont blame her Gbola is at work. 1 Like |
Re: . by Caramia2020(m): 1:35am On Feb 24, 2023 |
Some women na case study. 1 Like |
Re: . by SeniorGee(m): 3:45am On Feb 24, 2023 |
Devil don dey dig foundation for skyscraper for your head |
Re: . by Kobojunkie: 5:18am On Feb 24, 2023 |
CSTRR:And you think yourself better mentally than she is? |
Re: . by Kobojunkie: 5:19am On Feb 24, 2023 |
smartjackie:The best is for her to get the mental health help she needs. what you described is the worst for her. Imagine your own child being in a similar situation, would you give the same advice? |
Re: . by Kobojunkie: 5:21am On Feb 24, 2023 |
Zenithphil8368:Men also deal with similar emotional confusion. Look around you here in Romance sections at the many who think they can't live or breath without sex or some woman making them feel valuable down there. It is all the same — mental dislocations leading to emotional discombobulation. 1 Like |
Re: . by pizzzy(m): 8:34am On Feb 24, 2023 |
Useless fellow he did dis and dat to me but i still love my ex. Na sufferness dey hungry her What women want = the opposite of what they say |
Re: . by Stanleyyho: 8:08pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
Please, this lady should not be abused here....it is obvious that she needs a psychiatric attention. Or MFM prayer warriors to intervene A.S.A.P. |
Re: . by onumadu: 8:44pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
I keep advising young men to watch "The last American Virgin". It is a classic movie with a lifesaving message for most naive young men. Till date, it remains the best teacher I've had about women. As is the case in Africa, no male adult is really interested in teaching a young man the real truth about women. I don't know why. Next, I'll share a few posts from Wikipedia about the plot in the movie to help the lazy ones at least get part of the message> Next ... |
Re: . by onumadu: 8:44pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
A love triangle develops between Gary, Rick, and Karen, a beautiful new virgin student who Rick is determined to have sex with. Gary first sees her one night at an ice cream parlor, then in the school lunchroom, and asks David to find out where she lives. The next morning, in an attempt to get closer to her, he punctures her bike tires and invites her to ride to school with him. During and after the ride, he makes multiple attempts to woo her, much to her indifference. That evening, Gary attends a party at David's house and is devastated to find Karen in close company with Rick. He tries to entice her away from his friend but she treats him with blank disinterest. He becomes drunk and makes a fool of himself, falling about, then creates an embarrassing scene in front of his parents' dinner guests when he goes home. |
Re: . by onumadu: 8:45pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
Eventually, after Karen and Rick have sex, she becomes pregnant, and he callously dumps her. Enraged Gary confronts Rick in the school library and a physical fight occurs, with Rick calling Gary jealous and Gary denouncing Rick as a lowlife. Gary decides to help Karen pay for an abortion by selling most of his possessions and borrowing money from his boss. After the abortion, Gary and Karen spend the remainder of the weekend alone together in Gary's grandmother's house. While nursing her back to health, Gary tells Karen that he sincerely loves her. Karen appears to reciprocate and they both share a tender kiss. Karen invites Gary to her 18th birthday party the following week. Gary scrapes up a few more dollars and buys Karen a gold locket for her birthday. |
Re: . by onumadu: 8:46pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
When Gary arrives at the party, his dreams of a lasting romance with Karen are shattered when he walks in on her making out with Rick again. Despite what Rick had put Karen through, and despite Gary's devotion and support, she's rejected Gary to reunite with the slick-talking ladies' man. Gary sadly leaves the party without saying a word to either of them, taking Karen's gift with him. Tears streaming down his face, Gary drives home alone, emotionally broken and defeated. |
Re: . by onumadu: 8:52pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
Moral of the story: Be double-sure that the woman you are planning to marry is PASSIONATELY in love with you, or else be prepared to share her with her ex for as long as the ex is interested. No emotions in love. Ironically. |
Re: . by peedeeasobie(m): 8:58pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
Heathrow44: She's an idiot. She should have been used for sacrifice as a baby. |
Re: . by smartjackie(f): 1:48am On Feb 25, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:My child shall never be as indecisive as that woman. The thing is this.. she knows who among those two men is more responsible but because of her feelings she is blinded. This is where that saying love is blind cones into play. It is not a mental condition.. it is simply the matters of the heart and as we all know women, well 97% of women are more loyal to their emotions. Even after seeing all the red flags they still stay loyal to their emotions. In this case, there is nothing you can do about it. No matter how hard you advice her or how many times that guy treats her like trash she will keep loving him. I've been in a similar situation like this before so I know what I'm talking about. Well, only difference was that I wasn't married.. in fact I was trying to forget about the guy but it was so difficult. If she is still pondering over her ex even when she's married it means that she never loved her now husband. She just married him probably because she wanted to answer married woman or because of his money or sth else but definitely not love. 2 Likes |
Re: . by frozen70(f): 1:58am On Feb 25, 2023 |
Heathrow44: You have a bigger problem that is more than the challenge you are facing I bet you that the only reason your mind is still going back towards your ex is because of the way he makes love to you and get you satisfied Now that you are married and lacks nothing, talk with your husband how best to handle you, teach him or show him how you want it to be Respect your man and your marriage so that the devil will not deceive you and bring you out from paradise that you area now Leave your ex and forget about him now, he is now a past Always be with your husband so that your mind will be occupied with him and there won't be room for nonsense about your ex |
Re: . by Nobody: 10:13am On Mar 06, 2023 |
frozen70: yay, frozen, if u found sm1 dat satisfies u and makes love t u won't u do d same |
Re: . by frozen70(f): 10:20am On Mar 06, 2023 |
Heathrow44: Not when am married |
Re: . by Nobody: 12:03pm On Mar 06, 2023 |
frozen70: Seems u re married, I've been trying to get a hold of u abt dat sha, would like to know u, I also stay in Lagos |
Re: . by henndukwe18: 12:28pm On Mar 06, 2023 |
Now I see d prob, he is not fair and he is not tall like ha ex, or maybe ha ex handles ha beta in bed |
Re: . by henndukwe18: 12:30pm On Mar 06, 2023 |
Hypnotise:that guy must be her first love |
Re: . by Jomecblog: 10:35pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
I can understand how it sucks especially when you remember the past, but the truth remains that you must learn to let go of your ex and move on towards having and building a new home with your new found love. No doubt, figuring out how to get over someone after a relationship ends can be difficult. If you are bothered on how you can get over someone and be happy, there are things you can do to get over your loved one, especially your ex. Remember that the process may be painful, but in time you will heal, move forward, and find happiness in your marriage again. You can start with small steps that teach you how to get over someone and then move on to bigger steps like moving house or starting a new job. Over time, you can develop the courage to create a new, fulfilling life without your ex, even if it seems impossible now. Even if you want to forget all the "Text" contacts on your phone with the touch of your fingers, finding someone is easier said than done. Sure, you can remove photos, delete text messages, and block them from social media, but that's not the hard part especially in your case where this your ex is the one coming back. Erasing them from your mind is another story. Getting out of such relationship may not be easy, but you can learn the best way to get over someone with the right strategies. You may feel lonely during this process, remember, but the truth is that many people are gone and want to forget someone and be happy. Well, actually these are the kind of things I write about on https://jomecblog.comaddressing such issues. You can find time to drop by. |
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