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My Fiancée Has Stopped Picking My Calls, Please Advise Me On What To Do / Our Marriage Maybe Seriously Falling Apart: Please Advise Me! / My Parent Wants Me To Move Back Home At 30. Please Advise (2) (3) (4)
Please Advise by Nobody: 2:57pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
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Re: Please Advise by yrhuhfy113: 3:03pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
yumyogo: Yes you have been treated unfairly in LIFE BUT, your life is NOT over Infact, after this child you are carrying is born, YOU WILL SEE FAVOR EVERYWHERE. So Calm down... Abuja has many online and offline communities for yummy mummies like you. The only issue is, you may need to pay to join unless they are church communities. I would suggest Covenant Christian Centre. but asides all that.... visit ARCHPALS on instagram and make a request for friends.... for people who can meet you up physically, take you out to movies and to fun places. YOUR LIFE IS NOT OVER, IT HAS NOT EVEN STARTED AND YOU WILL SOON BE DONE WITH THIS PHASE AND COME OUT STRONG. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Advise by superCleanworks(m): 3:06pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
yumyogo: 25 with 2 kids and no husband, magnificent. 1 Like |
Re: Please Advise by Nobody: 3:13pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
superCleanworks: You've probably not been following... 8 Likes |
Re: Please Advise by Nobody: 3:14pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
yrhuhfy113: Thanks a lot. I'll do just that. I just looked for covenant Christian center on IG. They have no posts yet.. |
Re: Please Advise by sorextee(m): 3:15pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
I understand how u feel. But what is his family members saying about it? You didn't state if u guys are divorced or not(maybe you did and I didn't see it). I pray God intervenes in your situation and home. |
Re: Please Advise by JovialJune(f): 3:18pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
This is why I do not encourage marrying early, I'm all for experiencing life and enough maturity, but this life is per head and age has nothing to do with it Op make friends, if you are a Christian, become a worker in church, occupy your mind and time with different activities that will distract you, For your kids, pls be truthful to them cos kids of these days are smarter than their age, let them know why you are no more with their dad and pls do everything possible to involve him in their lives, if he isn't willing also let them know to avoid stories that touch in future, involve your ex's family if possible, you will be fine. 9 Likes |
Re: Please Advise by Nobody: 3:20pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
sorextee: His mum is sick at the moment. I can't bother her with such information, and he's not in talking terms with his elder brothers. 1 Like |
Re: Please Advise by Nobody: 3:21pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
JovialJune: Thanks a lot 1 Like |
Re: Please Advise by Kemadealadire(f): 3:29pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
JovialJune:I don't think marrying early is really the issue here. I think the problem was not getting established financially, emotionally etc. before getting married is the issue. @OP whether you choose to stay with their father or not, don't take responsibility for the kids alone, let him play his part. No award for 'I suffered to train them all alone'. 8 Likes |
Re: Please Advise by JovialJune(f): 3:31pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
Kemadealadire: That's why I concluded that this life is per head and age has nothing to do with it. 7 Likes |
Re: Please Advise by Kemadealadire(f): 3:32pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
JovialJune:Yes, I saw that later in your post. |
Re: Please Advise by yrhuhfy113: 3:32pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
yumyogo:the handle is @covenantccentre lots of posts there pastor poju oyemade ON IG.... ARCHPALS on IG |
Re: Please Advise by Nobody: 3:32pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
Kemadealadire: The deed has been done sir, I'm doing the best I can. I'm only looking for a way forward... |
Re: Please Advise by Nobody: 3:33pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
yrhuhfy113: Alright. .. Thanks |
Re: Please Advise by Nobody: 3:34pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
Kemadealadire: Thank you... I'll do just that |
Re: Please Advise by Kemadealadire(f): 3:39pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
yumyogo:Like someone advised already, you can join a Bible-based Church and be a part of their women group. Most women groups have activities like skills acquisition trainings, you can also get people to relate with from there e.g Foursquare Gospel Church, Abuja headquarters is in Garki Area 3, since you are in Abuja. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Advise by frozen70(f): 4:07pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
yumyogo: No one can change his life style until he is tired of chasing women You have to be strong for your son Still allow him to visit your son Some men don't see any crime in cheating, to them its for fun You are still young at age to experience life and love bitterness It you guys can reconcile for the sake of your son, then think about it If you think you want to move on with your life, then you have to move on 1 Like |
Re: Please Advise by Autobot05: 6:19pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
Not every man is a husband material ... Una nor dey hear word 2 Likes |
Re: Please Advise by Typing: 7:07pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
yumyogo:Check your mail |
Re: Please Advise by Klass99(f): 7:38pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
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Re: Please Advise by Nazgul: 7:54pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
Your husband is a chronic womanizer, and has been a womanizer long before you married him. The question is why didn't you opt out when you guys were still dating, at least you would have had peace of mind. Womanizers don't change, cos it's like an addiction to them,...no matter how hard you try to stay loyal to them, they'll always want to taste some other woman's coochie. The only solution to avoid getting married to a womanizer is to end things while it's still early. My advice to you is to focus on your kids, get a job it start a business and focus on them. You see that your husband, it would take God's divine intervention to deliver him. Cos him and a Coke addict are on the same level. 6 Likes |
Re: Please Advise by Karleb(m): 7:59pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
A 25 yr old lady already has 2 kids but here I am. |
Re: Please Advise by Kemadealadire(f): 8:00pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
Klass99:Well, more people are graduating early and getting financially stable in their early to mid twenties. Self-awareness doesn't come necessarily by age, as the saying - any time you wake up, that's your morning. Lots of older peeps who still don't know who they are, what they want, the direction they are headed etc. 4 Likes |
Re: Please Advise by Nazgul: 8:02pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
Klass99:Marrying early isn't the problem. A responsible man can easily set up his young wife financially, it happens all the time, most especially if she's submissive. And they'll both live happily ever. The problem here is getting married to a womanizer. A womanizer can never establish his wife cos he'll feel he did her a favour by marrying her, he'll torture her emotionally, physically, mentally...etc. Even if she's established financially to the extent that she wouldn't need to depend on any man, as long as her husband is a chronic womanizer, she'll suffer emotionally. 6 Likes |
Re: Please Advise by pocohantas(f): 8:10pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
Nazgul: It has nothing to do with if she is submissive. Most men (INCLUDING RESPONSIBLE ONES) do not have the means to setup themselves, let alone their wives. Leave submission alone and face reality. The money is not there and they do not use submission to collect loans/money in banks. 21 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Please Advise by Klass99(f): 8:15pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
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Re: Please Advise by pocohantas(f): 8:23pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
Klass99: How many Nigerian men have the means to set up a business in modern Nigeria? She can do POS business sha. 5 Likes |
Re: Please Advise by Nazgul: 8:59pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
pocohantas:Setting up a spouse financially doesn't mean you have to cough out millions, and no you wouldn't need a bank loan to do that. It could be a space in the market and all she needs is a table along with a few thousands for whatever it is she wants to sell. If she's doesn't subscribe to the selling in the market idea, she can go into drop-shipping with almost zero capital. All she has to do is set up a functional social media account and run a Facebook ad for a 1-2 weeks for a product she believes would would hit the market. Once potential buyers make begin to contact her and make payment, she'll use their money to buy the product, give it to a dispatch rider to deliver and keep the profit for herself. I know a lot of girls who are making money that way....they started with less than 10k. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Advise by mrblessed(m): 9:04pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
Since it's pretty clear you can't should the responsibilities alone, why can't you reach out to him with conditions for a reunion? I have a hunch he's not interested in getting back to you. |
Re: Please Advise by pocohantas(f): 9:15pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
Nazgul: For your mind, space for market cheap ba? Just dey play! Na your type dey write sweet words for business proposal. Until Tinubu and his Iyaloja daughter shows you shege. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Please Advise by Magnoliaa(f): 9:23pm On Feb 24, 2023 |
pocohantas: 😂😂😂 God, I need that "vawulence can come from any angle" meme rn. 1 Like |
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