Offpoint1:
Request those with massive ones to send you pictures, if you see 2 or 3 pictures of how it truly looks like outside clothes, you'll change your sexual orientation in a flash.

God bless all the women with flat nyansh and agbalumo pointed breast... You guys are the real G.

FireUpNow:

I wanted to say in your coping model mechanism instead auto correct made it I'm. So that's what I am driving @

advanceDNA:


It doesnt have to be shit and stretch mark..it can be anything that can turn a person off... i gave that example cos thats what turns me off

..slim pple have stretch marks and shit as well...so i ddnt mention both as an insult to women with fat yansh....u can imagine a woman will have fish smell down there to make u lose interest in chasing after her

Pharaoh4rin:


Hahahahahahahaha hahahaha Zainab must hear this.... Hahahahahahahaha quit ur job? Hahahaha
Na 6th avenue for gwarinpa in Abuja

farous:
Please kindly advise for I have been trying to manage this challenge. Honestly I have fallen into the category of men that have a higher sex.ual feelings with women with very massive backside(yash) than the tiny or slim one and my partner did not fall into such category of my choice.This has made me no longer have sex.ual feelings for her anymore and I don't want her to know the reason behind this.

I quickly got aroused on sighting ladies whose backside is atleast times three to four of her own as I feeling like touching and bouncing on extra large size booty alone puts me in the mood. Infact nothing that my partner do again that put me in the mood and she is worried about my non sex.ual feelings from me to her anymore but I don't want to tell her the reason. Atimes I think whether I should jokingly tell her about booty enlargement but i prefer it natural than artificial

Even when moving together with her and I sight this group of women,I will almost lose control but will conceal it from her.

One may ask whether I never see her like that before going to her,please don't ask so for that's a long story,all I needed is advice/opinion to go about this challenge.

tayo60:
Go for your spec , in marriage, physical attraction is important.

Ginaz:
How will you feel if she goes after guys with big dicck?

It's your type that makes marriage very difficult , your eyes will keep roaming about like satan looking to devour someone.

Stay one place no! Oliver twist. pls leave that girl alone and stop wasting her time, allow her go so other guy can appreciate her since you no longer find her attractive. gosh i hate relationship, it's so filled with stupid shit that drags one's soul backward.

Relationship is one of devil's manipulative tactics he uses to drag people backwards.

bluefilm:


Said like a true boss playa.

Respect.

farous:
Please kindly advise for I have been trying to manage this challenge. Honestly I have fallen into the category of men that have a higher sex.ual feelings with women with very massive backside(yash) than the tiny or slim one and my partner did not fall into such category of my choice.This has made me no longer have sex.ual feelings for her anymore and I don't want her to know the reason behind this.

I quickly got aroused on sighting ladies whose backside is atleast times three to four of her own as I feeling like touching and bouncing on extra large size booty alone puts me in the mood. Infact nothing that my partner do again that put me in the mood and she is worried about my non sex.ual feelings from me to her anymore but I don't want to tell her the reason. Atimes I think whether I should jokingly tell her about booty enlargement but i prefer it natural than artificial

Even when moving together with her and I sight this group of women,I will almost lose control but will conceal it from her.

One may ask whether I never see her like that before going to her,please don't ask so for that's a long story,all I needed is advice/opinion to go about this challenge.

advanceDNA:
U are just lusting after superficial things which is not unheard of.......U just need to discipline your mind....we cant have it all...u will always see someone that has something ur partner does not have.... thats life...

U need 3 weeks fast and a follow up of once a week fast to Detox ur mind from the lust trigger (big yansh) u picked up ...many more trigger will come...its discipline u need..


U can use the off-switch thought technique which works for some pple...e.g once u see a fine girl with big yansh...just assume say na dirty shít and fat stretch marks full there...

Face ur babe.....love is a habit ....get used to loving ur partner and exploring new thing with her ...over time.... u will be able to let go of big yansh women for the love u have for ur partner

... and stay the fvck away from big yansh pořn....

Offpoint1:

Abuja? Yawua! Perfecto... When I'm ministering to Zainab I want to hear her screaming "woyooo! Kai offfoint zaka ka keishe ne yau walahi! Buraka na da daidi kamar sugar, walahi ka ce rai mu da gindin nai

farous:
Please kindly advise for I have been trying to manage this challenge. Honestly I have fallen into the category of men that have a higher sex.ual feelings with women with very massive backside(yash) than the tiny or slim one and my partner did not fall into such category of my

farous:
Please kindly advise for I have been trying to manage this challenge. Honestly I have fallen into the category of men that have a higher sex.ual feelings with women with very massive backside(yash) than the tiny or slim one and my partner did not fall into such category of my choice.This has made me no longer have sex.ual feelings for her anymore and I don't want her to know the reason behind this.

I quickly got aroused on sighting ladies whose backside is atleast times three to four of her own as I feeling like touching and bouncing on extra large size booty alone puts me in the mood. Infact nothing that my partner do again that put me in the mood and she is worried about my non sex.ual feelings from me to her anymore but I don't want to tell her the reason. Atimes I think whether I should jokingly tell her about booty enlargement but i prefer it natural than artificial

Even when moving together with her and I sight this group of women,I will almost lose control but will conceal it from her.

One may ask whether I never see her like that before going to her,please don't ask so for that's a long story,all I needed is advice/opinion to go about this challenge.

joyousever:
If you're already married, you should be questioned why you went after her when she's not your spec in that part of the body.
But if you're just dating, and your love for her doesn't supercede this particular longing, I would advise you let her go. But don't ever tell her the real reason because it might break her. It's advisable to marry your spec in order to avoid a marriage of misery. Don't mind those castigating you. The heart wants what it wants. If you go ahead to marry her based on pity or people's biased opinions, you'll cheat on her so mercilessly and eventually defeating the essence of the marriage.

dawnomike:
She will chop up after child birth... manage for now

advanceDNA:


You Dont know how the mind of man with testosterone in his veins works.... all the men committing adultery upandan ..u think its becos they dnt marry their spec.?? .the desire of we humans is like grave....it cannot be satisfied until discipline is applied....

nothing lie spec in this world...u ull always meet someone new that have what ur partner does not have.....discipline and contentment is key....

joyousever:
I disagree with you on " there's nothing like spec". Everyone has a spec, reason, some people can never date or marry certain people who are closest and compatible with them as friends, no matter how nice, because they don't find them sexually attractive! You're entitled to your opinion, but it doesn't apply to everyone.

I agree with the discipline and caution part of your assertion, for in everything, discipline is key. But be reminded that men can cheat for no reason or for adventure, but that doesn't mean they hate their spec at home.
The point here is, marrying your spec and friend limits one's level of misbehaviour in marriage. And it is this consciousness that prevents very disciplined and conscientious men from even attempting adultery.

advanceDNA:


Its an irony this is coming from the gender that doesnt do the asking out but will have to settle for the guy that comes their way...


I say again ....we all have to settle one way or another and make do with discipline....cos nobody partner has exactly what they want....and thats the real meaning of of there's nothing like spec

advanceDNA:


Its an irony this is coming from the gender that doesnt do the asking out but will have to settle for the guy that comes their way...


I say again ....we all have to settle one way or another and make do with discipline....cos nobody partner has exactly what they want....and thats the real meaning of of there's nothing like spec

joyousever:

Yes, you don't have a spec, but majority of humans have specs! Not everyone settles for whatever life dishes them! Get that and know peace,!
And who says because it's unnatural for my gender to ask men out also means they settle for just any man that comes along? I'm not to school you on the fact that women are always attracted to the good, bad and ugly. So out of this lot, a woman has her spec to choose from or settle for! Got it?

joyousever:

Yes, you don't have a spec, but majority of humans have specs! Not everyone settles for whatever life dishes them! Get that and know peace,!
And who says because it's unnatural for my gender to ask men out also means they settle for just any man that comes along? I'm not to school you on the fact that women are always attracted to the good, bad and ugly. So out of this lot, a woman has her spec to choose from or settle for! Got it?

joyousever:
If you're already married, you should be questioned why you went after her when she's not your spec in that part of the body.
But if you're just dating, and your love for her doesn't supercede this particular longing, I would advise you let her go. But don't ever tell her the real reason because it might break her. It's advisable to marry your spec in order to avoid a marriage of misery. Don't mind those castigating you. The heart wants what it wants. If you go ahead to marry her based on pity or people's biased opinions, you'll cheat on her so mercilessly and eventually defeating the essence of the marriage.

advanceDNA:


U can post all the theories here speaking generally on spec and even jump into conclusion about me....but all im doing is speaking from existing realities

And the reality is..When we ask u women for ur spec...u all start screaming tall, rich, pink lips and handsome..like u are doing now with all ur thoeries on spec....

i have never seen a woman say a short, ugly man with no money is her spec....so who is loving all the not so pink lips, 5ft 8 and below in height , not so rich men out there ??

"I was not interested in him b4 cos he was not my type but i later developed feelings for him." .does this line sound familiar.??
...is that not a common line from u women that claim ur spec is tall rich, pink lips and handsome??

My point is...Spec is factor of so many rubbish, holywood movies, pòrn, internet videos, and all manner of superficial standards......but the heart falls in love without notice with real values and the person inside.....
..yes... there is room for lust which the op is doing now with big yansh women, which he may have picked up from pornográphy..

.. tomorrow it can be big breaśt women...thats men for u...and thats why i said from the start u dont know how the mind of a sexually undisciplined man works...

joyousever:
Oga shove your epistles to yourself and stop quoting me! You drink kerosene? Or is my input the cause of your problems or Nigeria's problems? Abeg, Waka pass!
You sound like a broken record! If you quite me again, it means you need psychiatric intervention!

advanceDNA:


Lol....i no know say e don enter insult level....nor vex