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How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Lamanii22(f): 12:49am On Oct 11, 2021 |
This is one bad thing I discovered recently about myself, I yell at him when I am trying to prove a point, no insults but my voice is always high.... Then I feel bad about it afterwards.... 50 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Bluntguy: 12:57am On Oct 11, 2021 |
Just stop yelling at him, that's how. 263 Likes 19 Shares |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Lcf69(m): 1:09am On Oct 11, 2021 |
It's Ur Longevity n future mental health importance that,u're depleting in per second.So,please start loving urself n punish urself less...... PINNED. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Davash222(m): 1:19am On Oct 11, 2021 |
Lamanii22:One of the disadvantages of getting married to a feminist. In African tradition, it's a sacrilege for a woman to raise her voice at her husband talk more of yelling at him. In a sane African society, such a woman should be dragged to the market square, disgraced and punished by her fellow women! 248 Likes 21 Shares |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by chatinent: 1:24am On Oct 11, 2021 |
Paranoia. Stop feeling you are always right. Be quick to listen than to talk. No make the guyman slap five years comot your age. 236 Likes 19 Shares |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Mrkumareze(m): 1:32am On Oct 11, 2021 |
Next time, think before you talk, not the other way round ...with this principle u ll overcome it 14 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Prechgold1180(m): 1:48am On Oct 11, 2021 |
You not alone 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Babaetsu1(m): 2:21am On Oct 11, 2021 |
Prechgold1180:
You not alone
Abi? |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Kobojunkie: 2:37am On Oct 11, 2021 |
Lamanii22:Send your point to him via text message.... that way all that energy spent on yelling goes to quietly typing out the details of your point instead, and he can take his time to carefully read through the text after receiving it. Problem solved... no yelling but you still get your point across. The good thing about this method is you can easily resend the message when the same point needs to be revisited. 34 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Tokskob2008: 3:50am On Oct 11, 2021 |
Just buy padlock and lock your mouth when it's time you want to shout... 10 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by matrix199(m): 3:51am On Oct 11, 2021 |
Beta slap neva toush you dats y! 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Nobody: 6:20am On Oct 11, 2021 |
Lamanii22: You be mad dog? Dey try calm down u hear!? 18 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Vision101(m): 6:21am On Oct 11, 2021 |
Very good. Problem recognised, problem solved. Be conscious of this trait of yours and anytime it wants to come up in your argument with him walk away. Overtime you will unconsciously experience some changes. 19 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Sonnobax15(m): 6:25am On Oct 11, 2021 |
Like what chatinet has already told you...Be more of a Listener than a talker......Make dem no cor smack you down one of These days 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Ginaz(f): 7:23am On Oct 11, 2021 |
Maybe it is this nairaland you want to pack your marriage journey and wahala inside o. Madam abeg rest ! 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Nobody: 8:16am On Oct 11, 2021 |
Lamanii22: And I'm guessing when you yell like that, he keeps quiet and you feel you've won the argument . Because men no fit match woman mouth o, then go just wake or them use their fist... But kwantinue sha ... You know what to do already but yet you're stalling... And.. The only reason you're becoming worried is because you've probably seen changes in his attitude, no much play like before, romance have died down a little, he probably keeps late nights or spend more time outside, he may not have laid hands on you, but you percieve he would some day(these are just assumptions)... Ha ha!!! Tis well with you madam... Maybe you didn't know before now, but I'll educate you a little.. Raising your voice at your husband is SUPER DISRESPECTFUL, the fact that you can confidently yell at him every time you have an argument is a sign that you don't respect him and there's only so much a man who isn't respected can swallow... Eventually he will walk away, if you don't stop... Na small thing dey cause divorce... Get sense now before it's too late... You're lucky he hasn't already laid hands on you, because with the way naija dey, some men tolerance don reach im limit... 64 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by anthonyuncle(m): 9:14am On Oct 12, 2021 |
are you fair/light in complexion? 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Richy4(m): 9:52am On Oct 12, 2021 |
Next time when you want to talk to him, take a deep breath. It helps.. I do that whenever I am trying to talk to an unruly kid in order not to lose it.. You should realise by now that shouting does not mean that you are right or wrong... Though that's a trademark of most Nigerians..if U see a black confrontational male on the street, there are high probability that he is either from US or a Nigerian.. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Nobody: 10:02am On Oct 12, 2021 |
One thing I've noticed about men is that they so much hate it when a woman wins them over an argument, so stop shouting and let him enjoy his "Oga" space in peace. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Matheusmartin: 10:54am On Oct 12, 2021 |
Davash222:. Your wahala too much bros.. 9 Likes 1 Share
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Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by RightToReject(m): 10:58am On Oct 12, 2021 |
Don't automatically guilt trip yourself or allow any other person to guilt-trip you. It's only bad and unsafe for your health if your bad character ( e.g., insatiableness/greed or domineeringness) necessitated it. In that case, the onus is on you to conquer yourself and get rid of the bad attitudes. It's good for your overall health, however, if your partner's bad character (e.g., thoughtlessness, greed, or self-absorption) and refusal to mend his ways after you've repeatedly complained and brought to his attention his failings that have usually necessitated it, regardless of how unpalatable it seems. And in this case, the onus is on your partner to mend his ways to avoid being at the receiving end of your shouting. The fact is that many times, people who gradually but unwittingly found themselves developed shouting (not nagging though) towards their partners/people close to them are those who come into equity with clean hands and always strive to give their best in the union. So, when the other party fails to live up to the expectation of justness, an attitude like shouting knowingly or otherwise becomes inevitable. 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by wunmi590(m): 11:21am On Oct 12, 2021 |
It seems one guy have started deceiving you that he would take you to dubai for 3 month vacation, so you want to stylishly move out of the marriage and go and live with that guy.... Sorry is your case, you better take it easy. 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Davash222(m): 11:53am On Oct 12, 2021 |
Iyaebe:Only a senseless man will stoop low to argue with a Nigerian girl. 11 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by pocohantas(f): 12:17pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Ginaz: Lmao. Ginaz no make me laugh abeg. Lamani the first step to solving a problem is admitting you have a problem. Thankfully you have admitted you yell at your partner and went a step further to admit it isn’t a good quality. Like Chatinent said, listen more. Use all your self-control to hold yourself. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by lilvicky68(m): 12:29pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Maybe his name should be patience cos he's really trying.. Some very intelligent women are good at shouting cos they feel their point is always valid. If na me our discussion will be limited to only good morning and how are you till you change.. 5 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Youngpo413: 1:03pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
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Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by frozen70(f): 1:06pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Lamanii22: Tell him the problem you are having with it and he would help you to solve the problem But be ready to calm down and comport yourself Humbleness is the key 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Lamanii22(f): 2:25pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
frozen70: Okay thank you! |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Lamanii22(f): 2:28pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Favfables: Not like I insult him or anything... I can't make a point without raising my voice.... I'd just start keeping quiet and not respond.... |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Lamanii22(f): 2:28pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Hmmm this is the best solution so far.... Thank you for this... 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Lamanii22(f): 2:30pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Davash222: Well I am sorry to disappoint you, times have changed.... And I am not a feminist.... 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by Nobody: 2:44pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Lamanii22: Madam, yelling at a man is a very big insult in itself... Stop it now or you may regret it in future... 17 Likes |
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