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folake4u:
You're ALWAYS welcome Mami.

Lol. I'm a pleasant person actually. Good vibes and chill.

Thank you very much for the wishes too. O appreciate it greatly. 💖

Farfalla:
One word - Entitlement. 😂😂
They feel entitled to the affection of the woman they desire, but feel that the woman should forego her desires to accommodate them. What he wants should matter, but what you like should be swept under the carpet. When you fail to accommodate him in your life that's when the rage and the bitterness begins to creep in. The subtle threats of Shiloh, menopause, Isaiah 4:1, and lately the Paris lady (🤣) are all forms of manipulation meant to coerce unwilling women into picking and eventually mating with their undesirable selves.

A major Redpill tenet clearly advocates for men to stop pursuing uninterested women and go for those have a strong interest in them, but will they listen? No. They want to "follow their hearts" and pursue Nengi by force, and then get furious because she wants Mbappe. 🤣 I'm more of a redpiller than they are. Feeling entitled to another person's attention and affection will be the death of some of these men.



About this -- I respect your decision, so I'll not take it upon myself to try and talk you out of it. Or can I? 🙈

cococandy:
This. 100% this.

Because if they wanted, there are women who are interested in them who they’ll never give the time of day. They never focus on loving and appreciating their “good” women. They want the “bad” ones to turn around and become what they are not to please them.

cococandy:
This. 100% this.

Because if they wanted, there are women who are interested in them who they’ll never give the time of day. They never focus on loving and appreciating their “good” women. They want the “bad” ones to turn around and become what they are not to please them.

Farfalla:
That's why gold-diggers are their worst nightmares when they're broke, but their favourite species once they acquire a semblance of wealth. Let him acquire just a little money and see him change his spec from "homely" to "glamorous".

The picture below summarises their self-serving nature.

pocohantas:
I would never understand this part! Here on Nairaland, they are so good at spotting bad women like me. Leave me for my man and face your good woman na! No way!! God abeg.🤣

cococandy:
Have you heard of Pearl? She’s an international pick me on tiktok. Always talking down on her fellow women in favor of men.

Still not picked yet

pocohantas:
I would never understand this part! Here on Nairaland, they are so good at spotting bad women like me. Leave me for my man and face your good woman na! No way!! God abeg.🤣

Farfalla:
They know you're not a "bad" woman Poco but you'd have it easier with them if you were struggling financially, not when you're using AC to dry pant.

cococandy:
That’s why I don’t judge ladies who smarten up early in life and play their games better than them.

Bullythebully:
Can you see the way men are crying on a thread a lady said she can't be with a man that can't provide her needs?

They suddenly remember that "reality" that rich men can't go round.

For almost half a decade men have ranted daily on how they will never marry non virgins, single moms,evening newspapers,etc. They forgot the reality that this women will still get spouses.

She how emotional they are. Like the lady struck a nerve.even the staunch redpillers that have vowed not to mention or engage women have crawled out of their rabbithole to wail.

Dem never see anything.

Klass99:
At your last sentence, no please, don't go there. Nothing you say will make a difference, others before you have tried and it didn't work. Not because I am stubborn or set in my ways, I just can't feel in my heart and soul what the majority of you do. The lady below gets me and I get her, but folks like you will never understand us, so don't go there.

Farfalla:
Thank you Folake, though I'm a bit late to the party. I celebrate you too. I always imagine a very pleasant person behind your moniker. 🤗

Happy International Women's Day to all the women given mention (didn't want to quote the entire post). Peace and good health be upon you all.

I also want give a special mention to and CHoccolaTE. May your days be merry. 🥳🥳

Ballzproblemm:
boring thread 😭

folake4u:
Happy International Women's Day to all women and my amiable pinkpillers. 💖💖💖

I celebrate all women. Happy International Women's Day again. 💜💜💜
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MMotimo:
Thank you and happy belated IWD to you too

folake4u:
Persepho ne1 Hope say nor be fiction be that sha cos I am smiling and blushing at that entry.

Lol bad child...

Read till the end you will get your answer

Persephone1:
Lol bad child...

Read till the end you will get your answer

folake4u:
Wetin be this?!!!

Sorry, when I don finally get my Mexican beauty I will make it a reality. For now, nah ordinary wish and dream 🤣 😂 😂

Persephone1:


Sorry, when I don finally get my Mexican beauty I will make it a reality. For now, nah ordinary wish and dream 🤣 😂 😂

folake4u:
Ah. Nor talk am again, you want to leave Nigerian men that have BBC for oyibo?

pocohantas:
I doubt they have the ”longest” in the world or Africa. They are just a loud bunch.

doggedfighter:
Pocohantas, et al I need a favour.

Can you drop some pictures of what you consider simple short fine gowns for work and other activities. I want to have an idea of what to go for and what not to go for.

Possibly footwears that can go with them.

Thanks all.

- THIS was where I shopped most of my work gowns and blazers. A look through her page would show you what I consider official.

- I don’t wear colours to work Monday to Thursday. I only dress down on Friday. My typical official colours are white, black, navy blue, royal blue, brown, emerald green, ash and grey. I do these colours in different prints; plain or plaid.

- My dress down is mostly blazers and whatever bottom. Skirts or pants. Silk tops and pants too.Depends on my mood. Mustard blazers were my fav. I had three, I still have them.

- Monochromes are cool. Different shades of brown or nude from up to down for Fridays.

- Black, brown, navy blue and nude COVER shoes/bag only. I go for tote shoulder bags. It has to take all my work accessories and maybe laptop.

- Used a lot of waist belt for my gowns. You know those tiny belts. They sell them very cheap in okrika. 200, maybe 500 if e too fine.

- I got most of my shoes from bagswarehouse and corporatefeet_et_al.

- Accessorise well with minimal jewellery and makeup. No unnecessary dropping earrings, but midi loops are fine.

- I buy things when I see them, even if it is by the roadside. It could be a camisole or silk top. On camisoles, you need a lot of them. I always recommend every colour but RED, GREEN and YELLOW. The only green that looks good for work is Emerald green. But red is fine if you work in UBA or Emirates.

- For other activities, don’t restrict yourself. Play with colours. Buy two piece wears. Buy mules. Buy mini and midi bags…etc