IyaebeTheGreat:
I don’t support equality, there’s nothing like equality in marriage. Any man that hits a woman no matter the provocation has taken away the glory of that home. You know nothing and please erase this thought of yours , it causes damage beyond repair

And if the woman hits the man it will increase the glory of the home abi?

Y'all need to pause and hear yourselves sometimes

IyaebeTheGreat:
I never said it’s ok to hit a man, I said if that eventually happens by mistake then the husband should be wise enough not to hit her back. Hitting her back will cause so much damage to the marriage. A wise man will leave the scene and deal with her in so many other ways. No condition ever permits a man to hit his wife, the same body that satisfy your urges, there’s a spiritual implication to that( a man hitting his wife)

Madam, please reformat your mentality. I am respectfully saying this. By God's grace I am happily married. I know what you talked about earlier about women being spiritual. I fully understand that part.

But let me ask you, man and woman, who is more spiritual?? A woman was made out of a man, how can she be more spiritual than the man who is her source...??

Imagine your thinking. It's true that there are certain aspects of men's wealth that are regulated by their goodness to their wives, that aspect is only applicable to women who are "wet leaves" not to those who are "dry leaves".... And there is a balancing principle...

A man is the head of a woman...the principle us this.."If you disrespect and dishonour your head, even if you are a wet leaf, you will lose that spiritual power"....

I know this too well

As for the other issue of satisfying his urges.....let me ask you, is it only the men that have urges?? Sex is a mutual thing...God didn't permit any partner to use it and trap, victimize, enslave or intimidate the other person.

Abeg, adjust your mindset

Thanks

koladata:
■ marrying another woman is not suppose to be hurtful but the society reconfigured your thinking, polygamy is already everywhere , women are now accepting side chicks at some point they realise they can't Bleep him alone. is that not a different form of polygamy?. but side chick will only bring you the wife deceases in the long run ,
■ but if you accept a second wife , you life can be easier because that's your second helper.

1. When you say women accept, what do you mean? Are you insinuating that wives embrace the concept and even welcome the side chicks into their marriage beds? Or are helpless in doing anything about it and so cannot but condone it hoping that it will go away just as quickly as it came?

2. Is that kinda like saying if a woman accepts a second husband, her life will be easier as she will have a second provider in her life?

IyaebeTheGreat:
I don’t support equality, there’s nothing like equality in marriage. Any man that hits a woman no matter the provocation has taken away the glory of that home. You know nothing and please erase this thought of yours , it causes damage beyond repair

no damage there....
Last last the man regret and apologize especially wen he did that out of provocation,,any woman wen e say hitting her go cos damage beyond repair never ready to marry
Cos women can push you sometimes to do wetin you go regret....

Love is scary indeed.
With all the red flags we still fall claiming 'The devil you know is better than the angel you don't know'.
Until it is done on us. Eye go clear.
Our society is not helping matters too

IyaebeTheGreat:
Sorry about this, pains of a woman in love. That’s why I’m very scared of this love thing

Divoc19:
Love is scary indeed.
With all the red flags we still fall claiming 'The devil you know is better than the angel you don't know'.
Until it is done on us. Eye go clear.
Our society is not helping matters too

Seriously the society is not helping matters

IyaebeTheGreat:
You are the one bittered. Did I say it’s ok to hit a man? Why do you guys like twisting posts on this forum. Sad

You said a man shouldn't hit you back even when you hit him first.

You also said that if he ever hits you that you will hold it in your heart forever.

No room for forgiveness in your heart?

IyaebeTheGreat:
why did Yul Edochie secretly married a second wife after having a loyal, supportive and respectful wife for over 17yrs?

You live with them?

men and women are not the same

Kobojunkie:
1. When you say women accept, what do you mean? Are you insinuating that wives embrace the concept and even welcome the side chicks into their marriage beds? Or are helpless in doing anything about it and so cannot but condone it hoping that it will go away just as quickly as it came?

2. Is that kinda like saying if a woman accepts a second husband, her life will be easier as she will have a second provider in her life?

koladata:
men and women are not the same

They are born with the same brains. The differences you perceive have been traced back to societal influences and upbringing.

https://www.nature.com/articles/d41586-023-00738-2

IyaebeTheGreat:
Mine goes thus: I can never forgive a husband for having illegitimate kid/kids outside our matrimonial home, taking a second wife and going physical on me(even if I hit him which I won’t ever do, he should choose the option of silent treatment and not hit me back) . These three things are what I can’t ever forgive a husband for and I would hold him in my heart for the rest of my life. Share yours

hit me and you're dead. I ate nonsense





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IyaebeTheGreat:
Mine goes thus: I can never forgive a husband for having illegitimate kid/kids outside our matrimonial home, taking a second wife and going physical on me(even if I hit him which I won’t ever do, he should choose the option of silent treatment and not hit me back) . These three things are what I can’t ever forgive a husband for and I would hold him in my heart for the rest of my life. Share yours

Hit me I hit you: man no go vex

RedPilChurchBoy:


You said a man shouldn't hit you back even when you hit him first.

You also said that if he ever hits you that you will hold it in your heart forever.

No room for forgiveness in your heart?

Most women, especially those that embrace the woke culture, do not forgive. They only pretend to forgive, then they plan a cold, long drawn revenge that may land you in the grave.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Mine goes thus: I can never forgive a husband for having illegitimate kid/kids outside our matrimonial home, taking a second wife and going physical on me(even if I hit him which I won’t ever do, he should choose the option of silent treatment and not hit me back) . These three things are what I can’t ever forgive a husband for and I would hold him in my heart for the rest of my life. Share yours

Sense is far from u. U hit him and expect him to forgive u as a super human being he is. But if he hits u, u'll hold it in ur heart for the rest of ur life. U never start...

IyaebeTheGreat:
I never said it’s ok for a woman to hit her man, they twisted everything

Alright then. Wishing you a happy married life in advance. 👍

altteemy:


Alright then. Wishing you a happy married life in advance. 👍

Thanks

Lolz... Make I just dey laugh

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable

did you live with them?

baajetu:
did you live with them?

Are you insinuating the reason why he got a second wife was that his first was not submitting to him then? He couldn't have simply divorced her to marry the other?

IyaebeTheGreat:
You may end the marriage but never hit back, it’s deeper than you think. God will forgive a woman that hits her husband if she repents but a husband will suffer the consequence severely till the wife wholeheartedly forgives him. Authority: on no condition whatsoever should you ever hit your wife

which verse of the bible

IyaebeTheGreat:
Yul openly told us that his wife was a blessing to him, that she agreed to manage with him even when he had nothing , so there was no crack. Yul only took advantage of her kindness and payed her back with evil

so you thought he will come to publicly talk ill about his wife, am not saying his wife is bad but believe me it is what they want you to know they dish out to the public. Their are loads of circumstances that leads to polygamy not just about a wife being a bad one

baajetu:
■ so you thought he will come to publicly talk ill about his wife, am not saying his wife is bad but believe me it is what they want you to know they dish out to the public.
■ Their are loads of circumstances that leads to polygamy not just about a wife being a bad one

1. Are you insinuating that the reason why Yul impregnated and then married his side chick in order to spite his wife who, according to you, was probably not submitting to him at home?

2. So, rather than seek divorce from the erring wife, these loads of issues lead men to instead take on a second wife?

IyaebeTheGreat:
I don’t support equality, there’s nothing like equality in marriage. Any man that hits a woman no matter the provocation has taken away the glory of that home. You know nothing and please erase this thought of yours , it causes damage beyond repair

Madam u keep repeating even if u hit him first. If u don't trust urself on hitting why will u expect him to control himself. Its better u say no hitting at all from both side cos when a woman hits u first and u didn't react there is a greater possibility that she will hit u again

buzorcharles:


Madam u keep repeating even if u hit him first. If u don't trust urself on hitting why will u expect him to control himself. Its better u say no hitting at all from both side cos when a woman hits u first and u didn't react there is a greater possibility that she will hit u again

A woman has no strength, her hit is no hit so her husband should do better than hitting her back. This is in no way supporting a woman to ever hit her man

IyaebeTheGreat:
Mine goes thus: I can never forgive a husband for having illegitimate kid/kids outside our matrimonial home, taking a second wife and going physical on me(even if I hit him which I won’t ever do, he should choose the option of silent treatment and not hit me back) . These three things are what I can’t ever forgive a husband for and I would hold him in my heart for the rest of my life. Share yours

Truth is none of you would die if the marriage ends and you both go your separate ways...

This marriage thing isn't a ''DO OR DIE'' scenario for me.....

Pakwel:

You some sick and stupid lady. I bet my life

leave am make she dey there dey speak Arabic.

mysticwarrior:
leave am make she dey there dey speak Arabic.

Let this thread rest please. It's clear most Nigerian men are violent men. Let the thread rest

IyaebeTheGreat:
A woman has no strength, her hit is no hit so her husband should do better than hitting her back. This is in no way supporting a woman to ever hit her man

Keep deceiving urself.

buzorcharles:


Keep deceiving urself.

Stop waking a dead thread

IyaebeTheGreat:
Stop waking a dead thread

You're being tracked.
For those inciting tribal comments you made during the election.
God help you when we come for you.

Allardyce:
You're being tracked.
For those inciting tribal comments you made during the election.
God help you when we come for you.

I laugh at your stupidity and naivity, you are so clueless. Dm me for my address and I swear on my life you’ll be the one that will eventually be behind bars for as long as I want. Enjoy your social media privilege of engaging me which I don’t even respond to most times. Like seriously? Get off my mentions already.

IyaebeTheGreat:
I laugh at your stupidity and naivity, you are so clueless. Dm me for my address and I swear on my life you’ll be the one that will eventually be behind bars for as long as I want. Enjoy your social media privilege of engaging me which I don’t even respond to most times. Like seriously? Get off my mentions already.

I don't need to DM a prostitute like you. I already have you tracked.
Don't say you were not warned.

You will be used as the scapegoat here. I swear