IyaebeTheGreat:
You may end the marriage but never hit back, it’s deeper than you think. God will forgive a woman that hits her husband if she repents but a husband will suffer the consequence severely till the wife wholeheartedly forgives him. Authority: on no condition whatsoever should you ever hit your wife

It's like this one is from a broken home or a broken marriage so trying to have more people like her. When a woman beats a man, God will forgive her. When a man beats a woman, God will not forgive her. People who feel women are entitled to everything with blocked brain.

obynokoko:



You sounds so bias,so a woman is free to hit a man but when a man hits a woman the glory leaves the home.are you the head of the home.
You are a joker

U r quoting d wrong person bro
What she said tire me too, it's not even realistic cos men of this generation aren't fools

My conclusion on this thread: It shows Nigerian men are violent and do not see anything wrong in hitting their women, so sad 😭 .

IyaebeTheGreat:
My conclusion on this thread: It shows Nigerian men are violent and do not see anything wrong in hitting their women, so sad 😭 .

You need good home training. You want to come here to promote the fact that women can hit men but men should not hit her back. You be mumu..

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable

Do you live with them?

pansophist:
If I'm a woman, I can't forgive a man that will not take care of his family. In fact, I won't want to be friend with a man that can't take care of his family. Such men have failed in my book. But again, I won't fall for such a man in the first place.

Unfortunately, There is very little way to tell if a guy will not take care of his family when dating. Just as you can't tell if a woman will be a lousy mother. You can take cues from the man's family, but those may not be accurate.

Some things will only show after you are married.

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable

How do u know she was respectful, loyal nd submissive? Were u livin wit them

Mine goes thus: I can never forgive a husband for having illegitimate kid/kids outside our matrimonial home, taking a second wife and going physical on me(even if I hit him which I won’t ever do, he should choose the option of silent treatment and not hit me back) . These three things are what I can’t ever forgive a husband for and I would hold him in my heart for the rest of my life. Share yours[/quote]
Cheating is bad I don't support it. Second wife is worse. Woman hitting husband? Any Nigerian man that walks away when being hit by his wife is a fool. Trust me, she would keep doing it more and more till your kids grow up and learn how to humble and totally surrender to a woman thereby becoming cowards. In my entire family women does not talk disrespectfully to their husbands for any reason. If a so called wife just raise hand, you would only realize what a beast I am and that would be your life lesson. I will honestly advice you to quit the marriage rather than attempting a hit

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable

How do you know she's respectful, loyal and submissive to her husband? Most women are good wives on internet.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Mine goes thus: I can never forgive a husband for having illegitimate kid/kids outside our matrimonial home, taking a second wife and going physical on me(even if I hit him which I won’t ever do, he should choose the option of silent treatment and not hit me back) . These three things are what I can’t ever forgive a husband for and I would hold him in my heart for the rest of my life. Share yours

This one came for arguements. After watching the violent between the two Islamex-wives, she's here to repeat her comment.

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable

you never can tell..The truth is most men don't tell the reason on Social media..U can see the case of NEDU, if not when the wife was destroying his image so much, u would not have know the first kid was not his but hers and her younger sisters husband.. Secondly popular actor Jonny Depp..you can also browse the story...Women are mostly responsible if a man goes to marry again..And besides, there is a story of how she snatched Yul from her room mate at sch..it could be karma

Triangles1:


LoL, bros is like you have her at mind before, you really hit it.

Stupid ladies nah him full area this days

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable

I'm sure u are living with that Yul u just mentioned. Sometimes because the man refused to be giving e plantations here and there and he prefer taking his decisions people now judge his decision rather than reason for that.
Maybe u take that too much peace away in ur marriage and tell us what u get afterwards.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Mine goes thus: I can never forgive a husband for having illegitimate kid/kids outside our matrimonial home, taking a second wife and going physical on me(even if I hit him which I won’t ever do, he should choose the option of silent treatment and not hit me back) . These three things are what I can’t ever forgive a husband for and I would hold him in my heart for the rest of my life. Share yours

All I can see here is selfishness..You don't wanna be hit even if u hit..I go panel beat u if u hit me oo..Normally I don't beat women unless u touch me..As a wife if you hit your husband you gat no respect..
On the issue of second wife, if you behave yourself, do what you are ment to do, respect, sex, food and being a kind hearted and responsible woman. Even God will fight a man that gets another wife unless otherwise culture or you both agreed before hand..
On the issue of kids, No child is illegitimate abeg..Affairs can but humans can't.

Finally, in our world whre a woman will have 3 kids and non is for her husband yet she will be begging for the man to forgive her and take the kids as his own i.e if he finds out oo, you having a list of unforgivables is rather ironic.

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable

Were you living with them to know she has those characteristic you listed.

okeke6969:



Were you living with them to know she has those characteristic you listed.

Why then was he begging for forgiveness up and down

IyaebeTheGreat:
You may end the marriage but never hit back, it’s deeper than you think. God will forgive a woman that hits her husband if she repents but a husband will suffer the consequence severely till the wife wholeheartedly forgives him. Authority: on no condition whatsoever should you ever hit your wife

You some sick and stupid lady. I bet my life

Mine lied about his genotype because I was rich and he was eyeing my car(he took over the car after marriage).

I believed everything he told me so that the marriage will work. I had an SS daughter for 6years and 3 months I didn't know till she had her last crisis

IyaebeTheGreat:
I don’t support equality, there’s nothing like equality in marriage. Any man that hits a woman no matter the provocation has taken away the glory of that home. You know nothing and please erase this thought of yours , it causes damage beyond repair

Na rubbish u dey talk, hit him first make them kill you for hand.

Divoc19:
Mine lied about his genotype because I was rich and he was eyeing my car(he took over the car after marriage).

I believed everything he told me so that the marriage will work. I had an SS daughter for 6years and 3 months I didn't know till she had her last crisis

Sorry about this, pains of a woman in love. That’s why I’m very scared of this love thing

IyaebeTheGreat:
I don’t support equality, there’s nothing like equality in marriage. Any man that hits a woman no matter the provocation has taken away the glory of that home. You know nothing and please erase this thought of yours , it causes damage beyond repair

Sweetheart, I see no reason a well brought up man or woman would raise his/her hand against their significant other. It is not justifiable with either gender. Whatever could have created that mindset that it's okay for a lady to hit her man should be discarded asap to ensure a beautiful future is not jeopardized.

Wishing you well - Teemy

altteemy:

Sweetheart, I see no reason a well brought up man or woman would raise his/her hand against their significant other. It is not justifiable with either gender. Whatever could have created that mindset that it's okay for a lady to hit her man should be discarded asap to ensure a beautiful future is not jeopardized.

Wishing you well - Teemy

I never said it’s ok for a woman to hit her man, they twisted everything

You never know with Women __ James Hadley Chase.

If you are a Christian there is no room for unforgiveness whatever the offence

benzion72:
If you are a Christian there is no room for unforgiveness whatever the offence

Story time

IyaebeTheGreat:
Mine goes thus: I can never forgive a husband for having illegitimate kid/kids outside our matrimonial home, taking a second wife and going physical on me(even if I hit him which I won’t ever do, he should choose the option of silent treatment and not hit me back) . These three things are what I can’t ever forgive a husband for and I would hold him in my heart for the rest of my life. Share yours

Free the man if you can't forgive. Marriage is not by force

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable

Not true. First U are not in the union with Yul and his wife so U have nothing to say there.

Pakwel:


You'll want equality. But you don't want what cames with it.. if you hit me as your husband. Guaranty no jokes oh . I'll hit you back to reset your sense.. one thing for sure I'll never hit you first..mumu talk say make him give you silent treatment. You don turn am to boy boy now

My brother, violence for me if a no no. If you have been with a woman for a while. You will know there are things you can do to her that would be more painful than being physical. Silent treatment only emboldens women, I don't support that. Shouting at her gives her a hint of what your next action would be. Women are thinker so she would be assessing you and your every move.
The game plan is to keep her in the dark. Never allow her guess your action. Once they run out of options, they will come and serve themselves to you on a Platte of Gold. That is when you take your bound of flesh. Patience wins it all.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Mine goes thus: I can never forgive a husband for having illegitimate kid/kids outside our matrimonial home, taking a second wife and going physical on me(even if I hit him which I won’t ever do, he should choose the option of silent treatment and not hit me back) . These three things are what I can’t ever forgive a husband for and I would hold him in my heart for the rest of my life. Share yours

You deserve to be arrested and sent to sambisa forest for that selfish and foolish line. If you could raise your hand to hit a man then you deserve whatever comes after whether Good or evil.

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable

You dont live under d same roof so u may not know.

Forget about the optics
...shit happens under d roof

IyaebeTheGreat:
This is not true. Was Yul Edochie’s wife not respectful, loyal and submissive? What did she get in return. Too much peace for a man especially when they are young makes them do the unthinkable

You aren't in their home to know whether she is respectful and loyal. If you see an educated and disciplined man do something like that, then don't jump to conclusions. Do your findings closely, you will discover that the woman is at fault.

There are some men who doesn't like to shout and quarrel or fight , they just walk away after several warnings that keep falling on deaf ears.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Stop twisting my post, I didn’t say I can hit a man. I said a man shouldn’t hit back if his woman unfortunately hit him. Best thing to do is to walk away and dish her some silent treatment. God always frown at men who hits women no matter the provocation

How did you know that God frowns at that?? Are you God's P.A ? Have you seen him laugh or frown before..?

Nawa o o. You funny cha....anyway just dey catch your groove. Just dey whine guys here....Na your luck shine