₦airaland Forum

ednut1:
Likely going to end up in tears. How old is she

like 35

Kobojunkie:
By love, you mean brain chemicals?

Nah I mean brain restructure

Men are scarce Dem no dey ever gree! Carri your cross

truthhurts2:
like 35

she's still freaking young. Let her bide her time.

I don't know how to advise on relationship matters like this. People are not the same.. let her follow her heart after all one must take some risk to achieve in life.

Firstly ur friend should put age aside/family pressure.
Get more information about him n know about his past secondly she should seek God guildlines through fasting n prayers. She should not rush.

Kobojunkie:
1. Not according to reality, they ain't. Have you seen how many Nigerians raise their kids at all?

Have you also seen people spending millions and not being able to get a child. Have you also noticed the emergence of baby factories

Blunttruth:
Have you also seen people spending millions and not being able to get a child. Have you also noticed the emergence of baby factories

Don't mind that one, she obviously doesn't know the pains of a barren woman..

halogate:
Don't mind that one, she obviously doesn't know the pains of a barren woman..

Only a guy can reason that way. Especially one who has probably indulged in multiple abortions.

Blunttruth:
■ Have you also seen people spending millions and not being able to get a child. Have you also noticed the emergence of baby factories

So, the millions of orphans already out there in need of mothers and fathers, ready to be adopted aren't blessings?

Kobojunkie:
So, the millions of orphans already out there in need of mothers and fathers, ready to be adopted aren't blessings?

of course they are.
Every child is a blessing . But people want children carrying their own DNA.

Blunttruth:
of course they are.
Every child is a blessing . But people want children carrying their own DNA.

So, children that are not your DNA, children wey full everywhere, are not blessings enough. It has to be your DNA for it to be the right blessing for you.

Kobojunkie:
So, children that are not your DNA, children wey full everywhere, are not blessings enough. It has to be your DNA for it to be the right blessing for you.

oga people make choices, you can't force them. People not adopting the children in the ophanagrs doesn't stop them from being blessings. If you don't think children are blessings that's your opinion. I am entitled to mine. Thank you

Blunttruth:
oga people make choices, you can't force them. People not adopting the children in the ophanagrs doesn't stop them from being blessings. If you don't think children are blessings that's your opinion. I am entitled to mine. Thank you

I see, so poor people have kids they can't afford to take care of because children are a blessing and in many cases, these children die of neglect by their blessed parents. Then we also have the rich who don't want to take any of the available blessings that are everywhere because the blessing they want has to come with their own DNA. I can see now how you lot truly believe children are a blessing to you.

francisbarrack:
Firstly ur friend should put age aside/family pressure.
Get more information about him n know about his past secondly she should seek God guildlines through fasting n prayers. She should not rush.

Exactly my advice to her, but I think she's taking her time now. Thanks nairalanders

Poster tell your friend to hold on. She is just desperate and the man will use it against her . There is nothing wrong in supporting your man but it does not mean she should carry the burden on her .if that man wants to get married to her , she will not be the one under this pressure abeg let her free herself jare. What's her guarantee that she will be happy in that marriage

truthhurts2:
A VERY CLOSE FRIEND OF MINE. She's overdue and desperate for marriage, and she used to be unlucky when it comes to finding the right partner. She just met a guy that is of age but single, this guy is not financially bouyant but she is(self employed). Both of them are desperate to get married that within a month of their meeting this guy had introduced her to most of his family if not all. This my friend is ready to give him money for business of his choice or bring him into her business so they can both be doing it together, ready to get new apartment for both of them that in short , she's going to be the breadwinner of the family if they later end up together. Now, HER FEAR... What if she get unlucky again with him? What if this guy dupe her? Is it the right thing to do for a guy that she barely know nothing of?

NOTE... Pressure is on this lady from her family

Your advice are needed pls...

is she going to get married due to pressure or that she has found her choice of man or because her mates have married

Well if she is desperate , after marriage let her bring her business to the table for both of them to handle

But she should be the sole signature to the business account

Incase of nonsense