Obim555:
Pls get in touch bro if you need any moral support. I live around Salford(not true location)

Wàhálà. 😂😂😃
You self Don dey disguise?

Insultme:


OK. Thanks.
For someone to confirm a club is under renovation tell you the tales are not of moonlight.
It is a real event. If you don't believe it, that's your cup of tea. Cheers mate

*Sighs*

I don't usually do this because when I advise guys, they never listen, too blinded by love to realize a woman is only loyal to her emotions, not your sacrifices. So I let these niggas burn.

However, I'm still a man and I realize you are in a dark place now. Do reach out to me and we will talk this out, if you want to. You need steps out of this and I can help, if you want

You guys should mind the type of women you take abroad. We're tired of these stories

luminouz:

Jesus

Yeah !!!

winner37:





Yeah !!!

You need counseling.
DM me. And I will help you(for a fee)

Insultme:


😂😂. It's just funny though that am laughing.
And the reason is because when you get to a certain stage in life ehn, and you're comfortable, you will understand everything no be gra gra. You need to be diplomatic about things. That by the time you call a family meeting, you have all the Ace's with you. If I confront her now and it turns to argument and she calls the police, and I was sent packing. It is same you that would say I should have waited for a perfect time. UK no be Nigeria that you can just send her packing no questions asked. Think think and think.

you are a smart guy and I really like to know how you scale through this.

Eaganguolly:


Did your wife knew you were aware of her movements? If yes what was her reactions. It is from her reactions you can predict her next move. Let her know you are aware she is keeping a date outside and watch her body movement. Whether she will be remorseful or not. From there you can form a decision. The worst in marriage is suspicion

So if she's remorseful he should forgive her? 😂

Insultme:


She is not aware I know anything yet.
She only complains that I feel reluctant to touch her even if she is stark naked beside me.
This is not a case of being suspicious, she planned everything before leaving the house that very day. I know the guy sef might be on this forum reading this. 😉😉

Dem go tell una swallow redpill una no go hear. Now see how your life is panning out. Na one redpill morfucker dey bust your woman brain for yankee like that o. The morfucker could even tell her to chase you away and she will scheme up and do it without much ado.

Carry your cross lover boy

ChybuzzDD:


I still don't understand why Nigerian guys do these kind of things to their fellow men abroad

How can a sane man be intentionally doing what can cause irreparable harm to his fellow man's marriage

What happens to going after the single and searching ladies their?

In fact ehh, if i hear at any time in the future that you sent people to c*t that idiot's throat, i won't blame you for any reason.
I hate it when people intentionally look down on or harm others, and i believe such people shouldn't be allowed to go free.

What if the girl told the guy she's not married? Una go just come online dey cap nonsense. Did you know if the gilr rejected the guy's advances and told him she's married the guy would persist?
Una go just read story jump into conclusions when you seen its the other gender that's fully at fault you here shouting

NwaliE01:
Hmmm, i am planning of bringing mine abroad this year. This your story is instilling fear in me.
What can we do to women to truly please them?

What are you waiting for? Bring her fast fast

You all will learn the hard way

Cadillac15:


What are you waiting for? Bring her fast fast

You all will learn the hard way

If they stop taking them over there we won't be seeing sweet stories like this on front page again.
Please let's encourage them to keep doing the right thing by taking them over there

Gerrard59:
The problem started with you marrying her just so that you have a wife before you relocated. Then, you left her in Nigeria (she mentioned loneliness). Although, having a companion is good, I think many young Nigerian men need to live life without having one so that they know how both sides can be. Are you telling me you would die while being a bachelor in the UK?

Not true. Nothing wrong with what he did. He married his girlfriend remember. Thing is you can never really know someone.
I would suggest since he has seen the conversation, he should have gotten the guys number.

Called the guy and get the story from him before he confronts her. Cos there is a possibility that she will lie but he may not. Ofcos attempting to befriend the guy is a plus without the guy knowing that he is her husband. That's the smartest way to go.

Befriend the guy, invite him out. Pay for the food and drinks and slowly push the conversation there.
Guys would usually talk to another guy, if they don't suspect there is fire on the mountain.

Insultme:


Is that what you actually think?
I dey come, I neva finish.

Hahahahahahaha


My guy don enter one chance.

Insultme:


She is not aware I know anything yet.
She only complains that I feel reluctant to touch her even if she is stark naked beside me.
This is not a case of being suspicious, she planned everything before leaving the house that very day. I know the guy sef might be on this forum reading this. 😉😉

Don't sex that girl again for your own good, wait till her visa expires then you boot her out.

Money and more money

luminouz:


You need counseling.
DM me. And I will help you(for a fee)

Mr man , am okay nothing is wrong with me .
Oh is it because of a lady I will come for counseling from you? Thanks,

advanceDNA:



Yuck!! Why do u pple like worshipping women even when they doing wrong.....

She will calm down...so he should manage her infidelity....
You even said he should get a woman that is already cheating on him preganant before thinking of divorce? As in.. Why??

So he can be stuck for life paying child support and additional expenses on a woman another man is shagging......when he can walk away now.....

This ur advice be like shít wey dem put maggi untop.....

He wants to ensure that the OPs life dabaru properly

Possibly someone his village people sent or that has had beef with him in the past

LilMissFavvy:
Forgive her and give her another chance. Caution her seriously, she will not do it again. However, you need to work on whatever short comings you have, Incase something about you is what is pushing your wife to another man. Pls forgive her, she will change for the better. Hmm, the rate of adultery and broken homes is just too much.

While at it, he should also pray and watch War Room season 1 - 24.5

Insultme:

Is it not too early? Just a year plus. Who knows what the next one is capable or will do as well?

Is it not too early for you to start dying gradually??
Quit now while you can do...
have you confronted her with your findings?
any child present btwn u two?

Insultme:


Is he not in UK?
Are we not all getting help on NL?
Àbi someone mentioned the exactly club up there and you're spitting trash that is it all cruise.
Mr or Mrs. Face front, no push me to the edge of doing what am not supposed to do. Like I said I gave out too much info already. So help me God.

I'm so pained by reading this. Respectable Married women don't make themselves readily available. Wetin be Club and 3 bags? Op you married a CERTIFIED OLOSHO.
Clip her wings totally with any means necessarily and if possible cut her ties with guy before she is deported cos the guy might be her plan B

Omo this story carry weigh. See as I just open mouth. Women sha!!!!

I still dey nurse the burnt of The bitch wey I help borrow 40k on my app to treat her sick mother. Series of chats, calls to her ex nd random guys wey I don catch her, scolded nd fought her she go even gimme back to back nd not talk to me for days. This is the girl that won’t chat or call, even if I call she won’t pick or pick after ringing 2-3 times. She won’t return missed calls even till the next day.

I asked her why don’t she goto her angel ex nd the random guys when her mom was sick nd was running helter skelter, she told me she does nd they said they don’t have nd she no put rope on their neck likewise as she no put rope on my neck na me go out of my way to help her nd she go pay me. Chai I was stunned by the statement…

She has been paying me monthly nd I’m patiently waiting cos the plans is to refund in 3months. I reason my friends so tey they yab me wella nd tagged me a simp. Me wey Dey claim alpha bfr naso this matter mud me.. I have been setting my boundaries I only want to be patient mk I recover the money nd mute her.

I considered what I did as been nice but I realized it’s actually being stupid.

Na to always shorten my hands like this nd put it in the place wey e Dey live, as this lesson will always ring in my head..

Insultme:


Thanks for the advise.
You're all going to hear the end of the story when the time comes.

Yeah, update us when she throws you out of the house.

Insultme:


She is not aware I know anything yet.
She only complains that I feel reluctant to touch her even if she is stark naked beside me.
This is not a case of being suspicious, she planned everything before leaving the house that very day. I know the guy sef might be on this forum reading this. 😉😉

For the sake of your mental wellbeing. Let her know you know what’s happening, her reaction will inform your next line of action.

It’s sad that she can commit adultery under your roof and feel okay.

Zonefree:

Please don't respond to that guy again, his head is not correct.

A woman you called your wife went to a guy's house to collect gbola cos of three handbags and the morón is proud and defending her. Na so the woman go bring another man's child heap for the man head. Foolish horseband of a whoré! E better make person born bandit than to born a headless Simp.

I've failed as a father if i have a son like the OP. Tueh!

*Spits on his empty head!

my brother the op is immature ,how could he even allow his wife to take a stroll only her when her husband is at home,why not stroll together.

Baba, maybe during Easter...look for a way to bring her back to her family and divorce her there...

Take her to her family house when you come back to Nigeria this Easter April, 2023.

Because, if you don't do this thing on time, you might end up loosing the most and who knows what will be next.

Tell her, you guys will travel back home for Easter, take her to her family house and divorce her there.

But I don't know what will happen to the existing dependent visa she has.

She can be removed from that list of dependants, so the visa could maybe terminated.

I hope you read about the happens of what Nigerian men abroad face with women they bring from her village... The story is always depressing .

The earlier you

Step 1: bring her back to Nigeria,
Step 2: divorce her
Step 3: remove her name from the dependant list.
Step 4: revoke her visa, if this is possible

winner37:




Mr man , am okay nothing is wrong with me .
Oh is it because of a lady I will come for counseling from you? Thanks,

Haaaaaaaaa!!!!

You see? I try to help a nigha out and I'm still the bad guy... I call a nigha out for being a simp, I'm still the bad guy.

Jesus, with all that happened to you, you still refuse help and the redpill?

I'm done Sir. I wish you well. I can't save everyone.

cc heartofcity12

luminouz:


Haaaaaaaaa!!!!

You see? I try to help a nigha out and I'm still the bad guy... I call a nigha out for being a simp, I'm still the bad guy.

Jesus, with all that happened to you, you still refuse help and the redpill?

I'm done Sir. I wish you well. I can't save everyone.

cc heartofcity12

Thanks bruh

BigdaddyPR:
I don't think you need any further advice since you've made up your mind already. You just have to know that she won't stop cheating, and depending on the level of respect she still has for you, she can decide to cheat discreetly or all up in your face.

Since the man lives alone, he'll still need your wife to cure subsequent 'konji'. Ensure you have enough supply of condoms, and just slip a few into your wife's handbag everytime she leaves home.

You don't want to be having oral with your wife and tasting another man's 'emission'.

Women pray to get married to weak men like you.

This is the comment....
In all honesty, op wasn't looking for any advice. He's made up his mind.

And one thing I know is that a cheating lady will never stop cheating..

A lady that cheats will never stop cheating.

She might even PIN the side guy's child on you.

There's every possibility that they had sex when she visited him and I'm sure, they have been sharing nudes too & having more sex.

You only know about that instance you shared.

If you have the mind, you should divorce her because she hits you deeper. She won't stop seeing that guy.

Anyway, may God lead you right sha.

I no dey like advise persin wey dey in love.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Harsh treatment, they should settle and if that is not in sight then they can separate and he can still help her whenever the need arises. They shouldn’t part on a sour note. You don’t pay evil with evil. Some women sha

You people are unfortunate human being. He still need to be helping her even after they're already separated? If it's you👍,can you help a man that you already divorced?

I pray men open their eyes one day and start seeing Women for the selfish gender that they are. Till then. As for me, I'm liberated and very selfish

gemini35:
my brother the op is immature ,how could he even allow his wife to take a stroll only her when her husband is at home,why not stroll together.

Yẹn yẹn yẹn.
That is how you come online and cap shit.
I should stroll with her cause am around.
Does that stops her from doing what she did if am not around?
Does that stops both of them seeing after work hour and go wherever they wish?
Cause you go dey talk with your mouth instead of using your brain. Hiss

Insultme:


Yẹn yẹn yẹn.
That is how you come online and cap shit.
I should stroll with her cause am around.
Does that stops her from doing what she did if am not around?
Does that stops both of them seeing after work hour and go wherever they wish?
Cause you go dey talk with your mouth instead of using your brain. Hiss

I don't think you want to learn boss.

You are fighting everyone instead of fighting your wife. What did you think was gonna happen when you brought the story here, people of different idealogies won't comment? Or you think they will all agree to what you say? Not only are you getting triggered by the comments but you are wasting your energies on the wrong crowd.

Wake dafuq up. These online mudafuckers are not your enemies, Your real enemy is the one you brought over from Nigeria, paid bride price on, fed and clothe and brought over to the UK, only to serve her coochie up for 3 BAGS from a random idiot. THAT IS YOUR REAL ENEMY CUZ SHE CAN STILL KILL YOU