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German-based lady laments after she refused to go to Nigeria to take care of her ill mother-inlaw

Listen to her reasons. Does it make sense?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1aHwcQVQnNc

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Bvlgari:
German-based lady laments after she refused to go to Nigeria to take care of her ill mother-inlaw

Listen to her reasons. Does it make sense?

Why doesn't he go and care for his own mother if he cares so much about his mother?

Did her husband marry slave to care for his mother?

Rubbish man wants to drag down his wife, is what I think!

He has two sisters back in Nigeria, why can't they take care of their mother?

Since he loves his mum so much, why can't he leave everything he's doing in Germany to go care for his mother?

If his MIL was sick, can his wife ask him to take care of her mother?

How is this my business?

Kobicove:
How is this my business?

Who be this? Why u nor just waka pass

Bvlgari:
Who be this? Why u nor just waka pass

Why did you quote me?

Why you sef no just waka pass?

Kobicove:
Why did you quote me?

Why you sef no just waka pass?

Lol but na me post the post na...then u come say how is this your business like say them force u to reply lmao

Well...Have a lovely day ahead

budaatum:
Why doesn't he go and care for his own mother if he cares so much about his mother?

Did her husband marry slave to care for his mother?

Rubbish man wants to drag down his wife, is what I think!

Stupid Nigeria judging from one sided story

Qatar2022:
Stupid Nigeria judging from one sided story

See how I threw him in jail too?

Perhaps, don't mistake an opinion for judgement.

Bvlgari:
German-based lady laments after she refused to go to Nigeria to take care of her ill mother-inlaw
Listen to her reasons. Does it make sense?

So, the woman na caregiver, abi wetin? Is he hiring his wife to be caregiver to his mother or what?

budaatum:
See how I threw him in jail too?

Perhaps, don't mistake an opinion for judgement.

Whatever don't judge case like that

Qatar2022:
Whatever don't judge case like that

Love your self importance at telling what not to do.

Did you not judge when you called me stupid?

Sue me!

Divorce awaits the so called wife who would try such nonsense with me. I don't joke with my mum! Nonsense.

Senkasa:
Divorce awaits the so called wife who would try such nonsense with me. I don't joke with my mum! Nonsense.

You don't joke with your mom so you send someone else to take care of her?

Kobojunkie:
You don't joke with your mom so you send someone else to take care of her?

Yes. At least for a certain period of time. Isn't a wife supposed to be submissive to her husband in the first place? Or is it because she's in a foreign land.

Can she try that nonsense in Nigeria?

Senkasa:
■ Yes. At least for a certain period of time. Isn't a wife supposed to be submissive to her husband in the first place? Or is it because she's in a foreign land.
■ Can she try that nonsense in Nigeria?

1. So, because a wife says she is submissive, she becomes nothing but a servant the man can use as he pleases?

2. So, you admit that it is only in Nigeria that men are able to in fact treat a wife as a servant. They do not have that freedom outside of the shores of Nigeria. Meaning the woman is recognized as an equal member of the marriage outside of Nigeria?

Kobojunkie:
1. So, because a wife says she is submissive, she becomes nothing but a servant the man can use as he pleases?

2. So, you admit that it is only in Nigeria that men are able to in fact treat a wife as a servant. They do not have that freedom outside of the shores of Nigeria. Meaning the woman is recognized as an equal member of the marriage outside of Nigeria?

1. Submissive is different from being a slave.

2. No. You women pretend a lot. She knows she can't try such in Nigeria without going back to her father's house. But she choose to do otherwise cos she knows the law is there for her.


Btw, I'd stop providing if I were to be her husband, till she obeys my instruction.

Senkasa:
1. Submissive is different from being a slave.
2. No. You women pretend a lot. She knows she can't try such in Nigeria without going back to her father's house. But she choose to do otherwise cos she knows the law is there for her.
3. Btw, I'd stop providing if I were to be her husband, till she obeys my instruction.

1. Your own words betray you there. According to you, it is the wife's place to do as commanded by her husband meaning the wife is a slave to her husband.

2. So you also admit that this slave status women hold in marriage, you are only able to fully implement while confined within the shores of Nigeria. Outside of Nigeria, your hands are tied as your women are instead considered your equals.

3. You would stop providing, till she obeys your commands. Kind of like the way masters starve their slaves until they learn to obey their every whim?

Senkasa:
1. Submissive is different from being a slave.

2. No. You women pretend a lot. She knows she can't try such in Nigeria without going back to her father's house. But she choose to do otherwise cos she knows the law is there for her.


Btw, I'd stop providing if I were to be her husband, till she obeys my instruction.

This boy no fit pass 16 years old. When you become a man and marry, come back here to discuss.

Now overseas, most of the times, home bills are shared.
In a family of say 4(2 grown children), do you know how much you'll be paying per month?
By the time you're paying like €12,000 or more per month, body go tell you.

Who your provision epp. Your wife fit even dey earn pass you.

Kobojunkie:
1. Your own words betray you there. According to you, it is the wife's place to do as commanded by her husband meaning the wife is a slave to her husband.

2. So you also admit that this slave status women hold in marriage, you are only able to fully implement while confined within the shores of Nigeria. Outside of Nigeria, your hands are tied as your women are instead considered your equals.

3. You would stop providing, till she obeys your commands. Kind of like the way masters starve their slaves until they learn to obey their every whim?

He doesn't know that there are women who earn higher than their men.
It's only a stay at home mom he can try that with.

Kobojunkie:
1. Your own words betray you there. According to you, it is the wife's place to do as commanded by her husband meaning the wife is a slave to her husband.

2. So you also admit that this slave status women hold in marriage, you are only able to fully implement while confined within the shores of Nigeria. Outside of Nigeria, your hands are tied as your women are instead considered your equals.

3. You would stop providing, till she obeys your commands. Kind of like the way masters starve their slaves until they learn to obey their every whim?

So why would she refuse to go visit my mum, since she would do it if we were to be in Nigeria?

LINSAR:
This boy no fit pass 16 years old. When you become a man and marry, come back here to discuss.

Now overseas, most of the times, home bills are shared.
In a family of say 4(2 grown children), do you know how much you'll be paying per month?
By the time you're paying like €12,000 or more per month, body go tell you.

Who your provision epp. Your wife fit even dey earn pass you.

I can allow my wife earn more than me in Nigeria, but not in Europe. Never!

I know what to do if I see she has the potential to earn higher in future.

Senkasa:
■So why would she refuse to go visit my mum, since she would do it if we were to be in Nigeria?

Probably the same reason why you who claim you don't joke with your mother wouldn't as well.

Kobojunkie:
Probably the same reason why you who claim you don't joke with your mother wouldn't as well.

I love my mum so much. Can't trade anything for her.. so my wife must follow suit.

Senkasa:
■ I love my mum so much. Can't trade anything for her.. so my wife must follow suit.

Ok then

Kobojunkie:
Ok then

But how come you're on every thread on this forum?

Senkasa:
■ But how come you're on every thread on this forum?

1. Because I can?

Kobojunkie:
1. Because I can?

Ok. But I mean at every given point in time. Even now you're still online. How do you manage to keep up with offline activities?

Senkasa:
■ Ok. But I mean at every given point in time. Even now you're still online. How do you manage to keep up with offline activities?

1. I am not old nor incapacitated.

Nawa o

Kobojunkie:
1. I am not old nor incapacitated.

So you mean to say that you can keep up with the stress that comes with it, right? Humm.. that's really weird